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Re: When Did You Realize Your Spouse Stopped Loving You? by dazzlingd(m): 6:17pm On Aug 23, 2020
Whem she started cheating and stopped appreciating anything I did for her

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Re: When Did You Realize Your Spouse Stopped Loving You? by shegunmessi(m): 6:18pm On Aug 23, 2020
SPOLO:
When she start missing my calls without trying to flash nor call me back..

Last one as i notice i just stopped communicating too na so e end...

Dx days she still say Hi sha ....
The same thing applicable to me
This life is somehow
Re: When Did You Realize Your Spouse Stopped Loving You? by Tokenism: 6:18pm On Aug 23, 2020
Klass99:


What choice do any of us have in such a situation, except to move on? You wan kill the betrayers before? cheesy

Nengi is married now with kids of her own, but she told me years later that, that was her first and last heartbreak ever. She was the one breaking hearts afterwards. grin

As for Adams Oshiomole's lookalike and her cookies, I won't completely rule out jazz like others said. I wasn't exaggerating when I said she looks like Adams, she has his stature (short and masculine) with a slightly better looking face than Adams though.

What would make a man in his right thinking mind to give up a Nengi for Adams, if not jazz? grin

Smile...
Re: When Did You Realize Your Spouse Stopped Loving You? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 6:19pm On Aug 23, 2020
tegrianonigltd:


He is correct, a woman should love more, most women cheat emotionally, most men cheat without emotions. Once a woman cheats that way, she can even plan to kill the husband, or drain him or destabilize him to be wit that person. Only a woman can bring another man belly dash another man, lock up, person go dey train Pikin for years, that’s how one man 4 kids no be him own, but man if he give another girl belly, he know say na him, women are deceitful are just emotional specie that’s why devil was able to deceive Eve, if the story true

I'm sorry, but I do not agree. smiley
Re: When Did You Realize Your Spouse Stopped Loving You? by Fxwarrior: 6:19pm On Aug 23, 2020
bigdammyj:
8 months into our marriage and we're six years now still living together though, but no love

More like flatmates. That's terrible.

Can't you guys sort it out or or is it ego?
Re: When Did You Realize Your Spouse Stopped Loving You? by Pearly255(f): 6:21pm On Aug 23, 2020
dave4rella:
shocked

The day she invited a male friend to sleep over at her place, we lived two one compound apart, and I saw them holding hands and kissing on the road, I broke up with her in my mind, continued with aggressive Knacking until I got tired.

grin grin grin I can imagine
Re: When Did You Realize Your Spouse Stopped Loving You? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 6:23pm On Aug 23, 2020
austinofo:

That's no bs but facts

I follow the Bible's rule to marriage. I don't know about you. So, leave me to my facts.

A man should love the woman more, and that is a FACT!

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Re: When Did You Realize Your Spouse Stopped Loving You? by Tokenism: 6:26pm On Aug 23, 2020
Klass99:


I am not Nengi and character never hides itself, it always shows. I've been described as difficult and hard to please. So, if I say someone has a good character from assessments made, based on continuous interaction with them, you best believe me.

What I liked about Nengi was that, with all her beauty she wasn't arrogant or self conceited. She was in her prime with loads of boys/men chasing her but she maintained a level head, pleasant and decent persona.

Guy las las just say, you no get anything to talk and don't try to spin this around as ''only the people in a relationship knows who has good character'' People outside of a relationship can tell good character too.

Beauty and good character usually not found in one person (women). Possible though, but very rare.

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Re: When Did You Realize Your Spouse Stopped Loving You? by neonbash0: 6:26pm On Aug 23, 2020
joseph1832:
Is there really love in the first place?

This question is what many Nigerians don't even bother to ask themselves before entering into a relationship. They forget Love usually isn't enough to sustain relationships, if ever the people involve really do Love themselves to begin with.

For me, rather than Love, I believe it's interest. Most relationships are base on interest, not Love, especially from the woman and if or when that interest isn't feasible anymore, they start showing those repulsive signs.

So the truth of it all is (if you truly love) the girl or guy should try and make sure their interest in the relationship (marriage) doesn't die out. Period.
Re: When Did You Realize Your Spouse Stopped Loving You? by Mart1994(m): 6:26pm On Aug 23, 2020
Queenoffucks:
One night stand, baby.�

Fvck love
Fvck Relationships
Fvck you reading this
And if you support APC, fvck you too
If Buhari is your president, fvck you too.
I went through your posts, all I was seeing was fvck fvck fvck.

What brand of weed do you smoke please?



Queenoffucks
Re: When Did You Realize Your Spouse Stopped Loving You? by favour32(m): 6:26pm On Aug 23, 2020
dingbang:
Marry a woman who loves you more wink
That na the answer if you men wan enjoy this short life.
Nor die for any woman.

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Re: When Did You Realize Your Spouse Stopped Loving You? by Emotionss: 6:29pm On Aug 23, 2020
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pythondance2020:


Yeah a lot of relationships end this way.
I once had a female friend who had just met a guy living abroad from her village during the Christmas period and spontaneously started the marriage process with him (introduction).
She was still a student in her final year at the time. She confided in me that she was going to go back to school and start an argument with her school boyfriend whom she had been dating for almost 4 years. The plan was to use that argument as an excuse to break up within a month. Needless to say, the plan worked and she is now married and living with the the new guy abroad whom she never really had a relationship with and barely knew.
That gave me an insight into how some people choose to bring a relationship to an end. I see it as cold but that is sometimes the world we live in.

Story of my life once upon a time.

That event made me emotionally unavailable when it comes to relationships.

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Re: When Did You Realize Your Spouse Stopped Loving You? by malele(m): 6:32pm On Aug 23, 2020
UyaiIncomparabl:


Nope. Should be the other way round. Stop churning BS advice to suit your gender.

This babe u fine , I Dey find Wify o

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Re: When Did You Realize Your Spouse Stopped Loving You? by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 6:34pm On Aug 23, 2020
toscolee:








You are aging too, the people around you are probably too polite to tell you.
Old age is our collective destiny.
The last time I checked I didn't quote you, crawl back into your hole..

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Re: When Did You Realize Your Spouse Stopped Loving You? by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 6:35pm On Aug 23, 2020
UyaiIncomparabl:


I follow the Bible's rule to marriage. I don't know about you. So, leave me to my facts.

A man should love the woman more, and that is a FACT!
Why are you getting old and extra ugly

seems you don't eat good food.

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Re: When Did You Realize Your Spouse Stopped Loving You? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 6:36pm On Aug 23, 2020
Ikillbrokehoes:
Why are you getting old and extra ugly

seems you don't eat good food.

Ask your ancestral gods.

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Re: When Did You Realize Your Spouse Stopped Loving You? by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 6:36pm On Aug 23, 2020
UyaiIncomparabl:


I'm sorry, but I do not agree. smiley
No wonder you are getting old and ugly, you need love.

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Re: When Did You Realize Your Spouse Stopped Loving You? by maisauki: 6:43pm On Aug 23, 2020
Beckham14:
I see it as stupidity...No need for the attitude or pretence. Just say you don't want anymore, it's really that simple.

The sooner you realize that men and women are different, the normal your BP will be
Men process thought
Women process feelings lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Re: When Did You Realize Your Spouse Stopped Loving You? by dingbang(m): 6:43pm On Aug 23, 2020
UyaiIncomparabl:


Even with that, you still go on every thread writing "I am looking for a wife between the ages of 21-27. grin. One would think that with your badass style of how you grew cold on your girls, more girls will come kneeling at your presence asking for marriage, but shamefully, it's the other way round.

How ironic for a self-acclaimed relationship counselor and NL Alpha male to go that low, after you grew cold on each of them.

Everyone is now a relationship counselor these days. cheesy
hahahaha... Your opinion still dont matter sweetheart.

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Re: When Did You Realize Your Spouse Stopped Loving You? by Iceyjayzz(m): 6:44pm On Aug 23, 2020
Deborah98:
Once you stop loving me,I kukuma stop too,how do you expect me to be wasting my love,but I like attention too grin
Shut up there, which reasonable person will love someone like you? fake virgin.
Re: When Did You Realize Your Spouse Stopped Loving You? by Fxwarrior: 6:45pm On Aug 23, 2020
noriene:
the moment he graduated from whatsaping his ex to now calling her in my presence . im left alone with his little baby now 7 months. some say he was spiritually controlled by ex

Do you still wish to get married to someone someday?
Re: When Did You Realize Your Spouse Stopped Loving You? by tegrianonigltd(m): 6:45pm On Aug 23, 2020
UyaiIncomparabl:


I'm sorry, but I do not agree. smiley



If woman love you, you don’t need to impress her, you don’t need to do extraordinaries, that’s why you see a woman can be fucking boy wey no reach you self with the money wey man dey give her. Women need to love man more. Men can have gf outside and still respect their wife, but if woman start to Dey collect penis outside, forget it, that marriage is over, that relationship is under duress

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Re: When Did You Realize Your Spouse Stopped Loving You? by Peace666: 6:49pm On Aug 23, 2020
Omotaday:
Have you carried out a DNA test or you are still waiting?


Its so clear. The child looks so much like my former landlord. I strongly think they danced azonto together.

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Re: When Did You Realize Your Spouse Stopped Loving You? by Fxwarrior: 6:49pm On Aug 23, 2020
MISSCONGENIALITY:
They don't want platonic love. Not even for a minute. They all want to go wild with sex and do explore each other sexually so fast that the fire goes out faster that it started.
That's why you see two people claiming to be dating each other for 3yrs but yet are complete strangers.
k

Is this coming from personal experience?

I can sense you are still hurting but you need to forgive yourself and start living again.

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Re: When Did You Realize Your Spouse Stopped Loving You? by CanadaOrBust: 6:50pm On Aug 23, 2020
UyaiIncomparabl:


Nope. Should be the other way round. Stop churning BS advice to suit your gender.

judedwriter:


Yes, a man should love a woman more in courtship or marriage. The Bible even enjoins it.

The man is head and should shoulder more responsibility in handling a relationship.

Many marriages fail when the woman takes the man's role.

Ok , let’s look at it this way: if the man does not love the woman, she’s still sure the children are her’s.
If the woman does not love the man, he’s not sure the children are his.

Which do u think is better?

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Re: When Did You Realize Your Spouse Stopped Loving You? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 6:55pm On Aug 23, 2020
Fxwarrior:
k

Is this coming from personal experience?

I can sense you are still hurting but you need to forgive yourself and start living again.
I'm living my live and there's no hurting.
Re: When Did You Realize Your Spouse Stopped Loving You? by Hathor5(f): 6:55pm On Aug 23, 2020
Reading the answers on this thread can make anyone totally lose trust in relationships/marriage.

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Re: When Did You Realize Your Spouse Stopped Loving You? by GboyegaD(m): 6:58pm On Aug 23, 2020
sisisioge:


grin grin grin

Good to know. Really do not want to blow my cover...but I will tell her I chatted you. Enjoy.

Trying to think of who knows my username and has a five letter name that starts with B.
Re: When Did You Realize Your Spouse Stopped Loving You? by Fxwarrior: 6:58pm On Aug 23, 2020
MISSCONGENIALITY:
I'm living my live and there's no hurting.

Well, that was what my spirit told me. I have delivered my message.


Stay blessed.
Re: When Did You Realize Your Spouse Stopped Loving You? by Offpoint: 6:58pm On Aug 23, 2020
Deborah98:
that's nice undecided
Are you single too? Let's get married.

Re: When Did You Realize Your Spouse Stopped Loving You? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 6:59pm On Aug 23, 2020
Fxwarrior:


Well, that was what my spirit told me. I have delivered my message.


Stay blessed.
Lol
Have a beautiful evening.

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Re: When Did You Realize Your Spouse Stopped Loving You? by Dreyton36: 7:01pm On Aug 23, 2020
This one go sweet , make i book space sharply

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