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I Love Being Alone. Is This Normal? by Nobody: 9:11pm On Sep 07, 2020 |
I love my solitude and I don't define myself with outwardly materialistic desires and objects. I spend most of my time alone, I have less friends ( I ain't anti-social neither am I recluse), I am the kind of person who prefers not to be noticed and is quiet. I can't count the amount of times I have had conversations with my head I can be my own best friend or my own worst enemy. I love listening to musics (NF) and I dislike superficial interactions with people. I am very emotionally independent but feel burdened by the emotional baggage of others. Which is, I can take care of my pains myself but I care about how others feel. I love myself, especially my personality, although people tend to think I am a weirdo. But I don't give a fvck, in fact, I don't like explaining myself to them! Because, they won't understand me. 16 Likes |
Re: I Love Being Alone. Is This Normal? by DonBenny77(m): 9:13pm On Sep 07, 2020 |
Same here, I'm fluent in silence and after the pandemic I still want people to keep their distance. 7 Likes |
Re: I Love Being Alone. Is This Normal? by BigSarah(f): 9:15pm On Sep 07, 2020 |
You don’t want to share your personal space that’s absolutely normal...the problem is when you become inactive and unproductive under the guise of seclusion or being introverted.. 12 Likes |
Re: I Love Being Alone. Is This Normal? by Nobody: 9:16pm On Sep 07, 2020 |
DonBenny77:Cool. |
Re: I Love Being Alone. Is This Normal? by Nobody: 9:18pm On Sep 07, 2020 |
BigSarah:Such people are "recluse", they are the lazy type. |
Re: I Love Being Alone. Is This Normal? by dulux07(m): 9:20pm On Sep 07, 2020 |
It is normal. You are just introverted |
Re: I Love Being Alone. Is This Normal? by BigSarah(f): 9:23pm On Sep 07, 2020 |
Ab0bi: Being reclusive ,can promote laziness..you only get to do things you like or want all by yourself... All antisocials Are reclusive. 2 Likes |
Re: I Love Being Alone. Is This Normal? by Nobody: 9:24pm On Sep 07, 2020 |
same here and it's normal |
Re: I Love Being Alone. Is This Normal? by Nobody: 9:24pm On Sep 07, 2020 |
dulux07:Cool. |
Re: I Love Being Alone. Is This Normal? by Nobody: 9:25pm On Sep 07, 2020 |
BigSarah:You're right. 1 Like |
Re: I Love Being Alone. Is This Normal? by Nobody: 9:26pm On Sep 07, 2020 |
Zzor:wow...I thought you're an extrovert judging by your comments. I was wrong. |
Re: I Love Being Alone. Is This Normal? by Hathor5(f): 9:27pm On Sep 07, 2020 |
It's ok to love to be alone. Why do you feel the need to open a thread because of it? 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Love Being Alone. Is This Normal? by dulux07(m): 9:27pm On Sep 07, 2020 |
Ab0bi:Being alone doesn't result to inactivity or laziness, when you are lazy, you are lazy whether introverted or extroverted. Besides most inventors and billionaires are introverted and spend alot of time alone 12 Likes |
Re: I Love Being Alone. Is This Normal? by Nobody: 9:30pm On Sep 07, 2020 |
Hathor5:I just feel like creating a thread about it. My pen is tired, I need to get a new diary. |
Re: I Love Being Alone. Is This Normal? by Nobody: 9:31pm On Sep 07, 2020 |
Ab0bi:you don't judge people from a distance,i don't even have much friends,my parents are my best friend |
Re: I Love Being Alone. Is This Normal? by Nobody: 9:32pm On Sep 07, 2020 |
dulux07:I had to agree with you. Nice point. 1 Like |
Re: I Love Being Alone. Is This Normal? by HomerTimpson: 9:33pm On Sep 07, 2020 |
Re: I Love Being Alone. Is This Normal? by Nobody: 9:35pm On Sep 07, 2020 |
Zzor:You're right. I don't stay with my parents, I stay alone and music is my best friend. Sorry for the wrong judgement. 2 Likes |
Re: I Love Being Alone. Is This Normal? by Slimtuns(m): 10:19pm On Sep 07, 2020 |
You ain't alone. People won't understand anyways, at least not in this country where people won't mind their business. BTW, are you a Virgo? 2 Likes |
Re: I Love Being Alone. Is This Normal? by Nobody: 10:20pm On Sep 07, 2020 |
U Are An Introvert. It's Normal. I'm Like Dat Too. 1 Like |
Re: I Love Being Alone. Is This Normal? by Nobody: 11:03pm On Sep 07, 2020 |
Slimtuns:I am not sure I am 100% virgo because I ain't a perfectionist. |
Re: I Love Being Alone. Is This Normal? by Nobody: 11:06pm On Sep 07, 2020 |
Truvel:Good to know I ain't the only one on earth |
Re: I Love Being Alone. Is This Normal? by Slimtuns(m): 11:22pm On Sep 07, 2020 |
Ab0bi: No one is all perfect. If you've got at least 80% Virgo traits then you're one of us, no one has got it all Does your birthday fall in between? |
Re: I Love Being Alone. Is This Normal? by Nobody: 11:24pm On Sep 07, 2020 |
Slimtuns:No. I am March born. |
Re: I Love Being Alone. Is This Normal? by Richy4(m): 11:25pm On Sep 07, 2020 |
You are 100% normal.... But how sure are you about those few friends? Just saying because there will be a time you might need people and you won't have anyone to come running to help... 1 Like |
Re: I Love Being Alone. Is This Normal? by Nobody: 11:29pm On Sep 07, 2020 |
Richy4:I keep my cycle small...tbh, currently I don't have any friend. |
Re: I Love Being Alone. Is This Normal? by Slimtuns(m): 11:33pm On Sep 07, 2020 |
Ab0bi: Oh I see. Not only Virgos are introverted tho.. Well I wouldn't know if you believe in horoscope, perhaps you're Pisces cos Pisces also have some elements of introversion. |
Re: I Love Being Alone. Is This Normal? by Richy4(m): 11:34pm On Sep 07, 2020 |
Ab0bi: Join a social club (not cult), village meetings etc.... So that if anything good or bad happens, they will come when you have invited them on the ground that you were a member.... not as friends.... at least they won't come to your house.. 1 Like |
Re: I Love Being Alone. Is This Normal? by Nobody: 11:37pm On Sep 07, 2020 |
Richy4:I guess you skipped where I said " I prefer not to be noticed" Good9t |
Re: I Love Being Alone. Is This Normal? by Nobody: 11:38pm On Sep 07, 2020 |
Slimtuns:I can't remember believing in anything. |
Re: I Love Being Alone. Is This Normal? by Nobody: 11:51pm On Sep 07, 2020 |
Slimtuns:I swear to God, this is the perfect definition of ME and I am March 20 wow!! |
Re: I Love Being Alone. Is This Normal? by Richy4(m): 12:02am On Sep 08, 2020 |
Ab0bi: I'm trying to guess your age because of that reply... let me make it abit simple...there's something called behind the camera...that's where you think you belong, I get it...Joining a social club, village meeting or an organisation does not automatically make one an active member... You can attend a function without attracting attention...you can always blend with the furniture.. join, it's for your own good..A psychiatrist will advise the same thing I'm telling u now...too much of being alone can result to clinical depression... I believe u knew that something was odd, that was why u opened the thread.. have a good night rest too dear OP .. 5 Likes |
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