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Re: Can You Tolerate Your Wife Incessantly Visiting Your Pastor? by Nobody: 9:02pm On Sep 07, 2020 |
lefulefu:My brother nothing special about any prayer. All na fmt to fvck each other mercilessly.. You done forget that pastor for Benin that year when plan with the man wife? They succeeded in killing the guy because him no sharp enough to suspect wetin dey sup. After killing him the bastard pastor still go spray one of the guy cars and change number dey use cruise town not knowing say tracker dey the drive. Na so the matter take cast that year for sapele road na. Fear some of those pastors oo. Allow them into ur home at ur own peril |
Re: Can You Tolerate Your Wife Incessantly Visiting Your Pastor? by Nobody: 9:20pm On Sep 07, 2020 |
dairykidd:yes i heard about that one.the one na very religious woman and she come dey racket matter with the pastor till pastor give her belle.both she and the pastor come plan to murder the woman husband.the painful thing be say dem say the husband was a very caring man and the man really dey look after the wife.i think na the shame of carrying belle for the pastor make dem plan to murder the husband.na so e dey be.wen a married woman is too close to the pastor for comfort it should be the job of the husband to nip it in the bud.Pastors are just ordinary humans and like humans they also get feelings for sex and temptations .na dat one many of us no dey reason.dem feel say since a man na pastor he can never hit on ur wife cos he has superhuman powers to withstand temptation 1 Like |
Re: Can You Tolerate Your Wife Incessantly Visiting Your Pastor? by lamalama: 9:25pm On Sep 07, 2020 |
Zzor:rubbish you better start respecting your husband 1 Like |
Re: Can You Tolerate Your Wife Incessantly Visiting Your Pastor? by Nobody: 9:28pm On Sep 07, 2020 |
Truvel:holy seed mission
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Re: Can You Tolerate Your Wife Incessantly Visiting Your Pastor? by Nobody: 9:55pm On Sep 07, 2020 |
lefulefu:A very costly mistake to make na to allow ur wife dey freestyle with these fake pastors.. It may cost someone's life |
Re: Can You Tolerate Your Wife Incessantly Visiting Your Pastor? by Nobody: 9:56pm On Sep 07, 2020 |
lefulefu:Lol.. holy seed mission 1 Like |
Re: Can You Tolerate Your Wife Incessantly Visiting Your Pastor? by KingWarri: 10:15pm On Sep 07, 2020 |
merieam16:speaking from experience right na Dem be dis |
Re: Can You Tolerate Your Wife Incessantly Visiting Your Pastor? by KingWarri: 10:22pm On Sep 07, 2020 |
chatinent: are you speaking ur own experience?? is the woman in question ur wife?? let us know na, so dat we go fit help you oo |
Re: Can You Tolerate Your Wife Incessantly Visiting Your Pastor? by Nobody: 11:30pm On Sep 07, 2020 |
lefulefu:isn't as common but can happen. Our pastors are way different to yours lol. I was in the ph to meka once he was in some place next to where a vigil was on n I could hear the pastor really loud n clear n I swear he didn't take breath lol |
Re: Can You Tolerate Your Wife Incessantly Visiting Your Pastor? by jagorinho: 12:26am On Sep 08, 2020 |
PUNAengineOIL:very on point!! some times the fault is from the husbands, some men worship pastors too, after church service some men will be on their knees conversing with their pastor, when your wife see that subservient nature of yours, the masculinity/power of the pastor entices her , in other words if you as the head of the family can worship the pastor believe me, your wife is as good as gone when she comes in private contact with the pastor ( the bad ones). This applies to other spheres of life, any act of subserviency as a man to another man must not be done in front of your wife, it increases her affinity to the other party. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Tolerate Your Wife Incessantly Visiting Your Pastor? by Nobody: 1:42am On Sep 08, 2020 |
Missyford31:have u heard about the branch davidians? David koresh? the man who held his followers spell bound cos they believed he was from God.I watched on tv how koresh insisted that the men in his church give their wives to him so he can implant on them the holy seed .Koresh got into a confrontation with FBI or is it ATF cos of his obsession about armagadon or the end of days and how the US govt as the anti christ and him and his members should stockpile weapons to fight against the anti christ.I watched some of his videos..He was a smooth talker and u would really think he was under an anointing .Anyway he got into an armed confrontation with the FBI and died in the process.In nigeria there was one pastor that came out and said the world would end in so so date and that his members should sell their belongings and give him the money for safe keeping and he would use it to buy candles and pray for them and keep them safe.Many members withdrew their children from school,sold their cars and other belongings and gave to the pastor .the Dday came and the world did not end .He now told them that he had a vision that the end of the world has been postoned .All u need to be an evangelical pastor is to be intelligent,quote the bible fluently and wen u do this ppl will fall .In south africa there was a pastor who was alledged to have raised a man from the dead . 1 Like |
Re: Can You Tolerate Your Wife Incessantly Visiting Your Pastor? by Nobody: 1:45am On Sep 08, 2020 |
jagorinho:there some wives that are stubborn .even if the husband is a man of his own and he complains about their constant visit to the pastor they will accuse the husband of trying to make them to backslide.Under such blackmail the man might quieten down then her constant visit to the pastor will take a turn for the worse .Though sometimes i cant blame the ladies cos u know the pastors are well dressed with beards and hair well cut and with smooth tongues .tell me wich lady wont fall for such |
Re: Can You Tolerate Your Wife Incessantly Visiting Your Pastor? by Nobody: 1:57am On Sep 08, 2020 |
lefulefu: Yeah it was an American cult yeah? There's been Lotsa similar cults like that. I can't believe ppl fall for it. Especially the Scientology religion alot of americans(I think sum Aussies too although I've never met one. I think they mainly have rich n famous ppl) they believe in some alien guy or something will come take them to another planet n ppl give them millions of dollars n they control every aspect their life. Tom Cruise is like their second highest man in their church. Wen their women give birth they aren't allowed painkillers n must give birth in silence otherwise it can affect the babies spirit or something like that lol. Ppl can be fooled by a smooth talker. Charles Manson he was a smooth talker n talked his group into killing ppl for him. Lol my dad was a smooth talker n always seemed to get wat he wanted. But he had a dark side too. He was a drunk n very violent towards mum n my brother's n I. Smart ppl with gift of the gab(smooth talking) can just bout do anything they want. He'll, my dad even talked my atheist grandmother to get baptized and become Christian n she still said her prayers every night for many years til she died. Lol he was a fisherman then an ambulance officer then he was studying to become a pastor but his repeated voilence in the home got out to the church n he was refused. He woulda made a great cult leader:-D |
Re: Can You Tolerate Your Wife Incessantly Visiting Your Pastor? by stonemasonn: 5:24am On Sep 08, 2020 |
jagorinho:Hmnn this is something to think about. |
Re: Can You Tolerate Your Wife Incessantly Visiting Your Pastor? by Nobody: 6:54am On Sep 08, 2020 |
Zzor: Pastor's newspaper spotted. I feel great pity for the future "husband" 3 Likes |
Re: Can You Tolerate Your Wife Incessantly Visiting Your Pastor? by xdunamis(m): 7:33am On Sep 08, 2020 |
Any woman that thinks this way should be a no no when it comes to building a family. I've seen similar situations where the woman acts like the spiritual pioneer of the family, frequenting church everyday of the week even when there is no service. There is even one scenario that occured in my area recently, a pastor that was severely beaten for sleeping with another man's wife. The woman confessed that they always had sex "inside the church" and "in the pastor's" car. This is a "god fearing woman" who according to the husband "rarely have time for the home and family because of church activities" If you know the atrocities all this so called "pastors" are commiting, you will never allow your wife or daughter to attend any church. Zzor: |
Re: Can You Tolerate Your Wife Incessantly Visiting Your Pastor? by SirMichael1: 8:05am On Sep 08, 2020 |
Even if the wife isn't sensible and rcognise the fact she owes a responsibility to her husband, the pastor should have sense na. How will you keep a married woman in your house to be doing house chores? He should tell her off to her home to do those chores. And truthfully, most of these women don't even do house chores or cook at home but readily do that at a 'man of god's'. Some even argue that it brings about prosperity. If i paid your bride price and you do this, i'm definitely gonna ask for a refund from the pastor or someone must refund me! He can't be having in his house what i paid for. What nonsense! |
Re: Can You Tolerate Your Wife Incessantly Visiting Your Pastor? by Nobody: 9:03am On Sep 08, 2020 |
What are we even saying ? Are we going to Church to serve God or to serve a pastor ? Let the truth be told , any woman who constantly visits the pastor in the name of spirituality is going there for something else. You don't need to be close to a pastor for God to answer your prayers or even for God to bless you or for God to reveal things to you . For those claiming to be covering the spiritual side of the Family as a woman; what stops you from praying to God yourself ? What stops you from fasting ? So for you to cover the spiritual aspect of your home , you must always visit a pastor ? When a woman subjects herself that low to any man whether a pastor or a boss as a married woman, your husband would not be regarded as anything by that man and if your husband isn't respected , your own respect and dignity are gone. A married woman owns the ultimate respect and regard to God first and her husband second before any so called pastor or a Boss. I am a strong Christain who believes in spirituality but I don't need a pastor to have a strong relationship with God or to stand in the gap for my family . I indulge in mid-night prayers , fasting and praying and there has never been a time I went to God in tears for anything that he has never granted me . Even though it may not be answered right away , God has never failed me . If my husband has a problem or he is encountering a difficulty in anything , all I need to do is go on my kneels and cry to God. He is a living witness . I didn't need to go to a pastor . If I keep running to a pastor every time I have a problem , it means I'm beginning to consider the pastor a god and that itself is a sin (Idolatry) Don't get me wrong , some women might innocently be doing this cuz that was how they were raised to serve God but it's wrong and as many have said, it's worse when a married woman does that . It's completely wrong and there is no two ways about it . Have a personal relationship with God and not a MAN (PASTOR). 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can You Tolerate Your Wife Incessantly Visiting Your Pastor? by Nobody: 9:37am On Sep 08, 2020 |
Marrying a religious bigot is a problem. Religion is a way of life, not a ticket to heaven. I am advising you unmarried people to marry someone who does good but not TOO religious or churchy. |
Re: Can You Tolerate Your Wife Incessantly Visiting Your Pastor? by OYENIYIJK: 10:58am On Sep 13, 2020 |
I was reading one thread now and I remember I do see one signature with "hire me for thesis" and all that... And I went to Google search ... Bro how you be now? Being a while I've seen your post and comments on Front page... Just checking on you! |
Re: Can You Tolerate Your Wife Incessantly Visiting Your Pastor? by biddostandard: 11:02am On Sep 13, 2020 |
merieam16:are you separable with your pastor ? |
Re: Can You Tolerate Your Wife Incessantly Visiting Your Pastor? by JohnOkolo: 9:33pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
chatinent: She will get married to that God and let me be |
Re: Can You Tolerate Your Wife Incessantly Visiting Your Pastor? by Diamond23(f): 10:00pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
chatinent:and small time she will be giving it to the pastor . Hope she does that diligently in her home |
Re: Can You Tolerate Your Wife Incessantly Visiting Your Pastor? by stanliwise(m): 10:12pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
chatinent:I like to believe you are lying. Like WTF! |
Re: Can You Tolerate Your Wife Incessantly Visiting Your Pastor? by Nobody: 10:17pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
You wrote this post to get pastors bashed. You're a Jehovahs witness. There's no friend anywhere. God is watching you. |
Re: Can You Tolerate Your Wife Incessantly Visiting Your Pastor? by DareyFortified: 10:28pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
chatinent: lol... this part got me! I don't know mehn... but maybe we are meant to slaves in africa. lol but seriously I think if we check well enough, your friend is definitely poor or not man enough. if not I don't see reasons why his wife will be a slave for a pastor. |
Re: Can You Tolerate Your Wife Incessantly Visiting Your Pastor? by chocboi78(m): 4:51am On Sep 15, 2020 |
lefulefu:you just dy find wahala.. Japa o |
Re: Can You Tolerate Your Wife Incessantly Visiting Your Pastor? by Milezero: 12:54pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
Zzor: Zzor is right about this,but the thing here also is that a man of God and his family are not meant to be close to people and the church ..Modern day complexities and social misinformation about a man of God can be used by the devil to tarnish his reputation no matter how innocent he is.even that is why Moses left his first wife and two kids back in Midian before going to help d isrealites . personally it is worse for a single man of God.Thing is Women love men of power to.Even when a man of God is not thinking or doing anything of such,Satan can push any woman to tempt him in HIS WEAK STATE. THERE is always a weak state of men of God. Instead of church memebers and women to pray for the man of God and support him financially ,materially while not too close they won't but would carry out the work of the accusers.Anyone can be used as a tool for Satan in their weak state. Jesus christ was anointed by a world class prostitute called Mary Magdalene but we see it was his only Need.thing is both men and women too must find out WHAT IS THE NEED OF A MAN OF GOD. 1 Like |
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