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Re: How Do U Handle A Disrespectful Girlfriend by nwachukwu9(m): 9:36pm On Jan 21, 2019
I would advice you to quit the relationship, from all indications that lady is just not into you, she is just using you as her Maga, and showing real love to her real BF. I smell this lady is technically friendzoning you. A lady who loves you would not hang a phone on her real BF, NEITHER WOULD SHE LIMIT TIME OF CONVERSATION. you are only being used to take care of her needs, i am sure you are the only one investing in the relationship that is why she can easily afford to loose you and on the other hand you cannot afford to loose her. BE WISE. IF I AM WRONG QUOTE ME

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Re: How Do U Handle A Disrespectful Girlfriend by Simplecity(m): 10:33pm On Jan 21, 2019
xendra:
the lonely ones will be first to give advice
embarassed embarassed but we are experienced na

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Re: How Do U Handle A Disrespectful Girlfriend by lincsnuel: 11:38pm On Jan 21, 2019
xendra:
the lonely ones will be first to give advice

Flesh and blood would never have revealed this to you!

OP, she needs a good sanctioning frm a trained personnel like muah...

To stop her frm misbehaving, I would advice you send me her number so that I can talk sense into her as I've done for others.
Re: How Do U Handle A Disrespectful Girlfriend by anochuko01(m): 12:45am On Jan 22, 2019
xendra:
the lonely ones will be first to give advice
another spoilt brat spotted
Re: How Do U Handle A Disrespectful Girlfriend by sacramento1212: 12:58am On Jan 22, 2019
Valerie47:
Try and talk to her, she might change, anybody can change, if she doesn't change, then you have every right on earth to dump her ass for a better lady.

Yes anybody can change but it depends on whether it's a positive or negative change. A disrespectful and mannerless girl/lady remains the same and nothing can change her except the individual decides on her own to change. That's a bad character and i wouldn't advice any right thinking man to waste his time trying to change a lady that is consistently in the habit of being disrespectful.

He should save that time for another lady that's respectful.
Re: How Do U Handle A Disrespectful Girlfriend by CuntMiner(m): 12:06pm On Jan 22, 2019
MJBOLT:
sit down and discuss the issue with her,if she doesnt change then quit the relationship
yes thank you, we've now discussed it, she deeply apologized and said she loves me that I should forgive, she won't talk like dat again

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Re: How Do U Handle A Disrespectful Girlfriend by Rockyfancino(m): 2:51pm On Oct 12, 2020
CuntMiner:
yes thank you, we've now discussed it, she deeply apologized and said she loves me that I should forgive, she won't talk like dat again
So how did it later go? People are difficult to change except they want to change themselves. What's the follow up, let me use your advice.
Re: How Do U Handle A Disrespectful Girlfriend by CuntMiner(m): 3:41pm On Oct 12, 2020
Rockyfancino:

So how did it later go? People are difficult to change except they want to change themselves. What's the follow up, let me use your advice.
oooo boy........which change,i dont know maybe it natural or not,but She started cheating,greatly cheating,d reason she was disrespecting me was cos she was cheating,guilty conscience....most times dey dont change...when tey start disrespecting you,just calm down and study tings,sometimes,they are cheating,sometimes it inborn or a trait dey developed..just calm don and observe..na only GOD saved me from heart attack
Re: How Do U Handle A Disrespectful Girlfriend by genii96(m): 6:24pm On Oct 12, 2020
Dump her ass
Re: How Do U Handle A Disrespectful Girlfriend by Rockyfancino(m): 6:45pm On Oct 12, 2020
CuntMiner:
oooo boy........which change,i dont know maybe it natural or polygamous,but She started cheating,greatly cheating,d reason she was disrespecting me was cos she was cheating,guilty conscience....most times dey dont change...when tey start disrespecting you,just calm down and study tings,sometimes,they are cheating,sometimes it inborn or a trait dey developed..just calm don and observe..na only GOD saved me from heart attack
How come you didn't know she was cheating. Greatly, was she cheating with more than one guy?
How did you even come to find out?
Re: How Do U Handle A Disrespectful Girlfriend by Diamond23(f): 6:57pm On Oct 12, 2020
CuntMiner:
yeah, not just girlfriend but also a lady u wanna marry, but she's being disrespectful today, apologize tomorrow, get back to being disrespectful the third day.....
I think it due to the fact that you show her love in a way that might be getting in her head like you can't do without her.... you might be speaking with her on the phone any slight provocation, she hangs d call and may not pick again for several hours, again, she says she wants to sleep and charge her phone so I should call her very later on, well to me if u love someone dearly,you wouldn't say that to a call that will last less than 3 minutes
I would have just focused on my career alone and leave female matters aside, but it sweeter when u have a lady beside as ur pumping into success...... so how do u handle a disrespectful girlfriend??
Not just how to deal with a disrespectful girlfriend. Is the love reciprocated or one sided
Re: How Do U Handle A Disrespectful Girlfriend by Nobody: 7:12pm On Oct 12, 2020
CuntMiner:
oooo boy........which change,i dont know maybe it natural or polygamous,but She started cheating,greatly cheating,d reason she was disrespecting me was cos she was cheating,guilty conscience....most times dey dont change...when tey start disrespecting you,just calm down and study tings,sometimes,they are cheating,sometimes it inborn or a trait dey developed..just calm don and observe..na only GOD saved me from heart attack

You dey tolerate alot o, I can understand having sharp mouth, but cheating that's too much
Re: How Do U Handle A Disrespectful Girlfriend by CuntMiner(m): 9:10pm On Oct 12, 2020
Rockyfancino:

How come you didn't know she was cheating. Greatly, was she cheating with more than one guy?
How did you even come to find out?
thank you bro,thank you,i av her fb password and she wouldnt think i would check,dat where i saw it..but bro till dis moment i dont understand what went wrong,she wssnt such a girl,in fact i deflowered her,d thing is she came from a polygamous famil and her step mum doesnt like us together,she shows it..but d girl's mum like us together...plus her dad is an herbalist,people are saying shes being enchanted..i dont understand ,she just went mad and started cheating,i say mad because she wasnt such type before
Re: How Do U Handle A Disrespectful Girlfriend by Rockyfancino(m): 9:34pm On Oct 12, 2020
CuntMiner:
thank you bro,thank you,i av her fb password and she wouldnt think i would check,dat where i saw it..but bro till dis moment i dont understand what went wrong,she wssnt such a girl,in fact i deflowered her,d thing is she came from a polygamous famil and her step mum doesnt like us together,she shows it..but d girl's mum like us together...plus her dad is an herbalist,people are saying shes being enchanted..i dont understand ,she just went mad and started cheating,i say mad because she wasnt such type before
Whaow! To suddenly just become a massive cheater is something. But I don't think she was enchanted or anything like that. She either is covetous or she's likes sex than what you give her and she just wants to explore, or she's everything in one. And I think the foundation of you guys relationship to her was not love. She probably has no morals in that regard and I think you should be able to judge from the type of friends she moves with.
Re: How Do U Handle A Disrespectful Girlfriend by Bennysam: 10:42pm On Oct 12, 2020
CuntMiner:
yeah, not just girlfriend but also a lady u wanna marry, but she's being disrespectful today, apologize tomorrow, get back to being disrespectful the third day.....
I think it due to the fact that you show her love in a way that might be getting in her head like you can't do without her.... you might be speaking with her on the phone any slight provocation, she hangs d call and may not pick again for several hours, again, she says she wants to sleep and charge her phone so I should call her very later on, well to me if u love someone dearly,you wouldn't say that to a call that will last less than 3 minutes
I would have just focused on my career alone and leave female matters aside, but it sweeter when u have a lady beside as ur pumping into success...... so how do u handle a disrespectful girlfriend??
That's big sign you don't ignore , tomorrow you come back and complain , leave now
Re: How Do U Handle A Disrespectful Girlfriend by emkz: 12:09am On Oct 13, 2020
Eventually, ALL men need, infact, desire RESPECT. That woman has shown she is not afraid to lose you. Let her lose you.

Tips to be respected by a woman: show her you are not afraid of losing her. Don't be a sissy, address her fúck up quickly before it snowballs to something else. And personal advise: avoid flashy women if the only things they have going for them are their bodies. And please, no toto is worth making compromises or allowing yourself to be disrespected.

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Re: How Do U Handle A Disrespectful Girlfriend by ABANGWABOI(m): 8:41am On Oct 13, 2020
#ILMOVON cry cry
#Attitude
#Bliv

Person wey dey give you ATTITUDE
Dey give another Person JOY..
It is entirely Your CHOICE...

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