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panama789:
What kind of friends do you keep?..Who do u call your friend?...When u can answer those questions u will knw that what u have asked is senseless

bigfrancis21:
Congratulations. In about 6 months from now you'll understand why he ghosted you. You'll probably do the same to others in Nigeria.

xtervaganza:
it's because you're broke or should I say you don't have enough money.



If you have money you won't even have time for them. And you know one thing about money? Nobody ignores money

leksbore:
shows the kind of person she really was don't worry God will do your own for you too...but some people sha....

Nooil:
I had three friends, and they didn't ignore me. One even called to inform me on the day he graduated from his master's program.

I think it's best you give them space when they travel to settle down and then they can contact you or you contact them months later. Have some pride.

EgunMogaji2:
Though not your intention but he’s expecting the conversation to turn to begibegi at any moment. As hundreds of conversations before yours.

My suggestion is to just be yourself. Say hello to him when you feel like it. Him not responding is not your issue.

Are you religious and post Jesus stuff all the time? Do you post happy new month all the time? Do you share chain emails such as like this post and share to three people or you’ll die? I can tell you that I don’t take anyone like that seriously too.

On another note, maybe it’s age but I’m looking for all my old friends and coworkers. Some need to get rewarded, those whose parents always fed us and gave small small changes back then.

womenareapes:
shut up!

we know you are looking for visa and how to get ya miserable arss outa this country hence the checking on them

go check on your Nigeria friends.

kingsolomonjnr01:
This is all about personality.
I stay in ph. My bestie of 2017 just travelled to Lagos last year.
Guess what?
He have stop talking to me neither does he reply my chat.
Just Ordinary Lagos oh.

it's just personality... Nothing much.

Empiree:
Don't take his post personal. Your friends are going through shit in US beyond their imaginary America pre-travel.

In another word, they are now facing reality abroad.

Mo ja e si ni ooo


Ire oooo

Blackmann001:
I laff very very hard..when someone says ppl abadon good friends cuz one gats to huzle while one is abroad.....

Lemme ask,which set of ppl huzles more on legit Nigerians abroad or Nigerians in Nigeria.....

Guy ppl don't sleep we don't go for outings,beaches, friends gatherings or even party...till specific period in the year..and someone says its cuz they realized they GATS huzle in their nu environment...

I laff!.... Ppl abroad trying to form "focused"... Nonsense!

bammydhele:
Still don't get why its anyway; but I would have just love one of those in diaspora to really answer that.... The koko be say, we in Naija should hustle,,, once u were seen on media that you are doing well, they will have reason to reply or check on you

Lexusgs430:
When you too port, let's see who you would remember.........

Excel419:
Baba u're likely to do same if you travel. Most times you wouldn't like to read and reply a simple "Hi" from someone you know because you already assumed you will get billed as usual

PartnerusIsBack:
Would you be friends with me please? I am not seeking for monetary incentive or anything. DM if you are cool. Thank you.

SoccerUSA:
I am also facing shit here
If truly it's like that the message wouldn't have shown seen!
They have the time.
They just ignore deliberately.

46arcadez:
They did not ignore you, they are trying to find their feet and maybe you are demanding much from them.
Until you trave out.....

SeekHim:
A-Acknowledge the fact that you are a sinner and that you cannot save yourself. Psalms 51: 5
B- Believe that it is only Jesus that can save you. Romans 10:10, Acts 4: 12
C- Confess your sins, repent from them and be converted (Never go back to them). Romans 10: 9. Call upon Jesus to forgive you and be saved today (Romans 10:13).

Follow these steps now please! Tomorrow may be too late! Death may come, Rapture may take place before you act! Don't delay!!!

Volkswagen90:
u can't do that to ur Nigeria friends , creat account for ur friend in Nigeria let them pick something too

maasoap:
You're the real man, you've got to protect what you have and that's your self worth. We're like the same. Sometimes, I deliberately ignored calls from abroad because[b] they could speak for over an hour with you[/b].

maasoap:
You're the real man, you've got to protect what you have and that's your self worth. We're like the same. Sometimes, I deliberately ignored calls from abroad because they could speak for over an hour with you.

SoccerUSA:
Are you senseless?
Do I need their money?
I was resting on Sunday and decided it's been months I heard from my friend and I sent a "Hi". Is that a problem?
As a friend you should genuinely be able to help your real friends if you have.
There are many other things a friend can offer you than money!
A friend can save your life!!!

Empiree:
I'm not talking about time they have. I mean they do not have the capacity financial wise. Be sincere, nobody just wants to say "hello" from back home without demanding something. This is a fact. It is very rare for someone in Nigeria to just wanna greet you or see how your are doing. America or Europe without asking for financial favor

xtervaganza:
I'm still right. Your friends won't ignore your messages if you're rich. Nobody ignores money.


Nobody has time for senseless and valueless talk. Your friends ignoring your messages can only mean one thing; you're of no value to them.

paul100:
A real friend will always be there forever.My friend traveled abroad,2yrs ago but we do talk steady,do video calls at least 4times a week.
The guy said no matter the years,he cannot forget his true friends in Nigeria.

SoccerUSA:
Don't be silly I can basically go to mall with them or I get them something!

SoccerUSA:
Someone should help me, am I suffering and I am not aware of it?
I never even thought of asking for money.
Is checking up on them something bad too?

Volkswagen90:
let me be silly, creat Amazon account for us let pick anything.

anastasius:
Be massaging your fragile ego

SoccerUSA:
Nah them!!!!

Those 9ja beggars wey dey make all of us look like beggars the diasporas...
Because say I bought a birthday gift for my friend con mean say make I buy 4 you too
Are we friends.

maasoap:
No fragile ego here friend, not everyone will relocate abroad even if all of us desire it. Abroad doesn't tickle my fancy at all. Even if I have opportunity today to relocate, I don't think I'm up for it. I'm doing well, that's enough for me. I don't need to work myself to death because of money

Empiree:
I'm not talking about time they have. I mean they do not have the capacity financial wise. Be sincere, nobody just wants to say "hello" from back home without demanding something. This is a fact. It is very rare for someone in Nigeria to just wanna greet you or see how your are doing. America or Europe without asking for financial favor