Well you work peanut to gain experience .

Most people started from collecting peanut till they work their way up.

spartan117:

Psalms 119:105 Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path.


Your story is not over. Jesus is still interested in you, he is the only solution to your problem.

What he wants is to put his word in you and make your life a testimony that will draw men to him. Above all he wants to develop a personal relationship with you!
Draw close to him today!

Will jesus give him job.

Why are you not realistic.

Even jesus fed the people before teaching them

Sorry Lag is not my location

Ucee1999:


What skill please? I also want to learn a skill. Am in Lagos

Work hard and have faith, ur beans still dey don..

Poster, don't put unnecessary pressure on yourself. Some people graduated at 22 yet they didn't land their dream job till they were 30+. You might be lucky to get a good job straight outta school. Aje. Just be focused. Get something doing to fetch you money (no matter how little), so as not to depend on your old folks totally. U suppose be sabi boy nah at 27. Wise up brother.

thebosstrevor1:


Will jesus give him job.

Why are you not realistic.

Even jesus fed the people before teaching them

He gave them the word first before feeding them with food because the word is more important.

spartan117:

He gave them the word first before feeding them with food because the word is more important.

Whaeva, feed him first then preach your so called gospel

thebosstrevor1:


Whaeva, feed him first then preach your so called gospel

Hmm. Now I see where your problem lies.

manychallenges:
I ain't looking for any sympathy, I just thought maybe this is a place I can actually pour my heart out to.

At 27:
.. Still in higher institution, I still have 3 more years to graduate
.. Can't boost of a skill
.. Not in relationship or have any girl I can call mine
.. Battling with an infection, not STDs, for like a decade but no money to go for proper treatment, I ain't asking anyone for money here
.. Papa already retired and Mama still in service
.. Still ask Mama for money for haircut
.. Really pitying these amazing parents but its also a pity I haven't found myself yet
.. At this age, I still see myself as a teenager, I mean I have seen many men my age doing quite well even having their own wives and children but why am I different?
.. Lazy? I ain't lazy, I have worked at some places before I got admission but the money was just a peanuts. I stays in small town
.. Mama is gonna be on a mountain now praying so hard, yeah, she's a prayer warrior but she don't know one shi.t spirit have been pinning me down in my sleep for years!
.. You see am so bleeped
.. Giving up? Nah, I ain't

Mr purple don't give up, just stay focus on ur academics and learn a skill. If u think too much it will affect ur academics, and if ur academic is affected ur parents won't be happy with u and that might lead to suicidal attempt in ur own path. It's not late bro to learn something. Never give up

I'll be 27 next year.

The Nigeria today is where you need a skill(z) +degree - pride to remain sane.
learn one bro, and follow up with it; youtube, udemy, shaw academy and a host of others can be an avenue for learning.
...
know what you're good at(hobby, talent) and develope it more into a merchandise
...
leave girls first; no lady with vision would want to date a man that is yet to define his path to being a MAN
When you're done fixing yourself, then u can get a lady
...
broaden your horizon; from the small town u are, and with a smartphone and data, u can see the world.
Read about places, people, cultures, events (download books fro pdfdrive.com)
...
lastly, seek the GUIDANCE OF THE HOLYSPIRIT.
Pray, ask GOD 4direction.
b4 sleeping bind the spirit pressing u in jesus name
Know the power that avails to a believer in the name of JESUS.
give me feedback sir
cheers,
you'll overcome.

Leoneo:
What's your location?, I might be of help if we stay in the same state. That's if you're willing to learn.

I stay in Osun

Privatepart00:
@ manychallenges I am doing fine .
I am working presently in a Federal Institution.
The day our class representative saw me there he was speechless, just laughing all this laugh you know that’s not from the heart .
Himself been applying for work in same place I am working but wasn’t successful.
Another of my friend finished with a nice grade , but he’s working in a hotel .
If I was told it will turn out like this for me , I won’t believe.
Don’t lose sleep , all gonna fall in place.

Good. Happy For You Brother

TechExpertise:
I'm 30 years of age and still a student, this lockdown has actually worsen things.
my parents have retired and at my age I'm supposed to be taking care of them but rather they're still the one feeding me with their meagre pension.
I couldn't graduate earlier because I had some health challenge.
Honestly I feel like giving up but can't because I need to make them proud.
Are you on WhatsApp let's communicate and motivate each other

Oh, Sorry, I Can't Post My Digits Here

ShitStain:


Never happened to me o abeg

do u kno wat sleep paralysis is

manychallenges:
I stay in OsunGood. Happy For You BrotherOh, Sorry, I Can't Post My Digits Here

same here

TechExpertise:
I'm 30 years of age and still a student, this lockdown has actually worsen things.
my parents have retired and at my age I'm supposed to be taking care of them but rather they're still the one feeding me with their meagre pension.
I couldn't graduate earlier because I had some health challenge.
Honestly I feel like giving up but can't because I need to make them proud.
Are you on WhatsApp let's communicate and motivate each other

seems we gather dey bro.. 08072079720 if there is a group to link up and get motivated am in

manychallenges:
I ain't looking for any sympathy, I just thought maybe this is a place I can actually pour my heart out to.

At 27:
.. Still in higher institution, I still have 3 more years to graduate
.. Can't boost of a skill
.. Not in relationship or have any girl I can call mine
.. Battling with an infection, not STDs, for like a decade but no money to go for proper treatment, I ain't asking anyone for money here
.. Papa already retired and Mama still in service
.. Still ask Mama for money for haircut
.. Really pitying these amazing parents but its also a pity I haven't found myself yet
.. At this age, I still see myself as a teenager, I mean I have seen many men my age doing quite well even having their own wives and children but why am I different?
.. Lazy? I ain't lazy, I have worked at some places before I got admission but the money was just a peanuts. I stays in small town
.. Mama is gonna be on a mountain now praying so hard, yeah, she's a prayer warrior but she don't know one shi.t spirit have been pinning me down in my sleep for years!
.. You see am so bleeped
.. Giving up? Nah, I ain't

Hey bro don't give up, you have the most important thing which is life.

Lemme tell you something, at 28 I had all a young man will wish for but I was fighting in a war and getting shot at almost everyday.

I lost mates and colleagues and that thought me everything didn't matter if there was no life.

It's not too late to start learning a skill, some are free online, my sister sent me a link for Google digital marketing and I have been taking that too, anything can happen you know.

thebosstrevor1:


Will jesus give him job.

Why are you not realistic.

Even jesus fed the people before teaching them

I support what spartan117 said.
he needs to draw close to Jesus to get the desired miracle.
A doctor can't come to your home to treat you, you go to the doctor rather.
The people Jesus fed came to him

Leoneo:
Sorry Lag is not my location

your location please

My guy no reason say u dey competition with anybody ooo, that's depression 2.0

Life dey, hope dey

Chaii woman Matter no b here but I wont rule it out cos there some angels among us guun,me sef get some like Dat, man needs real friends, no wonder one senior man asked for Sunday school some years back if adults really have true friends sha


Try out new things, update ursef on current happenings Sha.

God bless ur hustle bro
Las Las we all go dey aiit

CaptainStephen:
Hey bro don't give up, you have the most important thing which is life.

Lemme tell you something, at 28 I had all a young man will wish for but I was fighting in a war and getting shot at almost everyday.

I lost mates and colleagues and that thought me everything didn't matter if there was no life.

It's not too late to start learning a skill, some are free online, my sister sent me a link for Google digital marketing and I have been taking that too, anything can happen you know.

Learning ain't gonna be a problem but the tools. One gonna need enough and good working system which I don't have any

Enugu

TechExpertise:
your location please

manychallenges:
I ain't looking for any sympathy, I just thought maybe this is a place I can actually pour my heart out to.

At 27:
.. Still in higher institution, I still have 3 more years to graduate
.. Can't boost of a skill
.. Not in relationship or have any girl I can call mine
.. Battling with an infection, not STDs, for like a decade but no money to go for proper treatment, I ain't asking anyone for money here
.. Papa already retired and Mama still in service
.. Still ask Mama for money for haircut
.. Really pitying these amazing parents but its also a pity I haven't found myself yet
.. At this age, I still see myself as a teenager, I mean I have seen many men my age doing quite well even having their own wives and children but why am I different?
.. Lazy? I ain't lazy, I have worked at some places before I got admission but the money was just a peanuts. I stays in small town
.. Mama is gonna be on a mountain now praying so hard, yeah, she's a prayer warrior but she don't know one shi.t spirit have been pinning me down in my sleep for years!
.. You see am so bleeped
.. Giving up? Nah, I ain't

don't be surprised if there's no spirit pinning you down. Probably just lack of information.. A d it's very easy for people to just advice you to learn a skill"some don't know how hard that decision is". Drop your number so I can suggest something you can be making and selling. troway shame

Leoneo:
Enugu

what's your expertise?

Lol why does everyone call this guy Mr Purple? I just clocked twenty something and if i dont laugh, I'll cry. Learning like five different things here and there , going for diff skills. Don't give up bro.

manychallenges:
I ain't looking for any sympathy, I just thought maybe this is a place I can actually pour my heart out to.

At 27:
.. Still in higher institution, I still have 3 more years to graduate
.. Can't boost of a skill
.. Not in relationship or have any girl I can call mine
.. Battling with an infection, not STDs, for like a decade but no money to go for proper treatment, I ain't asking anyone for money here
.. Papa already retired and Mama still in service
.. Still ask Mama for money for haircut
.. Really pitying these amazing parents but its also a pity I haven't found myself yet
.. At this age, I still see myself as a teenager, I mean I have seen many men my age doing quite well even having their own wives and children but why am I different?
.. Lazy? I ain't lazy, I have worked at some places before I got admission but the money was just a peanuts. I stays in small town
.. Mama is gonna be on a mountain now praying so hard, yeah, she's a prayer warrior but she don't know one shi.t spirit have been pinning me down in my sleep for years!
.. You see am so bleeped
.. Giving up? Nah, I ain't

Stop living inside your head

stanliwise:

Stop living inside your head

Gosh, how did you know that? That's what am really going through. I think a lot, sometimes I find it difficult to concentrate due to too much thinking.

Only God knows how many mansions and Range Rovers have bought in my head. I've achieved everything in my head, like one living in fantasy.

Wish someone can really understand me. Maybe I need psychologist. I ain't insane cos once someone mentioned psychologist, people gonna think maybe the fellow is mad

hmmm this life no balance.

manychallenges:
I ain't looking for any sympathy, I just thought maybe this is a place I can actually pour my heart out to.

At 27:
.. Still in higher institution, I still have 3 more years to graduate
.. Can't boost of a skill
.. Not in relationship or have any girl I can call mine
.. Battling with an infection, not STDs, for like a decade but no money to go for proper treatment, I ain't asking anyone for money here
.. Papa already retired and Mama still in service
.. Still ask Mama for money for haircut
.. Really pitying these amazing parents but its also a pity I haven't found myself yet
.. At this age, I still see myself as a teenager, I mean I have seen many men my age doing quite well even having their own wives and children but why am I different?
.. Lazy? I ain't lazy, I have worked at some places before I got admission but the money was just a peanuts. I stays in small town
.. Mama is gonna be on a mountain now praying so hard, yeah, she's a prayer warrior but she don't know one shi.t spirit have been pinning me down in my sleep for years!
.. You see am so bleeped
.. Giving up? Nah, I ain't

sorry

manychallenges:
I ain't looking for any sympathy, I just thought maybe this is a place I can actually pour my heart out to.

At 27:
.. Still in higher institution, I still have 3 more years to graduate
.. Can't boost of a skill
.. Not in relationship or have any girl I can call mine
.. Battling with an infection, not STDs, for like a decade but no money to go for proper treatment, I ain't asking anyone for money here
.. Papa already retired and Mama still in service
.. Still ask Mama for money for haircut
.. Really pitying these amazing parents but its also a pity I haven't found myself yet
.. At this age, I still see myself as a teenager, I mean I have seen many men my age doing quite well even having their own wives and children but why am I different?
.. Lazy? I ain't lazy, I have worked at some places before I got admission but the money was just a peanuts. I stays in small town
.. Mama is gonna be on a mountain now praying so hard, yeah, she's a prayer warrior but she don't know one shi.t spirit have been pinning me down in my sleep for years!
.. You see am so bleeped
.. Giving up? Nah, I ain't

Sorry

manychallenges:
Gosh, how did you know that? That's what am really going through. I think a lot, sometimes I find it difficult to concentrate due to too much thinking.

Only God knows how many mansions and Range Rovers have bought in my head. I've achieved everything in my head, like one living in fantasy.

Wish someone can really understand me. Maybe I need psychologist. I ain't insane cos once someone mentioned psychologist, people gonna think maybe the fellow is mad

I am a counselor by self study and by profession. Not certified per se. I do a lot of child counseling.
Your problem is that you have a perfect picture of how things should happen or be.
You wish things could be like you have always seen it work for other people.
The truth is this, your story isn’t the first, there are thousands and one that has had your same experience.
Although some of your actions/decisions could have helped make things better but had you known.
You need to start accepting what is real and what is possible.
The good news is this.... in your case, a lot of good things are still very possible.
But to reach there, you need the best of yourself, and you need to do what has to be done.

So stand up and while you are not comfortable in your skin yet and your legs still wobbles and is till shaky. You need to still have to do what has to be done. The feeling never gets better until things start to fall into places and for this to happen those things needs some of your commitment and actions.

stanliwise:
I am a counselor by self study and by profession. Not certified per se. I do a lot of child counseling.
Your problem is that you have a perfect picture of how things should happen or be.
You wish things could be like you have always seen it work for other people.
The truth is this, your story isn’t the first, there are thousands and one that has had your same experience.
Although some of your actions/decisions could have helped make things better but had you known.
You need to start accepting what is real and what is possible.
The good news is this.... in your case, a lot of good things are still very possible.
But to reach there, you need the best of yourself, and you need to do what has to be done.

So stand up and while you are not comfortable in your skin yet and your legs still wobbles and is till shaky. You need to still have to do what has to be done. The feeling never gets better until things start to fall into places and for this to happen those things needs some of your commitment and actions.

Thank You

merieam16:
do u kno wat sleep paralysis is

No I don't...womansplain it for me

Wow