Hello ma,

I need you to post this for me. I am very angry and I want to know what other people think about this.  I live in Abeokuta with my family. Recently, I travelled to Lagos and before I travelled, I told my cousin that is in Lagos that I might come over to stay with them for like a week or so.

I noticed she tried to make it look like their houses is not convenient, she said,no space abi their house is full. I was like,I will manage..no need to be worried about me getting comfortable. I told her except she does not want me to come. Later,she agreed.

When I arrived in Lagos,she  paired me to sleep in the same room as her house girl. I noticed the girl did not like me. She was giving attitude right from the minute I got in. I was even shocked to see she was also giving attitude to my cousin.

Like 3 days later,I asked her help me boil water to bathe...she just told me that I should do it myself,that she does not work for me. I got angry and told my cousin. My cousin just kept quiet and told me to ignore her.

That made me think like...why is my cousin condoning this rubbish? I asked my cousin why...she said nothing. That she has had plenty house helps..that they are all the same. That if she keeps changing them...that how many will she change?

I was like...that response from my cousin is not making sense. To be honest, I decided to mind my business until the last day. After all,I am only visiting for one week. It was clear all is not well but I decided to mind my business if my cousin decided to manage the girl like that.

When I got back to Abeokuta,I called my cousin,just to say thank you for accommodating me and all. And then,I told her that.....

Source: https://livelystones.ng/2020/08/03/living-in-bondage-my-cousins-marriage-is-like-living-in-hell-please-advise/

You seems to be the bondage here for unecessary demand withen a shot time.

Hmm i think your sister cause it all
But tell her to talk to her hubby if he is not ready to forgive the wife let him divorce her so that she will learn her lesson why keeping a cheating wife when you know can't forget even if he is abija
Let her face the consequence of her action so that she won't do that to her next husband its simple

First of all
Your sister was unfaithful
Too bad for a married woman
The husband is even a nice person
She never jam wicked men


She has broken the trust
So stay away from that family..And stop making your so called cousin feel like she did nothing wrong

Ordinary gf cheating on bf is bad
Talk more of a( wife)

Na this kind people they spoil women name

Instead of you to be thinking how you will never need to be tolerated by anyone. What gives you impression your so called cousin didn't set this up with the help

So you people actually clicked on that link?

Rabbi4real:
Hello ma,

I need you to post this for me. I am very angry and I want to know what other people think about this.  I live in Abeokuta with my family. Recently, I travelled to Lagos and before I travelled, I told my cousin that is in Lagos that I might come over to stay with them for like a week or so.

I noticed she tried to make it look like their houses is not convenient, she said,no space abi their house is full. I was like,I will manage..no need to be worried about me getting comfortable. I told her except she does not want me to come. Later,she agreed.

When I arrived in Lagos,she  paired me to sleep in the same room as her house girl. I noticed the girl did not like me. She was giving attitude right from the minute I got in. I was even shocked to see she was also giving attitude to my cousin.

Like 3 days later,I asked her help me boil water to bathe...she just told me that I should do it myself,that she does not work for me. I got angry and told my cousin. My cousin just kept quiet and told me to ignore her.

That made me think like...why is my cousin condoning this rubbish? I asked my cousin why...she said nothing. That she has had plenty house helps..that they are all the same. That if she keeps changing them...that how many will she change?

I was like...that response from my cousin is not making sense. To be honest, I decided to mind my business until the last day. After all,I am only visiting for one week. It was clear all is not well but I decided to mind my business if my cousin decided to manage the girl like that.

When I got back to Abeokuta,I called my cousin,just to say thank you for accommodating me and all. And then,I told her that.....

Source: https://livelystones.ng/2020/08/03/living-in-bondage-my-cousins-marriage-is-like-living-in-hell-please-advise/

Must people employ house helps?

Mandyvicky:
First of all
Your sister was unfaithful
Too bad for a married woman
The husband is even a nice person
She never jam wicked men


She has broken the trust
So stay away from that family..And stop making your so called cousin feel like she did nothing wrong

Ordinary gf cheating on bf is bad
Talk more of a( wife)

Na this kind people they spoil women name

So we still have ladies who have some fluids in their skull like this

Abeg chop kiss for this jore

Dlionsheart:


So we still have ladies who have some fluids in their skull like this

Abeg chop kiss for this jore

hmnnnn

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