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I am currently in a relationship which has lasted for nearly a year. I love my girlfriend but to be truthful the love was stronger at the beginning of the relationship.

Now, I met this new girl in school and began to like her initially because of her beauty but as I got closer to her, I discovered that beneath her tough girl behaviour lies a humble, understanding and caring behaviour. I was stunned and fell in love instantly.

As days went by, i couldn't bear the feelings anymore, seeing her with another boy makes me crazy and the fear of seeing her date another boy makes me cringe. I decided to make my feelings known to her.

When I finally told her that I like her she was surprised. I had always played tough with her in other to tame her own apparent tough behaviour. Now, I have suddenly turned soft and therefore she thought I was joking. When I let her know that am serious she replied "thank you" to my "I love you" this went on for two days before she told me with an unconvincing tone that she is not interested.

Ever since then, I have not been myself, I have been so moody like never in my life such that am scared that the feelings will last forever. I even get angry and jealous when my friends speak with the girl on phone and joke with her. I consider my self an alpha and would like to cut off any ties with the girl but that seems impossible.

This has just confirmed my fear that marriage is not supposed to be, because humans naturally can't love one person forever.

Otisker:
I am currently in a relationship which has lasted for nearly a year. I love my girlfriend but to be truthful the love was stronger at the beginning of the relationship.

Now, I met this new girl in school and began to like her initially because of her beauty but as I got closer to her, I discovered that beneath her tough girl behaviour lies a humble, understanding and caring behaviour. I was stunned and fell in love instantly.

As days went by, i couldn't bear the feelings anymore, seeing her with another boy makes me crazy and the fear of seeing her date another boy makes me cringe. I decided to make my feelings known to her.

When I finally told her that I like her she was surprised. I had always played tough with her in other to tame her own apparent tough behaviour. Now, I have suddenly turned soft and therefore she thought I was joking. When I let her know that am serious she replied "thank you" to my "I love you" this went on for two days before she told me with an unconvincing tone that she is not interested.

Ever since then, I have not been myself, I have been so moody like never in my life such that am scared that the feelings will last forever. I even get angry and jealous when my friends speak with the girl on phone and joke with her. I consider my self an alpha and would like to cut off any ties with the girl but that seems impossible.

This has just confirmed my fear that marriage is not supposed to be, because humans naturally can't love one person forever.

Hmm...

Marriage is not synonymous with Love.

You should focus on your education, that way, you can understand simple words and their meaning.

TimeTraveler369:
Marriage is not synonymous with Love.

You should focus on your education, that way, you can understand simple words and their meaning.

You can't marry who you don't love

Otisker:
You can't marry who you don't love

Yes u can

Otisker:
You can't marry who you don't love

True for you and your family but not true for many people who know the higher framework that marriage was programmed to address.

I can actually love my parents forever.

The problem with relationship is interest. I thought my first relationship would be last but to my surprise it didn't last up to two months. My interest in her was her endowed packages but along the line I noticed she doesn't have prospect on finances so I had to let her go.
Now I'm dating this fine face girl though not endowed at all but she has a bright financial prospect.
life sha no go balance