lefulefu:
i am in my 30s and nope i can never invite any nigerian girl to come over with me.I no get serious babe wen i comot so it will be very stupid of me to now invite a girl i saw on facebook or someone linked me up to her .I dont see anything wrong dating a foreign woman or a naija lady based in a foreign land.Na men wey dey restrict themselves to say they must only marry nigerian woman na im go get into issues.why will u invite someone to join u that know nothing about..just because they told u she comes from a good family .But having said this if u already based overseas and u had a wife before u left and u are capable to bring her over i believe its unfair just to leave her back in naija with the kids.Haba the kids need to see their dad and feel his presence [b]nau.

You are right, it is the right thing to do but it is not mandatory. Abroad is a completely different environment and unless you are a top doctor, surgeon, physiotherapist or the likes.......abeg leave that madam in Nigeria Biko...it is more pain than it is worth. Alternatively bring her when your last born is over 18.
Many men have done it and lived in regrets and serious agony for that decision, and many with fragile health have died early.
Foreign women too, no dey easy because your children will never be yours...

ibedun:


You are right, it is the right thing to do but it is not mandatory. Abroad is a completely different environment and unless you are a top doctor, surgeon, physiotherapist or the likes.......abeg leave that madam in Nigeria Biko...it is more pain than it is worth. Alternatively bring her when your last born is over 18.
Many men have done it and lived in regrets and serious agony for that decision, and many with fragile health have died early.
Foreign women too, no dey easy because your children will never be yours...

what makes mounting a necessity for women that like men, they cannot indulge in abstinence. Y must dey be the beginning of the lust circle?

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Chino4NAUTH:

I won't mount her bro.. Let another man do... Seriously I wonder as well why men do such, living this fine young woman without any touch of a man for years.

Correct Man

Let the unfortunate ones gratify their flesh.

It is allowed.

The consequences are allowed too.

Even if you no be christian

u go don hear david story.

How e take end.

Samakus:


You cannot possibly be serious.

Let another man do it. I'm not doing it. Period. Not now, not ever

this i am plato might be a js 1 student giving advice to im papa

nairaland

MrBrownJay1:


That's because you failed to understand what I wrote... If wifey is already h0rny and willing to offer the toto, then we have to be honest about the situation, instead of pretending that she won't give up the toto to the 1st available Mandingo warrior.

If you believe that this is a bad advice, then so be it.
How can a man start a family then abandon the poor wife back home? I understand why many are losing their minds.

They guy already knows wat to do. Beside de woman can masturbate. Is better than cheating

MrBrownJay1:


That's because you failed to understand what I wrote... If wifey is already h0rny and willing to offer the toto, then we have to be honest about the situation, instead of pretending that she won't give up the toto to the 1st available Mandingo warrior.

If you believe that this is a bad advice, then so be it.
How can a man start a family then abandon the poor wife back home? I understand why many are losing their minds.

They guy already knows wat to do. Beside de woman can masturbate if Hot. Is better than cheating

Originalsly:


Staying away from one's family for extended periods .... regardless of reason.... will always affect those left behind. If we're looking at the wife remaining loyal.... then she is more likely to do so if he is on an offshore oil rig thannif he is abroad. My reasoning is offshore the husband has a set date for return..... while abroad he will be guessing... I'll be home before Christmas.... dosen't happen...I'llbe home for Valentine's Day.... it will be our best ever!.... doesn't happen.... Easter for sure... doesn't happen. Is it not then the wife will be ehmmm...... opening up to the neighbour?.... or the landlord?

if you have the thought or anything close to that kind of thought then you cant stay away from ur wife for a month cos you will have heart attack for no reason, The institution of marriage of for the matured mind and the ones that sees beyond those things you mentioned.Women are not like MEN, women think with their heart why us mean think with our head,.A woman who wants to cheat will cheat irrespective of wether you are far or near.

Emotionss:
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Yes.
The authorities are with his papers because he was at the wrong place and the wrong time.

The Authorities are with his papers, from what tombo bar did you get shyte like that frm?

lefulefu:
really?? if u believe that u would believe anything

Well, we are all assuming so you want me to accept your assumption and you cant accept mine? Do you see where you are flawed

franchasng:
yeah but women are easily convinced and even deceived, their false generalisation can convince many ladies in such position honestly.


It's all good

Agreed but such women would have that tendency and in the frame of mind, there are loads who aint!

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erico2k2:

The Authorities are with his papers, from what tombo bar did you get shyte like that frm?

He was at the wrong place at the wrong time.
Their papers was seized pending investigations.
At least that was what he keep telling the wife.

BKsoul:
everybody with his or her story... if your wife is not among your priorities, you know the reason why.......

i
i clap you.

Babe lets face and stop being hypocritical about this: could you please tell me which men all the married naija women have been dating and cheating with? i guess they are Kenyan men right? I am not encouraging him to go sleep with her, just letting you know 'married women are more slick and slimy when it come to cheating; they are worse than the men.

virginprincess:
Well i have nothing to say to you, because the op has giving you the best reply himself, nigeria men & their stupid mentality.

Emotionss:
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He was at the wrong place at the wrong time.
Their papers was seized pending investigations.
At least that was what he keep telling the wife.

Bro is either you have or you dont have papers, there aint no inbetween

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erico2k2:

Bro is either you have or you dont have papers, there aint no inbetween

Well that's what he keep telling his wife and relations.

MrBrownJay1:


If you don't mount her, someone in the area eventually will. Body no be firewood. Only a foolish man would go at the other side of the world for years and expect his wife to patiently wait. What kind of evil man would even expect that of a wife?

Men are their own worst enemies. Imagine advising a man sleeps with another man's wife. This is why whenever I see men support each other, I just laugh. The heart of man is wicked

adg98:


You are so on point

I wonder why a man will live is wife home while working abroad. Long distance marriage is a NO for me

Men in long distance marriage can cheat just for sex but for women it goes beyond that. Women loves affections and once they start getting emotionally attach to a man, they won't only give the kpekus they are likely to give their heart too

That's a cliché right there. Men too can cheat and give their heart just as much as women can especially in 2020.

MrBrownJay1:


That's because you failed to understand what I wrote... If wifey is already h0rny and willing to offer the toto, then we have to be honest about the situation, instead of pretending that she won't give up the toto to the 1st available Mandingo warrior.

If you believe that this is a bad advice, then so be it.



How can a man start a family then abandon the poor wife back home? I understand why many are losing their minds.

clown

When it happens dont say wise men no warn you.

Arcbox:
stay there and be thinking low when the world has moved above you guys. only thinking of evil in your mind.

lefulefu:
if u bring another person permantly in with u that means u will have to pay more rent.can u do tha?.if u want to bring in someone with u u will have to let the landlord know about it and he or she will demand more..but if u come dey camp another person parmanetly with you and u paying the same rent u paying living alone that one go be wahala

Hian... Is it in Nigeria or somewhere else? What's the landlord's business in so far there is no complain of criminal activities.. I'm sure is not eastern Nigeria where even families can come stay over

Where be that?

lefulefu:
it was stated in the rent that it would be only one occupant.but like i said before that u can have ur female visitors and they can spend some time with u.that is allowed.But what i see they dont allow here is parmanent camping.If u want to bring someone in with u on parmanent basis u would tell the landlord and he might increase his rent.

Hogwash

ibedun:


110% reason mine is not joining. That has become the racket for Nigerian women here in the UK!
You will be a victim especially if she has aunties, cousins, sisters and the likes here. Alternatively you become her “wife” and she becomes a wicked “husband”.

Before you start judging nonsense, come and work for 30 years here and then invite a Naija hungry girl to come and join you so she can use domestic abuse laws to take everything you have laboured for. Ok! Women that will disown you within 5 mins if you run into poverty or health problems. How Old are you?

Wao.. You seem to be talking from experience.. That's really very very strong

lefulefu:
do sailors stay in the sea for ever? ..and talking of many of these guys who work in oil rigs for months hope u know the ones who are married their wives sleep around with reckless abandon .some of these men even know their wives sleep around but they have resigned themselves to fate.Most times if u have a profession that requires u travelling all the time its wise just getting a baby mama.Footballers who travel all the time to meet their games engagements if its a long trip some of them bring their wives with them.There are some medical doctors who do their jobs travelling to different regions..u have heard of doctors without border abi? some prefer marrying each other in the same profession and if the man has a passion for travelling so also will the woman.they will travel together and do their profession together.It sucks when u as a man travel for so long a time and u just live ur wife and kids for months.Sooner or later her will power will crack and men who specialise in sleeping with married women will swarm over ur wife like ants around sugar

Men who specialise in sleeping with married women?!

I try not to judge things I do not understand because we all have our individual fights.

Dpundict:

Wtf!!! Friends to munch and chew on my wife? No. Never ever

SavageResponse:


Men who specialise in sleeping with married women?!

if u dont know b4 know now ooo
some men get phd in sleeping with married women
dem are professionals in that angle
their own na to look for married woman wey dem go chop and wen the opportunity arise dem strike

Chino4NAUTH:

Hian... Is it in Nigeria or somewhere else? What's the landlord's business in so far there is no complain of criminal activities.. I'm sure is not eastern Nigeria where even families can come stay over

Where be that?

i dont know he was saying something about tax officials.but then u are a foreigner in a country and no be ur house so no be the best of place to dey argue with the owner of the house.As long as he is reasonable as gives u ur space i dont see anything u would be arguing

Chino4NAUTH:

Hian... Is it in Nigeria or somewhere else? What's the landlord's business in so far there is no complain of criminal activities.. I'm sure is not eastern Nigeria where even families can come stay over

Where be that?

even in nigeria if u dey do criminal activities in a landlord"s house he wont say anything as long as u pay the rent .All those houses wey kidnappers dey put their victims no be landlords get those houses ..i am sure the landlords know their houses are a den of criminals but since they get payed regular they prefer to look the other way.If u are family man with loads of children and wives the rent u would pay would be different from the one a bachelor pays cos u would be using more resources.But if u no gree pay and u want to pay the same rent a bachelor pays den matter go arise

tundeblack:
Pls send me the mama twins number

Peacefullove:

Sure. i know
Just that u women love attention, which can be a weakness, one Guy shower u with attention during those periods.... and anything can happen.

.lol not necessarily

erico2k2:



A woman who wants to cheat will cheat irrespective of wether you are far or near.

That's true..... but why would you create a situation to encourage her to cheat?