Bros, you've made up your mind already...

GuyWise101:
Please Advice Me

Please NLs advice me, I am serving my Oga what we Igbo people call (Igba boyi) now I am saving his money mostly from profit, I want to use the money to start my business when I am settled and it has reached 1.3m but my mind is telling me to show him the money while the other mind is telling me not to show him the money.

Please advice me on this.

give me 100k my I start my own business

Dont show him. Eat the money

Just give ma a private call ok

Ah ah is it ur money? Better return that money. Did he ask you to be saving for him?

helinues:


Comot wise from your moniker

Wise people no dey get too much palava like this..

Lol.

The funniest one there is "My GF is telling people I am her BF"

SmartProf:
So you alone has 2 minds and u want to add up the minds of all other Nairalanders before u will have sense on a straight forward issue. What u did is called looting, but you are lacing it with sugarcoated explanations, that's why u are battling with guilt cos u didn't obtain the money directly as a gift from your Oga. But be assured that once you show him the money, u have shown yourself the way out and he wont settle U, cos he will never believe u don't have more looted funds stocked up somewhere. Since you've taken to this and you call it proceeds from profits, u must be stable enough to handle it, but if it was stolen then karma awaits you. If you are still confused, maybe your Oga prayer points in mountain of fire has caught up with you, it's time to go for confession and restitution b4 you develop high blood pressure on the small money u looted but cannot spend it.

I wish you more wisdom in life. U ve'said it all

GuyWise101:

I was given a seperate shop to manage and I am really doing fine there, I also gave him 500k and 400k two times when he didn't ask for it, this money I am talking about was the one I saved to use after settlement.

he was once like you i believe he knows all this things you are hiding.

I'm going to advice you as per Igbo man wey I be o?

If your oga is an occultic man be rest assured that once you add that 1.2m to any business it will definitely crash..

There is a big difference between proceeds from oso ahia and deliberately saving your boss money..

Once it's time for settlement he might demand you bring out the money you saved during your service please do not hide that money from him ooo. (maka ndi uta).

Las Las.... Don't ever add that money with the one he settles you with..

E go crash your business o.

Imakwa ka osi adi

SmartProf:
So you alone has 2 minds and u want to add up the minds of all other Nairalanders before u will have sense on a straight forward issue. What u did is called looting, but you are lacing it with sugarcoated explanations, that's why u are battling with guilt cos u didn't obtain the money directly as a gift from your Oga. But be assured that once you show him the money, u have shown yourself the way out and he wont settle U, cos he will never believe u don't have more looted funds stocked up somewhere. Since you've taken to this and you call it proceeds from profits, u must be stable enough to handle it, but if it was stolen then karma awaits you. If you are still confused, maybe your Oga prayer points in mountain of fire has caught up with you, it's time to go for confession and restitution b4 you develop high blood pressure on the small money u looted but cannot spend it.

Chai u successfully decimated this matter.

I got nothing else to say.

oga hold unto the money first, what if he doesn't settle you, beacue it happens a lot

Did your boss complain to you that his money was missing or did he accuse you of stealing his money? Use your brain man!

GuyWise101:
Please Advice Me

Please NLs advice me, I am serving my Oga what we Igbo people call (Igba boyi) now I am saving his money mostly from profit, I want to use the money to start my business when I am settled and it has reached 1.3m but my mind is telling me to show him the money while the other mind is telling me not to show him the money.

Please advice me on this.

Be a faithful steward, give it to your boss, whether or not he is a good person. You don't need advice for that...

Give your oga the money. Hope he will understand and appreciate you...

mannasseh:
oga hold unto the money first, what if he doesn't settle you, beacue it happens a lot

don't mind him

Nwannaa... don't return the money to your oga...





quietly put it back to his biz one way or the other .. u can say it's bad debts u just recovered..

if u give him that cash at hands,he will not only never trust u again,he will confide in ppl and mock u at ur back..

u have learnt a trade.. even if he doesn't give u a penny,my guy u go make money.. 1.3m na money u go fit make in 3mnths or less . don't spoil ur mental health with unnecessary guilt..

Let your oga bless you and pray for you.. with that clean mind slate ,the confidence ,energy and grace u go take flourish eh.. u go look back upon this 1.3 m issue and have a good laugh with yourself in the very near future

A very sensitive topic I rather not comment but just observe but nwanna thread carefully believe me it always doesn't end well if you save oga money, look at what became of those they settled before you if it was good or bad for them so that should direct you the best way to go and let your mind and conscience do the rest. Peace

Simply put, can I steal my Oga's money..........

GuyWise101:
Please Advice Me

Please NLs advice me, I am serving my Oga what we Igbo people call (Igba boyi) now I am saving his money mostly from profit, I want to use the money to start my business when I am settled and it has reached 1.3m but my mind is telling me to show him the money while the other mind is telling me not to show him the money.

Please advice me on this.

Keep your damn mouth shut for your own good

Africans have crab mentality... No crab wants to see another crab get out of a bucket



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GuyWise101:

I was given a seperate shop to manage and I am really doing fine there, I also gave him 500k and 400k two times when he didn't ask for it, this money I am talking about was the one I saved to use after settlement.

You know him best. If you know that when you give him the money, he won't look at you like you have stolen double of that.... And then refuse to settle you well.
The ball is in your court.

GuyWise101:
Please Advice Me

Please NLs advice me, I am serving my Oga what we Igbo people call (Igba boyi) now I am saving his money mostly from profit, I want to use the money to start my business when I am settled and it has reached 1.3m but my mind is telling me to show him the money while the other mind is telling me not to show him the money.

Please advice me on this.

No time to Shalaye. ..if the money was saved truely by you..them don't tell him.. It's a 50/50 gamble if you do

GuyWise101:
Please Advice Me

Please NLs advice me, I am serving my Oga what we Igbo people call (Igba boyi) now I am saving his money mostly from profit, I want to use the money to start my business when I am settled and it has reached 1.3m but my mind is telling me to show him the money while the other mind is telling me not to show him the money.

Please advice me on this.

You're not wise that's why. You probably want to show off and impress your oga. Lol. I hope the turn of events doesn't turn you bitter. I made this comment becasue from what I understood, you claimed to have earned the money honestly. But if it's stolen money, then that's your decision to make.

Do the right thing. Simple. If there is any element of guilt in the option to keep the money to yourself, then something is definitely wrong.

Guywise101,If you tell him you saved 1.3m,he'll surely accuse you of stealing twice that amount or even thrice.You have to stop the savings at this point and be a good apprentice until you're settled.Don't tell him to avoid coming back here to cry.

Na your Money? Advise yourself

Hmmm

Keep that money. If he settles you well at the end of your apprenticeship, return the money to him. But if not, settle yourself with the money. By now you should know how much it will take to settle Nwa boi in your line of business

Do the two. Keep it for him. Give it to him.

Is the money yours?
Is the money his?

Your answer to these questions is the answer to your question.

Keep the money in case ur oga no settle you. Oga this days no Dee settle with better money after all the effort