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No man can stop me from doing church activities and being close with my pastor,that is where wahala will start,he should learn not to interfere in my spiritual life.A good woman who intend to raise a disciplined home must be spiritual in all aspects of her life,children and husband should be a top priority,though most husbands are very weak spiritually but they should have sense to allow the wife run the spiritual aspect of the home

Zzor:
No man can stop me from doing church activities and being close with my pastor,that is where wahala will start,he should learn not to interfere in my spiritual life.A good woman who intend to raise a disciplined home must be spiritual in all aspects of her life,children and husband should be a top priority,though most husbands are very weak spiritually but they should have sense to allow the wife run the spiritual aspect of the home

Shut ur trap.. which spirituality All those spiritually dead pastors leading u into darkness. Because u want to be fucking a jerry curled muthafukka pretending to be holy. While ur foolish husband masturbates daily. Useless

dairykidd:
Shut ur trap.. which spirituality All those spiritually dead pastors leading u into darkness. Because u want to be fucking a jerry curled muthafukka pretending to be holy. While ur foolish husband masturbates daily. Useless

This is how some of you bring curses upon yourselves and later be finding who to blame in your family,mind what you type about men and daughters of God.Go and repent

Zzor:
This is how some of you bring curses upon yourselves and later be finding who to blame in your family,mind what you type about men and daughters of God.Go and repent

No real man of God will come between a man and his wife under the guise of religion. Any pastor who does that is a bastard and a man of Satan. Well I'm not even surprised because the bible foretold of such false preachers. I only pity the men who will allow such nonsense.

dairykidd:
No real man of God will come between a man and his wife under the guise of religion. Any pastor who does that is a bastard and a man of Satan. Well I'm not even surprised because the bible foretold of such false preachers. I only pity the men who will allow such nonsense.

On whose authority do you stand to condemn?dont judge people on mere hearsay,just be very careful

Zzor:
On whose authority do you stand to condemn?dont judge people on mere hearsay,just be very careful

The bible says by thier fruits we shall know them. Pastor when dey call n text another man wife at odd hours, subject her to focus more on him than her husband, kids and home, interfering or poking his nose in personal intimate issues of his members, inviting her to his house to do chores, putting her in vulnerable and compromising positions that will expose her to temptation etc such a pastor bastard deserves a slow painful death.. And woe betide any married woman who goes too close to her pastor, close enough to put him first before her husband that she married before God and men and the gods.. I rest my case

dairykidd:
The bible says by thier fruits we shall know them. Pastor when dey call n text another man wife at odd hours, subject her to focus more on him than her husband, kids and home, interfering or poking his nose in personal intimate issues of his members, inviting her to his house to do chores, putting her in vulnerable and compromising positions that will expose her to temptation etc such a pastor bastard deserves a slow painful death.. And woe betide any married woman who goes too close to her pastor, close enough to put him first before her husband that she married before God and men and the gods.. I rest my case

i agree no woman should put her Pastor before her husband and a married woman should know her limits and boundaries,but husbands should not stop their wives from doing God activities because of his insecurities

As a Woman, I won't indulge such act from anyone (woman or man). It's one thing to be active in church activities and another thing to live under the shadows of a PASTOR. The only shadow one should abide in is God's shadow. No Holy spirit led Man of God will want his followers get so attached to him, A true Man of God will want his followers to grow and be fit enough to stand on their own. Any pastor who indulge incessantly visits should be checked!

Zzor:
i agree no woman should put her Pastor before her husband and a married woman should know her limits and boundaries,but husbands should not stop their wives from doing God activities because of his insecurities

God's activities are very much different from pastors activities. Doing God's work will never take her to the pastors house to do chores or his bedroom to warm the bed. Such situations are better put in check with silent movements, a gun and a shovel. Take ur time oo

Palema007:
As a Woman, I won't indulge such act from anyone (woman or man). It's one thing to be active in church activities and another thing to live under the shadows of a PASTOR. The only shadow one should abide in is God's shadow. No Holy spirit led Man of God will want his followers get so attached to him, A true Man of God will want his followers to grow and be fit enough to stand on their own. Any pastor who indulge incessantly visits should be checked!

Exactly.. u smart

dairykidd:
Exactly.. u smart

Yea... Because I typed something you like.

dairykidd:
God's activities are very much different from pastors activities. Doing God's work will never take her to the pastors house to do chores or his bedroom to warm the bed. Such situations are better put in check with silent movements, a gun and a shovel. Take ur time oo

lol,you already have a corrupt mindset

Palema007:
Yea... Because I typed something you like.

Nope because what u typed is true tho u might not even believe it as some people drop comments for various reasons. You know why u dropped urs... Maybe ur not smart after all

dairykidd:
Nope because what u typed is true tho u might not even believe it as some people drop comments for various reasons. You know why u dropped urs... Maybe ur not smart after all

And insecurity sets in..... Lol you aren't close to being smart. I doubt you can identify a smart person. Wonder why I didn't take your compliment seriously?

Zzor:
lol,you already have a corrupt mindset

Maybe my mind has been conditioned after the many atrocities committed by our so called men of God with foolish women. Some even go as far as killing the husband and taking full control of his family

Palema007:
And insecurity sets in..... Lol you aren't close to being smart.

You are just a trouble maker. I know ur type but i will pay u no mind

dairykidd:
You are just a trouble maker. I know ur type but i will pay u no mind

On the contrary I'm not. I'm only wise enough not to take compliments from people who are quick to insult seriously. Just a little twist and your true self is all over the place. Lol... You are so funny!

Palema007:
On the contrary I'm not. I'm only wise enough not to take compliments from people who are quick to insult seriously. Just a little twist and your true self is all over the place. Lol... You are so funny!

Abeg go... trouble maker. Only ur personal text sef na trouble.

chatinent:
Husband called, wife said she's on her way home while she was in pastor's house. I'm not inferring anything negative, meanwhile, the pastor in question has a wife.

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Just a quick question: can you tolerate your wife incessantly visiting your pastor?

It Depends On Ur Mindset. It's Only Men Who Av Trust Issues With Their Wife Would Be Thinking Dat Way.

dairykidd:
Abeg go... trouble maker. Only ur personal text sef na trouble.

Lol... Relax dude! We are cool huh?

Palema007:
Lol... Relax dude! We are cool huh?

Man's not hot, never hot

Truvel:
It Depends On Ur Mindset. It's Only Men Who Av Trust Issues With Their Wife Would Be Thinking Dat Way.

Oga Trustus.. did u read where the Op said "She fetches water, cooks and sometimes cleans the house too

dairykidd:
Oga Trustus.. did u read where the Op said "She fetches water, cooks and sometimes cleans the house too

In Dat Case, It's Bad, Very Bad. She Is In Anoda Mission Den.

[quote author=Zither post=93682072]why does this pastor-female member issue keep springing up all over nairaland like stubborn grass? the truth is a true pastor should limit his activities and visits to a member's home while also building them up to stand on their own without having to call him over any little challenges they face.

Zzor, I like your perspective and the reason you put forward for associating with a pastor in that it is your personal spiritual growth and the husband who is meant to protect the home physically and spiritually may be wanting on the spiritual aspect..just be sure not to marry an unbeliever if your conviction should not experience a lifetime of confrontation.[/quoteT That's a costly mistake I can never make.Thanks

Any woman that picks her pastor over hubby is a no no for me.

lefulefu:
! even in Aussie land u guys have pastor issues as well?
thought it was a nigerian thing
so its a global thing for pastors to be chasing married women
fear MOGs (men of God)

I guessed you meant God of Men.

BlackBullXXX:
I guessed you meant God of Men.

u right
God of men

dairykidd:
God's activities are very much different from pastors activities. Doing God's work will never take her to the pastors house to do chores or his bedroom to warm the bed. Such situations are better put in check with silent movements, a gun and a shovel. Take ur time oo

gbam
any married woman cooking for her pastor sooner or later will start warming the bed of the pastor
u remember those private facebook chats wey one hacker hack and im come expose the very racy chats married women come dey do with one benin based pastor
if u read the sex chats ehn u go just weak
i remember they posted it here on nl some months back

lefulefu:
gbam
any married woman cooking for her pastor sooner or later will start warming the bed of the pastor
u remember those private facebook chats wey one hacker hack and im come expose the very racy chats married women come dey do with one benin based pastor
if u read the sex chats ehn u go just weak
i remember they posted it here on nl some months back

Yeah i remember wella.. Those married women nor get single shame for body. Playing love with one fool who claims to be a pastor

Palema007:
As a Woman, I won't indulge such act from anyone (woman or man). It's one thing to be active in church activities and another thing to live under the shadows of a PASTOR. The only shadow one should abide in is God's shadow. No Holy spirit led Man of God will want his followers get so attached to him, A true Man of God will want his followers to grow and be fit enough to stand on their own. Any pastor who indulge incessantly visits should be checked!

wow.. a lady posted this one..nice

dairykidd:
Yeah i remember wella.. Those married women nor get single shame for body. Playing love with one fool who claims to be a pastor

anyway they are collecting the holy seed i guess
a woman can be active in church nothing bad on that..but wen everything na pastor house..pastor dis..daddy that..d husband suppose start getting suspicious
in short if ur wife say im dey go visit pastor for special prayers then u insist u want to follow her for the special prayers make the pastor do the special prayers for both for una.its musnt always be her alone