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sooo what are u saying

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...are very slim. Also at such age men wonder why you're still single, even though you're successful.


I don't connote that at late 30's or 40's a lady shouldn't have hope of settling down. Actually dropping some old bad habits & self development can really make men want you at such age.


The 24 years old black American millionaire said, that his wife is his strength, in fact she manages everything including his money. Mind you he was not a rich guy or even a millionaire when they met, according to him she was still a student when they met & he's not usually into women as he's a serious hustler, but fell for her 'cause of her intelligence & her cordinated personality & after 6 months they got married; which got their family crazy, why they'll get married after knowing each other for just 6 months & his reply was that a man does not need 5 years to know if he loves a woman.

You'll be like, ain't they Americans? No its not about where you are, its about where...

Stay Tuned...

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...you're heading to. Actually what this thread is all about is that the journey to a successful life is not gender based. This thread's aim is to enlighten ladies that its not about attaching material things to their ideal dream man. Am not saying a lady should settle down with a man that can't feed himself, to say nothing of you, though few independent ladies have done that & it played out well as the utterly poor man they chose to love & even feed later picked up & became well-to-do; the chances of a lady being this lucky is slim but it happens. Once a man can fend for himself & for his woman, he is ready for marriage; unless he has other reasons to remain single. On the other hand ladies should wisen up & understand that, its not about getting married to a rich man you don't truely love just 'cause of money. Trust me if you as a lady marrys a man just 'cause of his money in this 21st century, you'll end up cheating on him once you sight your dream man, believe me...

Stay Tuned...

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...ladies disern their dream men from afar & they'll love to bring him closer to 'emselves. Because of this unfair mindset many ladies claim that suitable suitors are scarce but actually they've not been honest to 'emselves, time will tell tho. According to the 24 years old black American, he started his company from the scratch as soon as his wife's pregnancy test result came out posititve & she started surpporting him at once & the company became big & worth millions of dollars. According to her husband she too started from nothing but she took her education very serious. That's the power of self development. Ladies please while waiting for your dream man be educated, develop yourself & acquire skills. A woman is meant to help her man grow in everything, its not just about feeling entitled, nagging, s*x etc.



Once a man posess all the qualities you want in a man & he's capable just say yes to him & build your dream empire with him. Remember Michelle Obama's story...THANKS

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madone:
sooo what are u saying

Read it and see

They won't listen, they ll tell you, they can't suffer in their fathers house and suffer again in their husbands house. Leave them.

This generalisation is wrong. Some women ended up with way more than what they bargained for. So either u say from ur own point of view or u say from u own myopic reasoning

drnoel:
This generalisation is wrong. Some women ended up with way more than what they bargained for. So either u say from ur own point of view or u say from u own myopic reasoning

For your mind u just wan rush criticize the write up, make they follow hear your voice for this thread, without even reading it well or comprehending it. You're obviously the one with a myopic mindset here. I suggest you read this thread again before criticizing it or ask questions if you don't twig. Bro Noel see your life, you'll just jump into conclusion and be sounding like you know what you're saying...I don't even know why people like you always like showing off how funny your mindsets are.

People like you only get mouth for Nairaland sha.

Kranediggy:
For your mind u just wan rush criticize the write up, make they follow hear your voice for this thread, without even reading it well or comprehending it. You're obviously the one with a myopic mindset here. I suggest you read this thread again before criticizing it or ask questions if you don't twig. Bro Nuel see your life, you'll just jump into conclusion and be sounding like you know what you're saying...I don't even know why people like you always like showing off how funny your mindsets are.

People like you only get mouth for Nairaland sha.

Thank u

I don't see anything special in the story about the 24 year old who has a wife that stood by him. It's stuff that happens everyday. Many wealthy men you see started from small with their wives; Fela Durotoye, Innocent Idibia, etc.

Nothing exceptional at all about the soldier and his wife.

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OP you try!

drnoel:

Thank u

Welcome man

ImaIma1:
I don't see anything special in the story about the 24 year old who has a wife that stood by him. It's stuff that happens everyday. Many wealthy men you see started from small with their wives; Fela Durotoye, Innocent Idibia, etc.

Nothing exceptional at all about the soldier and his wife.

There's nothing special about them dear. I just used them as a real life e.g to show that ladies shouldn't reject a man with the features they want in a man 'cause he's not rich or has certain properties. Once he can feed himself, u & ur kids; u just have to accept him & build with him, in essence be his helper. Most successful men weren't that successful when they married their wives, u need to support ur man. The thread is all about enlightening the younger & single ladies to not attach material things to their definition of a dream man, 'cause it's better to marry ur dream & grow with him, than marry some1 'cause of his material posessions, u'll feel the gap for life...

economics had solved it centuries ago..........*humans wants are unlimited but resources to satisfy them are limited*............

Kranediggy:
There's nothing special about them dear. I just used them as a real life e.g to show that ladies shouldn't reject a man with the features they want in a man 'cause he's not rich or has certain properties. Once he can feed himself, u & ur kids; u just have to accept him & build with him, in essence be his helper. Most successful men weren't that successful when they married their wives, u need to support ur man. The thread is all about enlightening the younger & single ladies to not attach material things to their definition of a dream man, 'cause it's better to marry ur dream & grow with him, than marry some1 'cause of his material posessions, u'll feel the gap for life...

Ladies are of different types; the ones that can have the patience to grow with someone and the ones that cannot. It has always been that way right from our parents' time and it will still be.

Not all ladies will grow with someone and they shouldn't be faulted for it. The ones who choose to start from small and grow with their men, it's their choice too. And there are no guarantees in both. It doesn't mean all the marriage with growing together will end good and it doesn't mean the ones who married a rich guy will turn out bad.

Besides, who will marry the single rich guys? Should they remain single because they have money.

Everyone should be allowed to make their choice and live with it.

ImaIma1:


Ladies are of different types; the ones that can have the patience to grow with someone and the ones that cannot. It has always been that way right from our parents' time and it will still be.

Not all ladies will grow with someone and they shouldn't be faulted for it. The ones who choose to start from small and grow with their men, it's their choice too. And there are no guarantees in both. It doesn't mean all the marriage with growing together will end good and it doesn't mean the ones who married a rich guy will turn out bad.

Besides, who will marry the single rich guys? Should they remain single because they have money.

Everyone should be allowed to make their choice and live with it.

Don't get me wrong dear, I ain't making any choice for anybody here, but a word is enough...you know the rest sha.

Kranediggy:
Don't get me wrong dear, I ain't making any choice for anybody here, but a word is enough...you know the rest sha.

There is no word there o.

Haven't you seen stories here of marriages where the woman started with the guy when he had little and when he became rich, things took a downturn and he abandoned her. While some end well. And don't you know people who didn't have to suffer poverty one bit who are enjoying their marriages still. While some don't turn out well.

There are no guarantees in both. Marry rich or marry poor is a choice that women should be allowed to make without being shamed. After all, some men will say they want a woman that has an income while some are fine with her doing nothing.

ImaIma1:


There is no word there o.

Haven't you seen stories here of marriages where the woman started with the guy when he had little and when he became rich, things took a downturn and he abandoned her. While some end well. And don't you know people who didn't have to suffer poverty one bit who are enjoying their marriages still. While some don't turn out well.

There are no guarantees in both. Marry rich or marry poor is a choice that women should be allowed to make without being shamed. After all, some men will say they want a woman that has an income while some are fine with her doing nothing.

In such scenerio something must be wrong somewhere, it could be that the man is bewitched or the woman did something really painful to him he can't forgive. Nothing really goes for nothing. Ain't nothing guaranteed in life tho. But its better to grow with ur man, than wait for an already made man. If u must wait, develop urself so u'll be valuable. Thanks

drnoel:


Thank u

Read the write up and understand it very well. The op is simply saying, ladies should not always have that mindset of "it is a wealthy, already made man" they must marry as most ladies have already conditioned their minds.

He is simply saying, if our entitlement kind of ladies of our days see a hustling guy who is being able to fed for himself and has a hustling spirit, they should wait no further to start a life with such a man.

All already made men are wise now because no already made man or wealthy man will just accept a girl and marry her straight up cuz many had be gold dig by ladies.

And any lady that is coming closer to them displaying all form of niceness, they will sense it from afar as a gold digger. They will believe that it is because of their money they are flocking around him. He will never marry any of such girls that flock around him.

That's why our ladies should learn how to start life from scratch with a man not always looking for already made men who have wise up.

ImaIma1:


Ladies are of different types; the ones that can have the patience to grow with someone and the ones that cannot. It has always been that way right from our parents' time and it will still be.

Not all ladies will grow with someone and they shouldn't be faulted for it. The ones who choose to start from small and grow with their men, it's their choice too. And there are no guarantees in both. It doesn't mean all the marriage with growing together will end good and it doesn't mean the ones who married a rich guy will turn out bad.

Besides, who will marry the single rich guys? Should they remain single because they have money.

Everyone should be allowed to make their choice and live with it.

No single wealthy guy will foolishly jump into marrying a liability who simply comes for his money in form of wanting to be his wife. That's why many wealthy guys are still single because we have too many entitlement ladies looking for a wealthy man to tie down and inherit his wealth and reap where they did not sow.

Ladies should learn how to hustle like guys and create wealth for themselves order than looking for already made men to marry for their personal selfish interest.

Marriage shouldn't be a poverty alleviation program to women.

The earlier all our marriageable ladies of our days develop the mindset to hustle like guys and create wealth for themselves, the better for them.

Our ladies entitlement mentality is just too much in this part of the world.

Kranediggy:
In such scenerio something must be wrong somewhere, it could be that the man is bewitched or the woman did something really painful to him he can't forgive. Nothing really goes for nothing. Ain't nothing guaranteed in life tho. But its better to grow with ur man, than wait for an already made man. If u must wait, develop urself so u'll be valuable. Thanks

Let those who wants to wait for for already made men wait. That is if at all those already made men are available for marriage.

Already made men are wiser now. They are not fools. For instance, in the western world where the law always favor women, no wealthy young man will go into any marriage of any form. They are all doing baby mamas because they know women are gold diggers who will file for divorce just to inherit half of their wealth.

It is only here in Africa that some already made men are still getting married. And they mostly go for the most reserved girls not the ones that flock around them.

But in the Western world where the law is always against men, wealthy men always stay off women. If at all they go into any relationship, it is just a fling that won't lead to any marriage. And they prefer baby mamas.

Wealthy men are wiser now.


That's why our ladies should take this your write up seriously and think out of the box and learn how to start a life from scratch with a man with a hustling spirit.

ImaIma1:


Ladies are of different types; the ones that can have the patience to grow with someone and the ones that cannot. It has always been that way right from our parents' time and it will still be.

Not all ladies will grow with someone and they shouldn't be faulted for it. The ones who choose to start from small and grow with their men, it's their choice too. And there are no guarantees in both. It doesn't mean all the marriage with growing together will end good and it doesn't mean the ones who married a rich guy will turn out bad.

Besides, who will marry the single rich guys? Should they remain single because they have money.

Everyone should be allowed to make their choice and live with it.

As much as i share your perception and feel you spew nothing buh the truth , also have it @ the back of your mind, building/growing with a man favours a woman more while marrying a made man favours a man beta.

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Kranediggy:
In such scenerio something must be wrong somewhere, it could be that the man is bewitched or the woman did something really painful to him he can't forgive. Nothing really goes for nothing. Ain't nothing guaranteed in life tho. But its better to grow with ur man, than wait for an already made man. If u must wait, develop urself so u'll be valuable. Thanks

I still disagree.

So if she falls in love with a guy that is made and he's also in love with her, she should refuse the love because he is made and go for a man that is just starting up.

Don't get me wrong o. I am a realist. I like to look at things from all perspectives. I didn't marry a made man. I picked between one that I was even earning more than over the one that had successful business because of my personal conviction.

And today, he earns more than me and we are fine. But, I have close friends who married the ones that were made and they are doing fine. I didn't see anything wrong in marrying up. It is not everyone that will start small.

Money doesn't actually make the marriage, it is the two people involved that do.

Mcslize:


No single wealthy guy will foolishly jump into marrying a liability who simply comes for his money in form of wanting to be his wife. That's why many wealthy guys are still single because we have too many entitlement ladies looking for a wealthy man to tie down and inherit his wealth and reap where they did not sow.

Ladies should learn how to hustle like guys and create wealth for themselves order than looking for already made men to marry for their personal selfish interest.

Marriage shouldn't be a poverty alleviation program to women.

The earlier all our marriageable ladies of our days develop the mindset to hustle like guys and create wealth for themselves, the better for them.

Our ladies entitlement mentality is just too much in this part of the world.

It is not every lady who marries up marries for the sake of gold digging.

It still happens constantly that wealthy men marry not well to do ladies. In fact one I know denied the wife from going to law school and married her straight up without an income.

Not every man has your mindset, upbringing and mentality. People do things for reasons best known to them while outsiders are there debating about whether it is for money or not, right or wrong, etc.

People that don't have money (some, not all); who have never had the taste of being wealthy are the ones who see money as a god and as something they will use to torment others.

jornwhite:



As much as i share your perception and feel you spew nothing buh the truth , also have it @ the back of your mind, building/growing with a man favours a woman more while marrying a made man favours a man beta.

There are no guarantees to anything. We only do what we can do, be who we can be and hope for the best.

ImaIma1:


There are no guarantees to anything. We only do what we can do, be who we can be and hope for the best.

Ofcus there are no guarantees to anything, life is full of questions, i believe in past questions you believe in "key point" guess our results... i'm just looking @ things from history point of view, building together outshines ready made anyday anytime. think of it as a fact, not compelling anyone o !