A woman should be her husband's think tank.
If your financial life is totally dependent on your husband, you are a psychological disgrace.
Fingers are not equal. Must your own be the shortest?

Don't die as a woman. Die as an institution.
Think more than you pray.

You don't eat with ten fingers. You save!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fh8LCRblAbw


WATCH THE VIDEO TO THE END BEFORE YOU QUOTE ME OR COME HERE TO DISPLAY HOW ILL-THINK YOU ARE. SHE DIDN'T SAY BEING A HOUSEWIFE IS BAD. SHE SAID BE AN ASSET. BE AN INSTITUTION. BE YOUR HUSBAND THINK TANK. DON'T EAT WITH 10 FINGERS. DON'T BE THE SHORTEST FINGER.

exactly,that is modern day slavery

Zzor:
exactly,that is modern day slavery

So true dear. Housewives should wake up

The things pastors say without biblical understanding. Where did you get the word "housewife"?

She and her likes need to shut the fck up and allow husbands and wives make whatever decisions they want regarding their finance.

So long as they don't come to you to beg for food or advice, you have no right over their decisions.

Acidosis:

The things pastors say without biblical understanding. Where did you get the word "housewife"?

She and her likes need to shut the fck up and allow husbands and wives make whatever decisions they want regarding their finance.

So long as they don't come to you to beg for food or advice, you have no right over their decisions.

I am seeing someone getting pained because women are about being emancipated from men cage.
Cry me a river

saaphiere:
I am seeing someone getting pained because women are about being emancipated from men cage.
Cry me a river

The only "cage" is getting married. Do you honestly feel that you're better than a 'housewife', assuming the word exists in your pastor's bible?

Lmao.. the funny bit about this issue is that it's those same women who champion/preach about emancipation and choice, who still go on to criticize other women who chose to be housewives.

The joke gets me every time

Housewife is old school it should be called liability or jobless wife.

Who wants to be a liability?

Zzor:
exactly,that is modern day slavery

There's nothing enslaving about being a wife, so far you and your husband have an understanding.

mariahAngel:


There's nothing enslaving about being a wife, so far you and your husband have an understanding.

you mean nothing wrong in being a full time housewife

mariahAngel:


There's nothing enslaving about being a wife, so far you and your husband have an understanding.

Would you not mind being a housewife?

Zzor:
you mean nothing wrong in being a full time housewife

As long as they understand each other, I see no problem with it.

A woman who stays at home does not mean she's idle.
If you understand what it takes to keep the home going on a daily basis, you'll know that it is not easy.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Will you mind to be a housewife?

If it is what I want, I wouldn't mind.

I love what she just preached. She speaks nothing but the truth. Other educated female pastors like her should be dropping these sorta gems to encourage women to have something doing before and/or during marriage. One of the things that keeps women in bad marriages in Nigeria is the lack of own income. Having your own income (via a business) or job isn't just for your self-worth but it safeguards you from staying stuck in a bad marriage if you find yourself in one.

People like her need to understand women are different and couples are different too. There is nothing wrong in being a housewife. It is the sacrifice some women pay for the smooth running of their homes.

As long as they are both okay with it and do not go begging for urgent 2k, you can only wish them well.

mariahAngel:


As long as they understand each other, I see no problem with it.

A woman who stays at home does not mean she's idle.
If you understand what it takes to keep the home going on a daily basis, you'll know that it is not easy.

can you agree to being a full time housewife? anyways Men these days don't even want their wives to be full time housewife,they prefer the working class women so as to contribute financially in running the home affairs

saaphiere:
I am seeing someone getting pained because women are about being emancipated from men cage.
Cry me a river

. Being a house wife, does it make a woman a slave? Though I would not want my wife to be house wife but it doesn't put women in any cage. I have seen very good and happy housewives. A friend who works in the oil industry and his wife is a lawyer, they decided the woman stay at home for the kids and she left her legal patnership and they are happy.

Zzor:
can you agree to being a full time housewife? anyways Men these days don't even want their wives to be full time housewife,they prefer the working class women so as to contribute financially in running the home affairs

Don't forget the option of owning your own business.
Somehow, that option hardly ever occur to people.

mariahAngel:

If it is what I want, I wouldn't mind.

What if your husband doesn't agree to it?

UyaiIncomparabl:


What if your husband doesn't agree to it?

To work or not to work? it's all about understanding between the husband and the wife.

mariahAngel:


To work or not to work? it's all about understanding between the husband and the wife.

Alright.

OutsideTheBox:
I love what she just preached. She speaks nothing but the truth. Other educated female pastors like her should be dropping these sorta gems to encourage women to have something doing before and/or during marriage. One of the things that keeps women in bad marriages in Nigeria is the lack of own income. Having your own income (via a business) or job isn't just for your self-worth but it safeguards you from staying stuck in a bad marriage if you find yourself in one.

I didn't think you were a female

I like most of your views...

Acidosis:

The things pastors say without biblical understanding. Where did you get the word "housewife"?

She and her likes need to shut the fck up and allow husbands and wives make whatever decisions they want regarding their finance.

So long as they don't come to you to beg for food or advice, you have no right over their decisions.

Most times, these so-called preachers get carried away with words, you begin to wonder...
They love to tell stories more than they love preaching the actual gospel.
Hardly would you hear " The bible says...", and the congregation swallow them hook, liner, and sinker.

mariahAngel:


There's nothing enslaving about being a wife, so far you and your husband have an understanding.

What understanding sis? We are talking about not being a liability to your husband here. I doubt you watched the video. The pastor is not saying it's bad to be a housewife.

Zzor:
you mean nothing wrong in being a full time housewife

I wonder if that is a female. A modern day lady won't think that way.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Would you not mind being a housewife?

Good question.

mariahAngel:


I didn't think you were a female

I like most of your views...

Thanks. I'm a female. I was going to reply you on the other thread ( how do men sleep with unattractive women? by fineboynl ) where you assumed I was a dude ( "I like dudes like you" ), lol, because of my comment. I just like to be gender-neutral on here the same way I like to be impartial in my posts/views.

Do I sound like a male in my posts?

mariahAngel:

If it is what I want, I wouldn't mind.

Meaning that isn't or might not be what you want.

pocohantas:
People like her need to understand women are different and couples are different too. There is nothing wrong in being a housewife. It is the sacrifice some women pay for the smooth running of their homes.

As long as they are both okay with it and do not go begging for urgent 2k, you can only wish them well.

Watch the video first. She doesn't say there is something wrong in being a housewife. She said there's something wrong when a housewife becomes a liability.

OutsideTheBox:
Thanks. I'm a female. I was going to reply you on the other thread ( how do men sleep with unattractive women? by fineboynl ) where you assumed I was a dude ( "I like dudes like you" ), lol, because of my comment. I just like to be gender-neutral on here the same way I like to be impartial in my posts/views.

Do I sound like a male in my posts?

Oh! That's true

About being gender neutral and objective, we have that in common.
Does it matter how you sound? As long as you sound human right?

saaphiere:
Watch the video first. She doesn't say there is something wrong in being a housewife. She said there's something wrong when a housewife becomes a liability.

Then she has a point, though liability itself is relative. If we consider a housewife a liability because she isn’t working from home (business). Doesn’t that mean we have trivialized something as important as childcare? Something we outsource and pay for? I hope you get my point, sis.