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Quality20:
I disagree with you o. Some are just cool with being with a guy. A lady even told me that her ex is a good oyimbo man and he doesn't sex her, that they only romance. Another said all her previous relationship were sexless

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And you believed her,your naivity is out of this planet,Is a fact that women deny having sex

professore:
where did you go since all these while? I told you I was just trying to be funny in the thread you quoted.

are you the same person I quoted,so you operate two accounts here

Tonto30:
Staying off relationship sounds like a good idea. From my personal experience though, even when you tell these guys you don't want sex, they still go ahead and agree with your conditions hoping that maybe you will fall so madly in love with them and they can change your mind. Later on, when they realize it is not happening, they start acting funny.
I still don't believe relationship should be about sex. Can we talk about investment, career and the rest but nah, guys only think about SEX. Make I shut up before they come for me

Cc: mcslize, xynerise

You have a point there and I can see where you are coming from.

This is why as Christians (believers in Christ) who are not allowed to have a boy/girl friend, because that will inevitably lead to sex.

And the practice of sex for us is a sin for an unmarried person. So the advice is: keep all relationships platonic, without sex, until you are married.

It's a tough call, but we are doing it and it has been saving plenty of issues.

1StopRudeness:
The world isn’t black and white...u sound like girl. Always crying for balance of convinience...

You said fvck boys should look for hoes and not virgins.....

do poor girls look for poor guys to date or marry?

Do wicked politicians use our bad hospitals they dey spoilt with their corrupt practice...??

At the end of the day we all know and like good things...the approach towards causal issues is never the same with serious/life time issues...
Women should get that before spreading their legs anyhow.... and start crying that men shouldn’t have a choice..

The truth is, many fvck boys have been with ladies that other men have used and dumped.. ladies with cascades of abortions on their resume.....ur ideology of saying only virgin men deserve virgin women is like saying I don’t have the right to have a new car because I’ve driven plenty 4th-hand cars.......

If you are saying men that have disflowered women and dumped them don’t deserve another virgin... I would understand u a bit...

But that a guy slept with a lady 10 other guys have slept with with now makes him unqualified for a virgin...that’s the most absurd thing I’ve ever heard....

You did not get my point.Let say,you as a guy is a virgin.Will you like to marry a girl that have been bleeped by different types and size of dicks.I know your answer will be NO.I just turn the table around by saying a girl that is a virgin will also not like to marry a guy that have done such also.
A female virgin will not like to have sex till they are married and this guy that is obsessed with sex will not be able to hold yourself whicg will lead to getting it outside.
But when a responsible male virgin is in a relationship with a responsible female virgin.They will be able to control their sexual urges,they will be able to talk about the sexual life to know if they are sexually compatible without having sex.Though I know a female that have been disvirgin can be lying to her guy just to receive it outside but as for me,I believe as I try to have a good moral life,I will not encounter this type of girls.I am a guy bro.

Zzor:
are you the same person I quoted,so you operate two accounts here

you most have forgotten, I'm talking of a post where I said my babe was not bald and that other guys' babes were in advance level of baldness, then you replied that I should take care of my babe. Then I replied I had none but just trying to be funny. Zzor I hope you remember now.

paul100:
You did not get my point.Let say,you as a guy is a virgin.Will you like to marry a girl that have been bleeped by different types and size of dicks.I know your answer will be NO.I just turn the table around by saying a girl that is a virgin will also not like to marry a guy that have done such also.
A female virgin will not like to have sex till they are married and this guy that is obsessed with sex will not be able to hold yourself whicg will lead to getting it outside.
But when a responsible male virgin is in a relationship with a responsible female virgin.They will be able to control their sexual urges,they will be able to talk about the sexual life to know if they are sexually compatible without having sex.Though I know a female that have been disvirgin can be lying to her guy just to receive it outside but as for me,I believe as I try to have a good moral life,I will not encounter this type of girls.I am a guy bro.

It’s like u don’t know how the world works....
U belive that living a moral life will make u not encounter sexually volatile babes...?? U are naive mehnnn....

Is even easier for a lady to stay away from a fine boy than an ugly rich ma. Woman =money =Time

Women are decieved by what they hear
Men by what they see
A virgin is for a virgin
If u not a virgin don't expect a virgin
But if u don't have plans on getting married don't DATE..
Dating is meant to know if u compatible with someone
About sexual compatibility, its something you both will have to work on when you married, at least we have sexual therapist in nigeria

But to face reality 9ja love money and guys love pussy... So we are co-dependent
Just that d prostitution is with the person they are dating, once they both get tired of each other they will move on to the next

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6z_9CwsQMUY

Quality20:
I disagree with you o. Some are just cool with being with a guy. A lady even told me that her ex is a good oyimbo man and he doesn't sex her, that they only romance. Another said all her previous relationship were sexless

And you believed?

professore:
you most have forgotten, I'm talking of a post where I said my babe was not bald and that other guys' babes were in advance level of baldness, then you replied that I should take care of my babe. Then I replied I had none but just trying to be funny. Zzor I hope you remember now.

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Sixfeetbelle:
Cc: mcslize, xynerise

Of course you are right. Like I have posted before, there are quite a number of guys that can go on with the no sex relationship with any lady. But experiences had repeatedly shown over and over again that a number of ladies always end up playing such guys by having another secret lover guy they offer sex on a steady basis nullifying the no sex relationship they first entered with the first guy.

That simply means such girls have double standards. Because by the time the guy they agreed on a no sex relationship with finds out the babe had been sleeping with another third party guy in his back, you will agree with me that a great trust has been broken which will make such innocent guy never to agree on such agreement never again with any girl if he decides to go into another relationship in the future.

Go on a no sex relationship with one guy and making out with another totally different guy in the absent of the first guy, that whats most ladies do.

I do believe you understand my point.

Alexaonfleek:
cc mcslize
Another angle.

I have never been betrayed by any girl. I learn from the experiences of others. Besides no girl will ever break a heart of guy who put in no emotions with ladies. Can a girl ever break the heart of a guy like kidwaya? I hope that gives you a clearer picture now.

I don't put in emotions when having any dealing with any lady. I just go with the flow.


I believe you now get the main point I am driving at. Guys need to know that when a girl is agreeing on a no sex relationship with one guy, she will be bleeping another guy. That's the bitter truth. While she will still be collecting money from the guy she agrees to go on a no sex relationship with on a constant basis.


This is just one bitter truth naive guys need to know.

Alexaonfleek:
You're missing my point.
I'm not talking about ladies with side lovers here.
I'm talking about a lady who doesn't want to have sex before marriage,but she wants to be in a relationship that will lead to marriage.
Let's be honest with ourselves.
Guys that don't want sex before marriage,they're not up to 7 in this country.
They always want to taste before eating

As for the side lover issue,that one happens when a lady doesn't know how to draw boundaries.

I understand your point no doubt. However, I still stand by my point that ladies do always reneged on such agreement at the end. There was a guy who posted a thread here that a lady he agreed on a no sex relationship with got deflowered by another guy. After the deed has been done, she started shedding crocodile tears to the innocent.

In all, if you ladies can hold on to the agreement without bleeping up at the end, then it is a welcomed development. But history has repeated itself over and over again making it so hard for guys who truly wants to go on such relationship to see it as a scam.

Mcslize:
I have never been betrayed by any girl. I learn from the experiences of others. Besides no girl will ever break a heart of guy who put in no emotions with ladies. Can a girl ever break the heart of a guy like kidwaya? I hope that gives you a clearer picture now.

I don't put in emotions when having any dealing with any lady. I just go with the flow.


I believe you now get the main point I am driving at. Guys need to know that when a girl is agreeing on a no sex relationship with one guy, she will be bleeping another guy. That's the bitter truth. While she will still be collecting money from the guy she agrees to go on a no sex relationship with on a constant basis.


This is just a just one bitter truth naive guys need to know.

I have a huge problem with the fact that you're generalising this issue.

And again,I'm not trying to justify girls having side lovers,but it's a two way street.
Sometimes,it could also happen that a guy agrees to the no sex and all,and then gets himself a side chick or patronize olosho.

Alexaonfleek:
I have a huge problem with the fact that you're generalising this issue.

And again,I'm not trying to justify girls having side lovers,but it's a two way street.
Sometimes,it could also happen that a guy agrees to the no sex and all,and then gets himself a side chick or patronize olosho.

I am not generalising but the percentage of girls that will hold on to such agreement is quite a meagre 10%.

90% of girls will flop up even if they see a guy that agreed to the no sex relationship.

It's a break of trust which history has repeatedly shown that is preventing experienced guys never to agree to such.

90% of girls will break the agreement. Just 10% can genuinely hold on to such till the end and they are very rare to find.

Mcslize:
Of course you are right. Like I have posted before, there are quite a number of guys that can go on with the no sex relationship with any lady. But experiences had repeatedly shown over and over again that a number of ladies always end up playing such guys by having another secret lover guy they offer sex on a steady basis nullifying the no sex relationship they first entered with the first guy.

That simply means such girls have double standards. Because by the time the guy they agreed on a no sex relationship with finds out the babe had been sleeping with another third party guy in his back, you will agree with me that a great trust has been broken which will make such innocent guy never to agree on such agreement never again with any girl if he decides to go into another relationship in the future.

Go on a no sex relationship with one guy and making out with another totally different guy in the absent of the first guy, that whats most ladies do.

I do believe you understand my point.

Your point makes it sound like guys are totally exonerated from those that renegade on this agreement. Men pretend they are staying celibate with the lady whilst shagging a lot of ladies on the side. It's not designated to one gender alone.



No offense, but from your write-up all over this thread, you sound embittered.

Alexaonfleek:
I have a huge problem with the fact that you're generalising this issue.

And again,I'm not trying to justify girls having side lovers,but it's a two way street.
Sometimes,it could also happen that a guy agrees to the no sex and all,and then gets himself a side chick or patronize olosho.

Babe, stop debating this issue with this guy. He is all over this thread regurgitating the same points over and over again and somehow claims he is coming from a logical point of view. Like really? Nigga sounds like them ladies did a tumble dry process on him

Truth is, arguing with a man who holds on strongly to whatever he thinks/believes is like pouring water on a stiff rock. It would never get soaked.

ugbede69:
I really learnt a lot from her...once a girl tells me no sex, then there's nothing like relationship

That's the right thing to do. That experience has now opened your eyes. Even virgins do bleep up let alone a girl who is a non virgin.

So far so good, I can never put so much emotions with the opposite sex. Even if I end up getting married, I am not going to do that out of emotions. I need to be logical when it comes to choosing a life partner.

Emotions can make a man take irrational decisions.

While ladies always bleep up is because they reason with their emotions always. So, if any experienced guy comes in and work on their emotions , they end up breaking the agreement they have with the first. That's just because they just can't control their emotions making them to disappoint naive innocent guys.

I can never believe what girls say. The secret, always do the opposite of whatever a girl tells you and you will find yourself not getting emotionally entangled with any.

And I don't take advice from ladies on how to handle ladies. Their advice are always filled with emotions and illogical while as guys, we are the logical type.

Sixfeetbelle:
Your point makes it sound like guys are totally exonerated from those that renegade on this agreement. Men pretend they are staying celibate with the lady whilst shagging a lot of ladies on the side. It's not designated to one gender alone.



No offense, but from your write-up all over this thread, you sound embittered.

I am not embittered. My write up is just a wake up call to all guys who may be thinking they are dating good girls. They need to make deligent investigation they will be shocked of their findings.

Guys shouldn't be the type of guys girls can deceive and fool around. That's my wake up call to all guys.

Mcslize:
I am not embittered. My write up is just a wake up call to all guys who may be thinking they are dating good girls. They need to make deligent investigation they will be shocked of their findings.

Guys shouldn't be the type of guys girls can deceive and fool around. That's my wake up call to all guys.

Isn't it weird that despite all your ramblings you are yet to admit that men sometimes don't keep their end of the "no-sex agreement"?



You definitely sound bitter

Sixfeetbelle:
Babe, stop debating this issue with this guy. He is all over this thread regurgitating the same points over and over again and somehow claims he is coming from a logical point of view. Like really? Nigga sounds like them ladies did a tumble dry process on him

Truth is, arguing with a man who holds on strongly to whatever he thinks/believes is like pouring water on a stiff rock. It would never get soaked.

My advice to guys is never to take advice from ladies.

There is no way u can control yourself if you meet a guy that can control your emotions.

That's why guys shouldn't believe whatever that come from you ladies. Your ways are opposite of guys. That is the truth.

Sixfeetbelle:
Isn't it weird that despite all your ramblings you are yet to admit that men sometimes don't keep their end of the "no-sex agreement"?



You definitely sound bitter

Yeah you are right. I am very very bitter with the truth. You and I do know the truth is always bitter right?

You ladies always feel threatened by any post that intends to open guys eyes to the truth. What according to you will that be called again? Isn't bitterness too?

Mcslize:
Yeah you are right. I am very very bitter with the truth. You and I do know the truth is always bitter right?

You ladies always feel threatened by any post that intends to open guys eyes to the truth. What according to you will that be called again? Isn't bitterness too?

Attend to the first paragraph of the previous post, then we can talk.

When it comes to ladies, my posts are always undiluted and this truly feel quite threatening to ladies.

I understand how you girls feel about posts like these. You just have to swallow the bitter truth. I just don't like it when girls fool innocent guys around or manipulate them in relationships.

Every guy should learn how the female's mind works and they will never have reasons to create threads on how that holy girl ended up disappointing them.

Ladies please don't feel threatened by these type of posts. The news need to be spread and that's what we the experienced guys are doing.

Of a truth, we are just trying to help our fellow guys to open their eyes to the hidden truth regarding the opposite sex.

That is not a bad thing to do, is it?

Sixfeetbelle:
Attend to the first paragraph of the previous post, then we can talk.

For the first paragraph, the society didn't place more emphasis on whether a guy should have sex or not because a man still remain a man whether he bleeps multiple girls.

But this is not the same with ladies. If you can keep yourself and stay off sex, I will encourage you to do that because it will help you have less body counts till when you are ready to settle down.

Sex of a thing really doesn't affect guys much as it affects girls. Cuz at the end, the bleep boys will still settle down with the descent girls that are able to keep themselves.

My verdict?

No sex relationship will favor girls the more cuz it will help u have less body counts.

While this won't affect guys whether they have sex prior to settling down, there is no where the society has ever applauded guys for remaining virgins or staying off sex for long time. With that in mind, we have seen girls auctioning their virginity but never have I seen a guy auctioning his virginity.

So, in all you can see that staying off sex benefits female more than guys.

So back to your question of do guys not reneged on a no sex agreement?

I will say that's just guys being guys cuz at the end it is still the descent girls we will look out for to settle down with. So, it is left for girls to have multiple body counts or not. It is an individual preferences.

Mcslize:
So back to your question of do guys not reneged on a no sex agreement?

I will say that's just guys being guys cuz at the end it is still the descent girls we will look out for to settle down with. So, it is left for girls to have multiple body counts or not. It is an individual preferences.

Still does not answer the question explicitly but I'll take what I can get.

Guys renegade on the no-sex agreement because they are guys, so why is your emphasis only on girls who do such? Are they not being "girls"? Why the need to hold them accountable when their body count is their problem? Besides, you'll still marry whoever you choose, so, it baffles the mind what your agenda is.


My advice: stop discouraging people from going into a no-sex agreement since, in your own words, boys will be boys and girls have preferences.

Sixfeetbelle:
Still does not answer the question explicitly but I'll take what I can get.

Guys renegade on the no-sex agreement because they are guys, so why is your emphasis only on girls who do such? Are they not being "girls"? Why the need to hold them accountable when their body count is their problem? Besides, you'll still marry whoever you choose, so, it baffles the mind what your agenda is.


My advice: stop discouraging people from going into a no-sex agreement since, in your own words, boys will be boys and girls have preferences.

I never discouraged anyone from going into a no sex relationship with any girl that opt for that.

I base all my emphasis on the need for guys to be wise and not trust foolishly any girl they choose to go on a no sex relationship with.

They must ensure the said girl is deserving and not the type that will start shagging behind. If that happens, it will completely ruin the relationship and the agreement.

In conclusion, guys should only agree on a no sex relationship with a girl that is 100% honest to hold on to that agreement till the end.

Simply don't opf for such a relationship with an innocent guy if you know within your heart that you cannot stay completely celibate till the end.

Mcslize:
That's the right thing to do. That experience has now opened your eyes. Even virgins do bleep up let alone a girl who is a non virgin.

So far so good, I can never put so much emotions with the opposite sex. Even if I end up getting married, I am not going to do that out of emotions. I need to be logical when it comes to choosing a life partner.

Emotions can make a man take irrational decisions.

While ladies always bleep up is because they reason with their emotions always. So, if any experienced guy comes in and work on their emotions , they end up breaking the agreement they have with the first. That's just because they just can't control their emotions making them to disappoint naive innocent guys.

I can never believe what girls say. The secret, always do the opposite of whatever a girl tells you and you will find yourself not getting emotionally entangled with any.

And I don't take advice from ladies on how to handle ladies. Their advice are always filled with emotions and illogical while as guys, we are the logical type.

I concur