uniqueboi1:
Confused people everywhere.

Freestainworld:
I don't know where you came from that you spent only 100k for a woman's marital right, it's very cheap compared to what we spend here in the East, in fact I spent a million plus when I did mine, you are lucky though, respect your wife and take her to the altar since you guys didn't celebrate the marriage traditionally, it's important for future purposes and remembrance.

goodman41:
My wife visited me on June for her first time, along the line she got pregnant, which I have gone and do almost all the marriage rights which took me about 100k remaining wedding.

Although, she was supposed to go home with us that day but because she was constantly vomiting and feeling sick so we left her with her mother for her to recover small before joining me to the city. now that she is getting better I have told her to come over but she is saying wedding wedding she want us do wedding bla bla bla, infact I have decided to leave her to keep staying with her mother until when she is ready to join me, though she is not the demanding type she hardly ask me for money, even now that she is pregnant she hardly ask me for money, though am not financially buoyant now but I can take care of her.

please, is it good for my pregnant wife to be staying with her mother even when I have done almost the marriage rights? remember is her mother that is taking care of her and her mother doesn't want her to join me now because of her constant vomiting, though she is a very good girl and I love her.

chiddyok:
You are a wicked, selfish, cheap creature. It’s bad enough she’s pregnant, you don’t want her to wear a white gown, so that the insults will reduce. Women suffer. If you know what is good for you, use this corona period as an opportunity to do a wedding with strictly family members, possibly 30 people in total. Don’t you know the law can’t protect her until you celebrate a wedding; either traditional or white, or registry.

shawnfamous:
Na marriage right u say u do and u wan carry am go house.. She for no Carry belle for u sha

frozen70:


Pls just leave her there to be nurtured by her mum as this is her first pregnancy,she needs her mother's care more than before

Do send allowance to her and visit her as you can

If she keeps bringing up the wedding issues, tell her you are saving towards it but for now ,her pregnancy and delivery is the major thing in your mind

It's will give you the opportunity to save towards her delivery and future wedding

By the time she thinks she is stable to travel to be with you ,she will demand for it and you can them come and pick her


Though at six months of her pregnancy she would have been strong enough to care for herself with little help

Unless she insists on staying with her parents then come after delivery, good better for you

Aimerosa25:
We'd her even if it's court wedding, she is not protected by the law unless u wed her, before her tummy stats showing.

Galactico4ever:
If you've got the money,organise the wedding.If you don't,go and borrow.

frozen70:


Pls just leave her there to be nurtured by her mum as this is her first pregnancy,she needs her mother's care more than before

Do send allowance to her and visit her as you can

If she keeps bringing up the wedding issues, tell her you are saving towards it but for now ,her pregnancy and delivery is the major thing in your mind

It's will give you the opportunity to save towards her delivery and future wedding

By the time she thinks she is stable to travel to be with you ,she will demand for it and you can them come and pick her


Though at six months of her pregnancy she would have been strong enough to care for herself with little help

Unless she insists on staying with her parents then come after delivery, good better for you

goodman41:
Thanks you so much for this advise, she is the last born she is so much attached to the mother I will go to see her

goodman41:
Thanks you so much for this advise, she is the last born she is so much attached to the mother I will go to see her

Bennysam:

See advice you give your fellow man , haba it will be the same to you

Bennysam:

You are stupid one here , you people don't consider a man situation just only know yourselves, selfish idiot

Bennysam:

There's nothing like protection in Nigerian marriage so forget it

Aimerosa25:
really? Is that what u think?

Bennysam:

Yes and that's what it's

xperiencelove:
I understand your current condition. As someone suggested earlier, use corona as excuse to reduce the number of people that will attend the wedding to max of 30.
#500 to 1k from 200 people will go a long way in such wedding.
Nairalanders, please let us support this guy for the sake of the lady. OP, post your account details pls.