MrNipplesLover:
people are not following the holy books.

is it written somewhere in the books that once you attain a certain age, you should resist your parents from beating you?

I wanna learn.

Righteousness89:
Your Father is your Father! He can correct as he wants !
My GrandFather Dealt with his sons who Where Married..
More so when you are still under his Roof!

inumidun2010:


It is finished.... Imagine beating a Woman of age 31.. The aftermath is my PROBLEM.... It leaves scars... Even when you Cane a child for too long.. The child assumes you HATE him/her ... God knows once I marry my Wife, dem never born her PAPA or BROTHERS to touch HER... I revoked that license when I paid her BRIDEPRICE..

NNU0000:
Is it your lie?

Kweensavvy:
I kept seeing people repeating the word 'child' child. That's a grown man being abused mentally and physically by a narcissist because he's broke with no alternative roof over his head.

OP just take this as a phase you must pass. As an adult even my parents have to start with an explanation and logic for why I should or shouldn't do something.

As for whipping, my dad never did that to me even as a kid; let alone a full grown adult.

What a sadist (how do I unread this) Some parents will give an account to God of how they abused their privilege.

Mindlog:


You are certainly not because it is very dangerous to have a schizophrenic like you who exhibits religious delusions as a father because a child under you would have a higher outcome of becoming psychotic.

Righteousness89:
Your Father is your Father! He can correct as he wants !
My GrandFather Dealt with his sons who Where Married..
More so when you are still under his Roof!

Jirehz:


Bro u’re an idiot.
My parents stopped beating me when I was in jss3. Not because I was stubborn, I just displayed one madness that changed everything!

Oga man up and stop being a coward. It’s not disrespect, it’s being a man.

In fact the reason you are jobless and depressed is because you’re a coward!

They don’t owe you nothing bro but sometimes you can hold them to random, create awareness, shake them to the marrow. NOTHING WILL HAPPEN OGA!

Don’t move because you think you want them to respect you.
It’s not easy out here
Save sufficient money, SHOW DEM BIG WEREY, then move at your convenience.

Stop explaining yourself when you do something wrong sef.

Baba just start living!

Kriss216:
You’re a good writer.

How you managed to skip your gender all through the post is orgasmic.

Gabe427:
I followed this thread page by page till the last page

What kept me going was Mr Righteousness.

I kept checking to make sure it was the original


And he's way of response today marks the day he casted I doubt anyone would take him serious again

E pain me small sah this goes to show no one is perfect don't model yourself after anyone they would disappoint you stick to your holy book mantra nature or wise quotes as that is your guide light

And Sir Righteousness.89 if everyone says something even this who those who's share your faith and preach and stand for the same message as you do points out an error

But you insist in your way then.......

Omo see me they write epistle by 3 am

Abeg make I continue my hussle

puremaker7:
I swear, baba was like... Se ofe na mi ni, emi o na baba mi ri (Do you want to beat me, I did not beat my father) and[b] I said I will neither beat you nor will you beat me too.[/b]
That was how that shit ended, he never tried to beat me again...and I left his house at the age of 30.. we are now in very good relationship

realestate99:

This is deep!!! sorry, like I was saying the other time, you can only free yourself from some parents by force, having money or being married is not enough, some parents actually see their children ( matured) as property/accessory they can use/command/influence anyhow.

Midadeola:
It's [b]"would" [/b]and not "will" though!

PureGoldh:
Local man is just speechless

Slimsly100:


I just taya for the guy aswear

wildikeman:



You just gave me a thought to ponder on... Jesus Christ. I reject a father like righteousness...i repeat. I reject a father like righteousness. Guy imagine that kind papa. I will just commit suicide. Heavens and my creator forbids!!!!!

Joshmanuel10:

A simple don't come home let wont kill

GMBuhari:
I am telling you what was narrated is not religion, and i didn't mention culture to glorify it , i am just explaining



but i don't expect you to understand that , I hope your foreign mentality has shot you into the future of not understanding anything

hstar:

@ d bold, I know
I just av to be honest, I do use "if I was you" too
Instead of "if I were you " I know it will be followed by "would"

Thanks mo de ade ola
Please me too I wants to de adeola, though, I av got adeowo already o

Midadeola:
I understand, I do. ..and your decision?, trust me, was brave!

Mindlog:


You just need to spend some time in a Child and Adolescent Psychiatric clinic and experience some of the adverse effect of toxic parenting.

hstar:

Thanks, I must confess it wasn't easy for me at dat moment and I didn't want a situation where my child or children would be rude at me, and I just fem
But deep down I was burning, but assuming he's my brother or someone I could fight, it would have been bloody dat night, because as I chop dat igbati my energy, strength raised to power ten, not even power ten but infinity, I swear mo ma ba nkan je la le ojo yen.
Though I did something stupid dat look scary to him as a result of anger but never did I fight him

Kweensavvy:


Lol stop using the word 'child'. I think that's where the dad's ignorance came from. A google definition says, "(a child is a) young human being below the age of puberty or below the legal age of majority"

This OP is a man not a child. If you call his lines several times and you get worried, most you can do to the man is sit him down and advise him not assault him. If he refuses to listen, you pray for him (like Dare Art Alade pleaded for); not assault; I refuse to use the word 'flog' on a grown man.

stanliwise:

Yes but there is a limit to what you want people to do. You can only state the rule and the consequences. But you can’t always control people.

Richy4:
You are his son.. there's nothing like I have no place to go.. Display a little madness one day and it will stop... Everyone has that in him or her but we all control it..

he should have stopped doing that nonsense immediately u clocked 20 @ most.. It's in your hands to stop it... If he tries to do it next time shove him a little not enough to make him fall but enough to let him know you have had it up to your neck... let him know that that madness got to stop...

If he asked you to leave, tell him u are not leaving because u were in your father's house and if he's not he should point who your father is... I'm just mad right now at your docile way and
When you realise that your dad is bullying you and not correcting you,then it will stop..
mchwwwww!!!

Righteousness89:
The Father is Absolutely Right to Discipline his Son.

Righteousness89:
Your Father is your Father! He can correct as he wants !
My GrandFather Dealt with his sons who Where Married..
More so when you are still under his Roof!

situationreport:

I don't have a laptop, I reside in Delta state

AtoningBlood:


Don't judge this or something similar because your grand parents did it that way.

Even the God said in His Word ' come let us reason together.....'

My Dad beats me at 26, yes after my service year and waiting to get a job, I went for an offer I wasn't supposed to accept all because I told my self 'it is enough'. Left to another state where I had to live with a stranger before saving to get a place of my own. I later got a better job n left to a better place. All through my single time working I dare not go home cos I know the messages he was passing on phone would translate to beatings if I dare visit him. I hastingly got married to have a cover. And guess what, one thing lead to another this year, I visited my family house with my kids, and my Dad almost beat me again!!!!!

Stop there I had to shout, that if he try to heat me I will sue him, he knows i meant it and he stopped. That's an abuse, my dad will leave a mark on you when he beats you, this is a married woman, can he try it if my husband is there with him? How will my husband feel? and I was shouldering a responsibility and taking care of a sick relation, if he had touched me I would have fainted cos I was weak.

Under no guise should a child or an adult be abused, I have had the experience and I know what it means. Only God saw me through it, I was verbally, emotionally and physically abused, this almost destroyed social life, in the name of Church, Bible children are being abused daily even in the so called Christian homes, they have taken the responsibility from God. Spend time beating than praying for the children. Train your children with respect, they will certainly respect and regard you and your wishes.

If I hadn't shouted and he beats me, my husband will hear it, certainly, he will never regard him for life, in addition, the little children around will never regard me again. Tell me what that will bring to me in the long run?

My elder sister was beaten and disgraced at age 31, she became timid and hateful. Malicious and lived like an outcast. Look here, she is a Christian, she'd pray to forget but for years, she was bitter and kept malice with all my family members except me cos I wasn't there when it happened.

Stop judging a case like this with 'my grandma or grandpa did it this way, they were wrong.

I once forcee my son to brush his teeth and in the process, his tooth got removed, I laughed at him and the next time I picked up his toothbrush, I heard a voice rebuking me for hurting the boy and never saying sorry. Wow, I looked up and said am sorry, then hugged the boy and apologised to him with a promise not to force him again, till date, I don't force him, he do it by himself.

Parents should rather allow God to take charge than being abusive. Am not saying we shouldn't correct where necessary, never, we as children of God knows what He did to Eli. But beating and leaving marks on our bodies? That negatives God's Word, our body is the temple of the Holy Ghost now. Why beat till blood gush out, can that blood be replaced by us?

We should rather keep quiet on some things like this, or advise the party to pray and be settled on time.

If you train your children like your grandparents did, be sure to be a failure like they did, still flugging their married sons.

edoairways:

I have every right or rather you what a situation where such man kills his child?. Haven't you seen or heard cases where fathers kill their children as a result of discpline?