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Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by Ishilove: 9:11am On Oct 08, 2020
Fake story
Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by Oturatetuala(m): 9:13am On Oct 08, 2020
Who virginity help bruh? Forget that thing and move on with your marriage.
Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by proclinician: 9:25am On Oct 08, 2020
SmartProf:
If a trivial issue like the virginity status of a lady is giving you sleepless nights and restlessness in this age & time then u ain't ready to be married yet & your psychological maturity is in doubt to handle marriage. I will advise you to look for some other distractions like playing video games and forget marriage till you are man enough mentally. When u eventually get the virgin lady u are so obsessed about after an ultimate search, let her virginity bring alongside all you need to make it big on earth since it appears you intend to use it to update your CV. E dey like say this one hear say virgin ladies na arch angels dem be..e go shock U.

He just needs to grow up and become man enough to think of marriage.

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Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by Angelacruz: 9:43am On Oct 08, 2020
Didn't you date her to know if she is a virgin or not.Oga just take ur time
Curious345:
It's with a heavy heart I write you this story.
I am about to get married ,but the lady is not a virgin.

What do I do please ? Do i call off the wedding ?

Marrying a virgin is biblical and quarannical.
It's always been my dream. I thought I would be lucky in this dark world .
But alas I fell into that same web of distortion which I feared the most .

How can I marry a woman whose punna has been used to play PIANO by men of different shades?
Will God in heaven forgive me?

I always had this belief that if I marry a lady who is not a virgin, i am dishonoring my creator.

So what to do ?

If I call off this wedding at the last minute (I am seriously considering it ) can I still find a virgin lady to marry before December?

House ,I need your word on this imbroglio
Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by Omoboricash(m): 9:46am On Oct 08, 2020
Curious345:
I may not be a virgin , but it's generally accepted that she has to be a virgin.

Men are born disvirgined from above
Have u had sex with any girl before now. You as guilty as lady u proposed to marry. U slept with girls now looking for virgine. Another man would marry those girls you have also had sex with . carry yr cross and move on
Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by zexy2030(m): 9:56am On Oct 08, 2020
The world is changing but norms seem to be forgotten. An independent lady is now better than a leeching virgin.
Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by Liposure: 10:03am On Oct 08, 2020
Virginity is overrated. Character over chastity anyday anytime.
Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by roybanjo100(m): 10:11am On Oct 08, 2020
you said dark world? how can you expect something good in a dark world
Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by shadeyinka(m): 10:48am On Oct 08, 2020
Curious345:
It's with a heavy heart I write you this story.
I am about to get married ,but the lady is not a virgin.

What do I do please ? Do i call off the wedding ?

Marrying a virgin is biblical and quarannical.
....
I have never met a complete immature self acclaimed ignorant Christian like you.

You want a virgin ?
But swear that you have not masturbated countless times.

People like you shouldn't get married because your immaturity will frustrate any god-fearing lady. Better grow up and be a Christian.

Rom 5:8:
"But God commends his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us."
Eph 5:25-29:
"Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loves his wife loves himself. For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourishes and cherishes it, even as the Lord the church:"

If you cannot do the Scripture above. Please release the poor girl and let her marry someone else


HYPOCRITE of the highest order. He masturbates and is still claiming virgin!

SHIOR!!!

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Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by shadeyinka(m): 10:57am On Oct 08, 2020
WORDWORLD:


VIRGINITY IS NO TRIVIAL ISSUE AT ALL. grin. ANY MAN WHO IS BLESSED WITH A VIRGIN WIFE WITH A GOOD CHARACTER IS THE MOST HAPPIEST MAN ON EARTH.
.
Virginity is not a proof of godliness and character.

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Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by Nobody: 11:06am On Oct 08, 2020
IneedSugarMumy1:
Bro let's get out
This one of useless thread on nairaland
copied this your image
Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by Nobody: 11:09am On Oct 08, 2020
shadeyinka:

Virginity is not a proof of godliness and character.


grin OF COURSE I KNOW THIS VERY WELL AND THAT IS WHY I DID NOT MAKE THE MISTAKE OF NOT ADDING WITH A GOOD CHARACTER SEPERATELY TO QUALIFY THE KIND OF VIRGIN WIFE THAT MAKES THE HAPPIEST OF MEN.
WORDWORLD:


VIRGINITY IS NO TRIVIAL ISSUE AT ALL. grin. ANY MAN WHO IS BLESSED WITH A VIRGIN WIFE WITH A GOOD CHARACTER IS THE MOST HAPPIEST MAN ON EARTH.
.

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Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by LikeAking: 11:28am On Oct 08, 2020
Curious345:
It's with a heavy heart I write you this story.
I am about to get married ,but the lady is not a virgin.

What do I do please ? Do i call off the wedding ?

Marrying a virgin is biblical and quarannical.
It's always been my dream. I thought I would be lucky in this dark world .
But alas I fell into that same web of distortion which I feared the most .

How can I marry a woman whose punna has been used to play PIANO by men of different shades?
Will God in heaven forgive me?

I always had this belief that if I marry a lady who is not a virgin, i am dishonoring my creator.

So what to do ?

If I call off this wedding at the last minute (I am seriously considering it ) can I still find a virgin lady to marry before December?

House ,I need your word on this imbroglio

End the weding Asap.

If she is not a virgin,dont marry her.

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Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by Hathor5(f): 11:31am On Oct 08, 2020
SmartProf:
If a trivial issue like the virginity status of a lady is giving you sleepless nights and restlessness in this age & time then u ain't ready to be married yet & your psychological maturity is in doubt to handle marriage. I will advise you to look for some other distractions like playing video games and forget marriage till you are man enough mentally. When u eventually get the virgin lady u are so obsessed about after an ultimate search, let her virginity bring alongside all you need to make it big on earth since it appears you intend to use it to update your CV. E dey like say this one hear say virgin ladies na arch angels dem be..e go shock U.

grin

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Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by jmoore(m): 11:37am On Oct 08, 2020
A COMMUNITY PENIS deserves a BOREHOLE!!

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Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by genii96(m): 12:51pm On Oct 08, 2020
If you are not a virgin, this is a waste of time and utter hypocrisy and stupidity on your part
Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by Tonto30(f): 1:00pm On Oct 08, 2020
Are you a virgin ? undecided undecided
Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by Nobody: 1:05pm On Oct 08, 2020
light099:
I feel your pain son, and you're not wrong to have thought it this way. It should be the exact pursuit of any man planning to get married to settle for the best and not for the less.
You're pursuing a noble cause that has been since those old days when a woman discovered not to be a virgin on wedding night brought shame to herself and her parents.
The sad news is, white cuckolds have defiled our noble tradition with their simpish western culture, this has turned most Nigerian men into staunch admirers of fairy used and over used pussies.
New generation of African men are gradually turning into sorry-ass cuckolds. Our rich tradition handed down to us by our forefathers is being thrown to the wind.
We now live in a generation where women gallantly take advantage of men. Men are the cash cows while bitches live large.

Except your parents honour your belief, I would have advised you to carry on with the wedding. Most people would see you as a psychotic and persecute you. It's hard pursuing such a noble cause in this kind of generation.
If you're lucky enough that she's not yet lost all her tightness or exceeded her elasticity, as not to retain your preeck or give you the needed grip for pleasure, just manage it that way and carry on.
Thinking about how her punna has been used to play PIANO by men would only add to the pain.
Although you might eventually get what you want but the odd is very high, probability of getting someone worse is higher. If you're not careful, you might end up with someone with a wider orifice. I would advise you to accept fate and move on.


[b]THE ABSOLUTE TRUTH IS, WOMEN LOVE SEX VERY, VERY MUCH FAR MORE THAN AN AVERAGE GUY, THEY JUST TOO DISCREET ABOUT IT, THAT IS WHY VIRGINS HAVE SINCE TIME IMMEMORIAL BEEN VERY, VERY SCARCE AND THE FEW VIRGINS THAT THERE ARE, ARE CELEBRATED.

IT IS VERY, VERY DIFFICULT FOR WOMEN TO KEEP WHAT IS BETWEEN THEIR THIGHS INTACT, THAT'S THE REALITY. THEY WILL GO FOR FORE PLAY AS AN EXCUSE NOT TO HAVE SEX BUT IT IS ALL LIES EVEN THOUGH MOST ESPECIALLY THEY LOVE pre-intimacy, ROMANCE VERY MUCH MORE . . THIS INFORMATION CAN BE VERY WELL CONFIRMED BY THE 20% OF MEN WHO ARE THE ONES VERY BOLD ENOUGH TO MAKE SEXUAL MOVE WHICH A WOMAN HAS BEEN DYING FOR, YET SHE MAKE S YOU LOOK LIKE THE GUILTY ONE AFTER YOU HAVE FULFILLED HER DESIRE.

THESE 20% OF MEN BECAUSE OF THEIR BOLDNESS, ARE MOSTLY LOVED BY THE 99% OF WOMEN WHILE THE REMAINING 80% OF MEN ARE RIDICULED AND LAUGHED AT BY WOMEN FOR NOT HAVING SUCH BOLDNESS, THAT'S THE TRUTH.

IT IS THESE 20% OF MEN THAT THE 99% OF WOMEN SURRENDER THEIR VIRGINITY TO BE DISVIRGINED BEFORE FINALLY HANDING OVER THEMSELVES TO THE 80% OF MEN (their husbands) AS ALREADY DISVIRGINED. THE IRONY OF LIFE IS THIS, THOSE VERY RARE, SCARCE LADIES WHO ARE ABLE TO KEEP WHAT IS BETWEEN THEIR THIGHS UNCORRUPTED AT MOST TIMES END UP IN THE HANDS OF THAT SAME 20%. IT TAKES DELIBERATE EFFORT TO GET TO MARRY A VIRGIN YOU NEED TO TAKE THE UNCOMPROMISING WAY.
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Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by paul100(m): 1:05pm On Oct 08, 2020
shadeyinka:

I have never met a complete immature self acclaimed ignorant Christian like you.

You want a virgin ?
But swear that you have not masturbated countless times.

People like you shouldn't get married because your immaturity will frustrate any god-fearing lady. Better grow up and be a Christian.

Rom 5:8:
"But God commends his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us."
Eph 5:25-29:
"Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loves his wife loves himself. For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourishes and cherishes it, even as the Lord the church:"

If you cannot do the Scripture above. Please release the poor girl and let her marry someone else


HYPOCRITE of the highest order. He masturbates and is still claiming virgin!

SHIOR!!!
Don't mind the guy.He is looking for attention.He is what people call,an hypocrite.Which one is men are disvirgined from above.He is not a virgin and he is talking bad about the girl.Mtcheeew

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Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by ogwuche4u(m): 1:11pm On Oct 08, 2020
Go and betroth a 10years girl then start grooming her. That way, your dreams will be fulfilled.


Curious345:
It's with a heavy heart I write you this story.
I am about to get married ,but the lady is not a virgin.

What do I do please ? Do i call off the wedding ?

Marrying a virgin is biblical and quarannical.
It's always been my dream. I thought I would be lucky in this dark world .
But alas I fell into that same web of distortion which I feared the most .

How can I marry a woman whose punna has been used to play PIANO by men of different shades?
Will God in heaven forgive me?

I always had this belief that if I marry a lady who is not a virgin, i am dishonoring my creator.

So what to do ?

If I call off this wedding at the last minute (I am seriously considering it ) can I still find a virgin lady to marry before December?

House ,I need your word on this imbroglio

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Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by Originalsly: 1:13pm On Oct 08, 2020
Curious345:



I am about to get married ,but the lady is not a virgin.


How do hou know she is not?
Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by Curious345: 1:23pm On Oct 08, 2020
Tonto30:
Are you a virgin ? undecided undecided
men do not qualify as virgins.
Virginiy is a benchmark set for only females

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Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by Pancakeey(f): 1:28pm On Oct 08, 2020
Curious345:
again it is written that "Men have no HYMEN"
So the presence of hymen determines virginity? Lol

Let’s just simply say a virgin is someone who hasn’t had sex and this applies for both male and females.
Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by Pancakeey(f): 1:29pm On Oct 08, 2020
Curious345:
men do not qualify as virgins.
Virginiy is a benchmark set for only females

That’s what society has caused.
Virginity is a bench mark for everyone not just women.
Funny how a woman is expected to keep her virginity for marriage and a man isn’t

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Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by Pancakeey(f): 1:30pm On Oct 08, 2020
LikeAking:


End the weding Asap.

If she is not a virgin,dont marry her.
Are you even married to give such advice?
Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by dorin27(f): 1:32pm On Oct 08, 2020
If you are a virgin, you have my blessings to call it off.
Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by Pancakeey(f): 1:33pm On Oct 08, 2020
If virginity is a yard stick for marriage for you, then go find a virgin.

But Christianity or not I believe we’re now wiser and more experienced to do what we deem fit as right.

But one question, what would a virgin wife add to you? Exactly! Nothing.
You don’t want a puna that’s... I can’t remember how you described it.

But are you a virgin yourself?

You people make religion somehow these days
Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by Nobody: 1:33pm On Oct 08, 2020
Pancakeey:

That’s what society has caused.
Virginity is a bench mark for everyone not just women.
Funny how a woman is expected to keep her virginity for marriage and a man isn’t

Funny how virgins prefer men who are not virgins a.k.a BAD BOYS over men who are virgins a.k.a GOOD GUYS. WHAT AN IRONY OF LIFE. That is the reality, you may argue if you like.

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Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by Pancakeey(f): 1:40pm On Oct 08, 2020
WORDWORLD:


Funny how virgins prefer men who are not virgins a.k.a BAD BOYS over men who are virgins a.k.a GOOD GUYS. WHAT AN IRONY OF LIFE. That is the reality, you may argue if you like.
grin
I’m not arguing. I’m clearly stating a fact.

If you want to argue tho. You’re free to.
Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by zexy2030(m): 1:45pm On Oct 08, 2020
Ishilove:
Fake story
grin
Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by LikeAking: 2:10pm On Oct 08, 2020
Pancakeey:
Are you even married to give such advice?

His dream is to marry V.

He should stick to his dream.

No distractions.

He should marry a V.

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