I will be turning 30 end if this year but the pressure to marry is building up. Look right, they will ask when are you marrying, look left same thing.

With all this marriage wahala I have been seeing everywhere, praying for an understanding lady because marriage this days scare shit out of me

No body should pressure you, do it at your convenient

OcVoice:


40

Oga, please go and marry

SweetCunt97:
So what's her husband doing if she's the bread winner? Hope it's temporary sha cos she go old before her time with such load

She works and I support her too. They are living very fine and happy. That's what is more important to me.

Dainy1:
Oga, please go and marry

Very straight to the point. No finagling

roughdiamond:
She works and I support her too. They are living very fine and happy. That's what is more important to me.

If u say so. Seems u living with them.

Ishilove:

It is well.

If you are 40, how come your people are telling you "you are coming of age". How can a man of 40 be coming of age?

Op, I put it to you that this is not your real age.

OcVoice:


I am in the charismatic. I also pray very well.

Are you a graduate? What did you study in school? I wonder why you couldn't have gotten a good job before 40 years?

edoman2016:

Are you a graduate? What did you study in school? I wonder why you couldn't have gotten a good job before 40 years?

Yes. I am a graduate. I studied Industrial Chemistry with 2.1 grade.

OcVoice:


Yes. I am a graduate. I studied Industrial Chemistry with 2.1 grade.

Which university? In case I have a job opening for you.

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Don't mind those people, you know what you want in life,nobody should push you after all not everyone that is telling you that even have your wellbeing in mind,what of if you choose not to marry! So know what you want let them don't push you.

OcVoice:


Thank you.... but you know it's not easy to forget all they said and then act like all's well!

Olga, wat I will tell U is dat u listen to dem but don't put ursef under immense pressure. Remember there is always sense embedded in nonsense o.

See don't let us decv ourselves, no one can have it all before marrying.

We re in same shoe bro, mine is even more, den U start thinking that how can someone marry wen he's not even having a gf

The only difference is dat av got work to do at least to survive. so my advice for u is DAT u should try and find a valuable work/business, den start a relationship (I pray God give U a befitting woman "and me too" )

Ishilove:

It is well.

If you are 40, how come your people are telling you "you are coming of age". How can a man of 40 be coming of age?

Op, I put it to you that this is not your real age.

Hmm, wait madam, am confused ...


are u saying he's more than forty or not up to?

is forty not coming of age??

OlawaleBammie:


Hmm, wait madam, am confused ...


are u saying he's more than forty or not up to?

is forty not coming of age??

In the context in which his people are using it, one has the impression that he is not up to 40

Ishilove:

In the context in which his people are using it, one has the impression that he is not up to 40

Yea, I even tot he's within 29 and 33

Ishilove:

In the context in which his people are using it, one has the impression that he is not up to 40

It's the way you understand it.

What the passage simply explained is that I'm not getting any younger.

Except if your perception of 40 years is old age..........could also be your reason for "evening newspaper"! It's usually not so for a man!

Thanks for sharing, I found a lot of interesting information here. A really good post, very thankful and helpful that you will write many more posts like this one.

Mary Kay In Touch

I don't know what to say when u didn't reveal your age.

But I will advise u to get a job first.