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Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by bluefilm: 3:04pm On Oct 07, 2020
MrTAnonymous:
Yes, nagging is part of them we know, the article made mention of it. You just need to keep your cool anytime they start nagging, you can't stop them from nagging, can you? It is their identity.

Maybe you can't because you are a SIMP.

As for me, just with one evil look alone, all the demonic nagging spirit will just leave her alone.

Incase you wan know who talk am, na me talk am!
Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Simonsmg: 3:05pm On Oct 07, 2020
3Hopeblog:
Women wahala no be here. Me I don tell Baba God say I no won born girl. Two boys are enough.






Na when you come get Aki and popo as the two sons , you go know say female pikin better, the best thing na to ask God for wisdom and grace to train children

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Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by lekki1444: 3:05pm On Oct 07, 2020
angelfallz:


That is a lie you guys tell yourselves, and what pushes you to accept rubbish behaviour from women. All women don't nag. If the women in your area or circle nag why not try a different area or circle?
All women nag i have dated morrocan, white, naija, pakistani you name it. its just a womans nature. if your woman hasnt started nagging yet its because she feels she has much to lose by nagging you. like maybe you are a baller with billions in the bank and she is scared not to drive you away. but the moment you lose the billions ? the nagging will start. so if you have not met a nagging woman yet is probably because you got davido kinda money

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Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by lekki1444: 3:07pm On Oct 07, 2020
angelfallz:


your post seems to assume that she may have been pretending and waiting to get married before her true self comes out right?

grin grin grin
young man, you must have mistaken me for your run of the mill kind of man. I am not. I don't go close to anyhow women. I am very picky about the kind of people that come close to me, not to even talk of women.

So when i tell you, that my former girlfriend does not nag you can either believe me or not.


shit thats the game nigga thats the game grin grin grin act like you know
Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by karnap(m): 3:08pm On Oct 07, 2020
that number 2 is for me and my reasons are that,she once get off my key,so I always feels she is going there again. grin grin grin
Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by harmony75: 3:15pm On Oct 07, 2020
don't pray to meet a nagging husband /man omg volcano eruption �

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Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Edusouls(m): 3:25pm On Oct 07, 2020
You people are wonderful creation but got very bad and despised by God the creator, so who is man? We made a very regrettable request asking God for companion that’s what we’re suffering since creation..
Petyprincess:
Y'all still can't live without us grin
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Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Waterbear(m): 3:48pm On Oct 07, 2020
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Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by ipswitch: 4:02pm On Oct 07, 2020
Nice post. Whenever nagging starts, just move out even at the dead of the night. But some of these creatures cant be managed by any man, and they know themselves.
Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Nobody: 4:03pm On Oct 07, 2020
Poloyanabo2:

I first broke one girl's head in my primary 4, since then I've not gone close to girls again grin
Chai! grin grin grin. Primary 4?
Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by 99thEnemy(m): 4:15pm On Oct 07, 2020
MrTAnonymous:



Oh please tell me your experience with Asian women, I will like to gain one or two things.



Incase you don't know na me talk

Just one of many

99thEnemy:


We were in the same boat bro grin.

My own had access to all my devices including social media pwds, it was all good and I was like a transparent guy with nothing to hide until her Ogbanje activated and she began behaving just like you said about your girl.
If I chat with any female it became war. I had to go through interrogation for simple harmless casual chats. It got to a point I had to cut contact with girls online apart from my female relatives completely.

She couldn't still tell the difference sometimes between friends and family from the chats, If it was one she didn't know before.

I later discovered she used to screen my friends list on Facebook and unfriend the girls she perceive as unwanted. and the funny thing is that majority she use to remove were even my relations. It advanced to the stage where even when I chat with my guys she just wants to know what we talk about. Made google her best friend to find meaning of new Nigerian pidgin words used by me which she didn't know before. ....

Approx three years inside that relationship been no easy. grin ...... Some people don't understand the TRUE meaning of freedom grin grin grin grin God save us from KARISHIKA oooooh! Borderline personality disorder, hysteria + possessive and emotional blackmailers ........ Palpitations for three years cured in 2020. Praise JESUS grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

I used to think difference in culture and race contributed largely so I persevered,......... last last the cause is organic but not as a result of the culture ish.

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Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Arabs999: 4:19pm On Oct 07, 2020
MrTAnonymous:
If You Want To Live Long, Here Are 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women

As a guy, living for a long time and making things happen is your first goal in life. Every man on Earth is destined for a reason, and before you leave the earth’s soil, that reason must be accomplished.

Because of one weakness or the other, some men were not able to achieve their aim. Any of those weaknesses apply to the case of women.

If you look at the world today, you can find that there is a higher number of widows than widowers. One of the reasons may be that most widowers typically remarry, while another explanation is that so many duties and pressures lead some men to die. Some die because of women’s problems, and I want to advise all men on this note to always disregard or avoid such things about women in order to survive for a long time.

Among the things to avoid are;

I’ll begin with your bachelorhood.

1. Avoid fighting for her with other guys.

I don’t welcome the “if you love her, fight to get her back” notion. Why should a man fight on Earth over a girl? She would not have fallen into another man’s arms if she loved you. She’s not the only girl on earth, but you know you can see a better person than her. It’s safer that you let her go instead of trying to get her back. You will end up being killed or potentially murdered during the battle.

Learn to avoid that.

2. Avoid jealousy.

More than anything you can imagine, jealousy destroys the spirit. You just put your heart into an emotional trauma, as you become jealous of every man you see around her. The same way that she was drawn to you, the same way that she was drawn to other guys. Try to consider the fact that she will still have men around her because you are still dating her, and she is a woman after all. Some men may be so jealous that they get angry every time their girl receives calls from other men; why not calm down before you kill yourself with jealousy? No man will take her away from you, no matter how they try, if the love is there.

Over to when you are married.

3. Avoid her nagging.

In this area, some women are naturally gifted because of their disposition, and if you understand that fact, it is significant. Just because she’s nagging doesn’t mean you’re going to make her a punching bag or maybe start nagging along with her. As a guy, any time she starts to nag, you still need to act. At that moment, try to realize that she is upset, and avoid her until her temper cools down. I’m going to advise you to leave the house if it begins to start triggering your own wrath. By the time you leave home for a few minutes, when you come back, buy something for her and all that will end. Life doesn’t have duplicate, so don’t confuse it on your own. I’ve got a lot of men who have died from domestic abuse, which I’m sure you would have seen too. There’s no benefit in your wife’s war, so try to avoid it.

4. Be careful with your female children.

You have all the preparation to offer them when they are still growing up, but when they grow up, you should realize that you are not going to be able to manage them100 percent again. Sit them down and talk sense into them when you see that they have begun to take the wrong path. Don’t push it on them if they continue, just step aside to prevent early burial. Experience is often the best teacher. Maybe they can realize that life is not a bed of roses when they experience life a little.

I’ve seen occasions where, one way or another, daughters kill their fathers simply because the guy doesn’t want them to flex with whoever they want. Leave her to Heaven, who will teach her some lessons to learn from experience, if you talk sense into her and she refuses to listen.

Thanks for reading, the topics covered here are available for positive progress and critical assessments. Please do well to drop a comment below.


Incase you don't know na me talk
This is purely an articulated article. May God bless the OP.

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Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by 99thEnemy(m): 4:21pm On Oct 07, 2020
Poloyanabo2:

I first broke one girl's head in my primary 4, since then I've not gone close to girls again grin

You have automatically qualified to be chosen as sacrifice grin

It's hard to find a virgin for this purpose grin grin grin
Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by gowonmaharajah(m): 4:52pm On Oct 07, 2020
No 1 is the key.

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Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by One4me: 4:54pm On Oct 07, 2020
This idea of leaving the house just to avoid your wife or GF really annoys me.
Why should l leave my house just because someone is annoying me?
Why am l not allowed to or cant annoy her even worse so that she be the one to leave the house for me? grin grin

Men are are held to some unreasonable standards by women and these standards are then reinforced by wussy-men like the Poster.

Imagine, a woman is nagging you out of your house and all you are required to do is go out to buy her a present to BRIBE her from further nagging you?
Who told you that the next time she needs a bigger present, she would not give you a greater nagging?
I dont reward bad behaviour. You nag, l nagger.
undecided grin grin

As per the jealousy and watching your Bae, only stupid men engage in that, a woman will leave you if you dont have money and confidence and no amount of watchingor jealousy will change that.
It is Women that watch and fight over me and l just pretend to calm them down and amuse myself in the process.

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Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Skywalker99: 4:59pm On Oct 07, 2020
Freshfish4:
In addition, love her, cherish her and appreciate her, buy her nice things once in a while. Cry with her when she crys and laugh with her when she laughs. When she's telling you all those unnecessary long stories, listen to her - just keep saying, ok, really, is that so? Are you serious? But in your mind you're like " shut your mouth woman". Failure to do this, you'll be on the next episode of a thousand ways to die.
Lol dis really gat me...
Especially that part "shut ur mouth"
Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Nobody: 5:06pm On Oct 07, 2020
Petyprincess:
Y'all still can't live without us grin
thats what u think
Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Poloyanabo2(m): 5:07pm On Oct 07, 2020
MasterRahl:
Chai! grin grin grin. Primary 4?
Yes bro, hmmm she reported to her parents and they visited my parents but later everything was resolved....i went unpunished but till today i still keep away from dem girls, maybe if i continued in that line i for become father Abraham.

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Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Poloyanabo2(m): 5:08pm On Oct 07, 2020
99thEnemy:

You have automatically qualified to be chosen as sacrifice grin
It's hard to find a virgin for this purpose grin grin grin
Unless na newborn virgin grin
Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by maxzzo1(m): 5:26pm On Oct 07, 2020
The important one ,pls leave people wives......
Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by chatinent: 5:28pm On Oct 07, 2020
Simple: avoid women.
Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Adonisteve: 5:32pm On Oct 07, 2020
99.99% true. MrTAnonymous, you're a real niggar grin I have this great feeling whenever I realise I have same idea with some other person. God bless you.

Incase you no know, na me talk am grin

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Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by nnamdi640: 5:35pm On Oct 07, 2020
Freshfish4:
In addition, love her, cherish her and appreciate her, buy her nice things once in a while. Cry with her when she crys and laugh with her when she laughs. When she's telling you all those unnecessary long stories, listen to her - just keep saying, ok, really, is that so? Are you serious? But in your mind you're like " shut your mouth woman". Failure to do this, you'll be on the next episode of a thousand ways to die.
.The wise ones among them will decode your style and then use it against you,some will even tag you as Mr is that so....
Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Jenna3(f): 5:44pm On Oct 07, 2020
Being jealous can not be avoided but tamed, no matter how much you think you can get rid of jealousy is you just fantasizing.

One needs to learn how to control jealousy but the only way to get rid of jealousy is to have 100% trust in that person which in this era is impossible. So control and tame your jealousy and also learn how to have faith and trust in your woman if there isn't any questioning doubts
Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by klinton85(f): 6:02pm On Oct 07, 2020
Women are special creatures
Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Theicecode(m): 6:25pm On Oct 07, 2020
Princessbettyj:
Well said
Igbo
Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Pharaoh4rin(m): 6:32pm On Oct 07, 2020
How do post a thread on nl? I have plenty stuffs to share
Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by aribisala0(m): 6:40pm On Oct 07, 2020
MrTAnonymous:
If You Want To Live Long, Here Are 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women

As a guy, living for a long time and making things happen is your first goal in life. Every man on Earth is destined for a reason, and before you leave the earth’s soil, that reason must be accomplished.

Because of one weakness or the other, some men were not able to achieve their aim. Any of those weaknesses apply to the case of women.

If you look at the world today, you can find that there is a higher number of widows than widowers. One of the reasons may be that most widowers typically remarry, while another explanation is that so many duties and pressures lead some men to die. Some die because of women’s problems, and I want to advise all men on this note to always disregard or avoid such things about women in order to survive for a long time.

Among the things to avoid are;

I’ll begin with your bachelorhood.

1. Avoid fighting for her with other guys.

I don’t welcome the “if you love her, fight to get her back” notion. Why should a man fight on Earth over a girl? She would not have fallen into another man’s arms if she loved you. She’s not the only girl on earth, but you know you can see a better person than her. It’s safer that you let her go instead of trying to get her back. You will end up being killed or potentially murdered during the battle.

Learn to avoid that.

2. Avoid jealousy.

More than anything you can imagine, jealousy destroys the spirit. You just put your heart into an emotional trauma, as you become jealous of every man you see around her. The same way that she was drawn to you, the same way that she was drawn to other guys. Try to consider the fact that she will still have men around her because you are still dating her, and she is a woman after all. Some men may be so jealous that they get angry every time their girl receives calls from other men; why not calm down before you kill yourself with jealousy? No man will take her away from you, no matter how they try, if the love is there.

Over to when you are married.

3. Avoid her nagging.

In this area, some women are naturally gifted because of their disposition, and if you understand that fact, it is significant. Just because she’s nagging doesn’t mean you’re going to make her a punching bag or maybe start nagging along with her. As a guy, any time she starts to nag, you still need to act. At that moment, try to realize that she is upset, and avoid her until her temper cools down. I’m going to advise you to leave the house if it begins to start triggering your own wrath. By the time you leave home for a few minutes, when you come back, buy something for her and all that will end. Life doesn’t have duplicate, so don’t confuse it on your own. I’ve got a lot of men who have died from domestic abuse, which I’m sure you would have seen too. There’s no benefit in your wife’s war, so try to avoid it.

4. Be careful with your female children.

You have all the preparation to offer them when they are still growing up, but when they grow up, you should realize that you are not going to be able to manage them100 percent again. Sit them down and talk sense into them when you see that they have begun to take the wrong path. Don’t push it on them if they continue, just step aside to prevent early burial. Experience is often the best teacher. Maybe they can realize that life is not a bed of roses when they experience life a little.

I’ve seen occasions where, one way or another, daughters kill their fathers simply because the guy doesn’t want them to flex with whoever they want. Leave her to Heaven, who will teach her some lessons to learn from experience, if you talk sense into her and she refuses to listen.

Thanks for reading, the topics covered here are available for positive progress and critical assessments. Please do well to drop a comment below.


Incase you don't know na me talk
Live long?
How do you know?
What s your age? Have you lived long?

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Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Nobody: 6:50pm On Oct 07, 2020
Teespice:
To some extent I disagree with No. 3 of your article.

We all know nagging isn't a good thing but for her to nag about a particular issue(s) means you aren't doing your part to ensure that those things are done right. If you do that which is expected, she won't nag or talk too much.

then, you are postponing the inevitable by buying things for her to stop nagging. issues would have piled up and whatever love she has for you gradually turns to resentment and then indifference.

No matter how much we tend to sugarcoat things, communication is very important.
You're my type of woman big beautiful woman
Are you in ib smiley
Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Lucky5000(m): 6:51pm On Oct 07, 2020
If you want to live long, give them money even before they ask for it

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