Pls I need your advice on this.
I got into a relationship with this girl months back she’s loyal and all that but her character I was beginning to find out was absurd, she doesn’t believe ladies should take care of themselves, the other day I told her my friend is getting married to his girlfriend, she was now like what is he doing for work I said his working in a hotel, so she said is it that hotel work he I’ll use to Take care of the lady and treat her that how much are they paying him sef is it 35k he’s earning mtcheww, I told her do not despise the days of little things, she saw I was getting irritated with her then she said any way na way, m a quite person and I observe people and their behaviors a lot this isint the first time this is happening, anytime I bring up a topic about my friend or anybody she ask first what work is the person doing, person that’s talking like this can’t even buy card 1k for herself o, the worst part yesterday I said let me question this person that’s always yabbing boys that don’t have work, I asked about her 2 elder brothers she said they were in school, so I fired, what work is your elder brother doing she reluctantly said he’s a hustler and a student, good I asked what hustle Does he do she said she doesn’t know!! I know that her brother is jobless and doesn’t even have a job and is claiming yahoo boy, but e sweet me that at least am giving her a taste of her own medicine, I asked about the younger brother too she said she doesn’t know I was beginning to wonder how someone won’t know the class their sibling is in but I left it, then I asked about their age she said doesn’t know, I knew she was Lying cause she knows they are old men and still in school 27 25 or so and they have nothing doing, she still denied knowing what level they are in, you can imagine, your brothers that stay In the same house with you, after that this morning I told her I would love to kiss her, naso the babe talk say her body is the temple of god that I can’t touch kiss or even do anything, e shock me o, so I said, you know your lips is the temple of God but it was not a temple when it was eating my chicken and ice cream with pizza e reach now e become temple abi.
apart from that she doesn’t really take anything serious, I can be saying something that’s bothering the relationship now so we could settle it and not get on anyone’s nerve again she will be like ehh! continue saying your mind nahh, deep down I’ll be wondering if this this girl can’t say something Tangible and reasonable or contribute anything for us to move forward, after all these I just used style to end the whole charade, all the bosses in the house she’s been calling me since I no wan pick should I let her back in, no sex o no even touching of breast nothing nothing atall.

Where do you guys find these type of girls honestly?

I have not read your full post ooo.

But from the part I read, why should someone earning 35k be getting married?

I will come back later to read the full gist

Guy, I be won read this story but u no Sabi write at all.

Even punctuation no dey.

Abeg try dey go JSS3 lesson to learn how to use punctuation marks.

Back to d topic, stop dating yeye girl wey no get sense.

squash47:
Guy, I be won read this story but u no Sabi write at all.

Even punctuation no dey.

Abeg try dey go JSS3 lesson to learn how to use punctuation marks.

Back to d topic, stop dating yeye girl wey no get sense.

I understand but am not a blogger or writer or anything I just type to fast thanks for your input tho��. This is even my first time officially posting on nairaland I’ll improve with time tho

Don't tell me this is your biggest problem in life

Ayemileto:
I have not read your full post ooo.

But from the part I read, why should someone earning 35k be getting married?

I will come back later to read the full gist

Some people get married without practically any hope or any source of income my uncle is a testimony he suffered so with his wife even to feed was an issue but today they are in South Africa living large and driving the best cars.. this life no balance that’s one thing some people should know

SavageBoy:
Don't tell me this is your biggest problem in life

It’s not even close to my problem but I just didn’t want feel am doing something wrong

[quote author=Zayttoven post=92533651]Where do you guys find these type

Me I don’t know o

my eye dey pain me!

Brother man, you are wicked. How could you make a post as long as this without a punctuation? Haba! Which one be "tamale of God" ??

Mr.Simpson

Humanoid01:
Brother man, you are wicked. How could you make a post as long as this without a punctuation? Haba! Which one be "tamale of God" ??

I wanted una to run out of breath before you finish...don’t mind me I totally forgot

Cyphrr:


Some people get married without practically any hope or any source of income my uncle is a testimony he suffered so with his wife even to feed was an issue but today they are in South Africa living large and driving the best cars.. this life no balance that’s one thing some people should know

Lol, that it work for your uncle does not mean it will work for everyone ooo.

There are many people who jumped into marriage with nothing, and end up dying in poverty.

To avoid bringing unnecessary hardship to your children, please don't get married if you're not financially stable o.

Meanwhile, I will still update my original post once I read through your post well.

Humanoid01:
Brother man, you are wicked. How could you make a post as long as this without a punctuation? Haba! Which one be "tamale of God" ??

Lol.

Cyphrr:


Some people get married without practically any hope or any source of income my uncle is a testimony he suffered so with his wife even to feed was an issue but today they are in South Africa living large and driving the best cars.. this life no balance that’s one thing some people should know

What did your uncle do to get that rich to suddenly jand into South Africa and start driving expensive cars? Did he tell you how he made his money?

You people and unfounded opinions. Stop supporting poverty, please. If you try it, you may get burnt badly. If you aren't financially stable, by all means, don't consider marriage. Love won't pay bills.

ethicallyright:
Without neglecting the composition above , which is clearly rich in quantity but empty in quality, the following must be frankly observed:

While we must sponsor consistent exposure on the pertinence of male dominance, the quality of boys who graduate from our informal red pill institutions should be at par with their feminist contemporaries.

These young boys should understand the art of gluing words , phrases and clauses to form meaningful paragraphs.

They must also learn not to value romance and emotions at the expense of logic and financial independence.

Every woman comes with a price, more beautiful ones may be described as articles of ostentation , without any prejudice to gold digging guidelines.

If you lack meaningful financial investments and a well defined career path, then your estranged girlfriend has chosen good by escaping an initiation into the vicious cycle of poverty.

If you are not poor in mind and wealth then you have chosen good by severing ties with a material lady.

Not to be absurd in any way, I just didn’t fully think of using phrases and clauses there cause I was just typing fast and didn’t even read. Well for me am still a student tho but I have a bussiness am not broke I sell gadgets, eg phones apple watches, Samsung watches and the rest, am planing on creating a websites to push my company forward so it’s safe to say am not poor in mind.

UyaiIncomparabl:


What did your uncle do to get that rich to suddenly jand into South Africa and start driving expensive cars? Did he tell you how he made his money?

You people and unfounded opinions. Stop supporting poverty, please. If you try it, you may get burnt badly. If you aren't financially stable, by all means, don't consider marriage. Love won't pay bills.

Let’s say he started out with his pharmaceutical business and today his growing big with it, the opinion isint unfounded it’s based on reality.
And as for me am not at the peak of financial stability but am ok with my importation biz right now looking for ways to boost further.

UyaiIncomparabl:


What did your uncle do to get that rich to suddenly jand into South Africa and start driving expensive cars? Did he tell you how he made his money?

You people and unfounded opinions. Stop supporting poverty, please. If you try it, you may get burnt badly. If you aren't financially stable, by all means, don't consider marriage. Love won't pay bills.

Let’s say he started out with his pharmaceutical business and today his growing big with it, the opinion isint unfounded it’s based on reality.

squash47:
Guy, I be won read this story but u no Sabi write at all.

Even punctuation no dey.

Abeg try dey go JSS3 lesson to learn how to use punctuation marks.

Back to d topic, stop dating yeye girl wey no get sense.

Can u imagine d nonsense i jst read..

E comman comman kinda english. No punctuation at all.

UyaiIncomparabl:


What did your uncle do to get that rich to suddenly jand into South Africa and start driving expensive cars? Did he tell you how he made his money?

You people and unfounded opinions. Stop supporting poverty, please. If you try it, you may get burnt badly. If you aren't financially stable, by all means, don't consider marriage. Love won't pay bills.

U shuld be directing dis statement to our female folks..

Most of u re ready to manage with a man no matter the condition and this rubbish comes out of desperation to get married.

chinchonglee:


Can u imagine d nonsense i jst read..

E comman comman kinda english. No punctuation at all.

No vex, I just updated the post you can gladly read through now, didn’t even read it myself, sorry for the inconvenience

Naija guys are trying oo and if someone sees you both parading on the street they will think you have a girlfriend.

bros. she tells you no touching but you pay her small bills ....she eats your chicken and uses your toilet hmmm

she is the real Redpiller

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How can someone be so comfortable Dating a "LIABILITY" and even proud to call it a Relationship.

Oga to Slap you dey hungry me

Is this the lady you claim to love?
Waoh. .
Good thing you woke up from your slumber bro.

How old is she? Probably 21...
Na small girl. She knows nothing yet.
If you can tolerate her attitude for a very long time, then continue.
Let me tell you something, she is not taking your relationship serious. She will dump you as soon as she falls for another guy.

#ILMOVON
#Attitude
#Bliv

It is obvious that you are still a kid..
When you become Mature, you won't let a clown like her confuse you..
You ain't yet in charge of yourself talk more of an affair..
You are a weak and effeminate kid.
Grow some balls.

ABANGWABOI:
#ILMOVON
#Attitude
#Bliv

It is obvious that you are still a kid..
When you become Mature, you won't let a clown like her confuse you..
You ain't yet in charge of yourself talk more of an affair..
You are a weak and effeminate kid.
Grow some balls.

No kind advices person no go see for nairaland o. But I think your right in some ways I was totally soft, but I think I have learnt my lesson and will take charge from now on.

NobleDeSage001:
How old is she? Probably 21...
Na small girl. She knows nothing yet.
If you can tolerate her attitude for a very long time, then continue.
Let me tell you something, she is not taking your relationship serious. She will dump you as soon as she falls for another guy.

Your right, she probably still thinks this life is her playground.