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Re: People Think I'm Proud When I'm Not(what Should I Do To Change It? by Leokinghenry12(m): 3:49pm On Aug 07, 2020
From your writeup, you have no friends in general. Madam check ur attitude, what is it that you do that turns people away from you. Many say be ur self, that's true Sha but try and change ur attitude if I may say and put a smile on ur face rather than frowning.
Re: People Think I'm Proud When I'm Not(what Should I Do To Change It? by Nobody: 7:50pm On Aug 07, 2020
AkwaIbomMan:
you're very proud and arrogant.
Just a simple question I asked you about a certain place in Oron (your profile picture) you snubbed me and funny enough you don't even know who you have ignored
oh No cry
Not again.
I thought I answered your questions
I don't remember snubbing you please.

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Re: People Think I'm Proud When I'm Not(what Should I Do To Change It? by Nobody: 7:55pm On Aug 07, 2020
Mcslize:
Girls that praise themselves are nothing to write about. They are slay queens.

You will take this one to your family house and she will wake up and expect your mum to wash plates and sweep for her because she thinks she is down to earth.

I don't take under age girls like these serious.
what is this one even saying?
Re: People Think I'm Proud When I'm Not(what Should I Do To Change It? by Nobody: 7:59pm On Aug 07, 2020
Wolgrace:
Although you may have humble spirit and soul by genetic order, but altering it is a personal crave for lust and self destruct..

Therefore, reading with a reverse psycology reveals that you have finally detected and admitted your weaknesses known as pride, self exaltation, and excessive self exaltation which are fruits of the "narcissitic personality disorder" (the father of emotional detachment i.e inability to connect to others, more of convertible introvert).

You may have been sitting on a lonely seat without legs for too long, which end is the evening tears of regret..

What to do to escape evening newspapers earlier?

1. I suggest change of environment where you altered your humble nature. Even on NL, change moniker.

2. Bring back your original self for communal connectivity.

3. Give more. Eg your time, attention, greetings, smile, care, resources, etc.. Greetings, DON'T JOKE WITH IT, even to your offenders and younger ones. Always greet first.

4. Open your heart freely, special one will locate you.
hmm
I'm gonna give it a try..
Thank you
Re: People Think I'm Proud When I'm Not(what Should I Do To Change It? by nuelsam: 8:47pm On Aug 07, 2020
I guess u used to be an introvert or u still is.....either ways there's nothing wrong,I used to be in your shoes..... I didn't give a flying Bleep about what anyone said about me behind my back cos to me,it doesn't matter....When I changed my environment,I started mingling with new folks I knew could easily blend with.
You see,u can't force it....just live your life as it pleases you....be real,don't try to be what u ain't whilst trying to impress people that really don't give a F about u.

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Re: People Think I'm Proud When I'm Not(what Should I Do To Change It? by Mcslize: 9:07pm On Aug 07, 2020
Preshieben:
what is this one even saying?

Shut up my friend. Ugly girls always make the loudest noise.

If truly you have good personalities, everyone won't be avoiding you.

Praising yourself shows you have low self esteem. Let others be the ones to praise you.

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Re: People Think I'm Proud When I'm Not(what Should I Do To Change It? by Nobody: 8:18pm On Aug 08, 2020
Preshieben:
hmm I'm gonna give it a try.. Thank you
Hopefully..
Re: People Think I'm Proud When I'm Not(what Should I Do To Change It? by Nobody: 8:45pm On Aug 08, 2020
If People Think So, Den It Could Be True. U Need 2 Change Ur Behaviour. All Dis People Can't Be Lying.
Re: People Think I'm Proud When I'm Not(what Should I Do To Change It? by Nobody: 8:59pm On Aug 08, 2020
Preshieben:
This is really Absurd
They all think I'm proud and sassy when I'm so humble and down to earth..and it's really frustrating
I've been single for so long cos I know alot of guys that doesn't wanna associate with me.even my fellow girls
I don't have friends in my street,even where I work and just few friends in school
Even here on nairaland...I just have an outstanding personality people mistake it for pride..
What do I do?
I'm tired of being deserted cos everyone thinks I'm proud,rude and sassy.
Drop the idea that you're separate from others or everything. Once you drop that delusion, you will be able to build better relationships and be calmer
Re: People Think I'm Proud When I'm Not(what Should I Do To Change It? by realest2(m): 11:33pm On Aug 08, 2020
Quietly:
Couldn't notice you be female Jo..

Real female has to be proud, but fake ones are making noise here and there..

Those are the kind of girl am looking around but couldn't,
what is this one saying? ogbeni, comot for here
Re: People Think I'm Proud When I'm Not(what Should I Do To Change It? by baralatie(m): 11:43pm On Aug 08, 2020
Kabir5643:
Just be yourself.
Re: People Think I'm Proud When I'm Not(what Should I Do To Change It? by baralatie(m): 12:02am On Aug 09, 2020
I have a situation where a lady wanted to be more loved so to speak but she let herself become a door mat.
one thing after she put to bed for a married man who was not in love with her but considered her to be nothing other than an accessory was to be more effective in her approach to life as a woman.

she realised that first she was a very likeable person contrary to what she initially believed about herself.

two, she built on that new belief by keeping her new friends in various tag boxes that way she knew those who are for her good and those who just want to waste her time

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Re: People Think I'm Proud When I'm Not(what Should I Do To Change It? by quadriolakunle(m): 12:05am On Aug 09, 2020
Preshieben:
This is really Absurd
They all think I'm proud and sassy when I'm so humble and down to earth..and it's really frustrating
I've been single for so long cos I know alot of guys that doesn't wanna associate with me.even my fellow girls
I don't have friends in my street,even where I work and just few friends in school
Even here on nairaland...I just have an outstanding personality people mistake it for pride..
What do I do?
I'm tired of being deserted cos everyone thinks I'm proud,rude and sassy.

You must have built a reputation that makes people think you're rude proud and sassy.

I know we live in a generation where people are preaching that what Ppl think about you does not matter,... Sadly it does.

Your reputation matters as much as your personality.

There is must something you're doing that's miss representing your brand to ppl, look inside and fix somethings.

You have a good intention, but some how ppl are not seeing it, all those ppl are not wrong and stupid.

Pls be yourself o, but if that yourself is perceived as rude, proud and sassy by all, pls be a better version of yourself.
Re: People Think I'm Proud When I'm Not(what Should I Do To Change It? by dingbang(m): 3:15am On Aug 09, 2020
Isnt this the girl that doesn't have sense?

Maybe when you start having sense, people will begin to associate with you.
Re: People Think I'm Proud When I'm Not(what Should I Do To Change It? by Jack005(m): 3:51am On Aug 09, 2020
From your write up you are indeed proud. It is not a coincidence that almost everyone keeps avoiding you. Please stop claiming to be humble when in the actual sense you are not and you know it.
Re: People Think I'm Proud When I'm Not(what Should I Do To Change It? by Nobody: 10:24pm On Oct 08, 2020
What Makes U Think Dey Thing U Are Proud?
Re: People Think I'm Proud When I'm Not(what Should I Do To Change It? by Nobody: 10:47pm On Oct 08, 2020
Sometimes if something you want or expecting badly is far from you,,,,,,,,,,,,you will always think you are making great mistake,,,,,,,,wink
Re: People Think I'm Proud When I'm Not(what Should I Do To Change It? by Apina(m): 11:35pm On Oct 08, 2020
Preshieben:
This is really Absurd
They all think I'm proud and sassy when I'm so humble and down to earth..and it's really frustrating
I've been single for so long cos I know alot of guys that doesn't wanna associate with me.even my fellow girls
I don't have friends in my street,even where I work and just few friends in school
Even here on nairaland...I just have an outstanding personality people mistake it for pride..
What do I do?
I'm tired of being deserted cos everyone thinks I'm proud,rude and sassy.
someone who's truly humble wouldn't tell you they are, a proud saint is a contradiction. Every other person cannot be wrong but you, make yourself approachable, you most likely are not(speaking from experience). If others are not willing to be friends with you, why not in your self proclaimed and propelled humility extend a hand of friendship.
Re: People Think I'm Proud When I'm Not(what Should I Do To Change It? by Nobody: 12:09am On Oct 09, 2020
If you don't have friends, it is a clear sign that you are either an introvert or a self-centered egoistic narcissist. I doubt the former though.

Preshieben:
This is really Absurd
They all think I'm proud and sassy when I'm so humble and down to earth..and it's really frustrating
I've been single for so long cos I know alot of guys that doesn't wanna associate with me.even my fellow girls
I don't have friends in my street,even where I work and just few friends in school
Even here on nairaland...I just have an outstanding personality people mistake it for pride..
What do I do?
I'm tired of being deserted cos everyone thinks I'm proud,rude and sassy.
Re: People Think I'm Proud When I'm Not(what Should I Do To Change It? by Nobody: 6:46am On Oct 09, 2020
PUNAengineOIL:
If you don't have friends, it is a clear sign that you are either an introvert or a self-centered egoistic narcissist. I doubt the former though.

Break it down sir
Re: People Think I'm Proud When I'm Not(what Should I Do To Change It? by Nobody: 6:48am On Oct 09, 2020
Apina:

someone who's truly humble wouldn't tell you they are, a proud saint is a contradiction. Every other person cannot be wrong but you, make yourself approachable, you most likely are not(speaking from experience). If others are not willing to be friends with you, why not in your self proclaimed and propelled humility extend a hand of friendship.
Hello sir

Good morning
I worked on myself and beginning to have friends and I'm associating very well now...
You too can be my friend if you wouldn't mind
Re: People Think I'm Proud When I'm Not(what Should I Do To Change It? by Apina(m): 11:02am On Oct 09, 2020
Preshieben:
Hello sir

Good morning
I worked on myself and beginning to have friends and I'm associating very well now...
You too can be my friend if you wouldn't mind
Of course, we can be friends grin
Preshieben:
Hello sir

Good morning
I worked on myself and beginning to have friends and I'm associating very well now...
You too can be my friend if you wouldn't mind
Of course, we can be friends
Re: People Think I'm Proud When I'm Not(what Should I Do To Change It? by marsman: 11:19am On Oct 09, 2020
Kill your self, or be who you are in peace. except you are a bitch sha, then you have to change your behaviour
Re: People Think I'm Proud When I'm Not(what Should I Do To Change It? by ifyy07(m): 11:43am On Oct 09, 2020
roybanjo100:
your pride and ego is still blocking ur sense of reasoning..
.Thats why u are still thinking you are the best, you dont praise urself, let people do that for u
Nothing as such people that are telling her either afraid,jealous, inferior and wish they have got what she has.my advice let them shove their opinion in their asses and don't even bother to change for them...
Re: People Think I'm Proud When I'm Not(what Should I Do To Change It? by gfon(m): 12:14pm On Oct 09, 2020
I can't deal with ur attitude,friendly 'hi' you can't reply.. Check urself,u are your own undoing.
Re: People Think I'm Proud When I'm Not(what Should I Do To Change It? by AFvckingAlpha(m): 12:21pm On Oct 09, 2020
The fvck

Niggarr!!


Ain't no snitch Preshieben, bet I know what's at play here.
Re: People Think I'm Proud When I'm Not(what Should I Do To Change It? by Nobody: 12:26pm On Oct 09, 2020
AFvckingAlpha:
The fvck
Niggarr!!

Ain't no snitch Preshieben, bet I know what's at play here.
you say wety?

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