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Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by handsomebeauty8(m): 5:43pm On Sep 14
Crownstar01:
Hahaha. A Nigerian girl would come to your house, finish your food and also expect you to give her money when she's living. What a bombshell!
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by daddymummy(m): 5:47pm On Sep 14
handsomebeauty8:


I use to think that i am the only one that observes these character in naija girls.
So there is someone else that sees these bad nature of nigerian girls.
Men in naija are only interested in sex with our ladies to the extent that they dont observe these useless nature of our girls.
But after our men marry naija girls and their desire to sleep with the wife wanes,their eyes will now open and they will see the woman as she is.
Then they will start having quarrel and trouble with their wives.
They will start hating the woman.

If our men can look beyond the woman's body and his desire to sleep with her,he would have seen her true nature.

It is only after marriage when the woman's body no longer drive him crazy,that is when he will be shocked to discover the evil nature of his wife.

So men must look beyond her physical attributes.When you no longer desire her sexually after marriage,what should remain and sustain the marriage should be her good nature.

But most men will only discover a prideful,self centered,badly behaved woman after the desire for sex has reduced in marriage.

You are telling the truth.

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Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by Yankee101: 5:49pm On Sep 14
abbey621:


The problem here is interpretation and not wanting to 'farabale', a doctor in training can be called a doctor but I was referring to the board. The board does not recognize them as doctors but rather doctors in training. In the USA, those intending on practicing as a medical doctor must pass USMLE Step 3 or COMLEX-USA Level 3 exam which comes after year one or two of residency. This is not an opinion but fact, all the jargon you wrote above about data managers and administartors has nothing to do with what I'm talking about, my stance is strictly for those that wants to practice as a medical doctor! Having a medical degree alone does not make you a medical doctor in the USA, any further argument can be done between you and your keyboard....PEACE!

Your opinion is irrelevant

Before graduating from medical school you have to pass two board certification exams USMLE 1 & 2 then you are awarded Doctor Of Medicine (MD) not B.Sc or your wet dream

Not all MDs are practicing, so they don't need USMLE 3. Get that into your local head
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by MOnkeyBabe(f): 5:53pm On Sep 14
stanliwise:
What do you mean by good?
leave Am,e think say na nOllywooD
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by abbey621(m): 5:56pm On Sep 14
Yankee101:


Your opinion is irrelevant

Before graduating from medical school you have to pass two board certification exams USMLE 1 & 2 then you are awarded Doctor Of Medicine (MD) not B.Sc or your wet dream


Either you're completely ignorant or just trolling, where did I mention B.Sc? Can you see now that you're confused and probably suffering from low blood sugar? grin grin

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Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by OBku4(m): 5:57pm On Sep 14
ComeAndobo:


How is US citizenship slavery when it gives you freedom to do whatever you want with it. Who says you can't get different forms of grants, tax breaks, or even international jobs with your blue passport. The opportunities are endless.

A freedom that takes away almost half your paycheck for life no matter where u reside?

...European citizenship is way more convenient in my own opinion.
Lesser taxes which are only territorial
Moderately lower - better standard of living

anyways ..."To each man his own"

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Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by ProsperT2: 5:57pm On Sep 14
Trumptweet:
Please help me. I am in medical school. My cousin and his wife (both living in USA) introduced a girl to me. They want me to come over.

From my understanding the two families are friends.

According to my cousin, "she is a good girl from a good family "

I have already started chatting with her, she seems cool, apparently.

But I need unbiased views from those with experience please.

Put yourself in my position and advise me.

she's 27. She is doing her masters .im 29, finishing next yr.


Thank you.
Pray for God's direction and follow ur mind forget what u are thinking gaining along d line like green card but follow ur spirit.
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by Yankee101: 5:57pm On Sep 14
abbey621:


Either you're completely ignorant or just trolling, where did I mention B.Sc? Can you see now that you're confused and probably suffering from low blood sugar? grin grin


This boy, don't make me check how many employees you put for your SBA application send auditors to you now
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by abbey621(m): 5:59pm On Sep 14
Yankee101:



This boy, don't make me check how many employees you put for your SBA application send auditors to you now

LMAO....You want to send auditors to an auditor? I have been an I.T. audit manager now for 4 years and also own several businesses, so choose your battles wisely grin grin grin
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by Yankee101: 6:00pm On Sep 14
abbey621:


LMAO....You want to send auditors to an auditor? I have been an I.T. audit manager now for 4 years and also own several businesses, so choose your battles wisely grin grin grin

Ok, we have a case here

Let's go recover our CARES money

So you applied under multiple businessee?
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by sammieddi(m): 6:00pm On Sep 14
Trumptweet:
Please help me. I am in medical school. My cousin and his wife (both living in USA) introduced a girl to me. They want me to come over.

From my understanding the two families are friends.

According to my cousin, "she is a good girl from a good family "

I have already started chatting with her, she seems cool, apparently.

But I need unbiased views from those with experience please.

Put yourself in my position and advise me.

she's 27. She is doing her masters .im 29, finishing next yr.


Thank you.
She isn't a Nigerian, She is an American, so change that Mentality/ perspective you got. So that you don't start unconsciously comparing her with Girls here in Nigeria. My two cents.

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Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by Lennylinconlee(m): 6:00pm On Sep 14
You said we shld put ourself in ur shoe. Ok I assume I am you now.

This is what I will do.

As far as Nigeria is concern today...the only profession that look more promising is Medical. Meaning is certain you will get job when you finished your medical schl which remain just 1yr according to what you said... i will wait till i graduate. Get a job. And process you UK myself. Know fully well that as a medical personnel your service is highly needed over there. I will marry any girl of my choice here who have Nigeria mentality and understand well our belief and culture.

Note: most time it is not always exctly as they use to paint it until you get in. It is better to have sweet experience than bitter. Choose the kind of experience you prefer.

Ire o!
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by abbey621(m): 6:02pm On Sep 14
Yankee101:


Ok, we have a case here

Let's go recover our CARES money

Assuming you know the right agencies to contact and the right forms to file as a whistleblower grin grin
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by Crownstar01: 6:04pm On Sep 14
Lennylinconlee:
You said we shld put ourself in ur shoe. Ok I assume I am you now.

This is what I will do.

As far as Nigeria is concern today...the only profession that look more promising is Medical. Meaning is certain you will get job when you finished your medical schl which remain just 1yr according to what you said... i will wait till i graduate. Get a job. And process you UK myself. Know fully well that as a medical personnel your service is highly needed over there. I will marry any girl of my choice here who have Nigeria mentality and understand well our belief and culture.

Note: most time it is not always exctly as they use to paint it until you get in. It is better to have sweet experience than bitter. Choose the kind of experience you prefer.

Ire o!
Not all medical doctors in Nigeria sound. Some of them graduated through help and may unlikely pass the UK medical exams.
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by Yankee101: 6:04pm On Sep 14
abbey621:


Assuming you know the right agencies to contact and the right forms to file as a whistleblower grin grin

I'm an ombudsman
Na me be d agency
All these jati jati naija georgia boys, home of 419
Multiple businesses, same employees
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by PrettyNengiBBN: 6:06pm On Sep 14

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Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by nextstep(m): 6:12pm On Sep 14
Crownstar01:
Forget about that. Nigeria is a shithole with terrorist government. If the OP goes into medical in the US, he cannot struggle. He would earn a jumbo pay and this is what the girl has seen so far. She already knew OP would add value into her life.

OK oh... for every 1 that goes abroad, there are 2 making it here. Even the money to go abroad... that was made here in Nigeria. But let me not keep people from living out their dreams... before they label me a hater.
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by abbey621(m): 6:12pm On Sep 14
Yankee101:


I'm an ombudsman
Na me be d agency
All these jati jati naija georgia boys, home of 419
Multiple businesses, same employees

LMAO....na you be the agency, pauper wey dey call himself king grin grin grin
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by madjune: 6:16pm On Sep 14
Crispels:


So, what makes you think that Nigerian American girls despite their educational and career achievements, their Nigerian heritage, family values and the likes are not different from the people you compared them with?

Ok. I will take that.
The teen years between 13 and 19 are really crucial in the child transition to adulthood.
In these years, these our girls are here; they're mostly exposed to the trending norms and practices of their peers and no matter how much the most disciplined of them try to fight it, are outwardly or inwardly influenced by these social stimuli.

They may stay calm, studious and controlled by their parents through these times but it tends to flare up in later life.
That trait they were exposed to at those times always tend to stick through their later discourse and navigation through life's challenges.

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Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by Crownstar01: 6:17pm On Sep 14
nextstep:


OK oh... for every 1 that goes abroad, there are 2 making it here. Even the money to go abroad... that was made here in Nigeria. But let me not keep people from living out their dreams... before they label me a hater.
If Obama were in Kenya, he might be driving a bus by now. Nigeria during Jonathan's regime were far better unlike what you have now. Poverty capital!!

Lots of people are getting sick everyday due to lack of good food. The country is already gone.
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by yemi1504: 6:23pm On Sep 14
King44:
Not all marriages, there are scam marriages that would leave you broken for life over there and there are also some that are built on values.

Not all but I don't dispute your views but left to me I would baby mama her so that when kasala burst over there I won't have to part with my properties.

The foundation of marriage over there is nonsense only few follows the rules and do the right thing and that is why divorce is so rampant.

You are contradicting yourself bro! You said yourself that divorce is rampant there, how does that not make marriage a scam there? Just asking o.

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Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by Trumptweet: 6:24pm On Sep 14
humilitypays:


Beware of arranged marriage, moreso as a young promising man, avoid it!


The whole American girl thing may sound so posche and thrilling now, but trust me, you will regret it later in life.

You are a medical student, you can relocate abroad and work if that's your so wish in life...all you need to do is study well and write IELTS, write PLAB 1 and 2 which you can pass easily if you are bright student. I can't remember failing any exam as a student and even as job applicant, so you can do it.


Don't plan to use a woman to cross over abroad cos it always end in regrets. The girl is already an Americana, you a full blooded Naija boy with pride won't condone her excesses in marriage.


You can have a plan to relocate to UK, from UK to Australia then US if you so wish to live permanently abroad. UK is easier for doctors from Nigeria to migrate to for work....US is more difficult.


If you must marry a girl abroad, be the one to meet her yourself....and make sure you are absolutely in charge cos their head is always leaking relaxer due to excess freedom and women right over there.


In case you wanna know, I turned down like 3 of such arrangements from relatives and friends who thought they wanted to help me cross over to US through marrying a US citizen, and today, I can proudly say I am more successful than most of my mates living in the US whether as a Doctor, Nurse or whatever job they do there and I can travel to most countries on my own....I have peace of mind, I am an employer....I work at my own schedule, I rule my world....no woman to tell me any nonsense of how she helped me cross over to America like America is wealth.



So think twice......your future is slightly bright as a medical student about to graduate, all you need now is focus and dedication and the world is yours, forget women for now, you will be their hero soon!!

Sir, this is one of the best I have heard so far. Thank you very much. God bless you.

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Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by yemi1504: 6:24pm On Sep 14
ziondaughter247:


Shame of you! Omo mehn. Poverty is a real bastard. You want a man like you to shamelessly ride on the back of a woman, just for papers? Jeez, many Nigerian men really lack dignity. You're one of them.

See him - 'I'm not a fan of Nigerian women'. So said a man in his shit-hole in Mushin. Believe me, Nigerian women are just managing you! 'Oyibo' women won't touch you with a long pole!

Better life? Lol.....

Actually, shame on you Nigerian women that are total monsters, disasters and calamity!
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by bolaji1023: 6:26pm On Sep 14
You can migrate to any western country especially uk with a medical degree without the help of anybody so why marrying a girl you dont know more than 20%.if you want to practice abroad go and write ielts and uk plab1 and 2.from uk you can move to australia
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by MzMercie: 6:28pm On Sep 14
KenModi:


See this one ooo. Didn’t you see where he said they just started chatting and that she is cool; dude sounds like he is already falling for her...hence he asked for advice before going any further.

If he was solely interested in passport and citizenship...I don’t think he would be here asking for advice; would have jumped at the opportunity immediately.

Try and use your brain; don’t rush into conclusion.

Kindly read his question and my comment again slowly. Make sure you use your brain while reading, thanks.
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by MOnkeyBabe(f): 6:33pm On Sep 14
MT:


Look at the BIGGER picture. If you love her, you are about to give your generation unborn eternal opportunities. Forget about what people are saying that if you have to marry her, then she needs to come to Nigeria. Ask yourself, come to Nigeria to do what ? Leaving a world of opportunities for a world of misery.

Your education should prepare you to easily adapt to people of different cultures. It is beautiful to learn cultures of other people. Don't dwell on the NEGATIVES, dwell on the POSITIVES instead. Most people advising you here wont think twice to grab this opportunity. Your cousin and his wife have helped you, it is up to you now. My 2cents.




abi o, before they say he's a USeless ChUkwuDi that don't want to leaRn Handwork Or do Anything useful with his life
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by Crownstar01: 6:37pm On Sep 14
bolaji1023:
You can migrate to any western country especially uk with a medical degree without the help of anybody so why marrying a girl you dont know more than 20%.if you want to practice abroad go and write ielts and uk plab1 and 2.from uk you can move to australia
What if he does not pass these exams? You think people don't fail exams?
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by madridsta007(m): 6:38pm On Sep 14
twosquare:
grin grin
na so cheesy grin
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by rangerover(m): 6:41pm On Sep 14
She go show you say she Sabi america law as regards marriage well well.
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by MOnkeyBabe(f): 6:43pm On Sep 14
muzeze77:
she is 27 and still single then she has no one to marry her in america , and it’s always for a reason. And your cousin said she is a good what did you expect? Were you expecting her to say she is bad
they won't even say Something UniQue that would attract him to her PeRSOnAlity. What is Good?
Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by cococandy(f): 6:44pm On Sep 14
What difference do you think a wedding contracted in Nigeria will make?
gaius01:
Arrrrrrrh


First, how old are you ?
You are still in Medical school?
If you are too wife her, wife her in Nigeria not abroad cause. If not any small chaos Na police, you are vulnerable bro and you know she's OK, in the sense she's well to do so marrying her is not like a favour just that she need children and companion. Also know female are favour in court case outside.

I will advise you'd wife her here in Nigeria since she's a Nigerian.

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Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by cococandy(f): 6:46pm On Sep 14
Please tell us how to interpret control grin
gaius01:


Sir with all due respect, marrying such lady is not a problem if only She can come to Nigeria to marry and stay, but you going up there that implies you will be short to some right as a man. This lady is OK financial and educationally and marrying her you can't control anything about her. Beside she woñt have the moral an average Nigeria girls .

Modify

Feminist will misinterpret the word "Control" just see.

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