tobechi74:
U are emotionally attached

I love her, but I think she loves me more. I'm not so emotionally attached to her. Most of the time she thought I had another girl cos I don't get too jealous. I take things lightly, and I don't react the way she expects

Covid:
I've been with my fiancee for three months and we are not in a sexual relationship; she is a virgin and we both agreed not to have sex until we are married. I noticed that each time we had a little misunderstanding and we don't talk for a day, I literally fall sick. This is the third time and it can't be a coincidence.

Am I the only one experiencing this? Please advise!

Cc:
Rocktation
Farano

How did you know she is a virgin?
More so I hope you haven’t told her yet?

Covid:
I love her, but I think she loves me more. I'm not so emotionally attached to her. Most of the time she thought I had another girl cos I don't get too jealous. I take things lightly, and I don't react the way she expects

cool

Op, if I were you, I would listen to Truvel, He wrote everything you need ...

frozen70:


I think you are falling sick because you don't communicate with her the way you guys use to communicate when you are in good state

Try to avoid that thing that will make you to be having misundersting with her

That sickness is showing that your emotions are fighting that quarrel and the break

It's could be love

Thanks for your comment. I'm not really emotionally affected and I don't take our misunderstanding too seriously cos she's the one always bringing up an issue out of nothing. I spent most of my time working online, I have no time for argument with her, but the reason I fall sick each time I decide to give her a break is what I do not understand.

Truvel:
U Are Acting Like A Woman & U Are Too Emotionally Attached To Her, Dat's Y U Are Experiencing Dat. By D Way, How Sure Are U Dat She Is Even A Virgin? Don't Believe Dis Lies, If U Don't Want To Be Heart Broken. 4rm My Experience, Apart 4rm Other Means, I Can Spot Most Virgin Or Non Virgin Ladies By Mere Looking At Their Pics. Like I Said B4 U Are Too Emotionally Attached To Her Dat's Why. U Need To Train Ur Heart To Be Strong To D Point Dat Losing A Lady Whose Behaviour Irritates U Means Nothing To U.

Thank you bro, but I'm not emotionally attached to her. I'm this kind of person that would buy a drink for 3 if I see her with a guy. I've once asked her to invite one banker guy for a drink when she told me the guy was disturbing her (asking her out), and she was almost mad at me cos I didn't get jealous.

DMerciful:
You are too into her so you worry too much when there's a misunderstanding resulting in fall of your immunity and sickness comes in. Relax and be calming down , nobody is indispensable!

No, bro, I'm not

stanliwise:

How did you know she is a virgin?
More so I hope you haven’t told her yet?

Of course I know she's a virgin, she is just 21, and she told me, she obviously can't lie to me. I've also noticed that myself. I haven't told her I normally fall sick when we don't talk.

QuillanHardy:
Op, if I were you, I would listen to Truvel, He wrote everything you need ...

Bro, he is wrong, I'm not emotionally attached to my girl and I don't get jealous, this is the more reason she thinks I have a side chick.

Then its coincidence!

Covid:
No, bro, I'm not

DMerciful:
Then its coincidence!

Even for the third time?

Covid:
Bro, he is wrong, I'm not emotionally attached to my girl and I don't get jealous, this is the more reason she thinks I have a side chick.

It's Likely U Are Obesess Abt Her.

Covid:
Thank you bro, but I'm not emotionally attached to her. I'm this kind of person that would buy a drink for 3 if I see her with a guy. I've once asked her to invite one banker guy for a drink when she told me the guy was disturbing her (asking her out), and she was almost mad at me cos I didn't get jealous.

She Might Av Told U Dat In Order To Make U Lose Interest In Her, Based On Her Reactions After Telling U.

She has no power to make you sick!

Covid:
Even for the third time?

Truvel:
She Might Av Told U Dat In Order To Make U Lose Interest In Her, Based On Her Reactions After Telling U.

No na. Haba! She didn't tell him that so he could lose interest. Who does that?

She told him and expected him to get jealous and probably thinks she is hot cake and be all over her not to drive him away.

Tina001:


No na. Haba! She didn't tell him that so he could lose interest. Who does that?

She told him and expected him to get jealous and probably thinks she is hot cake and be all over her not to drive him away.

I Said So Becos She Was Angry With Him When He Refused To Get Jealous.

Covid:
Thanks for your comment. I'm not really emotionally affected and I don't take our misunderstanding too seriously cos she's the one always bringing up an issue out of nothing. I spent most of my time working online, I have no time for argument with her, but the reason I fall sick each time I decide to give her a break is what I do not understand.

Alright

Tina001:


No na. Haba! She didn't tell him that so he could lose interest. Who does that?

She told him and expected him to get jealous and probably thinks she is hot cake and be all over her not to drive him away.

You're 100% correct.

DMerciful:
She has no power to make you sick!

I'm not actually saying she is the one that makes me fall sick, but I really don't know why it keeps happening.

Covid:
You're 100% correct.

Thanks.. Please don't ever think she did that to drive u away, No, It doesn't make sense. She just wants you to chase her, even after catching her, chase her again , women likes attention , please resolve whatever issues you guys are having and continue your
As for the strange sickness. It might be a coincidence or you are emotionally attached to her hence whenever you guys quarrel, your inner-self is not settled.

QuillanHardy:

he said "go to the world", not to the Nairaland romance section

Section or not

Nairaland also belong to the world


Mrs Mrsrighteousness is right

Tina001:


Thanks.. Please don't ever think she did that to drive u away, No, It doesn't make sense. She just wants you to chase her, even after catching her, chase her again , women likes attention , please resolve whatever issues you guys are having and continue your
As for the strange sickness. It might be a coincidence or you are emotionally attached to her hence whenever you guys quarrel, your inner-self is not settled.

I appreciate you so much. We are cool now!