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Re: Women, What Do Men Do That Turn You Off? by nwaezeemmanuel(op): 8:39pm On Oct 10, 2020
I know where the problem is now, you are taking things seriously.

This is not about any man please, they are just preferences. Your idea that most men prefer thick women amuses me - but i also know, it's your opinion.

LINTUNE:
leave story..this is the same way, being skinny as a woman is seen as beauty standard in the media, but deep down, we know most men will always prefer thick women..lets be realistic here ok...i get noticed whereever i go cos of my height and complexion...dark is seen as common here, why fair ppl re not that common here , so naturally , which complexion would be more attractive?...believe this women at ur own peril..
Re: Women, What Do Men Do That Turn You Off? by Nobody: 8:49pm On Oct 10, 2020
Keeping beards.... I hate beards
Keeping long nails...
Talking too much.... This one is a huge turn off.

I can still cut off his nails and beards when he is asleep tongue but When a guy talks too much? Lol we no go even blend self.
Re: Women, What Do Men Do That Turn You Off? by LINTUNE(m): 8:53pm On Oct 10, 2020
nwaezeemmanuel:
I know where the problem is now, you are taking things seriously.

This is not about any man please, they are just preferences. Your idea that most men prefer thick women amuses me - but i also know, it's your opinion.
k
Re: Women, What Do Men Do That Turn You Off? by Kaypols(f): 8:56pm On Oct 10, 2020
LINTUNE:
so every fair guy bleaches?, anyways thats just ur opinion, it doesn't change facts.....
Not all fair guys bleach, but am just showing my preference for dark skin guys and people who are proud of their complexion whether light,golden or dark
In that post i also mean to show my dislike for those who bleach their skin
Re: Women, What Do Men Do That Turn You Off? by Femzaremz(m): 9:04pm On Oct 10, 2020
pozehnani:
For me it's

Armpit smell

Over size trousers and shirts

Smelly mouth

Alika stature

Smelly stockings

Crazy hairstyles

Eczema

Big Brown and yellow teeth. They must be sparkly white.

The worst is keloid bumps. I rejected a rich youth pastor who wanted to marry me because of that.
aswear this is funny asf! ROTFLMAO!
Re: Women, What Do Men Do That Turn You Off? by Vecto(m): 9:15pm On Oct 10, 2020
fati2001:
sorry tho, he's not the one that messed up ur life... so why are you disappointed?
I'm doing fine, hunnay. My life isn't perfect but it sure as hell isn't messed up. If you're gonna be a smartass, first you have to be smart. Otherwise you're just an ass
Re: Women, What Do Men Do That Turn You Off? by fati2001(m): 9:18pm On Oct 10, 2020
Vecto:
I'm doing fine, hunnay. My life isn't perfect but it sure as hell isn't messed up. If you're gonna be a smartass, first you have to be smart. Otherwise you're just an ass
yeah, I Lik pple who whinny like this!!

continue
Re: Women, What Do Men Do That Turn You Off? by Vecto(m): 9:39pm On Oct 10, 2020
fati2001:
yeah, I Lik pple who whinny like this!!
continue
Read this again, this time slowly, and then ask yourself if it makes any sense.
Re: Women, What Do Men Do That Turn You Off? by czarr(m): 9:41pm On Oct 10, 2020
pocohantas:
You made this comment, then went on to create a counter thread less than 24hrs later.

It seems red pill and common sense are two parallel lines. Ain’t you amazed at your own hypocrisy?
Biitch please....
Re: Women, What Do Men Do That Turn You Off? by LINTUNE(m): 10:06pm On Oct 10, 2020
Kaypols:
Not all fair guys bleach, but am just showing my preference for dark skin guys and people who are proud of their complexion whether light,golden or dark
In that post i also mean to show my dislike for those who bleach their skin
alright
Re: Women, What Do Men Do That Turn You Off? by fati2001(m): 10:26pm On Oct 10, 2020
Vecto:
Read this again, this time slowly, and then ask yourself if it makes any sense.
yeah, dear you have just realizes that you and senses are enemies.
*clapping *
Re: Women, What Do Men Do That Turn You Off? by stanliwise(m): 10:32pm On Oct 10, 2020
Palema007:
Keeping beards.... I hate beards
Keeping long nails...
Talking too much.... This one is a huge turn off.

I can still cut off his nails and beards when he is asleep tongue but When a guy talks too much? Lol we no go even blend self.
Is it that you don’t like people that talk a lot? or you don’t like boys that talk a lot?

Because they are different
Re: Women, What Do Men Do That Turn You Off? by laughitall(m): 10:49pm On Oct 10, 2020
czarr:
Some women love muscular guys some don't some love beards some don't
some love chest hair some don't

women love different things so that makes this thread useless in the first place.....

i have read articles where some women confessed to loving body odour, some love crooked tooth, some love big ass in a guy etc some things you wouldn't expect.

the women that are complaining of some bad behaviours in a guy, ask them why they are still choosing those kind of guys in their life......op listen to their actions not their words.....women would say what sounds good and noble but would choose another thing...don't get it twisted.
no man who fucccks bittcches would create a thread like this that is for sure...
exactly most of dis bitches saying dey ain't tripping for muscular guys ... gat dere eyes on one just that he's not giving them the attention
Re: Women, What Do Men Do That Turn You Off? by Localemperor: 10:55pm On Oct 10, 2020
Hintona:
Sorry that was a mistake i meant a Redpiller.
Why did you stop updating your dairy?
Re: Women, What Do Men Do That Turn You Off? by Mrscarter(f): 12:32am On Oct 11, 2020
StacyO:
Don't ya think cute guys cheat a lot? They ain't loyal at all (some)
Mostly they do in my experience but I've known one or two not to. Guess it depends on their personality, morals and their focus in life.
Most like the attention from other girls but I knew one once who wouldn't even pay em attention just laugh at their advances n meanly tell em to find someone elsegrin
He liked money too much to keep a gf.
Have all the cute ones you've known been cheats?
I've even seen the ugly ones to cheat thogrin
Re: Women, What Do Men Do That Turn You Off? by Sixfeetbelle: 2:17am On Oct 11, 2020
czarr:
Some women love muscular guys some don't some love beards some don't
some love chest hair some don't

women love different things so that makes this thread useless in the first place.....

i have read articles where some women confessed to loving body odour, some love crooked tooth, some love big ass in a guy etc some things you wouldn't expect.

the women that are complaining of some bad behaviours in a guy, ask them why they are still choosing those kind of guys in their life......op listen to their actions not their words.....women would say what sounds good and noble but would choose another thing...don't get it twisted.
no man who fucccks bittcches would create a thread like this that is for sure...
But men can say what turns them off in women and theirs is valid, right?
Re: Women, What Do Men Do That Turn You Off? by Sixfeetbelle: 2:19am On Oct 11, 2020
ABCthings:
I hope you guys are not taking these ladies seriously...
But women should take you guys seriously when you state your turn offs, right?
Re: Women, What Do Men Do That Turn You Off? by Sixfeetbelle: 2:26am On Oct 11, 2020
PUNAengineOIL:
They are not confused, telling lies is just an inbuilt feature of women. I pity the op, if you follow a woman's advice you will just self-destruct and same woman will be the first person to call you stupid, senseless and childish.

Just look at the response of dorin27 and the other fati2001, I have no qualms about people's preferred body type but those 2 comments are completely misleading The 2 are just been "girly"

I started body building at 17, although I stopped been a full-time body builder some few years ago I still hit the gym at least thrice every week and all my muscular features are still intact. I don't do it to attract women, I do it for my personal development. But I can tell you that almost all the females I come across are attracted to me, I get advances from almost all my nigga's partners/wives. I sometimes get into awkward situations with some of these ladies because I can't betray my own friend for a hoe. Then all these ones come online to write the complete opposite of reality, I even read through the whole comments and no woman wrote that they are attracted to the muscular male physique, blatant liars. I pity men who seek for opinion from women, women and truth are like day and night. It's just a reality that most men don't know.
I don't like bulky looking guys.

In fact I detest them.

No one in my family is like that. None. Not cousins, not nephews, not uncles, not a single one. Just men who are "filled". Not too skinny, not too fat and based on psychology, women are majorly attracted to the kind of people they surrounded themselves with. I built my idea of my dream man based on my family physique and a bulky guy kills it for me.
Re: Women, What Do Men Do That Turn You Off? by Sixfeetbelle: 2:37am On Oct 11, 2020
fhranchez:
Most girls I've come across say they like dark guys and detest fair guys, but it's still the same girls that are dying for bbnaija Ozo.


Anything you read in this thread just believe the opposite of it
So girls on twitter who said that are the exact same girls on this particular thread abi?

Who knew women with social media accounts are that small in number?
Re: Women, What Do Men Do That Turn You Off? by Sixfeetbelle: 2:40am On Oct 11, 2020
pocohantas:
You made this comment, then went on to create a counter thread less than 24hrs later.

It seems red pill and common sense are two parallel lines. Ain’t you amazed at your own hypocrisy?
And funny thing was, men were actively commenting their turn offs in that thread and it wasn't stupidity to him or any if his alpha males at all.
Re: Women, What Do Men Do That Turn You Off? by Sixfeetbelle: 3:11am On Oct 11, 2020
Oh goodness gracious! I find this thread fun and I feel like pitching in my dislikes too. So here it goes grin

I hate men that keep long nails. Like, what do you need them for if you aren't going for a Guinness world record? It may be due to my inability to maintain one, but still I prefer men with shorter nails. Clip those claws, Jacob!

Bulky muscles don't do it for me either. There's no need for all that extra muscles, Dwayne Johnson. You're a perfect man without the bulging steroids and funny looking blocks of fats and blood encasing your arms.

I like beards when it's not overpowering. A stubble or a little goatee does if for me. Clean-shaven too can work if your chin and neck skin is smooth.

I hate men that drink, smoke and gamble. I may be tempted to run you down with my car (when I have one, so beware). I hate that shit like no tomorrow.

Pot-belly is a huge turn-off for me. It gives me that he's "way older than me" vibe, you know like my dad's age mate and my dad is 60 so you can imagine. Fat people too isn't too much to my liking. Moderate weight is key, not too lean, not too fat. Just perfect fit.

Short guys don't appeal to me, never has, probably never will. There's just this "short circuit" that occurs once I see I'm taller than you. God, I hate how I am too selective of men's height.

Body and mouth odours are new on this list. Never took notice of it before cause I hardly bond with guys but I once perceived it on a male friend and took an instant dislike to him. Now I watch out for that.

Dreads and Tattoos. This aversion might stem from how I was brought up, not like a personal innate dislike. I'm used to seeing clean haircuts and clear skins on guys but with the modern change, I've realised I don't mind tattoos as much, if it's random and single (still hate full sleeve tattos though). Dreads, braided hair and long afro depends on how neat and smart he keeps it. I don't think it would pose a problem in our relationship.

It gets more intricate when we move past these physical attributes but we move cheesy
Re: Women, What Do Men Do That Turn You Off? by MrCork: 8:13am On Oct 11, 2020
dorin27:
yea I bake. I have one already, I don't think I need another

Wot do u bake..corn flakes? anyways did I mention am from London, I drive BMW, I hav moiney & I leave in rich nice millionaire area of London call pekam....juss in case u ask? Anyways r we now cool innit?
smiley
Re: Women, What Do Men Do That Turn You Off? by Babara1994(m): 8:29am On Oct 11, 2020
pozehnani:
Before ilI get to know your personality and character, there has to be a physical attraction but if all I mentioned above are present, I might not even get close or let him come close. Like the case of that youth pst. My pst and the wife were like..* sister, why are you refusing pst lagbaja? He's nice, he's rich, all his siblings are away bla bla bla." But each time I remember that keloid, my heart sank. He's married and relocated to America now but I don't care.


Yeah I know not everyone has sparkly white teeth but they can visit the dentist and have it bleached but some just care less. My love for white teeth though.
Shay woman dey get physical attraction? undecided
Women wey no sabi where their clitoris dey. Many of us have never had orgasm in our lives. We don't really care about physique or outward appearance, we care about other things
Re: Women, What Do Men Do That Turn You Off? by Axmondthuglife: 9:23am On Oct 11, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:
Oh goodness gracious! I find this thread fun and I feel like pitching in my dislikes too. So here it goes grin

I hate men that keep long nails. Like, what do you need them for if you aren't going for a Guinness world record? It may be due to my inability to maintain one, but still I prefer men with shorter nails. Clip those claws, Jacob!

Bulky muscles don't do it for me either. There's no need for all that extra muscles, Dwayne Johnson. You're a perfect man without the bulging steroids and funny looking blocks of fats and blood encasing your arms.

I like beards when it's not overpowering. A stubble or a little goatee does if for me. Clean-shaven too can work if your chin and neck skin is smooth.

I hate men that drink, smoke and gamble. I may be tempted to run you down with my car (when I have one, so beware). I hate that shit like no tomorrow.

Pot-belly is a huge turn-off for me. It gives me that he's "way older than me" vibe, you know like my dad's age mate and my dad is 60 so you can imagine. Fat people too isn't too much to my liking. Moderate weight is key, not too lean, not too fat. Just perfect fit.

Short guys don't appeal to me, never has, probably never will. There's just this "short circuit" that occurs once I see I'm taller than you. God, I hate how I am too selective of men's height.

Body and mouth odours are new on this list. Never took notice of it before cause I hardly bond with guys but I once perceived it on a male friend and took an instant dislike to him. Now I watch out for that.

Dreads and Tattoos. This aversion might stem from how I was brought up, not like a personal innate dislike. I'm used to seeing clean haircuts and clear skins on guys but with the modern change, I've realised I don't mind tattoos as much, if it's random and single (still hate full sleeve tattos though). Dreads, braided hair and long afro depends on how neat and smart he keeps it. I don't think it would pose a problem in our relationship.

It gets more intricate when we move past these physical attributes but we move cheesy
All these for only you cheesycheesycheesy
Re: Women, What Do Men Do That Turn You Off? by nwaezeemmanuel(op): 10:29am On Oct 11, 2020
Speak for yourself.

Not everything must be sexually themed, haba!

Babara1994:
Shay woman dey get physical attraction? undecided
Women wey no sabi where their clitoris dey. Many of us have never had orgasm in our lives. We don't really care about physique or outward appearance, we care about other things
Re: Women, What Do Men Do That Turn You Off? by nwaezeemmanuel(op): 10:31am On Oct 11, 2020
Hahaha grin

Very expressive, you write so well

Sixfeetbelle:
Oh goodness gracious! I find this thread fun and I feel like pitching in my dislikes too. So here it goes grin

I hate men that keep long nails. Like, what do you need them for if you aren't going for a Guinness world record? It may be due to my inability to maintain one, but still I prefer men with shorter nails. Clip those claws, Jacob!

Bulky muscles don't do it for me either. There's no need for all that extra muscles, Dwayne Johnson. You're a perfect man without the bulging steroids and funny looking blocks of fats and blood encasing your arms.

I like beards when it's not overpowering. A stubble or a little goatee does if for me. Clean-shaven too can work if your chin and neck skin is smooth.

I hate men that drink, smoke and gamble. I may be tempted to run you down with my car (when I have one, so beware). I hate that shit like no tomorrow.

Pot-belly is a huge turn-off for me. It gives me that he's "way older than me" vibe, you know like my dad's age mate and my dad is 60 so you can imagine. Fat people too isn't too much to my liking. Moderate weight is key, not too lean, not too fat. Just perfect fit.

Short guys don't appeal to me, never has, probably never will. There's just this "short circuit" that occurs once I see I'm taller than you. God, I hate how I am too selective of men's height.

Body and mouth odours are new on this list. Never took notice of it before cause I hardly bond with guys but I once perceived it on a male friend and took an instant dislike to him. Now I watch out for that.

Dreads and Tattoos. This aversion might stem from how I was brought up, not like a personal innate dislike. I'm used to seeing clean haircuts and clear skins on guys but with the modern change, I've realised I don't mind tattoos as much, if it's random and single (still hate full sleeve tattos though). Dreads, braided hair and long afro depends on how neat and smart he keeps it. I don't think it would pose a problem in our relationship.

It gets more intricate when we move past these physical attributes but we move cheesy
Re: Women, What Do Men Do That Turn You Off? by ABCthings: 10:49am On Oct 11, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:
But women should take you guys seriously when you state your turn offs, right?
Stop pretending jor, we all know women say one thing and do another thing else entirely contradicting their own words.
Re: Women, What Do Men Do That Turn You Off? by nwaezeemmanuel(op): 10:54am On Oct 11, 2020
*The women you know

ABCthings:
Stop pretending jor, we all know women say one thing and do another thing else entirely contradicting their own words.
Re: Women, What Do Men Do That Turn You Off? by ABCthings: 10:59am On Oct 11, 2020
nwaezeemmanuel:
*The women you know
Every woman you don't know.
Re: Women, What Do Men Do That Turn You Off? by nwaezeemmanuel(op): 11:03am On Oct 11, 2020
I see a lot of hate on women here, and the thing is - we attract what we think about.

You think all women are x,y,z - you'll attract those type of women.

Let's all stay open minded and stop thinking with a 'one size fits all' mentality. Happy Sunday
Re: Women, What Do Men Do That Turn You Off? by baralatie(m): 11:53am On Oct 11, 2020
^^^
you are beginning to understand the mentality of some guys on these forum when it comes to women.
maybe it is because these particular set of men are not finding womenfolk easy(obviously they are literarily single without steady relationships)
or they just can not get over a hurt experience with a woman.

or a multiple identity syndrome where in the real world the are easy lickings but in a faceless forum they can now vent out frustrations

or possibly they are yet to come round to the reality that women as created by God are to help the man(meaning if you do good to the woman,she repays you with good but if you do bad she will repay you with bad)
Re: Women, What Do Men Do That Turn You Off? by 21cents: 1:06pm On Oct 11, 2020
Mrscarter:
Picking their nose undecided
Big muscles.
Guys who act all tough/show off or brag
Guys who fvck anyone/everyone they can
Guys who dnt show U how they feel bout U
Long/dirty fingernails
Unromantic guys or non manly guys
Guys who dnt care bout their appearance
Childish guys/unmotivated/ignorant
Guys without sense of humour
Guys who don't pay attention
Smelly feet/unclean or dnt brush teeth
Guys who put their friends before their girl
Guys who break promises constantly
Really short guys(shorter than me)
Really hairy guys
Moustache
Those guys who try impress their friends
Really rich guys
Immature guys/a user
Reckless guys
Unwise with money
Unloyal/unfaithful/dishonest/a liar.
Guys who try be someone they're not.
Guys who gossip bad/ two faced
Guys who tell ppl their personal business.
Secretive guys/abusive guys
Really bushy eyebrows/unkept beard
Irresponsible/rude/untidy
Fat guys/too skinny
Bad skin
Bad in bed/unthoughful

Must have sexy arms first n foremostgrin
Oh god I love sexy arms on my guy n adorable belly....love those little hairs just under that belly that lead dwn...dwn..dwngrin
I like a guy who can make me laugh, who's in it for the long haul, sensitive n sweet but manly too, playful but serious n cute. He dnt gotta be perfect but just right for me.

These are just my preferences n turn offs n my likes
Really bushy eyebrows?? lol. wetin Batman no go see for Gotham city..

I can assure you you'll never find someone that has 85% of your preferences. good luck finding him. even as a guy I haven't jam any chick having 60% of things I yearn for.
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