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bukatyne:
OP beat up his ex-fiancée
ex-fiancée up his niece

Are we seeing a pattern of the 'strong' beating/bullying the 'weaker'.

Perhaps the world has been looking at the issue of domestic violence in silos.

It is really the stronger picking on/bullying/beating the weaker in a domestic setting.

Ishilove:
Next time kill her o, you hear? What if she collapsed and died while beating her?

By all means cancel the wedding, but don't kill someone's child while at it.

bukatyne:
OP beat up his ex-fiancée
ex-fiancée up his niece

Are we seeing a pattern of the 'strong' beating/bullying the 'weaker'.

Perhaps the world has been looking at the issue of domestic violence in silos.

It is really the stronger picking on/bullying/beating the weaker in a domestic setting.

alramon:
I love the fact that u said insults are welcome because u urself know that u need to be insulted....

how old are u self in the first place

let me just point out some things for u here:


1.u are not married yet and u are already living together and she has been doing house chores, u have been doing the other night play together. U need to be flogged urself on this.

2. there are ways of resolving things when things go wrong in marriage (u are even cohabiting self) rather than beating. u have started beating her, so when u marry her u will kuku kill her if she does something worse than that.

3. don't marry that woman as it is obvious that she is a lazy woman(girl). You are seeing her true colors gradually

4. In case u see another responsible lady and u finally marry, don't give that ur niece audacity to think she can do anything in ur house because of the bonding.

5. the truth is just that, no woman likes a third-party in their house, so know how to handle things easily with them...


shikena!

alramon:
I love the fact that u said insults are welcome because u urself know that u need to be insulted....

how old are u self in the first place

let me just point out some things for u here:


1.u are not married yet and u are already living together and she has been doing house chores, u have been doing the other night play together. U need to be flogged urself on this.

2. there are ways of resolving things when things go wrong in marriage (u are even cohabiting self) rather than beating. u have started beating her, so when u marry her u will kuku kill her if she does something worse than that.

3. don't marry that woman as it is obvious that she is a lazy woman(girl). You are seeing her true colors gradually

4. In case u see another responsible lady and u finally marry, don't give that ur niece audacity to think she can do anything in ur house because of the bonding.

5. the truth is just that, no woman likes a third-party in their house, so know how to handle things easily with them...


shikena!

Lightangel65:
Chi? do you practice the ways of the budha

Ishilove:
Jonny stop defending bad thing. What op did is killing a fly with a sledgehammer.

JONNYSPUTE:
....Did you read where he said he did talk to her Initially concerning the way she maltreats the little girl?.

I repeat,if any woman does not see anything wrong in maltreating house maids,beating them as if they are nobody,then there shouldn't be anything wrong if a man use that same beatings to put her in her place.

I guess you know that after the beatings she got from the guy,she can't repeat such nonsense towards that little girl again except she still want the same beatings?

Only foolish and weak men sits and watch their wife's maltreat their maids and refuse to act.

Anigreat:
I'm sorry to bother you all this early morning with this my story.

Apologies for any blunders spotted, and sorry for the lengthy post.

I have a niece who unfortunately the mother died when she was barely a month old, and her mother was my only sibling as my mother gave birth to two of us, remaining only me now. Her death was really painful to us, but i thank God for consoling us especially my mother.

During her pregnancy, she never made mentioned of the person responsible for her pregnancy inspite of my mother's threat. When the inevitable happened we had no other option than to adopt the child. We were praying earnestly that the child survive, glory to God she did survive though it wasn't easy, as at now she's 14years old and currently in SSS1.

Last week my mum called me that my niece says she's coming to Uyo were i am staying to stay with me since there's no school for now, which i obliged to it immediately. Prior before this call, my girlfriend whom i intended to marry was staying with me. I informed her immediately that my niece is coming to stay with us for a short period of time, immediately i told her this, her countenance change through out that day. I keep on asking her what the matter was but she keep on saying nothing.

Monday last weekmy niece arrived my place.

My dears ever since my niece set her foot in my house, this girlfriend of mine whom i intended to marry turned to something else. She stop cooking, washing and sweeping, all she does is to ordered my niece around as her house help. I was so hurt seeing this that i confronted her thinking that she will change, but she went from bad to worst.

Yesterday morning i overheard her telling my niece to wash the toilet and mop the floor before thinking of eating. My niece replied that she's too tired that she won't be able to do it(I was actually happy inside when i hear this)

What follows next was a sounding knocked she gave to my niece and the poor girl screamed and started crying.

Truth be said, i was so furious that came out of the room. I didn't asked her anything i just told her your cup is full today. I dealt with her seriously. The beating i gave to her was out of this world, that she was bleeding, though later in the day i took her to a nearby clinic for treatment.

I have learnt alot this few days. Men should be careful of the type of women they intend to settle down with.

As some of them will manipulate you that you start hating your family members or stop them from coming to your house for no reasons if you're not strong.

I want her to get well after that i will put an end to the relationship, all marriage plan cancel, and no going back and no regret.

Imagine if I've gone ahead to marry her. Is this how she will be maltreating my niece? obviously i will forever leave in regrets.

If you ask me if i feel sorry for beating her, truth is, there's no atom of regret in me, and i will never feel sorry for her. If she has the mind to maltreat a poor girl whose mother is late, she's capable of anything.

Insults are welcome.

Ishilove:
Exactly my point. Our grouse is not that he is defending his niece; the problem is the action the took in her defence. It is waaay too much.

Anigreat:
I'm sorry to bother you all this early morning with this my story.

Apologies for any blunders spotted, and sorry for the lengthy post.

I have a niece who unfortunately the mother died when she was barely a month old, and her mother was my only sibling as my mother gave birth to two of us, remaining only me now. Her death was really painful to us, but i thank God for consoling us especially my mother.

During her pregnancy, she never made mentioned of the person responsible for her pregnancy inspite of my mother's threat. When the inevitable happened we had no other option than to adopt the child. We were praying earnestly that the child survive, glory to God she did survive though it wasn't easy, as at now she's 14years old and currently in SSS1.

Last week my mum called me that my niece says she's coming to Uyo were i am staying to stay with me since there's no school for now, which i obliged to it immediately. Prior before this call, my girlfriend whom i intended to marry was staying with me. I informed her immediately that my niece is coming to stay with us for a short period of time, immediately i told her this, her countenance change through out that day. I keep on asking her what the matter was but she keep on saying nothing.

Monday last weekmy niece arrived my place.

My dears ever since my niece set her foot in my house, this girlfriend of mine whom i intended to marry turned to something else. She stop cooking, washing and sweeping, all she does is to ordered my niece around as her house help. I was so hurt seeing this that i confronted her thinking that she will change, but she went from bad to worst.

Yesterday morning i overheard her telling my niece to wash the toilet and mop the floor before thinking of eating. My niece replied that she's too tired that she won't be able to do it(I was actually happy inside when i hear this)

What follows next was a sounding knocked she gave to my niece and the poor girl screamed and started crying.

Truth be said, i was so furious that came out of the room. I didn't asked her anything i just told her your cup is full today. I dealt with her seriously. The beating i gave to her was out of this world, that she was bleeding, though later in the day i took her to a nearby clinic for treatment.

I have learnt alot this few days. Men should be careful of the type of women they intend to settle down with.

As some of them will manipulate you that you start hating your family members or stop them from coming to your house for no reasons if you're not strong.

I want her to get well after that i will put an end to the relationship, all marriage plan cancel, and no going back and no regret.

Imagine if I've gone ahead to marry her. Is this how she will be maltreating my niece? obviously i will forever leave in regrets.

If you ask me if i feel sorry for beating her, truth is, there's no atom of regret in me, and i will never feel sorry for her. If she has the mind to maltreat a poor girl whose mother is late, she's capable of anything.

Insults are welcome.

anonimi:
See as you give balanced comment.
What is there to add? Nothing.
Thanks

Ishilove:
You are quite wrong, and myopic in your view. I am in support of the cancellation because I detest people maltreating other people's children. However, some people are walking dead. Their cases have been finished in the spirit and they are just looking for who to hang their death on. If, while beating your ex she dies, we will not be talking about her ill treatment and abuse of your niece. We will be talking about lawyers and years in jail.

I have often said it here; if my relative is misbehaving, send them away. Don't harm them because you think you have a monopoly of violence.

You never pay bride price and you're beating her bloody. Thank God it is not my sister you beat up like that. Every bone in your body will be broken by men with stronger hands than you.

There are ways to correct a person, but beating her bloody to the extent of hospital treatment is taking it too far.

Chukapage:
Aunty I'll beat you niece blue black break her bones on top if she's as stupid as Ops GF maltreating a motherless child. After the beating come with your "stronger hands" that time you go know sey for this Nigeria strong men are plentiful strong hands Yakpa! Awon maid beaters ..

YourCoffin:
Why did you beat her instead of sending her away? What did you achieve by beating her?

Enchantaurl:
I support him giving her a hard knock back.If she feels okay with intimidating a weak child she shouldn't feel bad with being intimidated.

pocohantas:
They keep coming up with nonsense analogies. No one is saying don’t defend your niece, but some balance!!




Is it today I joined NL? As in, NL guys will support me for hitting my mam till he bleeds? keep quiet abeg!

Xisnin:
I hope you also see no wrong in the government locking up the violent man for a long time.



You must be very young.
Beatings hardly change children's behaviour these days let alone adult.


That means the OP is foolish. He has been watching allegedly from the sideline and did nothing
until he needed to excercise his violent tendency.

Nuttella:
May you fiancé beat you in front of a child. Say Amen.

JONNYSPUTE:
....No wahala.Lets all be careful when dealing with others.

JONNYSPUTE:
....If she kills the niece now all of Una go still call mumu.

That was resetting beating.

Michelle55:
You literally do not have any rights whatsoever to lay your hands on a woman.. She maliciously punished your niece and you did same to her, now tell me, what's the difference between you two?
You could have simply walk away from the relationship seeing the red flags already.

Cohabiting is a big NO and shouldn't have happened, then your niece coming into the picture wasn't advisable at all. You are only teaching her that cohabiting with a man who isn't her husband yet is acceptable and good.

Well, cancelling the wedding is the right thing to do.. You both don't deserve each other because from the look of things you're a man who finds it easy to beat a woman when provoked and not feel remorseful about it and she's a woman who doesn't know the value of one's family and a trouble personified woman.

Both of you should go your separate ways to avoid reading on social medias how a man either ended up in jail for beating his wife to death or how a woman poisoned her husband's niece.

Lightangel65:
Yes it would be right, feminists ke, so a woman can oppress another woman and its ok to you people? So feminism only applies if its a guy wrong? Fakes

alramon:
I love the fact that u said insults are welcome because u urself know that u need to be insulted....

how old are u self in the first place

let me just point out some things for u here:


1.u are not married yet and u are already living together and she has been doing house chores, u have been doing the other night play together. U need to be flogged urself on this.

2. there are ways of resolving things when things go wrong in marriage (u are even cohabiting self) rather than beating. u have started beating her, so when u marry her u will kuku kill her if she does something worse than that.

3. don't marry that woman as it is obvious that she is a lazy woman(girl). You are seeing her true colors gradually

4. In case u see another responsible lady and u finally marry, don't give that ur niece audacity to think she can do anything in ur house because of the bonding.

5. the truth is just that, no woman likes a third-party in their house, so know how to handle things easily with them...


shikena!

Michelle55:
You literally do not have any rights whatsoever to lay your hands on a woman.. She maliciously punished your niece and you did same to her, now tell me, what's the difference between you two?
You could have simply walk away from the relationship seeing the red flags already.

Cohabiting is a big NO and shouldn't have happened, then your niece coming into the picture wasn't advisable at all. You are only teaching her that cohabiting with a man who isn't her husband yet is acceptable and good.

Well, cancelling the wedding is the right thing to do.. You both don't deserve each other because from the look of things you're a man who finds it easy to beat a woman when provoked and not feel remorseful about it and she's a woman who doesn't know the value of one's family and a trouble personified woman.

Both of you should go your separate ways to avoid reading on social medias how a man either ended up in jail for beating his wife to death or how a woman poisoned her husband's niece.

Klass99:
I like the part where you beat her (your girlfriend)

I hate foolish women like her and lately there has been an influx of stories about foolish women like her on NL, from the Deaconess who burnt her ward's flesh, to another one who brought two of her sisters to live with her and frustrate the brother in law and another who injured her maid so badly she and hubby were arrested.

So, I was glad to see that you took action after talking didn't work. Two wrongs can actually make a right, it is called giving people a dose of their own medicine, so they know better not to mess with you next time.

I have low tolerance for BS myself so I don't advise or encourage others to tolerate, what I know I can't tolerate.

Chop knuckle abeg.

Ishilove:
Oya na. You never jam

Nuttella:
I really pity your wife, it must be such a misery living with such a
psychotic self servicing cunt like you. My heartfelt sympathy goes to her.