Please help me. I am in medical school. My cousin and his wife (both living in USA) introduced a girl to me. They want me to come over.

From my understanding the two families are friends.

According to my cousin, "she is a good girl from a good family "

I have already started chatting with her, she seems cool, apparently.

But I need unbiased views from those with experience please.

Put yourself in my position and advise me.

she's 27. She is doing her masters .im 29, finishing next yr.


Thank you.

I don't have any related experience but i know that this needs to be on front page.That is where people with experience can see it easily

Arrrrrrrh


First, how old are you ?
You are still in Medical school?
If you are too wife her, wife her in Nigeria not abroad cause. If not any small chaos Na police, you are vulnerable bro and you know she's OK, in the sense she's well to do so marrying her is not like a favour just that she need children and companion. Also know female are favour in court case outside.

I will advise you'd wife her here in Nigeria since she's a Nigerian.

gaius01:
Arrrrrrrh


First, how old are you ?
You are still in Medical school?
If you are too wife her, wife her in Nigeria not abroad cause. If not any small chaos Na police, you are vulnerable bro and you know she's OK, in the sense she's well to do so marrying her is not like a favour just that she need children and companion. Also know female are favour in court case outside.

I will advise you'd wife her here in Nigeria since she's a Nigerian.

I'm 29. Will finish school next year.

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I'm 29. Will finish school next year.

Okk
Let's be realistic, I diffinatly know you will finish school before marrying. You are 29 now, next year 30 after service 31

And she will 29 living abroad then.

That means you will wnat to join her there or will she join you here!?

gaius01:



Okk
Let's be realistic, I diffinatly know you will finish school before marrying. You are 29 now, next year 30 after service 31

And she will 29 living abroad then.

That means you will wnat to join her there or will she join you here!?

What do you think? That's y am here.

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What do you think? That's y am here.

Sir with all due respect, marrying such lady is not a problem if only She can come to Nigeria to marry and stay, but you going up there that implies you will be short to some right as a man. This lady is OK financial and educationally and marrying her you can't control anything about her. Beside she woñt have the moral an average Nigeria girls .

Modify

Feminist will misinterpret the word "Control" just see.

gaius01:


Sir with all due respect, marrying such lady is not a problem if only She can come to Nigeria to marry and stay, but you going up there that implies you will be short to some right as a man. This lady is OK financial and educationally and marrying her you can't control anything about her. Beside she woñt have the moral an average Nigeria girls .

Thank you. I appreciate really.

Advantage

You might end up getting citizenship
She Will be the mother of your kids
She might be very feminine if she has not been brainwashed by feminist ideologies and gender studies.
She will support and help you if she understands her role
She will be educated and might have a well balanced world view.

Disadvantage

She might Be a Feminist
She might emasculate you, if you dont earn well
She might end up driving you out of the home if you guys have trouble.
You might become homeless
Cultural shock of what relationships and marriage is supposed to be like

A good woman will be a good woman no matter the area.

I also don't have any experience. But, you must prepare for some Cultural Shock. The humility we expect from our women here ain't the same you'll get there. So, you must have that in mind.

Study all her Facebook posts if possible to find clues about her personality, beliefs, goals and all...

thebosstrevor1:
Advantage

You might end up getting citizenship
She Will be the mother of your kids
She might be very feminine if she has not been brainwashed by feminist ideologies and gender studies.
She will support and help you if she understands her role
She will be educated and might have a well balanced world view.

Disadvantage

She might Be a Feminist
She might emasculate you, if you dont earn well
She might end up driving you out of the home if you guys have trouble.
You might become homeless
Cultural shock of what relationships and marriage is supposed to be like

Hmmm.
Thank you.

nexta007:
I also don't have any experience. But, you must prepare for some Cultural Shock. The humility we expect from our women here ain't the same you'll get there. So, you must have that in mind.

OK.

Marry her n move to yankee...get there and do a masters in medical field. Marriage is a gamble...u can either marry a good or bad spouse. Forget those who say u shud marry in lagos n make her move to eko.

Go yankee start ur life bro


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Please help me. I am in medical school. My cousin and his wife (both living in USA) introduced a girl to me. They want me to come over.

From my understanding the two families are friends.

According to my cousin, "she is a good girl from a good family "

I have already started chatting with her, she seems cool, apparently.

But I need unbiased views from those with experience please.

Put yourself in my position and advise me.

she's 27. She is doing her masters .im 29, finishing next yr.


Thank you.
Lalasticlala , mynd44

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3-1d9D-62Tg

@ OP.....i am sure the above video will be your next question

Be it a woman born in America, or one born in a village; a good woman will always be a good woman and a bad woman will always be one. Just take time to study the lady, if she has all the qualities you like in a woman, go for her, and don't bother asking people for advantages and disadvantages.

The koko na to marry better woman wey go give you rest of mind so you can live to old age.

Just make sure all those American porn like men have not conditioned her to weird n evil sexual cravings. Except if you can flow with her demands

Good luck to whatever you choose ..

Get to know her first, don't base your judgement on the advantages or disadvantages of marrying her. Her personality matters most, same has your personality.

Sincerely, you somehow sound like an opportunist, you will want to marry her because of the advantages her American citizenship will get you, not because you love her or have any value to offer her.

I have no experience with Nigerian ladies born in the US,so I will wait for the experienced ones to come in and share their ideas with us.
However I'm sure that due to the good nature of the economy over there and overall better quality of reasoning possessed by girls there over the ones here;
She won't be bothering you with urgent 2k requests every second.
Also she won't have birthdays that occur several times in a year.

Reading comments.

okay

She wee nor suck well
She wee suck well

Advantage: She will be super intelligent and hardworking, a good goal getter and beautiful too.

Disadvantage: She is from Nigeria.

From my understanding the two families are friends.

According to my cousin, "she is a good girl from a good family "

Following

No jonze my man

gaius01:
Arrrrrrrh


First, how old are you ?
You are still in Medical school?
If you are too wife her, wife her in Nigeria not abroad cause. If not any small chaos Na police, you are vulnerable bro and you know she's OK, in the sense she's well to do so marrying her is not like a favour just that she need children and companion. Also know female are favour in court case outside.

I will advise you'd wife her here in Nigeria since she's a Nigerian.

Wife her in Nigeria, as in after the wedding she stays in Nigeria permanently? Will living in Nigeria make her lose her American citizenship and the protection it confers?

Many advantages man, quality way of life, more oppotunities to explore, better health life improved standard of living.
You have no idea