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Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by King44(m): 3:09pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
Trumptweet:Have you ever conceived the idea of courting her both home and abroad. Character is like smoke it can't be hidden for too long. It would also help you and her adjust well, a year courtship is best. Live under one roof for a year home and away and see what you should be expecting when you get married to her. Don't just jump into marriage with her so you won't come out in stitches. 2 Likes |
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by appliedscience(m): 3:09pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
Apologies pls. But I think he age gap is too small for convinience, esply now that she is an abroad brought up.... I will advise take marriage off the table(cos if u dnt, she will kip playing the good girl card) ... Know her first... As a friend.... 1 Like |
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by lxvi8xii(m): 3:11pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
gaius01: Which one is morals Nigeria girls have? Morals abi pretense. You know that generally we are a very pretentious people that carry religion on our heads but threat our fellow human being badly. 2 Likes |
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by Sterope(f): 3:12pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
Lmao. Clown! gaius01: |
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by AlfaSeltzer(m): 3:13pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
Must be an extremely ugly girl if you are the best she can do while living in US. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by Mindlog: 3:13pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
Bernice4ozodo: I think you got it mixed up, the guy I quoted was implying that it is smarter to relocate the lady to Nigeria all in the name of marriage, so the OP would have an "upper hand" in the marriage |
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by Pebcak: 3:13pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
Lol bro they introduced woman to you, you just started chatting and now you don they think of marriage. First this is you need to get to know her get the American born mentality out of your mind just like any girl you need to get to know her spiritual life, career goals, weigh her moral character but the will be tricky but ultimately pray about it Secondly you ll need to factor immigration in as well get married in 9ja and file as spouse or she invite you on k1 but with Trump immigration I think all that process is all crazy now Lastly your mbbs won't cut it in just yet in US, you need to get in the mind set of whenever you get here if you end up getting married you ll need to transition meaning you can't be a doctor just yet and that ll put pressure on you because as the man of the house you ll rely on your wife those early stages will definitely be challenging and that's why first point is very important 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by ziondaughter247: 3:13pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
See them, hungry nairaland men shouting 'marry her'. Lol, bunch of deluded people. If it was a female in Nigeria and male abroad, you would have opened your mouths to say 'don't marry the olosho', 'don't bring her over', blah blah blah. See them licking the feet of a woman because she's abroad. Mind you, the woman holds the knife here! Poster, does she even want to marry you? Don't delude yourself! 9 Likes |
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by Sprumbaba: 3:13pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
Trumptweet: I have experiences. PROS They are not gold diggers like your Nigeria born ladies but this is dependent on the parents. They appreciate affections and gifts and you do not need to buy them a range rover. They believe in contributing to the upkeep of the home not like your Nigerian ladies that want you to shoulder the world. CONS You may have to teach her how to cook your favorite Nigerian foods They can be opinionated I will let the elders add their own. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by yemi1504: 3:15pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
Trumptweet: Marry her bro even though I am not a fan of Nigerian women. Once you get there, get a very good job so that even if there is a divorce, you are still well off financially. Nigeria is a mess currently, so take any opportunity to get out of this shithole! If you can't do it for you, do it for your unborn children and generations after, no children deserve to be brought up in this mess of a shithole country. I have said my piece. Congratulations bro, you just gave your self the better life, wish I were in your shoes bro. 1 Like |
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by Nyceguy92: 3:16pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
What kind of wife are you looking for? Do you think your cousin can reliably find a wife for you? If the said lady is a citizen, you may become citizen by derivation. I guess this is the attraction for you. But are you ready to deal with the idiosyncrasies of a Nigerian girl born and bred in the U.S., especially if you are the traditional type? You have not seen, /dated this lady so you can study her in person: her temperament, housekeeping abilities, etc. I guess as a (medical) student, you have a few female friends that you have interacted with and who could make good wives. My advice is to not commit to anything. Be friends only for now. Most importantly, when you graduate and start practising , your sense of value of women and beauty will change. You will come across lots of really nice ones that you might blame yourself for making a hasty decision. 2 Likes |
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by Elsueno: 3:17pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
Trumptweet: A good woman is a good woman irrespective of the environment she grew up from,. My uncle married abroad, his wife Na humility personified. She's cool, they have being married for over 15 years now. with no problems whatsoever( as far as I know) 1 Like |
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by chatinent: 3:17pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
It's not about the place, it's about the girl in question. |
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by Trumptweet: 3:18pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
karnap:He married his own wife there. |
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by yemi1504: 3:18pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
MT: Abi o, tell him! The marriage is not even important or the koko but the better and life changing opportunities he will give himself and his unborn children. My 2 cents. |
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by AngelicBeing: 3:19pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
Rgade:Hian, Hahaha |
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by Trumptweet: 3:19pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
InvertedHammer:Hmm, thank you. |
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by kevotek1000(m): 3:19pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
muzeze77: I love your wisdom |
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by nonut: 3:19pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
Date the lady for a year first. Know everything about her and the country you want to marry in. If you're still convinced she's okay, get a prenuptial agreement to avoid stories that touch. You may feel you have little now, but who knows where you would be tomorrow? |
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by stonecoldcafe: 3:19pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
Trumptweet: There was a thread on Nigerians ladies born in America America verus those raised in Nigeria sometime ago. It was an insightful thread, try and find it |
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by dgreatthinker: 3:20pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
I reside in the US, in the Medical field, you need more than what guys are saying here to succeed. Plan properly and ask proper questions from your girl, and know what drives her. You need to know her takes on African culture, her redlines and have it in mind that you might not be able to practice as a medical doctor here (The probability is very low, but not impossible) Forget about the impression that women have sole prerogative to eject their spouse, the right is for both male and female. If she earns more than you, she might be the one paying you child support if the need arises. Contact me for more details. Wishing you the best 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by madridsta007(m): 3:20pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
Trumptweet:You are welcome. I have been in the same situation before. Unfortunately for them, if I do not pray about a thing, I will rationalise my decision-making using logic. Never emotions. Much later, the person that they were trying to sell to me got married and got divorced within a year or so. As usual, it was down to bad character. Use your head and think. Not your emotions. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by AngelicBeing: 3:20pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
Lexusgs430:You are the wisest man on this thread 1 Like |
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by bukatyne(f): 3:21pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
Funny thread! See guys advising OP to marry a stranger because of 'life long opportunities.' Greedy greedy Like MrBrownJay would say: Better know the rules of engagement and have a game plan. |
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by bukatyne(f): 3:23pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
yemi1504: Imagine |
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by yemi1504: 3:24pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
Bernice4ozodo: How are they backward and wicked when you Nigerian women are pretty horrible and can't do better? |
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by Ngozioma(m): 3:24pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
It will end in tears What do I know
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Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by mariahAngel(f): 3:25pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
stanliwise: It shocked me too. 2 Likes |
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by Trumptweet: 3:25pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
LaEvilIMiss:Thank you so much. I appreciate. My cousin is a male. He's live in us for almost 35yrs. They live together, same community sort of. The girl in question is his daughter's agemate. |
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by obowunmi(m): 3:25pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
pansophist: You are a very intelligent person. Very valid point. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by yemi1504: 3:25pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
bukatyne:Please swerve off my mention! Thank you! |
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by yemi1504: 3:25pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
bukatyne:Please swerve off my mention! Thank you! |
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