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noriene:
the moment he graduated from whatsaping his ex to now calling her in my presence . im left alone with his little baby now 7 months. some say he was spiritually controlled by ex

stay strong sweetheart

I really don’t know cos he has always cheated and so much more....


The motherf***er nah NEPA on and off.
I realized I deserved better then I Quietly walked away. Ended up paying bills all alone for 5years now with our lil girl. It’s hurt badly taking care of her all by myself without a penny from him. Got to move on. Irony of life!! Shit happens!!!!

She’s my universe no absolute regret
For my daughter’s sake I forgive him because love is forgiveness and sacrifice.

Slimsly100:
Omo! Na shock I shock the guy Las Las. I had been heartbroken before and I almost died(my mum and friend were my godsent) so I didn't want to experience such again. Though I loved the new guy and we dated for almost four years. But in the third year he started to jonce, I approached him severally and he boldly told me he had 3women in his life and each had his purpose. When I ask what my purpose was, he gave me the silent treatment. After thinking about how he had been disrespectful to me and so many things, I pulled myself together and moved on without even telling him.
The next thing he heard was that I was getting married

@bold This happened how long after the whole brouhaha?

bigdammyj:
Had only 1 child who is 5 now. So, after much pleading & persuasion because I really want my daughter to have a sister or brother from same parent.
She's pregnant now. It's been hell loving & living with someone who doesn't have feelings for you.

You're simply right

bigdammyj:
8 months into our marriage and we're six years now still living together though, but no love

were u both forced? Why no love up till now. Scary

pcguru1:
Am interested what happened and how do you guys relate ?

Believe it Bro, we just leaving like two (not friends) people sharing apartment

UyaiIncomparabl:
Nope. Should be the other way round. Stop churning BS advice to suit your gender.

He is correct, a woman should love more, most women cheat emotionally, most men cheat without emotions. Once a woman cheats that way, she can even plan to kill the husband, or drain him or destabilize him to be wit that person.

I am the one that always grow cold in all my relationships so let me sit down and school you ladies ...


Try get sense


Be hardworking.


Sex is not everything, think of business ideas and work hard to create something.

Act like a lady and think like a man! Yeah!

I'm such a lucky guy. I don't think I've even been dumped.

Eghavribiee:
When she stopped giving me sex

You are a dammm Niggger

The day she invited a male friend to sleep over at her place, we lived two one compound apart, and I saw them holding hands and kissing on the road, I broke up with her in my mind, continued with aggressive Knacking until I got tired.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Nope. Should be the other way round. Stop churning BS advice to suit your gender.

He is correct, a woman should love more, most women cheat emotionally, most men cheat without emotions. Once a woman cheats that way, she can even plan to kill the husband, or drain him or destabilize him to be wit that person. Only a woman can bring another man belly dash another man, lock up, person go dey train Pikin for years, that’s how one man 4 kids no be him own, but man if he give another girl belly, he know say na him, women are deceitful are just emotional specie that’s why devil was able to deceive Eve, if the story true

Klass99:
I am not Nengi and character never hides itself, it always shows. I've been described as difficult and hard to please. So, if I say someone has a good character from assessments made, based on continuous interaction with them, you best believe me.

What I liked about Nengi was that, with all her beauty she wasn't arrogant or self conceited. She was in her prime with loads of boys/men chasing her but she maintained a level head, pleasant and decent persona.

Guy las las just say, you no get anything to talk and don't try to spin this around as ''only the people in a relationship knows who has good character'' People outside of a relationship can tell good character too.

Being friend with someone is different from having relationships with that person. Marriage is even different from relationships. You only can tell of a couple characters when they live together. It may not be character but compatibility issues. There are so much compatibilities that are unseen to outsiders - communication skills, cooking, bedroom skills, bodily feels(warm or cold), cleanliness, house chore energy, inner satisfaction, relationships with other family members etc

tegrianonigltd:
He is correct, a woman should love more, most women cheat emotionally, most men cheat without emotions. Once a woman cheats that way, she can even plan to kill the husband, or drain him or destabilize him to be wit that person.

Exactly. Any one who has proper relationship experience will tell you that na woman suppose love more, more especially in this Nigeria where women tend to fraud guys in relationship.

bigdammyj:
Believe it Bro, we just leaving like two (not friends) people sharing apartment

Both of you should go for counseling

Attraction can and does grow over time.

Uyi168:
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It's obvious u are new to the relationship game..
Hot premium tears awaits u still..

Hahaa!!!

Premium tears ke!!

Shanu ee!!! (have mercy on him).

This is a very deep thread, I just pray people’s homes will be restored.

I still love her though, but can’t say the same for her.

When she decided to sneak into my chat was when the trouble started and right from then her love has dropped beyond 50%

We were watching Black Panther on my phone one night and I slept off, when she noticed I was far gone asleep she opened my whatsapp nd messenger and read my messages.

The one that got her badly was the one a girl was confessing that she has never had it the way I gave it to her the previous day, that the f**k was "hot and sweet", my lovely wife started saying everything in this world to me.

I couldn't even say a word, she cried and I just closed my eyes pretending I was sleeping.

Since then, hmmm! Its four months now and it has not been as it used to even as I have repented.

Jazz will not get you if you have not been walk in the path where it will easily get you. He must have bee. having something to do with the ugly lady, maybe wanted to chop and clean mouth, and that one just did a fast one on him by way of jazz or whatever.

Klass99:
My classmate's story when we were @ University. I'll call her Nengi because she was just as hot as the BBN housemate (if not hotter sef)

Nengi was dating a working class guy off campus and would often visit him at his crib, she had some of her stuff at his place as well. She visited one weekend and all her stuff were gone (clothing, toiletries, etc) When she asked where her things were, dude said his crib had been broken into and the thieves made away with her things.

Thieves broke in but somehow only her things were missing! This was the first sign that things weren't right but none of us saw, what was to come. Mike (not his real name) did a 360 degree turn afterwards and started dating one of Nengi's close friends and eventually married her. I don't think they did proper marriage rites cos Nengi's friend got pregnant and moved in with Mike (not his real name) I hear they are still living as man and wife, several years later.

Nengi was devastated because she truly loved Mike and wasn't playing games on him, she also had a good character as far as, I could tell. So, I didn't understand the switch he made either. The shocker for me was the friend he went for. Adams Oshiomole will best describe the girl he ended up with.

Mike had proposed to Nengi prior to all this drama and if I remember correctly, he had gone to see her parents about his intentions. Some people say jazz was involved. I didn't know what to think back then or even now, except, fear men

phazotron:
Exactly. Any one who has proper relationship experience will tell you that na woman suppose love more, more especially in this Nigeria where women tend to fraud guys in relationship.

If woman love you, you don’t need to impress her, you don’t need to do extraordinaries, that’s why you see a woman can be fucking boy wey no reach you self with the money wey man dey give her. Women need to love man more. Men can have gf outside and still respect their wife, but if woman start to Dey collect penis outside, forget it, that marriage is over, that relationship is under duress

LastProphet:
Attraction never lasts forever, the hot love cools down over time and you become like relatives, is as simple as that. Anyone telling you anything different is a joker looking for gullible fans. Spouse don't stop loving you, they just get used to you and it's not a crime. Only Hollywood film marriages last forever

Dat one na old Hollywood films.

In the new Hollywood romance films, they break up midway between the flicks, giving their partners, like my good friend up there said, "hot premium tears".

tegrianonigltd:
If woman love you, you don’t need to impress her, you don’t need to do extraordinaries, that’s why you see a woman can be fucking boy wey no reach you self with the money wey man dey give her. Women need to love man more. Men can have gf outside and still respect their wife, but if woman start to Dey collect penis outside, forget it, that marriage is over, that relationship is under duress

Na so nau. Because of their manipulative and opportunistic nature na woman suppose love man more in the marriage.

Emmanuelhector:
stay strong sweetheart

thank you sir . im with my parents now . trying my best not let it get into me

emkz:
Love is eternal. A mother never stops loving her children and God never stops loving us. So let's be careful before we throw words around.

Oga this your statement is false, others are half-truths. Mothers stop loving their children all the time for various reasons. God had some nations/individuals destroyed. As for the other, what if u truly love someone who just can’t fulfill a certain need. What if u, say, love a woman without a cunt??

staymore:
When she decided to sneak into my chat was when the trouble started and right from then her love has dropped beyond 50%

We were watching Black Panther on my phone one night and I slept off, when she noticed I was far gone asleep she opened my whatsapp nd messenger and read my messages.

The one that got her badly was the one a girl was confessing that she has never had it the way I gave it to her the previous day, that the f**k was "hot and sweet", my lovely wife started saying everything in this world to me.

I couldn't even say a word, she cried and I just closed my eyes pretending I was sleeping.

Since then, hmmm! Its four months now and it has not been as it used to even as I have repented.

U sef why u fuckup? Na una type of man they put other men for wahala now women go dey act anyhow.

Klass99:
My classmate's story when we were @ University. I'll call her Nengi because she was just as hot as the BBN housemate (if not hotter sef)

Nengi was dating a working class guy off campus and would often visit him at his crib, she had some of her stuff at his place as well. She visited one weekend and all her stuff were gone (clothing, toiletries, etc) When she asked where her things were, dude said his crib had been broken into and the thieves made away with her things.

Thieves broke in but somehow only her things were missing! This was the first sign that things weren't right but none of us saw, what was to come. Mike (not his real name) did a 360 degree turn afterwards and started dating one of Nengi's close friends and eventually married her. I don't think they did proper marriage rites cos Nengi's friend got pregnant and moved in with Mike (not his real name) I hear they are still living as man and wife, several years later.

Nengi was devastated because she truly loved Mike and wasn't playing games on him, she also had a good character as far as, I could tell. So, I didn't understand the switch he made either. The shocker for me was the friend he went for. Adams Oshiomole will best describe the girl he ended up with.

Mike had proposed to Nengi prior to all this drama and if I remember correctly, he had gone to see her parents about his intentions. Some people say jazz was involved. I didn't know what to think back then or even now, except, fear men

This beats me!

dingbang:
Marry a woman who loves you more

I hope you won't mistake desperation for love.
Some women can act pass Genevieve.

When bitch started picking quarrels / started avoiding being intimate with me... Damn! The memories are better imagined...
# A ROUTE I NEVER WANT TO PLY AGAIN...
.. The bitch unleashed the beast mode in me,

Though She's now married with kids , she won't just let me be, she's been incessantly seeking for a SEXCAPADE with me but
Unfortunately for her, I DON'T do married women and
I DON'T GO BACK TO MY VOMIT,.... NEVER!

judedwriter:
I discovered that to truly love someone of the opposite sex, you must be good platonic (non sexual) friends for at least 1 year!

Dating is a SCAM! The sooner people know, the better for them.

The bolded makes sense. Can you expatiate? Would like to know more (from your perspective/discovery.)

CanadaOrBust:
Oga this your statement is false, others are half-truths. Mothers stop loving their children all the time for various reasons. God had some nations/individuals destroyed

I am not in the business of convincing anyone. I make my piece and if someone is interested in refuting within reason, we can discuss and learn from each other, shake hands and move on. With your fixated mindset, you won't understand even if I explain to you that punishment is a manifestation of true love. Let's leave it at that until you can puncture my points with well reasoned and mature arguments. Then we can discuss.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Nope. Should be the other way round. Stop churning BS advice to suit your gender.

Don't mind him.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
You will be fine. Just know what you want in life.

thanks im gradually getting over it, even though it has haualted my job fending for the baby has not been easy. it is well .