Hello nairaland, please I need your honest opinion on a very pressing issues.well unlike most guys who are bold and courageous to approach a lady, and express their feelings ,I can't boast of being one , because I'm a very shy guy ,there is this girl that I like a lot at my working place , have been watching and admiring her for days now ,but I'm not just bold enough to approach her I told a friend about it and he went to her last night .he tried to woo her for me now I have to Goan and talk to her but the problem is I don't know what I'm going to say to her I. Too nervous to even think straight please help me !!

Just be bold enough ask her bank details, do the needful and thank me later

Men this is beyond local man logistics

Bros leave woman ooo. ..You wan tag ur self with wahala abi

Just tell her say you dey trip for her.

Someone is living a good and healthy life, now he wants to go and invite problem, headache, unnecessary expenditures, STIs, STDs and pains into his life.

dingbang:
Just tell her say you dey trip for her.

Trip ko Drip ni.

Davash222:

Trip ko Drip ni.

any better inputs?

Your friend has made your intentions known... Walk up to her and tell her you've been admiring her for some time now and you'll like her to be your woman. Make it blunt and direct as this and watch her response and also not forget to look her straight in her eyes cos that is where you'll get your confidence from. all is left for her to decide,also don't go beyond your capacity to display your feeling for her,if you know what I mean

dingbang:
any better inputs?

I can't waste my inputs on anything relating to Nigerian girls!

Davash222:

I can't waste my inputs on anything relating to Nigerian girls!

okay. Leave nigeria then

Oyiboman69:
Your friend has made your intentions known... Walk up to her and tell her you've been admiring her for some time now and you'll like her to be your woman. Make it blunt and direct as this and watch her response and also not forget to look her straight in her eyes cos that is where you'll get your confidence from. all is left for her to decide,also don't go beyond your capacity to display your feeling for her,if you know what I mean

apt. Same thing i did to one smallie then, we exchanged contacts and she fvcked my brains off.

Wisdoy:
Hello nairaland, please I need your honest opinion on a very pressing issues.well unlike most guys who are bold and courageous to approach a lady, and express their feelings ,I can't boast of being one , because I'm a very shy guy ,there is this girl that I like a lot at my working place , have been watching and admiring her for days now ,but I'm not just bold enough to approach her I told a friend about it and he went to her last night .he tried to woo her for me now I have to Goan and talk to her but the problem is I don't know what I'm going to say to her I. Too nervous to even think straight please help me !!

You have to grow up my guy

The foundation has been layed for you, so,
Take her out for lunch, tell her to tell you more of herself

Tell her about yourself, or is that one difficult again?
After the outing, start with love messages every morning and night

That alone is enough ways to tell a woman that you love her

Don't rush to go down with her, just steady and constantly romantic and the show will pick up by itself

Pls tell me, are all these difficult for you ?

If yes then you are finished before a woman

dingbang:
okay. Leave nigeria then

I'm not dragging your girls with you.

Davash222:

I'm not dragging your girls with you.

Tell him my nigga

SmellySperm:

Tell him my nigga

Lol

Like asif you know I needed the puff.

You be OG, abeg.

nothing to shy,just act like a drunkard, talk to her.

Davash222:

Lol

Like asif you know I needed the puff.

You be OG, abeg.

Lols... Real recognize real, my OG

Davash222:

I'm not dragging your girls with you.

you dont need to

SmellySperm:

Lols... Real recognize real, my OG

I owe you some paid kpekus with parcels of 4.20 any time you hit Bongo city.

Online boys would make you believe one is going to be miserable if they ever choose to date or Marry a woman.

I don't know the kind of girls y'all are meeting that's making y'all this bitter about women as if you weren't birthed by a woman.

And lastly whatever experiences any lady has made you go through is largely your fault; because you are who/what you attract.

Davash222:
Someone is living a good and healthy life, now he wants to go and invite problem, headache, unnecessary expenditures, STIs, STDs and pains into his life.

So he shouldn't have sex or have children
That's an incel trait

Oyiboman69:
Your friend has made your intentions known... Walk up to her and tell her you've been admiring her for some time now and you'll like her to be your woman. Make it blunt and direct as this and watch her response and also not forget to look her straight in her eyes cos that is where you'll get your confidence from. all is left for her to decide,also don't go beyond your capacity to display your feeling for her,if you know what I mean

No don't take this advice
It sounds SIMPY

Chloraseptic:
Online boys would make you believe one is going to be miserable if they ever choose to date or Marry a woman.

I don't know the kind of girls y'all are meeting that's making y'all this bitter about women as if you weren't birthed by a woman.

And lastly whatever experiences any lady has made you go through is largely your fault; because you are who/what you attract.

swears.

Intentionally run into her, and be a gentleman man to pick up whatever fell from her hands and offer to buy her lunch to make up for it. Atleast to get over that shyness.

frozen70:


You have to grow up my guy

The foundation has been layed for you, so,
Taje her out for lunch, tell her to tell you more of herself

Tell her about yourself, or is that one difficult again?
After the outing, start with love messages every morning and night

That alone is enough ways to tell a woman that you love her

Don't rush to go down with her, just steady and constantly romantic and the show will pick up by itself

Pls tell me, are all these difficult for you ?

If yes then you are finished before a woman

let him go straight to the point. No need forming nice and caring guy wey go easily get you friend zoned. Tell her what you want from her and let her decide whether to accept or not.

Think4Myself:

No don't take this advice
It sounds SIMPY

what do you know about women?

Cashio:
let him go straight to the point. No need forming nice and caring guy wey go easily get you friend zoned. Tell her what you want from her and let her decide whether to accept or not.

He said he us nit bold enough to talk to girls

So he can start with style

frozen70:


He said he us nit bold enough to talk to girls

So he can start with style

starting with that style will only make the girl see him as weak and as such will definitely try to use him. Believe me bro, once a girl notices you need something from her and is afraid to put it up straight, she will try to manipulate you with your feelings.
Next thing now, you hear Billings up and down and that guy being naive and shy will try to chest those Billings to prove his love.

Oyiboman69:
Your friend has made your intentions known... Walk up to her and tell her you've been admiring her for some time now and you'll like her to be your woman. Make it blunt and direct as this and watch her response and also not forget to look her straight in her eyes cos that is where you'll get your confidence from. all is left for her to decide,also don't go beyond your capacity to display your feeling for her,if you know what I mean

what if she said something like "i will think about it"

dingbang:
apt. Same thing i did to one smallie then, we exchanged contacts and she fvcked my brains off.

still together?

Uncle go and buy her eba/semo/fufu and egusi soup .. and talk it over

Think4Myself:
No don't take this advice It sounds SIMPY

Suggest a better way then.