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Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by titusmichael27(m): 9:44pm On Sep 17, 2020
What marvels me atime is how this little girls will play a well calculated, mind blowing games that swift you off your feet in just a twingle of an eye, and you can't help but fall into it. I'm forever grateful for the red stuff though. Hey mr man, start going out with mature minds, I mean real men. You might wanna check out for this dude "Psychologist" right here on nairaland, and make sure you read all his threads..... any time.
Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by Uzomacharles: 9:46pm On Sep 17, 2020
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Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by Franklyspeakin: 9:47pm On Sep 17, 2020
Is your name OZO??
Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by Uzomacharles: 9:47pm On Sep 17, 2020
titusmichael27:
What marvels me atime is how this little girls will play a well calculated, mind blowing games that swift you off your feet in just a twingle of an eye, and you can't help but fall into it. I'm forever grateful for the red stuff though. Hey mr man, start going out with mature minds, I mean real men. You might wanna check out for this dude "Psychologist" right here on nairaland, and make sure you read all his threads..... any time.


Link Please

Thank You
Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by Uzomacharles: 9:49pm On Sep 17, 2020
I Have Mine Ooo....

A Girl I Crushed On Just Told Me That She Has A Boyfriend But I Don't Know If Is A Lie Or Not.... And I Can't Forget This Girl Cos I see Her Everyday...

Big Everything

This Love Thing Eeeh.....
Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by Failure44: 9:49pm On Sep 17, 2020
titusmichael27:
What marvels me atime is how this little girls will play a well calculated, mind blowing games that swift you off your feet in just a twingle of an eye, and you can't help but fall into it. I'm forever grateful for the red stuff though. Hey mr man, start going out with mature minds, I mean real men. You might wanna check out for this dude "Psychologist" right here on nairaland, and make sure you read all his threads..... any time.
Provide me a link to his thread pls
Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by sammycipher(m): 9:50pm On Sep 17, 2020
Failure44:

If you read what I wrote then you know I'm nothing like a simp.
When she turned me down, I didn't ask her out again and she came back begging for my forgiveness.

It's just that I have fallen so hard for this girl.
baba see
that girl doesn't love u at all, i repeat she doesn't have an iota of feelings for u
she relates well with her ex but can't date u amd she still says she loves u?
bro she is just keeping u by d side, and when she is done doing whatever she realises her ex can't take her back again, she will come to u
same shit happened to me before with a girl, let me just tell u
that girl still loves her ex
u are just an admirer and she is just receiving validation from u
moving on will be hard, i av been there
to make d moving on easier go to another girl
or should i say girls
it will be hard but keeping ur distance will help u a lot
remember don't accept her again even if she is d one who asks u out
because a girl who loves u and sees u as a worthy guy wont turn u down for shit
u r just a nice guy who she feeds on
Adios

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Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by Failure44: 9:54pm On Sep 17, 2020
sammycipher:

baba see
that girl doesn't love u at all, i repeat she doesn't have an iota of feelings for u
she relates well with her ex but can't date u amd she still says she loves u?
bro she is just keeping u by d side, and when she is done doing whatever she realises her ex can't take her back again, she will come to u
same shit happened to me before with a girl, let me just tell u
that girl still loves her ex
u are just an admirer and she is just receiving validation from u
moving on will be hard, i av been there
to make d moving on easier go to another girl
or should i say girls
it will be hard but keeping ur distance will help u a lot
remember don't accept her again even if she is d one who asks u out
because a girl who loves u and sees u as a worthy guy wont turn u down for shit
u r just a nice guy who she feeds on
Adios
Which I saw this earlier.
Just sent her a dm.
Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by Nobody: 10:00pm On Sep 17, 2020
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Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by sammycipher(m): 10:02pm On Sep 17, 2020
Failure44:

Which I saw this earlier.
Just sent her a dm.

Manny
sorry for d loads of blunders i made im the first post
i was rushing
Ok u sent her a message
no p
just look for a way and end d chat
if u value ur mental health stay clear from her
u are a medical student and trust me ur grades will drop should u have anything to do with that girl
its just an infatuation my man, u wont die
Avoid those saying u should.chase or persist
they wont be there when u are suffering
because even if u later date her u will be too attached that she might call u clingy or say u are putting jer in bondage lol
what is happening to u once happened to me not too long ago
just be wise fam

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Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by Failure44: 10:07pm On Sep 17, 2020
sammycipher:


Manny
sorry for d loads of blunders i made im the first post
i was rushing
Ok u sent her a message
no p
just look for a way and end d chat
if u value ur mental health stay clear from her
u are a medical student and trust me ur grades will drop should u have anything to do with that girl
its just an infatuation my man, u wont die
Avoid those saying u should.chase or persist
they wont be there when u are suffering
because even if u later date her u will be too attached that she might call u clingy or say u are putting jer in bondage lol
what is happening to u once happened to me not too long ago
just be wise fam
Thanks for words of advice man.
I highly appreciate it.
Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by dorin27(f): 10:24pm On Sep 17, 2020
You will get over her with time. Just do whatever makes you happy. Good luck
Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by youngmo001(m): 10:26pm On Sep 17, 2020
Failure44:
This is going to be long one.

I'm hopelessly in love with this girl I met back on sec school.
She talked to me at first and we immediately clicked it's as if we knew each other for ages.
Fast forward 2 months later I ask her to be my girlfriend after I had noticed she felt the same for me, she'd try to kiss me but me being a shy person and suffering from extreme social anxiety back then secondary school even with my good looks I was still very very shy.
Anyways she turned me down, I asked her why and she had no reason, I respected myself and didnt ask anymore.
The next day she started ignoring me, I swear it torn my heart to see the way this girl would snub me, 2 days later she came back begging and I forgave her we went back to being extremely close she'd tell me everything even her personal family matters which I found very weird.
Fast forward half a year later, we're so close most think we're dating and even herself would tell me she talks to me and often forgets I'm not her boyfriend.
I try again and ask her out, She rejects me again telling me she fears when we break up, we would stop talking even tho she still talks and relates well with her EX whom bad mouthed her publicly and she'd like us to get married instead of dating (This honestly pissed me off and I found it extremely difficult to communicate with her)

Presently now (almost a year )we don't talk, I deleted her number so as to get over her.
Truth be told i can't stop thinking about her and it's driving me mad, i recently came across a video and some photos of her online and it just originated those feelings for her.
I'm hopelessly in love with this girl and I'm sick of it.
All I ask is for advice, how do I move on?
I'm a person of that values self respect ALOT and i can't bring myself to talk to her after she turned me down TWICE.

P.S She even told me she had a crush on me, so it honestly left me confused when she turned me down the second time.


flirt with girls, the ones more beautiful than her...sharp sharp u will forget her

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Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by titusmichael27(m): 10:35pm On Sep 17, 2020
The Redpill Constitution (bitter truths) by Dpsychologist just use this on your search box

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Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by millionboi2: 10:37pm On Sep 17, 2020
xband:
Who want to move with a guy that bear that moniker?
Kai u dey see oo


Op answer
Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by millionboi2: 10:41pm On Sep 17, 2020
sammycipher:

baba see
that girl doesn't love u at all, i repeat she doesn't have an iota of feelings for u
she relates well with her ex but can't date u amd she still says she loves u?
bro she is just keeping u by d side, and when she is done doing whatever she realises her ex can't take her back again, she will come to u
same shit happened to me before with a girl, let me just tell u
that girl still loves her ex
u are just an admirer and she is just receiving validation from u
moving on will be hard, i av been there
to make d moving on easier go to another girl
or should i say girls
it will be hard but keeping ur distance will help u a lot
remember don't accept her again even if she is d one who asks u out
because a girl who loves u and sees u as a worthy guy wont turn u down for shit
u r just a nice guy who she feeds on
Adios
you ppl should stop taking girls too serious.
Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by lenghtinny(m): 11:02pm On Sep 17, 2020
Bro honestly your matter tire Mathias.....

After one year, I believe the butterflies running around in your belly ought to have died by now....
Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by Fourwinds: 11:18pm On Sep 17, 2020
Failure44:

Bro
If you have ever fallen in love, you would know it's impossible to remain friends with that person.





dingbang:
cheesy be there crushing when she is getting laid elsewhere


Failure44:9:19pm
I honestly don't care.
That's her business.
I just wanna get over her.




OP you are confused and not serious

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Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by Nobody: 11:22pm On Sep 17, 2020
op"s post is exactly why young men should not consume too much of telenovella films
Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by Nobody: 11:58pm On Sep 17, 2020
Common,Mehn that ain't love right there,the reason why you think you feel shit for her is because you are probably obsessed about here as regard to time spent with her.Can also say it's infatuation in the making

Piece of advice find a girl that would put in more energy into whatever it is you want to have with her.work on your self life's too short.

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