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Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Amoto05(m): 1:25pm On Oct 07, 2020
[quote author=MrTAnonymous post=94285126]If You Want To Live Long, Here Are 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women

As a guy, living for a long time and making things happen is your first goal in life. Every man on Earth is destined for a reason, and before you leave the earth’s soil, that reason must be accomplished.

Because of one weakness or the other, some men were not able to achieve their aim. Any of those weaknesses apply to the case of women.

If you look at the world today, you can find that there is a higher number of widows than widowers. One of the reasons may be that most widowers typically remarry, while another explanation is that so many duties and pressures lead some men to die. Some die because of women’s problems, and I want to advise all men on this note to always disregard or avoid such things about women in order to survive for a long time.

Among the things to avoid are;

I’ll begin with your bachelorhood.

1. Avoid fighting for her with other guys.

I don’t welcome the “if you love her, fight to get her back” notion. Why should a man fight on Earth over a girl? She would not have fallen into another man’s arms if she loved you. She’s not the only girl on earth, but you know you can see a better person than her. It’s safer that you let her go instead of trying to get her back. You will end up being killed or potentially murdered during the battle.

Learn to avoid that.

2. Avoid jealousy.

More than anything you can imagine, jealousy destroys the spirit. You just put your heart into an emotional trauma, as you become jealous of every man you see around her. The same way that she was drawn to you, the same way that she was drawn to other guys. Try to consider the fact that she will still have men around her because you are still dating her, and she is a woman after all. Some men may be so jealous that they get angry every time their girl receives calls from other men; why not calm down before you kill yourself with jealousy? No man will take her away from you, no matter how they try, if the love is there.

Over to when you are married.

3. Avoid her nagging.

In this area, some women are naturally gifted because of their disposition, and if you understand that fact, it is significant. Just because she’s nagging doesn’t mean you’re going to make her a punching bag or maybe start nagging along with her. As a guy, any time she starts to nag, you still need to act. At that moment, try to realize that she is upset, and avoid her until her temper cools down. I’m going to advise you to leave the house if it begins to start triggering your own wrath. By the time you leave home for a few minutes, when you come back, buy something for her and all that will end. Life doesn’t have duplicate, so don’t confuse it on your own. I’ve got a lot of men who have died from domestic abuse, which I’m sure you would have seen too. There’s no benefit in your wife’s war, so try to avoid it.

4. Be careful with your female children.

You have all the preparation to offer them when they are still growing up, but when they grow up, you should realize that you are not going to be able to manage them100 percent again. Sit them down and talk sense into them when you see that they have begun to take the wrong path. Don’t push it on them if they continue, just step aside to prevent early burial. Experience is often the best teacher. Maybe they can realize that life is not a bed of roses when they experience life a little.

I’ve seen occasions where, one way or another, daughters kill their fathers simply because the guy doesn’t want them to flex with whoever they want. Leave her to Heaven, who will teach her some lessons to learn from experience, if you talk sense into her and she refuses to listen.

Thanks for reading, the topics covered here are available for positive progress and critical assessments. Please do well to drop a comment below.


[b]Incase you don't know na me talk. Okay
Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Oizee(f): 1:27pm On Oct 07, 2020
Hmmm it's ok
Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Hahjascho(m): 1:27pm On Oct 07, 2020
Life is easy, people complicate life. sad

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Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Dpsychologist: 1:28pm On Oct 07, 2020
Petyprincess:
Y'all still can't live without us grin
And vice versa

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Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Hoojay(f): 1:29pm On Oct 07, 2020
This OP made this post fly to feature post las las...welldone sir grin

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Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Nobody: 1:32pm On Oct 07, 2020
Petyprincess:
Y'all still can't live without us grin
angry
Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Meedon: 1:32pm On Oct 07, 2020
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DuBLINGreenb:
Avoid women entirely

Go MGTOW

Yes.
Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by angelfallz(m): 1:32pm On Oct 07, 2020
MrTAnonymous:
If You Want To Live Long, Here Are 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women

As a guy, living for a long time and making things happen is your first goal in life. Every man on Earth is destined for a reason, and before you leave the earth’s soil, that reason must be accomplished.

Because of one weakness or the other, some men were not able to achieve their aim. Any of those weaknesses apply to the case of women.

If you look at the world today, you can find that there is a higher number of widows than widowers. One of the reasons may be that most widowers typically remarry, while another explanation is that so many duties and pressures lead some men to die. Some die because of women’s problems, and I want to advise all men on this note to always disregard or avoid such things about women in order to survive for a long time.

Among the things to avoid are;

I’ll begin with your bachelorhood.

1. Avoid fighting for her with other guys.

I don’t welcome the “if you love her, fight to get her back” notion. Why should a man fight on Earth over a girl? She would not have fallen into another man’s arms if she loved you. She’s not the only girl on earth, but you know you can see a better person than her. It’s safer that you let her go instead of trying to get her back. You will end up being killed or potentially murdered during the battle.

Learn to avoid that.

2. Avoid jealousy.

More than anything you can imagine, jealousy destroys the spirit. You just put your heart into an emotional trauma, as you become jealous of every man you see around her. The same way that she was drawn to you, the same way that she was drawn to other guys. Try to consider the fact that she will still have men around her because you are still dating her, and she is a woman after all. Some men may be so jealous that they get angry every time their girl receives calls from other men; why not calm down before you kill yourself with jealousy? No man will take her away from you, no matter how they try, if the love is there.

Over to when you are married.

3. Avoid her nagging.

In this area, some women are naturally gifted because of their disposition, and if you understand that fact, it is significant. Just because she’s nagging doesn’t mean you’re going to make her a punching bag or maybe start nagging along with her. As a guy, any time she starts to nag, you still need to act. At that moment, try to realize that she is upset, and avoid her until her temper cools down. I’m going to advise you to leave the house if it begins to start triggering your own wrath. By the time you leave home for a few minutes, when you come back, buy something for her and all that will end. Life doesn’t have duplicate, so don’t confuse it on your own. I’ve got a lot of men who have died from domestic abuse, which I’m sure you would have seen too. There’s no benefit in your wife’s war, so try to avoid it.

4. Be careful with your female children.

You have all the preparation to offer them when they are still growing up, but when they grow up, you should realize that you are not going to be able to manage them100 percent again. Sit them down and talk sense into them when you see that they have begun to take the wrong path. Don’t push it on them if they continue, just step aside to prevent early burial. Experience is often the best teacher. Maybe they can realize that life is not a bed of roses when they experience life a little.

I’ve seen occasions where, one way or another, daughters kill their fathers simply because the guy doesn’t want them to flex with whoever they want. Leave her to Heaven, who will teach her some lessons to learn from experience, if you talk sense into her and she refuses to listen.

Thanks for reading, the topics covered here are available for positive progress and critical assessments. Please do well to drop a comment below.


Incase you don't know na me talk

Nice write up. But let me ask,
why marry a nagging woman in the first place?

Also, why pacify her nagging with gifts?

Why leave your own house to avoid a nagging woman?

If a man can't find peace in his own house because of a nagging woman, then it's time to send the nagging woman packing.

Your opinion about nagging women encourages men to condone nagging women.

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Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Aiddn: 1:33pm On Oct 07, 2020
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Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by angelfallz(m): 1:34pm On Oct 07, 2020
MrTAnonymous:


Yes, nagging is part of them we know, the article made mention of it. You just need to keep your cool anytime they start nagging, you can't stop them from nagging, can you? It is their identity.

Incase you don't know na me talk


Nagging is not part of women, not all women nag.

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Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Peritome: 1:35pm On Oct 07, 2020
True... That's why Apostle Paul in the bible said... " let them that are married live as though they are not". I can't die because them rather they die. I'm just me, only me & no other kind as me.
Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Wassapviews: 1:36pm On Oct 07, 2020
You just comfortably waste quality time in typing this rubbish cheesy

QuinModah:
1. Sexual Desire: Men is supposed to learn how to control their sexual desire, as a famous proverb says following your mind is ok, following the heart is fine as well but following penis will result in disaster(not all of us have girlfriend)

2. Learning to define success: Find a pattern to define your success. You'll find dozens of inside voices telling you to do certain things, but you've to learn to define your path to success, then walk with your own path, Don't live other's life(be jobless and degrees).

3. Learning to treat woman: Every man has to deal with girls in any form, so you have to learn how to treat them right. Girls are not goals or options to achieve, they're humans with feelings and emotions. Being a man, you have to learn how to treat them with care and respect (to be friendzoned and brozoned). Try to be a man girls want to be with(like Bleep boys and rich ??� �)

4. Staying calm: As men is supposed to do lot of chores both in personal and professional life, They’ll need to deal with all type of challenges so you'll have to find a way to make yourself calm and relaxed whenever you’re needed(even when the girl is pmsing or humiliating) Some people start meditating, some turn to mindfulness, but in the current era it's hard to devote that time to such activities so find a quick fix to stay calm. I use to play this game whenever I find a need to get rid of stress or need to be more focused. It's scientifically proven and it worked for me.

5. Being supportive: Try to help strangers, be extrovert in opening up a conversations with strangers. Try to spread peace and happiness around but get ready for a fight as well. Not everyone in your circle is your friend. There will be enemies in your friend list so be aware of them. Love yourself and your loved ones especially your parents and siblings.(� % true )

Bonus

6. Time: You need to learn to respect and take advantage of time. Actually, I believe time is everything, in addition it's been proven by millions of people in history. One millisecond can decide the new world champion. Your personality at 15 isn't same as 20, or a rescue team can't save a life if they're late even for one second. Similarly, they can save a life if reached one second earlier. Happiness, sadness, stress, anxiety, content, sense of satisfaction are all influenced by time. Always give your time to deserving people or where you expect a positive output for yourself or others.

Hope you found at least one of lesson useful.

Stay Blessed

Try to Spread happiness.

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Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Angelfrost(m): 1:36pm On Oct 07, 2020
OJay360:
"incase you don't know na me talk" Everybody na dey use catch phrase

The thing is damn irritating... Someone needs to let them all know they come off as dumb with that nonsense. undecided

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Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by davit: 1:37pm On Oct 07, 2020
My own part na the last one. If you have females, hmmm, you gat work to do ọ. Ask uber drivers on the island, they will tell you ladies are now fully commodified!

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Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by kay29000(m): 1:37pm On Oct 07, 2020
Hmm
Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Nobody: 1:38pm On Oct 07, 2020
Petyprincess:
Y'all still can't live without us grin
Yes o! Aimless, lifeless idiotic men can't live without y'all. Real nigarrrrs have life outside you pu**sy people.

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Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by legendEMT(m): 1:38pm On Oct 07, 2020
I never knew you could be this sensible because that your signet of "in case you don't know, na me talk" portrays you in the contrary.

valid points raised, the summary of it all is that
AVOID PRIORITIZING WOMEN!

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Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by joepepsy(m): 1:38pm On Oct 07, 2020
Just avoid nigerian women no need for this long talk.
MrTAnonymous:
If You Want To Live Long, Here Are 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women

As a guy, living for a long time and making things happen is your first goal in life. Every man on Earth is destined for a reason, and before you leave the earth’s soil, that reason must be accomplished.

Because of one weakness or the other, some men were not able to achieve their aim. Any of those weaknesses apply to the case of women.

If you look at the world today, you can find that there is a higher number of widows than widowers. One of the reasons may be that most widowers typically remarry, while another explanation is that so many duties and pressures lead some men to die. Some die because of women’s problems, and I want to advise all men on this note to always disregard or avoid such things about women in order to survive for a long time.

Among the things to avoid are;

I’ll begin with your bachelorhood.

1. Avoid fighting for her with other guys.

I don’t welcome the “if you love her, fight to get her back” notion. Why should a man fight on Earth over a girl? She would not have fallen into another man’s arms if she loved you. She’s not the only girl on earth, but you know you can see a better person than her. It’s safer that you let her go instead of trying to get her back. You will end up being killed or potentially murdered during the battle.

Learn to avoid that.

2. Avoid jealousy.

More than anything you can imagine, jealousy destroys the spirit. You just put your heart into an emotional trauma, as you become jealous of every man you see around her. The same way that she was drawn to you, the same way that she was drawn to other guys. Try to consider the fact that she will still have men around her because you are still dating her, and she is a woman after all. Some men may be so jealous that they get angry every time their girl receives calls from other men; why not calm down before you kill yourself with jealousy? No man will take her away from you, no matter how they try, if the love is there.

Over to when you are married.

3. Avoid her nagging.

In this area, some women are naturally gifted because of their disposition, and if you understand that fact, it is significant. Just because she’s nagging doesn’t mean you’re going to make her a punching bag or maybe start nagging along with her. As a guy, any time she starts to nag, you still need to act. At that moment, try to realize that she is upset, and avoid her until her temper cools down. I’m going to advise you to leave the house if it begins to start triggering your own wrath. By the time you leave home for a few minutes, when you come back, buy something for her and all that will end. Life doesn’t have duplicate, so don’t confuse it on your own. I’ve got a lot of men who have died from domestic abuse, which I’m sure you would have seen too. There’s no benefit in your wife’s war, so try to avoid it.

4. Be careful with your female children.

You have all the preparation to offer them when they are still growing up, but when they grow up, you should realize that you are not going to be able to manage them100 percent again. Sit them down and talk sense into them when you see that they have begun to take the wrong path. Don’t push it on them if they continue, just step aside to prevent early burial. Experience is often the best teacher. Maybe they can realize that life is not a bed of roses when they experience life a little.

I’ve seen occasions where, one way or another, daughters kill their fathers simply because the guy doesn’t want them to flex with whoever they want. Leave her to Heaven, who will teach her some lessons to learn from experience, if you talk sense into her and she refuses to listen.

Thanks for reading, the topics covered here are available for positive progress and critical assessments. Please do well to drop a comment below.


Incase you don't know na me talk
Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by AlfaSeltzer(m): 1:39pm On Oct 07, 2020
Avoid all these: be gay.

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Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by angelfallz(m): 1:40pm On Oct 07, 2020
I don't agree with The op's opinion about nagging women.

As a man if you want to live long avoid women that nag.
If you notice you are with a woman that nags throw her away immediately.

NEVER EVER CONDONE WOMEN THAT NAG!!!

Also, it is not true that nagging is part of women.

I know a lot of ladies that don't nag.

My former girlfriend never nagged.

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Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by dododawa1: 1:41pm On Oct 07, 2020
COOL BEER needed too, to avoid woman wahala.
Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Dalil8: 1:43pm On Oct 07, 2020
Petyprincess:
Y'all still can't live without us grin

Your whole life was built by Men. Even down to the panties you wear. Infact men built the world you live in.

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Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Elvinci101: 1:46pm On Oct 07, 2020
QuinModah:
1. Sexual Desire: Men is supposed to learn how to control their sexual desire, as a famous proverb says following your mind is ok, following the heart is fine as well but following penis will result in disaster(not all of us have girlfriend)

2. Learning to define success: Find a pattern to define your success. You'll find dozens of inside voices telling you to do certain things, but you've to learn to define your path to success, then walk with your own path, Don't live other's life(be jobless and degrees).

3. Learning to treat woman: Every man has to deal with girls in any form, so you have to learn how to treat them right. Girls are not goals or options to achieve, they're humans with feelings and emotions. Being a man, you have to learn how to treat them with care and respect (to be friendzoned and brozoned). Try to be a man girls want to be with(like Bleep boys and rich ??� �)

4. Staying calm: As men is supposed to do lot of chores both in personal and professional life, They’ll need to deal with all type of challenges so you'll have to find a way to make yourself calm and relaxed whenever you’re needed(even when the girl is pmsing or humiliating) Some people start meditating, some turn to mindfulness, but in the current era it's hard to devote that time to such activities so find a quick fix to stay calm. I use to play this game whenever I find a need to get rid of stress or need to be more focused. It's scientifically proven and it worked for me.

5. Being supportive: Try to help strangers, be extrovert in opening up a conversations with strangers. Try to spread peace and happiness around but get ready for a fight as well. Not everyone in your circle is your friend. There will be enemies in your friend list so be aware of them. Love yourself and your loved ones especially your parents and siblings.(� % true )

Bonus

6. Time: You need to learn to respect and take advantage of time. Actually, I believe time is everything, in addition it's been proven by millions of people in history. One millisecond can decide the new world champion. Your personality at 15 isn't same as 20, or a rescue team can't save a life if they're late even for one second. Similarly, they can save a life if reached one second earlier. Happiness, sadness, stress, anxiety, content, sense of satisfaction are all influenced by time. Always give your time to deserving people or where you expect a positive output for yourself or others.

Hope you found at least one of lesson useful.

Stay Blessed

Try to Spread happiness.

Nonsense and Buhari fuel and electricity price increase.

Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by realstars: 1:48pm On Oct 07, 2020
No5 Dont Disclosse Your Secrit To Woman, They Will Use That Againt You.

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Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by poweredcom(m): 1:48pm On Oct 07, 2020
I swear if not be say to just get pikin

Women are the last thing to carry for head for me

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Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by akpa666: 1:48pm On Oct 07, 2020
akpamugi there onye mgbu
Freshfish4:
In addition, love her, cherish her and appreciate her, buy her nice things once in a while. Cry with her when she crys and laugh with her when she laughs. When she's telling you all those unnecessary long stories, listen to her - just keep saying, ok, really, is that so? Are you serious? But in your mind you're like " shut your mouth woman". Failure to do this, you'll be on the next episode of a thousand ways to die.
Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by ruffDiamond: 1:49pm On Oct 07, 2020
wait...if u wanna live,avoid naija ladies like a plague.. !you can take they offer you in between their legs(for your money of course,and protect ya sef biko)..whatever you do,don't marry them iif you can! go foreign! the cursed baitch here would make you forget there is something called LOVE!no value whatsoever ,everything to them is money,money,money! watch them hit 40 to 50 with niggar insight interested them even as they head to Shiloh every year!

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Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by BigJoe19: 1:50pm On Oct 07, 2020
Petyprincess:
Y'all still can't live without us grin
Really? Many men have lived without women and humans in general and nothing happened.

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Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Godwinsco(m): 1:52pm On Oct 07, 2020
MrTAnonymous:


Yes, nagging is part of them we know, the article made mention of it. You just need to keep your cool anytime they start nagging, you can't stop them from nagging, can you? It is their identity.

Incase you don't know na me talk


interesting to know this will helpl
Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Drizzy5001(m): 1:56pm On Oct 07, 2020
Vagina people una wahala too much. grin

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Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Bahamas95(m): 1:57pm On Oct 07, 2020
Petyprincess:
Y'all still can't live without us grin
Stop deceiving yourself, it's 50-50.

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