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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by vickydevoka(m): 1:41am On Aug 22, 2020
Don't forget, Anything u do for a lady u ain't marry to u will lol later regret it.
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by vickydevoka(m): 1:42am On Aug 22, 2020
Don't forget, Anything u do for a lady u ain't marry to u will later regret it.
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by vickydevoka(m): 1:46am On Aug 22, 2020
victorian:
Exbanker u are not suppose to be labelled a human being!

So because of 50k u want to fucvkk two sisters for as long as u live!
God punish poverty!

What if u were mistakenly blessed like my boo, who has spent and doled out 3 million naira in a space of 8months of dating me, just splash and say Princess take, and make yourself happy?
And he is still deep in money.

What will u do? Exhume and Fucvkk my dead family resting their graves ?

I wonder the kind of wicked animal uv turned into?

Tell the ladies to contact me for the balance 50k!
What rubbish!

To hell with your miserable 50k!
Tufia!
U must be a princess then. Men de try for women Sha. I never hear say rich women give men money

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by vickydevoka(m): 1:49am On Aug 22, 2020
Nuttella:
Na Toto go kill them Las las
If him Bleep ashawo from January till December, 2 times every month change go remain for de 50k self

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by abdullahi45: 1:50am On Aug 22, 2020
End-time condition. Back off, that's a very repugnant one!
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by kolade560: 2:00am On Aug 22, 2020
its obvious she's after your money, she ain't into u. for such rule, u are a litu bit crazy.
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Kayglobal: 2:01am On Aug 22, 2020
I dnt think its a good idea bro,in the first place u've choosing a wrong partner,secondly you have.added pepper to your pain,you are.stepping on a very angry piton,yo7r decision is wrong,even if you did not mean it,they are coming back.for you bro,the money is what they need at this moment.butttt watch your back they are not com8ng bCk for good.
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Codes151(m): 2:05am On Aug 22, 2020
Hezzyluv:
But it is obvious that the girl don't love you, she sees you as her succour. If not, how will she be offended because u refuse to give her 7k after u have promised them 50k by month end?


I call your condition extreme rule grin

But seriously, run for your life before you bankrupt
u are sick in the head..
That girl n her sis need to avoid wicked people like you.

Your indeed disgusting
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by WoundedLamb: 2:14am On Aug 22, 2020
Just see how Nairaland boys are supporting all sorts of idiocies just because it's coming from a fellow man. We are quick to call ladies slay queens but encourage boys to be extremely dirty. It's your daughters that will bear it. OP, go ahead, if they really agree, I'd say all of you deserve one another. Just don't call it a relationship, it's business.
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Nobody: 2:14am On Aug 22, 2020
victorian:








Who are u, that I should explain myself to?

What have u achieved In this life?

How many properties do u have?

How many life's have u impacted positive influence on?

How far have u gone in your career?

If u can answer these questions wit admirably works to show for it, then I can welcome u into my prestigious class and answer your stupid questions .

WTF!


I can bet my balls that YOU are VERY POOR AND FROM A VERY POOR FAMILY!!!!!gringrin

Your replies oozes PENURYgringrin


If you are so BOLD and you claim to be RICH and have ALL these you have mentioned.

Then contact me on charleskem4@gmail.com!!!!

Let's compare, no room for tantrums!!!!

cc: lefulefu...I want flog poverty comot from this bitch headgringrin
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by ifeolamide00(m): 2:18am On Aug 22, 2020
Not too harsh man, you are the real Gee
just because you wanted to help them,
don't worry somehow,someone will repay you in your coin,some call it karma,
That's if your shits are even real
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Nobody: 2:20am On Aug 22, 2020
vickydevoka:

U must be a princess then. Men de try for women Sha. I never hear say rich women give men money


Don't be deceived and don't take this lady serious!!!

I am very sure even if she will be willing to pay that 50k for the lady....IT WILL NOT BE HER MONEYgringrin


Did you read the part where she said *She is Entitled to her bf money with boldness*gringrin

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Nobody: 2:29am On Aug 22, 2020
Reucy:


Lolzz. And you think is every lady that lives off on the income of a man.

Your headache sha, not mine




Then what CAN you offergrin grin


You better don't blow trumpetsgringrin
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Nobody: 2:32am On Aug 22, 2020
NkemChukwudi:


Ok dear but please look well as I am sure something is wrong somewhere. He may not be a politician but I am sure he is connected and accessing free money from the people’s treasury somehow.
A man dolling out 3m to you in 8 months is not normal in our country.
Take care!


You are taking this lady serious?gringrin


Anywayz, I have challenged her, she should contact me,,, let's compare!!
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by successity5(m): 2:44am On Aug 22, 2020
Are you sure you're okay ?
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Ghostmode2two(m): 2:49am On Aug 22, 2020
Baba you are super greedy kpekus wise. Why smash two sisters just because you want to help? Imagine that the elder sister is a better ring tone giver and performer, I am very sure that you go for the eldest and drop the one you once wanted. Life nor be so nah!!!
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by frozen70(f): 2:59am On Aug 22, 2020
ExBanker:
Nairalanders, I want you to judge if the conditions I gave this girl is okay or it is too much

I met this girl around June this years. I really liked her. As I was asking her out, I was always taking care of her. Buying her stuffs, giving her allowances and supporting her. Then the relationship started last month officially when we smashed. I continued to take good care of her. But note that before we officially started dating, she showed half interest. She wasn't really into the relationship. When we started dating, she showed same attitude.

Her much elder sister is a hair dresser. Like 7 years older. She lives with the sister. The sister shop is in one hidden corner. They hardly get customers. So both of them are always broke. I have being supporting them. This month, their rent is expiring. They intend to move to a better location. The new shop is N75k per year. My girlfriend asked me for support. I said I will give them N50k by August end. Since they were expecting N50k from me, they gathered all the money they have home and abroad and paid advance of N30,000 for the new shop to secure it. Last week, my girl asked me for N7k for something. I told her I don't have. I am gathering money for the N50k. It is a lie sha. the money is already there.

She then asked me to borrow her. She will pay me back. So I gave her. By weekend, she was acting funny. I told her I am tired of the relationship. She should forget it. It turned to quarrel. Then she left. We quarreled on phone till Monday. I think they felt bad that I am leaving out of the deal to help them secure the shop. On Monday, the sister called to quarrel with me too. Imagine.

After everything, today, my girlfriend called to apologize. I told her that I have forgiven her. But, for our relationship to continue, there is one condition. She asked me what condition. I told her that despite the fact I have being supporting her and her sister, both of them still had the gut to talk to me anyhow. I will only continue the relationship if I will be having sex with the 2 of them. She was shocked. She wanted to start talking nonsense. I told her to shut up and relay my condition to her sister. Let the sister call me to tell me if she agrees.

Is my condition too harsh or it is okay?

You acted well as a man from onset until you brought in that dirty condition of sleeping with both of them

That was where you lost it all

Since you are not afraid of your own life and safety, just inform one person among your family how you are digging your own grave
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by instinct57vm(m): 3:06am On Aug 22, 2020
ExBanker:
Nairalanders, I want you to judge if the conditions I gave this girl is okay or it is too much

I met this girl around June this years. I really liked her. As I was asking her out, I was always taking care of her. Buying her stuffs, giving her allowances and supporting her. Then the relationship started last month officially when we smashed. I continued to take good care of her. But note that before we officially started dating, she showed half interest. She wasn't really into the relationship. When we started dating, she showed same attitude.

Her much elder sister is a hair dresser. Like 7 years older. She lives with the sister. The sister shop is in one hidden corner. They hardly get customers. So both of them are always broke. I have being supporting them. This month, their rent is expiring. They intend to move to a better location. The new shop is N75k per year. My girlfriend asked me for support. I said I will give them N50k by August end. Since they were expecting N50k from me, they gathered all the money they have home and abroad and paid advance of N30,000 for the new shop to secure it. Last week, my girl asked me for N7k for something. I told her I don't have. I am gathering money for the N50k. It is a lie sha. the money is already there.

She then asked me to borrow her. She will pay me back. So I gave her. By weekend, she was acting funny. I told her I am tired of the relationship. She should forget it. It turned to quarrel. Then she left. We quarreled on phone till Monday. I think they felt bad that I am leaving out of the deal to help them secure the shop. On Monday, the sister called to quarrel with me too. Imagine.

After everything, today, my girlfriend called to apologize. I told her that I have forgiven her. But, for our relationship to continue, there is one condition. She asked me what condition. I told her that despite the fact I have being supporting her and her sister, both of them still had the gut to talk to me anyhow. I will only continue the relationship if I will be having sex with the 2 of them. She was shocked. She wanted to start talking nonsense. I told her to shut up and relay my condition to her sister. Let the sister call me to tell me if she agrees.

Is my condition too harsh or it is okay?

Your condition is not harsh, ladies that behave like that to you despite your support doesn’t deserve any iota of respect! Most Ladies function better under harsh conditions! Trust me I have met alot of them and I deal accordingly! Shey dem say dem dey mad abi. The best you can do for them as an alternative is continue straffing that idiot called your girl, but never visit them again! And never support her elder sister again!

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by BabbanBura(m): 3:11am On Aug 22, 2020
Ejenavi18:
Haba!

Op this your condition get as e be o.

I love your personal text and signature, nice one!
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by BabbanBura(m): 3:20am On Aug 22, 2020
Fawklicant:
It's unfortunate that you made them comit their life's savings to the new rent because of your 50k promise. It's even more unfortunate that you have no sense of self worth hence the demand you made.
One thing you need to realize is that hunger can make people do things they would not ordinarily do ab initio. That girl ordinarily would not stop low to the level of a scoundrel but the reality is that she did. She doesn't like you enough to date you, yes but if not for hunger games, she wouldn't even look at you twice.

What you are doing is taking advantage of her condition. Pray you don't find yourself in a position where your only available helper decides to use you.

Give them the 50k and move on with your life. That's the responsible thing to do.

Nice comment Bro
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Ategberoson(m): 3:26am On Aug 22, 2020
Simp forming Alpha male. alaye those two ashana Angels don chop you




you dey donate money to someone else girl friend as if you just returned from Jerusalem


in Dagrin's voice "emi ni mo ni girlfriend but awon ni toaster"


any guy that spend on a lady that haven't show commitment are all SIMP. foolish guys everywhere
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by oladiran2(m): 3:31am On Aug 22, 2020
To me it's the guy playing the lady irrespective of you supporting. Won't you support a lady you are dating if news arise in the first place? You are just greedy and don't love the lady but promiscuous to have such thoughts and you wanted to take advantage of their situation to blackmail them. To me I think you are blackmailing your gf all cos you knew they needed your help which should have come natural because you sha wont sleep with your sister so giving money to who you are dating shouldn't be an issue
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by mosaicafrique: 3:31am On Aug 22, 2020
It's not harsh at all, such girls will get to 45yrs still not married because they have scam their future husband and quarrel with them just the way they did to you
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Maobichek: 3:31am On Aug 22, 2020
JOACHINpedro:
episode what is this
. Please help me ask him oh! He is waisting his time, resources, energy and LIES too!

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by omoadeleye(m): 3:31am On Aug 22, 2020
ExBanker:
Nairalanders, I want you to judge if the conditions I gave this girl is okay or it is too much

I met this girl around June this years. I really liked her. As I was asking her out, I was always taking care of her. Buying her stuffs, giving her allowances and supporting her. Then the relationship started last month officially when we smashed. I continued to take good care of her. But note that before we officially started dating, she showed half interest. She wasn't really into the relationship. When we started dating, she showed same attitude.

Her much elder sister is a hair dresser. Like 7 years older. She lives with the sister. The sister shop is in one hidden corner. They hardly get customers. So both of them are always broke. I have being supporting them. This month, their rent is expiring. They intend to move to a better location. The new shop is N75k per year. My girlfriend asked me for support. I said I will give them N50k by August end. Since they were expecting N50k from me, they gathered all the money they have home and abroad and paid advance of N30,000 for the new shop to secure it. Last week, my girl asked me for N7k for something. I told her I don't have. I am gathering money for the N50k. It is a lie sha. the money is already there.

She then asked me to borrow her. She will pay me back. So I gave her. By weekend, she was acting funny. I told her I am tired of the relationship. She should forget it. It turned to quarrel. Then she left. We quarreled on phone till Monday. I think they felt bad that I am leaving out of the deal to help them secure the shop. On Monday, the sister called to quarrel with me too. Imagine.

After everything, today, my girlfriend called to apologize. I told her that I have forgiven her. But, for our relationship to continue, there is one condition. She asked me what condition. I told her that despite the fact I have being supporting her and her sister, both of them still had the gut to talk to me anyhow. I will only continue the relationship if I will be having sex with the 2 of them. She was shocked. She wanted to start talking nonsense. I told her to shut up and relay my condition to her sister. Let the sister call me to tell me if she agrees.

Is my condition too harsh or it is okay?



Bad man grin grin grin grin
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by MASTERMIND04(m): 3:58am On Aug 22, 2020
MJBOLT:
I'm sure you have spent close to 100k on your babe alone in less than 3 months,add her sister so you can spend close to 500k undecided

Una think say sex na everything
Lol
I tire o, money wey him suppose use do better thing grin
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Mac2016(m): 4:18am On Aug 22, 2020
I smell no love in this.. Two foolish youngsters + one stupid sister
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by NaijaOlosho(f): 4:21am On Aug 22, 2020
So just because if small cash of 50k you dey insult these ladies

You are the biggest fool in 2020

You are not just matured at all, this is a childish act.

Let me tell you, in this life no condition is permanent, because you are aware of their current situation and problem you choose to mock them.

God is not happy with this kind of behavior.

Remember no condition is permanent. You can help someone today and you get bigger help from same people tomorrow

If you have the money just keep to your promise.

Send to them and still move on to end the relationship

Exbanker
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Iandavis21(m): 4:23am On Aug 22, 2020
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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by lekonso: 4:24am On Aug 22, 2020
You a very very very wicked soul. You are gambling with your life abi. You better receive Jesus into your life. If you have a daughter and somebody wants to do that to her will you be happy?

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