Tra6ix:
Good evening my fellow nairalanders
I'm not new here, I just created a new account to hide my identity for few reasons.
There is this guy in my class (final year) who have been shooting his shots at me since our 300 level first semester but I turned him down. He is tall, slim, fair in complexion with a dimple I love especially when he smiles. I turned him down the first time because I thought he doesn't have any plans for his future, I looked down on him then but when this lockdown started, I realized he has a bright future ahead, he has great plans for the future. Although I started falling for him after rejecting him last year, my friends didn't like him, they made me believe that he is too low for my standard.
We stopped chatting, we only viewed each others status on whatsapp that's all. During the lockdown, I lost someone so dear to me and the people I thought would stand by me never did, but when this guy realized that I lost someone, he started comforting me, he called and texted me at least twice daily aside from the chats on whatsapp, he even visited me, he made me get over the death, we became best of friends and I guess he was still feeling something for me, he started shooting his shots again but I pretended it was a normal thing, I was already in a relationship with a guy I am still regretting ever accepting as my boyfriend. When he (the guy, not my boyfriend) was tired of giving me signs that he still loves me, he told me that he love me and that he couldn't continue keeping it to himself, I told him I will think about it but I can't promise him anything, he reduced the chats, he stopped sending me the love poems and he finally stopped calling or sending me texts. I love him, I just wanted him to be a little bit patient with me. I have made many enquiries about him, he is from a good home, he is even an exco in the school SUG, he makes research and writes alot, I've read some of his research work and some of his stories. I have been monitoring him on whatsapp to see if he is already taken but it seems he is still single. Please how do I tell him how I feel for him, I am dying daily, I need him, I love him seriously. He once posted a happy birthday poem he wrote for one of our coursemate and I felt so jealous. I have tried to chat him up but he is not giving me that vibe and energy he gave me then. Please advice me on how to go about this. Please mods help me push this to front page

You are a very stupid creature and that guy is a very big disgrace to manhood. You can't even construct your words well. I'm just wondering when Nigerian guys will start having sense. When will guys start reasoning like the likes of ubunja and skepticus? We are the ones that make these worthless creatures feel like goddesses. Stories like this irritate me. Gosh!!!!!!

you know what. a suggestion . Go to youtube search for a channel name Eunice Shalom. and watch the emotional one. you ll gget better

Tra6ix:
I don't want to look cheap

So you're keeping your pride whilst hurting his. Daft creature!

You are a very manipulative bitch
He told you he had feelings for you,but you were playing hard to get so as not to look cheap

The guy gave up on you and moved on,now you want to tie him down yet,you don't want to tell him you have feelings for him
Seriously ehn i wish I can just see you now and put 6 live termites into your Pussy

Another Hoe Laments

rottencorpse:

You are a very stupid creature and that guy is a very big disgrace to manhood. You can't even construct your words well. I'm just wondering when Nigerian guys will start having sense. When will guys start reasoning like the likes of ubunja and skepticus? We are the ones that make these worthless creatures feel like goddesses. Stories like this irritate me. Gosh!!!!!!

ethicallyright:


If you are a final year student in ABU Zaria , fair , tall , with dimples and a member of the Student Union who comforted a girl during the lockdown period, come and carry this girl now .

..werey

he had shoot his shot but you declined it and as a guy wey get focus locked up, it's now time for you to shoot your own shot



in Joeboy's voice "don't call me back" yeyenatu



imagine how someone that stick with you when you're going through emotional trauma don't get your attention, you had a relationship that you're regretting about? many sane mind knows you ladies love fúck boys and like to be used

odinson1:
You are a very manipulative bitch
He told you he had feelings for you,but you were playing hard to get so as not to look cheap

The guy gave up on you and moved on,now you want to tie him down yet,you don't want to tell him you have feelings for him

Seriously ehn i wish I can just see you now and put 6 live termites into your Pussy

Tra6ix:

You don't really know what I am passing through

Meet Labake, the first girl to say "You don't really know what I am passing through" in 2020.

Tra6ix:
Good evening my fellow nairalanders
I'm not new here, I just created a new account to hide my identity for few reasons.
There is this guy in my class (final year) who have been shooting his shots at me since our 300 level first semester but I turned him down. He is tall, slim, fair in complexion with a dimple I love especially when he smiles. I turned him down the first time because I thought he doesn't have any plans for his future, I looked down on him then but when this lockdown started, I realized he has a bright future ahead, he has great plans for the future. Although I started falling for him after rejecting him last year, my friends didn't like him, they made me believe that he is too low for my standard.
We stopped chatting, we only viewed each others status on whatsapp that's all. During the lockdown, I lost someone so dear to me and the people I thought would stand by me never did, but when this guy realized that I lost someone, he started comforting me, he called and texted me at least twice daily aside from the chats on whatsapp, he even visited me, he made me get over the death, we became best of friends and I guess he was still feeling something for me, he started shooting his shots again but I pretended it was a normal thing, I was already in a relationship with a guy I am still regretting ever accepting as my boyfriend. When he (the guy, not my boyfriend) was tired of giving me signs that he still loves me, he told me that he love me and that he couldn't continue keeping it to himself, I told him I will think about it but I can't promise him anything, he reduced the chats, he stopped sending me the love poems and he finally stopped calling or sending me texts. I love him, I just wanted him to be a little bit patient with me. I have made many enquiries about him, he is from a good home, he is even an exco in the school SUG, he makes research and writes alot, I've read some of his research work and some of his stories. I have been monitoring him on whatsapp to see if he is already taken but it seems he is still single. Please how do I tell him how I feel for him, I am dying daily, I need him, I love him seriously. He once posted a happy birthday poem he wrote for one of our coursemate and I felt so jealous. I have tried to chat him up but he is not giving me that vibe and energy he gave me then. Please advice me on how to go about this. Please mods help me push this to front page

Communication is key, you should be telling him everything you are telling us here

If you don't act fast, you ll lose him. These days, no guy is ready for girls drama. Be simple, open and direct.

Start calling him... Call him endlessly...
He will see d greenlight in due time...

Btw he mayn't love u d way he used to... In DAT case, u may be simply used and dumped

women are very cheap nowadays....what a generation ;Dwomen are very cheap nowadays....what a generation

Tra6ix:

I don't want to look cheap

Heehee... look at thiswan oo u will die cheap when another sharp n willing babe scoops him.off the market upon all ur dulling u still dey reason like this? Na regret get u las las

He shot so you continue shooting

Ategberoson:
he had shoot his shot but you declined it and as a guy wey get focus locked up, it's now time for you to shoot your own shot



in Joeboy's voice "don't call me back" yeyenatu



imagine how someone that stick with you when you're going through emotional trauma don't get your attention, you had a relationship that you're regretting about? many sane mind knows you ladies love fúck boys and like to be used

I didn't want to cause a break up with my boyfriend, I wanted him to cause the break up

femi4:
Communication is key, you should be telling him everything you are telling us here

If you don't act fast, you ll lose him. These days, no guy is ready for girls drama. Be simple, open and direct.

Thank you

women are so stupid

You still have his numbers. This is payback time. You should set pride aside. Reciprocate all the care and attention he gave you.
Consistently send texts or chat him up maybe twice in a week. Don't throw yourself in his face. Just send one or two lines of how are you, just checking on you stuff. That's ok. The purpose is to create some sort of presence in his space. If he still desires you, he'll make sure it goes beyond that. Honestly, it's not your duty to push.

Whatever you want go for yourself, go for it. If this doesn't work, it means he has moved on . And if he has moved on, trust me you don't want a one-sided relationship. Just move on too. You'd have learned a lesson. Good luck!

Things ladies do id what makes some guys a beast....

Lotel:
CONFUSED HUMAN BEING!!!

She's not confused
Guys, we need to cut these ladies some slack
We guys observe ladies for like 3months or more before even approaching her but when we do we want her to accept in 2days
Let the lady some air to decide.
Aunty, just tell him you really like him but he should give you 3/6months to reply while you guys can be friends.
Give him updates if stuffs about him you like or things he does you admire, this will help his waiting time
Encourage each other and the friendship will grow better

Tra6ix:
Good evening my fellow nairalanders
I'm not new here, I just created a new account to hide my identity for few reasons.
There is this guy in my class (final year) who have been shooting his shots at me since our 300 level first semester but I turned him down. He is tall, slim, fair in complexion with a dimple I love especially when he smiles. I turned him down the first time because I thought he doesn't have any plans for his future, I looked down on him then but when this lockdown started, I realized he has a bright future ahead, he has great plans for the future. Although I started falling for him after rejecting him last year, my friends didn't like him, they made me believe that he is too low for my standard.
We stopped chatting, we only viewed each others status on whatsapp that's all. During the lockdown, I lost someone so dear to me and the people I thought would stand by me never did, but when this guy realized that I lost someone, he started comforting me, he called and texted me at least twice daily aside from the chats on whatsapp, he even visited me, he made me get over the death, we became best of friends and I guess he was still feeling something for me, he started shooting his shots again but I pretended it was a normal thing, I was already in a relationship with a guy I am still regretting ever accepting as my boyfriend. When he (the guy, not my boyfriend) was tired of giving me signs that he still loves me, he told me that he love me and that he couldn't continue keeping it to himself, I told him I will think about it but I can't promise him anything, he reduced the chats, he stopped sending me the love poems and he finally stopped calling or sending me texts. I love him, I just wanted him to be a little bit patient with me. I have made many enquiries about him, he is from a good home, he is even an exco in the school SUG, he makes research and writes alot, I've read some of his research work and some of his stories. I have been monitoring him on whatsapp to see if he is already taken but it seems he is still single. Please how do I tell him how I feel for him, I am dying daily, I need him, I love him seriously. He once posted a happy birthday poem he wrote for one of our coursemate and I felt so jealous. I have tried to chat him up but he is not giving me that vibe and energy he gave me then. Please advice me on how to go about this. Please mods help me push this to front page

Small Girl forming Standards, No Shiloh this Year

Tra6ix:
Good evening my fellow nairalanders
I'm not new here, I just created a new account to hide my identity for few reasons.
There is this guy in my class (final year) who have been shooting his shots at me since our 300 level first semester but I turned him down. He is tall, slim, fair in complexion with a dimple I love especially when he smiles. I turned him down the first time because I thought he doesn't have any plans for his future, I looked down on him then but when this lockdown started, I realized he has a bright future ahead, he has great plans for the future. Although I started falling for him after rejecting him last year, my friends didn't like him, they made me believe that he is too low for my standard.
We stopped chatting, we only viewed each others status on whatsapp that's all. During the lockdown, I lost someone so dear to me and the people I thought would stand by me never did, but when this guy realized that I lost someone, he started comforting me, he called and texted me at least twice daily aside from the chats on whatsapp, he even visited me, he made me get over the death, we became best of friends and I guess he was still feeling something for me, he started shooting his shots again but I pretended it was a normal thing, I was already in a relationship with a guy I am still regretting ever accepting as my boyfriend. When he (the guy, not my boyfriend) was tired of giving me signs that he still loves me, he told me that he love me and that he couldn't continue keeping it to himself, I told him I will think about it but I can't promise him anything, he reduced the chats, he stopped sending me the love poems and he finally stopped calling or sending me texts. I love him, I just wanted him to be a little bit patient with me. I have made many enquiries about him, he is from a good home, he is even an exco in the school SUG, he makes research and writes alot, I've read some of his research work and some of his stories. I have been monitoring him on whatsapp to see if he is already taken but it seems he is still single. Please how do I tell him how I feel for him, I am dying daily, I need him, I love him seriously. He once posted a happy birthday poem he wrote for one of our coursemate and I felt so jealous. I have tried to chat him up but he is not giving me that vibe and energy he gave me then. Please advice me on how to go about this. Please mods help me push this to front page

1)Why now?
2)It seems the friends you keep are the unserious type change your association.
Be his friend first don't rush it cos if the way you describe him is true such a guy would want a girl that can add to his life and not just sex so what are you bringing to the table.

Tra6ix:
Good evening my fellow nairalanders
I'm not new here, I just created a new account to hide my identity for few reasons.
There is this guy in my class (final year) who have been shooting his shots at me since our 300 level first semester but I turned him down. He is tall, slim, fair in complexion with a dimple I love especially when he smiles. I turned him down the first time because I thought he doesn't have any plans for his future, I looked down on him then but when this lockdown started, I realized he has a bright future ahead, he has great plans for the future. Although I started falling for him after rejecting him last year, my friends didn't like him, they made me believe that he is too low for my standard.
We stopped chatting, we only viewed each others status on whatsapp that's all. During the lockdown, I lost someone so dear to me and the people I thought would stand by me never did, but when this guy realized that I lost someone, he started comforting me, he called and texted me at least twice daily aside from the chats on whatsapp, he even visited me, he made me get over the death, we became best of friends and I guess he was still feeling something for me, he started shooting his shots again but I pretended it was a normal thing, I was already in a relationship with a guy I am still regretting ever accepting as my boyfriend. When he (the guy, not my boyfriend) was tired of giving me signs that he still loves me, he told me that he love me and that he couldn't continue keeping it to himself, I told him I will think about it but I can't promise him anything, he reduced the chats, he stopped sending me the love poems and he finally stopped calling or sending me texts. I love him, I just wanted him to be a little bit patient with me. I have made many enquiries about him, he is from a good home, he is even an exco in the school SUG, he makes research and writes alot, I've read some of his research work and some of his stories. I have been monitoring him on whatsapp to see if he is already taken but it seems he is still single. Please how do I tell him how I feel for him, I am dying daily, I need him, I love him seriously. He once posted a happy birthday poem he wrote for one of our coursemate and I felt so jealous. I have tried to chat him up but he is not giving me that vibe and energy he gave me then. Please advice me on how to go about this. Please mods help me push this to front page

In your own sentences.... " I have tried to chat with him up but he is not giving me that vibe and energy he gave me then"

In my own observation, even if you tell him about how you feel toward him now, it may be too late.... Definitely, he is going accept you now, but he may have lost that interest, and he may not also be committed the way u met him at first

Sister, you had your chance but u could not take it.... because you allow ur hypocrites friends to deceive you.

Tra6ix:
Good evening my fellow nairalanders
I'm not new here, I just created a new account to hide my identity for few reasons.
There is this guy in my class (final year) who have been shooting his shots at me since our 300 level first semester but I turned him down. He is tall, slim, fair in complexion with a dimple I love especially when he smiles. I turned him down the first time because I thought he doesn't have any plans for his future, I looked down on him then but when this lockdown started, I realized he has a bright future ahead, he has great plans for the future. Although I started falling for him after rejecting him last year, my friends didn't like him, they made me believe that he is too low for my standard.
We stopped chatting, we only viewed each others status on whatsapp that's all. During the lockdown, I lost someone so dear to me and the people I thought would stand by me never did, but when this guy realized that I lost someone, he started comforting me, he called and texted me at least twice daily aside from the chats on whatsapp, he even visited me, he made me get over the death, we became best of friends and I guess he was still feeling something for me, he started shooting his shots again but I pretended it was a normal thing, I was already in a relationship with a guy I am still regretting ever accepting as my boyfriend. When he (the guy, not my boyfriend) was tired of giving me signs that he still loves me, he told me that he love me and that he couldn't continue keeping it to himself, I told him I will think about it but I can't promise him anything, he reduced the chats, he stopped sending me the love poems and he finally stopped calling or sending me texts. I love him, I just wanted him to be a little bit patient with me. I have made many enquiries about him, he is from a good home, he is even an exco in the school SUG, he makes research and writes alot, I've read some of his research work and some of his stories. I have been monitoring him on whatsapp to see if he is already taken but it seems he is still single. Please how do I tell him how I feel for him, I am dying daily, I need him, I love him seriously. He once posted a happy birthday poem he wrote for one of our coursemate and I felt so jealous. I have tried to chat him up but he is not giving me that vibe and energy he gave me then. Please advice me on how to go about this. Please mods help me push this to front page

Something is seriously wrong with you. You wanted to keep him as a spare tyre, but he got tired and left, and now you want him back.

How long did you expect him to wait for you? Just pray your boyfriend is not like me. If I told a girl I loved her and she kept playing games with me and I stopped having feelings for her, it would be extremely hard to rekindle the feelings I had for her.

"He has played his part! Play urs"
But how was it easy for u to accept ur now regretting BF?

na im be say u go end am!

Tra6ix:

I don't want to look cheap

Which one is cheap na, since when did humans become cheap or expensive. My friend go and tell him how you feel, he has done his part by telling you his own, the ball is in your court is your choice to make if you want more than friendship, if u say u're not cheap then you can be bought at price, how expensive are you?

Zzor:
school love,rubbish love.

This ancient of days . who broke your heart.

Women always proving the postulations present in TRP.

Tra6ix:
Good evening my fellow nairalanders
I'm not new here, I just created a new account to hide my identity for few reasons.
There is this guy in my class (final year) who have been shooting his shots at me since our 300 level first semester but I turned him down. He is tall, slim, fair in complexion with a dimple I love especially when he smiles. I turned him down the first time because I thought he doesn't have any plans for his future, I looked down on him then

The mr "nice guy" was apparently rejected because hypergamy always seek a male that belongs to a higher status---physical, economic, social etc.

Tra6ix:
but when this lockdown started, I realized he has a bright future ahead, he has great plans for the future. Although I started falling for him after rejecting him last year, my friends didn't like him, they made me believe that he is too low for my standard.

Women always seek the sisterhood Uber Alles to verify the potential quality of any male that approaches them. This is what is refered to the herd mentality or group thinking.

Did you read what they told her? He is low standard. That's hypergamy. Because at this point hypergamy wants an alpha male that can titillates her.

Tra6ix:
We stopped chatting, we only viewed each others status on whatsapp that's all.

Mr "nice guy" was eventually ghosted but was still monitored via whatsapp status maybe until he attains the standards that can satisfy her hypergamy.

Tra6ix:
During the lockdown, I lost someone so dear to me and the people I thought would stand by me never did, but when this guy realized that I lost someone, he started comforting me, he called and texted me at least twice daily aside from the chats on whatsapp, he even visited me, he made me get over the death, we became best of friends and I guess he was still feeling something for me, he started shooting his shots again but I pretended it was a normal thing,

Mr "nice guy" came back in a moment of sorrow thinking he can usurp it as an opportunity to achieve his fantasy.......maybe she's is the "one," but he will be disappointed.

Tra6ix:
I was already in a relationship with a guy I am still regretting ever accepting as my boyfriend.

Sorry baby, it was just hypergamy at play. Hypergamy always reject the nice guy but give thousands of "f^cks to the alpha male.

Tra6ix:
When he (the guy, not my boyfriend) was tired of giving me signs that he still loves me, he told me that he love me and that he couldn't continue keeping it to himself, I told him I will think about it but I can't promise him anything, he reduced the chats, he stopped sending me the love poems and he finally stopped calling or sending me texts. I love him, I just wanted him to be a little bit patient with me.

The mr nice guy became smart and moved on because he knew there were many girls outside. He overcame the scarcity mentality mindset to an abundance mindset. He knew he is the prize to be won.

What gave this guy such kind of breakthrough? Maybe one way or the other he discovered TRP or something related to it or just mere luck or common sense.

Tra6ix:
I have made many enquiries about him, he is from a good home, he is even an exco in the school SUG, he makes research and writes alot, I've read some of his research work and some of his stories. I have been monitoring him on whatsapp to see if he is already taken but it seems he is still single. Please how do I tell him how I feel for him, I am dying daily, I need him, I love him seriously. He once posted a happy birthday poem he wrote for one of our coursemate and I felt so jealous. I have tried to chat him up but he is not giving me that vibe and energy he gave me then. Please advice me on how to go about this. Please mods help me push this to front page

Hypergamy is really a b@st@rd. It is now in full display; Alpha f^cks Beta bucks.

The Alpha male that once thrilled you for a short moment which you enjoyed(ALPHA F^CKS) until situations went south is now poignant. And since you are now in final year, you must quickly at least secure a Beta male that will transport your long term needs(BETA BUCKS). And this young man here, has what it takes to better those needs.

Hahahaha. He's no longer a low standard male.

You really did a nice job carrying out a proper surveillance on this young man. Well done.

After expanding on the TRP specimen you gave us, now to my advice:

Enhance your greenlights, and if your hypergamy senses that he is a dominant man, latch onto him. If you are lucky that he has not become cognizant with TRP, and still in his blue pilled beta state, he "might" commit into a serious relationship with you otherwise, you will definitely become another plate for him to spin.......looooool

If he's not a dominant male, your hypergamy will look for such. It is good for a woman to marry such a man for the sake of her children and the society at large. We don't need another breeds of simps, because they are difficult to deal with and because they have a larger influence than alpha males in our world, their stupidity and their way of governance is second to none.

Take care.

Ubunja, Skepticus, Regex, emmadaot, Glycolyssis, martinez39s.

Why are women like this?

A guy showed you love, cared for you while others didn't, even wrote a poem like Shakespeare but still you repaid his attention, time and love for what? Trash!

At the end of the day "men are scum"...

And for that 'cheap' talk of a thing?
That's the most disgusting mentality in most gals that I hate!

How expensive do you wanna be!

You said you regretted having relationship with your current boyfriend. May I know the reason?
If it is because you feel the guy has a better tomorrow than him, then take it from me that when you see someone having a better tomorrow than the one you are flirting with, you will switch over again. Be content with what you have. Okay....?