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I this is Tak,

I have been friends with this amazing beautiful God fearing lady for most part of this year. (From December 24th last year)

She's one of a kind. Never seen her type in this world. A lot of times she's helped me financially and materially knowing I just got to a new location.
Early this month I asked her out. The next week I lost my job.
I was mad! That I lost my job even madder that I will still lose someone I have fallen in love with again cause this has happened before!
I am kind of an introvert. I don't really get along with people. The first person I actually asked out ever in my life was during NYSC. I called her boldly spoke of my love to her she was in awe. We started a relationship planned things out(knew her mother already) till I couldn't get a good job after NYSC on time. I had to tell her that we go on a break till I get a good job. It happened that after 2 weeks I felt I was doing the relationship no good I called her. I requested we restart and she declined I called her mum. Her mum was unable to convince her.
I found it hard to move on from her in fact it took about 18months. I was always thinking about her then.
I got new job exactly a year a ago. The job pays well. In a new location tho I had to struggle to settle in the new location. I wasnt thinking about any relationship till it gets to the 4th month when I saw this beautiful lady. She was smart kind of shy too. I asked for her number she gave me.
My first chat with her made me know the kind of woman she is. We became close friends go to church together and all.
I didn't propose we go on a relationship because I was scared of losing her and been heart broken cause of my previous experience.
Till early this month when I asked her out in an awkward way . She didn't give me a positive response. I gave up on her already I thought I have made a mistake of asking her out. For 3days we didnt communicate. I apologized to her the 4th day. She said she understood that I was shy and finally she accepted.


Then the next week I lost my job. I was like why now!

Just watch and prayer. God has a better offer for you soonest. Good luck

Well, this is spiritual. You need to consult your pastor to pray for you. It might be that your glory doesn't like women. You need to pray about this because it could also be that your enemies doesn't want you to marry and they have vowed that each time you meet a woman, you shouldn't have enough money to cater for her.




Well, since this is what you want to hear, have it.

Africans and backward thinking, don't go and look for another job, be trying to connect things that just happened coincidentally. So what? That you lost your job because you got a new girlfriend abi? Are you the only one that lost job as a result of this pandemic? Abi your enemies also planned the Pandemic? What you are trying to correlate has no correlation. People loose job all the time and its not connected to any reason than the Economy of your country and what your company wants.
And also look for what you are doing wrong that is making them sack you.

Continue dating your girl and look for another job, don't over think this.

But as for me, I will sack you with this spiritual mentality anytime I got to know. Disgusting mentality

Everyday girl matter una no dey tire

Spirit wife is angry...pray against it.

Na waoo..first if all, renew your mindset. It might not be the girls, but God telling you to own a business instead of working for someone. Sometimes we need to think out of box.

You have spirit wife ; She doesn’t like to share you with any woman.

Guy check yourself. What did you do at work that made them sack you?

AfroKnight:
You have spirit wife ; She doesn’t like to share you with any woman.

Guy check yourself. What did you do at work that made them sack you?

Don't think it's the case of a spirit wife.

I can help u o.
but u need to bring one female mosquito that's on her period, a lizard that just masturbated like 48hours ago, a bee that is still a virgin, and ant that just gave head to its ex, a wall gecko that is born in malaysia but lives in sweden, a maiden housefly that has not been deflowered, one elephant dck, a crab that just broke up with its girlfriend with a white handkerchief stained with blood from a virgin rat, note the handkerchief must not touch water. if u can't bring all these just bring N700k and I'll do the work

Simp lolz

Takumino02:
Don't think it's the case of a spirit wife.

Lol. I was being sarcastic bro. I don’t believe in that spirit wife whatever.

Get another job. What has a relationship got to do with ur lack of job? Abi she's jobless and broke ni

There are NO coincidences in life...

ZINIBANKS:
Everyday girl matter una no dey tire

U nko as if u no dey among. yimu

ToughGong:
There are NO coincidences in life...

How do you mean bro

I'm an IT guy and I love things that require troubleshooting. So let's try this:
when you get another job (cause this one is lost, sorry man) don't get a babe till the 11th month on the job, don't take any leave oh (the idea is to have all your leave intact) then get a babe on the 11 month (if you were’nt successful you can approach any girl and beg her to be your babe for two weeks that you want to test something ) then take all the leave you've got, should be up to 3 weeks.

Let's see if they will sack you from your leave

I feel so lonely and broke now . I don't know where to go on and search for job. This lady have tried. And she seems to retract. We are no longer contacting eachother.

Takumino02:
I feel so lonely and broke now . I don't know where to go on and search for job. This lady have tried. And she seems to retract. We are no longer contacting eachother.

Hey bro it life things happen. Move on bro. Search for a new job. God will help you

ZINIBANKS:
Everyday girl matter una no dey tire

rubbish post coming from a pervert,you will have to apologize for what you did

please go for deliverance

Balistic4:
I'm an IT guy and I love things that require troubleshooting. So let's try this:
when you get another job (cause this one is lost, sorry man) don't get a babe till the 11th month on the job, don't take any leave oh (the idea is to have all your leave intact) then get a babe on the 11 month (if you were’nt successful you can approach any girl and beg her to be your babe for two weeks that you want to test something ) then take all the leave you've got, should be up to 3 weeks.

Let's see if they will sack you from your leave

Sense will not kill you

So na job dey keep or break your relationship? It seems jobless guys no longer dates in Nigeria

Takumino02:
You making jokes with my predicament

No jokes bro

His advice is lit
A simple logical solution to your problem

PrettyPrint:
So na job dey keep or break your relationship? It seems jobless guys no longer dates in Nigeria

Yes.

How can I save myself from joblessness