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OMOJOHN001:
Please help a brother, I think i am falling in love with this babe. Please help a brother, I think i am falling in love with this babe.

Never date who you love. It'll be your weakness.


Date who love you.

by Ubunja. Redpill

Shortyy:
I was being completely sarcastic on the op being an alpha male.

Lol... I didnt know
Can i get your number?

S1MP:
Lol... I didnt know

Can i get your number?

No

S1MP:
Lol... I didnt know

Can i get your number?

You are a disgrace to the male folks.

Kenplay:
You are a disgrace to the male folks.

What for? lalasticlala Rule 2 broken

S1MP:
What for?
lalasticlala
Rule 2 broken

For being a Simp lord begging girls for number on Nairaland. Am ashamed of u.oya collect

S1MP:
women love men who show persistence and determination. they want to know that you're really into them
keep trying, she will open up to you. all na initial shakara
take her out, show her small cash. she will be yours in no time.
just make sure you make your presence known when you see her.
buy her takeaway and goodies and watch as she'll be blown away.
you just have to show her you love her

OP believe this man at your own risk. A lot of guys make the mistake of thinking that spending money on ladies will make the ladies love them, foul! You think he'll be the first to try that? The said lady may agree to date you, but mind you she's dating your money not you. If you really need advice then check out this thread

https://www.nairaland.com/6096237/redpill-constitution-bitter-truths

You can ask your questions there, and I assure you'll be glad you clicked that link.

OMOJOHN001:
I met this lady at a chemist four days ago, the following day I decide to go wait for her on her way home so I can get her number and from there start something with her, Cuz she looks so beautiful for me and I really fall for her.

But to my surprise, the first day I talked to her she responded so well but insist she won't give her NUM that day, that next time we meet she will. I said no problem then I left,the following day I quickly close from studio as per say I be music producer, I went straight to that her work area and behold I saw her again and we talked she smiled and responded, I asked her for her number again, she said next time, I asked her why next time again, she said she didn't have answers to that, that next time she will give me. But me as an Alpha male and redpiller that i am from Nairaland I thought within me that this one is not serious.

I just said to her Goodnight and walk away from her side, going on my way she then enter a bike, When her bike pass by my side I greeted her Goodnight, she refuse to even look at my side. since that day I didn't go to her again,

But guys BABA keep thinking about this babe all day, I still wish I can have her, please what should I do now, should I go to her again or just forget about her, or whatelse can I do to get her number. please guys I need your advice,Thanks.

when will you guys stop this your alpha male nonsense,it fake,just search dating blogs on Google like develop attraction by chris canwell,redpillstheory by Avery,and books like double your dating and attraction isn't a choice by David DeAngelo,why the seduction community sucks by logun,(you can get this books on PDF,no cost


and stop all this nonsense alpha male and red pills you do here

JasperVII:
OP believe this man at your own risk. A lot of guys make the mistake of thinking that spending money on ladies will make the ladies love them, foul! You think he'll be the first to try that? The said lady may agree to date you, but mind you she's dating your money not you. If you really need advice then check out this thread

https://www.nairaland.com/6096237/redpill-constitution-bitter-truths

You can ask your questions there, and I assure you'll be glad you clicked that link.

I was actually thinking he was having fun and just being sarcastic, just got to know he's a d*ckhead, that sho*ty F moniker just disgraced his stinking ass for all to see.
It must really hurt to be him bro.
He actually wrote that BS so that women reading it will start tearing their pants and getting wet for him, these guys could go any length to gain cheap female validations.

GLYCOLYSISS:
I was actually thinking he was having fun and just being sarcastic, just got to know he's a d*ckhead, that sho*ty moniker just disgraced his sinking ass for all to see.

I hope he can rest now. 600 years suffering for him anyway

I admire your works BTW. Big fan

S1MP:
women love men who show persistence and determination. they want to know that you're really into them
keep trying, she will open up to you. all na initial shakara
take her out, show her small cash. she will be yours in no time.
just make sure you make your presence known when you see her.
buy her takeaway and goodies and watch as she'll be blown away.
you just have to show her you love her

guy u daft o...op, follow this comment at ur own peril..

GLYCOLYSISS:
I was actually thinking he was having fun and just being sarcastic, just got to know he's a d*ckhead, that sho*ty F moniker just disgraced his sinking ass for all to see.
It must really hurt to be him bro.
He actually wrote that BS so that women reading it will start tearing their pants and getting wet for him, these guys could go any length to gain cheap female validation.

Me too, lol.


At first I thought he was just catching cruise using the simp moniker, but I thought wrong. His first post on this thread reeks of wanting female validation, saying something he believes females will want to hear. All in a subtle attempt to get her digits. But then the momentary phase of the TRP reveals itself — Scoring cheap points won't get you laid. State your stance clearly and don't be a girly man.


#TRP

OMOJOHN001:
I met this lady at a chemist four days ago, the following day I decide to go wait for her on her way home so I can get her number and from there start something with her, Cuz she looks so beautiful for me and I really fall for her.

But to my surprise, the first day I talked to her she responded so well but insist she won't give her NUM that day, that next time we meet she will. I said no problem then I left,the following day I quickly close from studio as per say I be music producer, I went straight to that her work area and behold I saw her again and we talked she smiled and responded, I asked her for her number again, she said next time, I asked her why next time again, she said she didn't have answers to that, that next time she will give me. But me as an Alpha male and redpiller that i am from Nairaland I thought within me that this one is not serious.

I just said to her Goodnight and walk away from her side, going on my way she then enter a bike, When her bike pass by my side I greeted her Goodnight, she refuse to even look at my side. since that day I didn't go to her again,

But guys BABA keep thinking about this babe all day, I still wish I can have her, please what should I do now, should I go to her again or just forget about her, or whatelse can I do to get her number. please guys I need your advice,Thanks.

She’s just playing you like football, if she really wants you, she will give you her number same day. Stop troubling yourself over her, she doesn’t give a fvck about you. Don’t mind that simp that told you to be wasting your money buying things for her, she go just chop your money for free.

Una no go kill me for this nairaland. baba say him be redpillar from nairaland. If you like be Caterpillar from Julius Berger.
Redpillar na title abi achievement? Most of you are alpha males online and woman wrapper in real life.

cupidhero:
Una no go kill me for this nairaland. baba say him be redpillar from nairaland. If you like be Caterpillar from Julius Berger.
Redpillar na title abi achievement? Most of you are alpha males online and woman wrapper in real life.

are you a redpilla?

Even with all the signs you still wanna mumu yourself. She doesn't like you move on bro

baralatie:
are you a redpilla?

Don't know! Don't care!
I hate being defined by fancy words.
I am a man...the world and all that is within it is mine to conquer.
Different animal but the same beast.
If the situation requires me to be a simp then a simp is what i will definately be.
But if there is need for me to be an alpha male thats exactly what i will be.
Flexibility na the key.

Op! Haha.. What if she's into women? leave her nah! Btw if you're a water sign guy, then all these Advices na just waste of type energy! coz i know you'll still go back. Haha!

OMOJOHN001:
I met this lady at a chemist four days ago, the following day I decide to go wait for her on her way home so I can get her number and from there start something with her, Cuz she looks so beautiful for me and I really fall for her.

But to my surprise, the first day I talked to her she responded so well but insist she won't give her NUM that day, that next time we meet she will. I said no problem then I left,the following day I quickly close from studio as per say I be music producer, I went straight to that her work area and behold I saw her again and we talked she smiled and responded, I asked her for her number again, she said next time, I asked her why next time again, she said she didn't have answers to that, that next time she will give me. But me as an Alpha male and redpiller that i am from Nairaland I thought within me that this one is not serious.

I just said to her Goodnight and walk away from her side, going on my way she then enter a bike, When her bike pass by my side I greeted her Goodnight, she refuse to even look at my side. since that day I didn't go to her again,

But guys BABA keep thinking about this babe all day, I still wish I can have her, please what should I do now, should I go to her again or just forget about her, or whatelse can I do to get her number. please guys I need your advice,Thanks.

did you meet her with your car?

Mosetgg:
Ladies can be so funny and deceiving.

I was in a bus yesterday with a lady, initially I met her in that bus.

The way I priced down the transport fare with the driver attracted her attention to me at first with this surprising smile on her face.

When the driver agreed on the normal price he should have called earlier, I entered the bus with this wicked smile on my face.

Then I ask this lady looking at her at my back seat the reason she was laughing, she just kept smiling like one innocent girl like that.

After the person sitting next to her went down from the bus, I left to her seat because where I was sitting was not that comfortable and also to strike conversation with.

At first I asked if she never price down things any time she goes to the market to buy things and she replied that she does price things, showing another innocent smile like that on her face

Then I locked up with her and I just look away without looking desperate.

I paid the transport fare of one of my guy in the bus and she knew about it but I never let it appeared as though I'm trying to impress anyone.

The bus stopped and he ordered us to join another bus and so I went to the front of the new bus with that my guy, leaving her at the back seat.

The bus happened to passed my fine street and so I got down at the front of my house.

Surprisingly, when I got down, our eyes met and she vividly was looking at me and waving her hands at me with smiles which I also returned.

when I got to my room, her innocent smile came back to my memory and I dropped the files I was holding, took bike to chase the bus she was in to trace her to the bus stop.

She was already walking away from the bus stop when I got there.

She was surprised when she saw me and she asked if I was not the one that got down few minutes ago.

I told her I was the one, that I forgot to get her number earlier, and immediately I realised these I took a bike to see if I can still see her.

she just said am I serious and I said yes.

My people, she just told me plainly that she won't give me her number, after much persuasion and sweet talk, she denied and I just ended up by telling her to have my own number instead.

she said she will not call me but I insisted that she should still have it which she did.

Since that incidence, I have decided not to take those ladies serious again at least not to play into their unstable attitude again.

I think you showed desperation that's why she lost interest.

Mosetgg:
Ladies can be so funny and deceiving.

I was in a bus yesterday with a lady, initially I met her in that bus.

The way I priced down the transport fare with the driver attracted her attention to me at first with this surprising smile on her face.

When the driver agreed on the normal price he should have called earlier, I entered the bus with this wicked smile on my face.

Then I ask this lady looking at her at my back seat the reason she was laughing, she just kept smiling like one innocent girl like that.

After the person sitting next to her went down from the bus, I left to her seat because where I was sitting was not that comfortable and also to strike conversation with.

At first I asked if she never price down things any time she goes to the market to buy things and she replied that she does price things, showing another innocent smile like that on her face

Then I locked up with her and I just look away without looking desperate.

I paid the transport fare of one of my guy in the bus and she knew about it but I never let it appeared as though I'm trying to impress anyone.

The bus stopped and he ordered us to join another bus and so I went to the front of the new bus with that my guy, leaving her at the back seat.

The bus happened to passed my fine street and so I got down at the front of my house.

Surprisingly, when I got down, our eyes met and she vividly was looking at me and waving her hands at me with smiles which I also returned.

when I got to my room, her innocent smile came back to my memory and I dropped the files I was holding, took bike to chase the bus she was in to trace her to the bus stop.

She was already walking away from the bus stop when I got there.

She was surprised when she saw me and she asked if I was not the one that got down few minutes ago.

I told her I was the one, that I forgot to get her number earlier, and immediately I realised these I took a bike to see if I can still see her.

she just said am I serious and I said yes.

My people, she just told me plainly that she won't give me her number, after much persuasion and sweet talk, she denied and I just ended up by telling her to have my own number instead.

she said she will not call me but I insisted that she should still have it which she did.

Since that incidence, I have decided not to take those ladies serious again at least not to play into their unstable attitude again.

She might be too young and naive(cant seem to understand why you followed her all the way...

OR
She might be engaged/married..

Openbusiness:
mistake number 1, after asking the first time and she said next time, you should not have asked her again after meeting her another time....

Modified:

Cut the story short, don't go looking for her and bugging her again. Give her space, allow her to breathe, otherwise you will end up making her think you're a creep and she'll dislike you more and more and totally start avoiding you. So just let go and allow your next meeting to be by chance. This way you won't put yourself under unnecessary pressure, cuz d more you put yourself under pressure, d more you're prone to make mistakes or send out the wrong vibe and she will cockblock your moves.

Next time you guys jam by chance just greet her normal like, Hey wassup na, long time no see. *pause, let her return the greet back* then you can say like you're part of the survey team of the YDP and you guys are doing a public survey and taking some answers and feedback from the youth about what affects them negatively in Lagos (if na Lagos una dey) and the suggestions they have for government to make things better in your community. *Or you can form another thing but let it be a contemporary issue or something currently relevant like the youth protests etc)*

Be calm and just do normal oh, don't try to make physical contact or get too close. Just be free and do normal and talk with confidence like you know what you're saying oh, and don't talk or stutter like you cram something and trying to remember. Then as you are talking or when she's talking just hold your phone in your hand and be forming call. Do it like you're trying to call, a couple of times.

Then as she finishes responding to you, just go like please can she help you with a little favor, there's someone owing you money since lockdown, like 100K, and the girl has been avoiding your calls. Na help you help her oh, cuz she was like nothing nothing, save her soul, they stopped her at work cuz she na private school teacher. And out of your KIND heart *do some small physical emotional theatrics to back it up * but to pay back, she has been dodging and avoiding your calls. That can she just help you call the number on her phone, that you just want to see whether she will pick and talk to her. Just 1 minute call, you will buy her airtime back.

Then when she asks for the number, give her your own number let her call you, but as a sharp guy, quickly put your own phone on silent, so it won't be ringing out when she dials. Let her dial twice, no answer then tell her thanks she should not worry again. You're ok. Bamm! You don get her number b dat. Then free her normal level bye bye, thanks for answering survey....Na d way b dat. Na sense person dey take catch stubborn goat

Lol... Sharp guy, but what of when she eventually find out say you use trick collect am den finally ditch you for that?

Redpillers and caterpillars Nairaland chapter

Mosetgg:
Ladies can be so funny and deceiving.

I was in a bus yesterday with a lady, initially I met her in that bus.


when I got to my room, her innocent smile came back to my memory and I dropped the files I was holding, took bike to chase the bus she was in to trace her to the bus stop.

She was already walking away from the bus stop when I got there.

You took bike and chased after a bus,because of an unknown girl..I can't believe it

Arvelo:
Lol... Sharp guy, but what of when she eventually find out say you use trick collect am den finally ditch you for that?

She will draw closer for a short while to see whether it was a fluke or maybe you're really a witty guy. Women love wits, it is a natural attraction for them. People usually think like, Oh females like "bad boys", not really, it's not the "bad" they are attracted to, that's just a small aspect. The main attraction is the sharpness, bad boys are usually sharp, and women are naturally drawn to that. She might form , Oh, the way you deceive me isn't cool, but secretly she likes it, women like guys that they feel is more intelligent or more sharp than she is. Usually, women are competitive by nature, they love competition and one of their favorite areas to compete is intelligence. She will test you from time to time. If she believes she is sharper or smarter than you, the attraction begins to fade, but if you show her she na learner wia u dey, then the attraction will grow stronger. Cuz they like to learn stuff and try new things and if she knows she has a lot to learn from you, she will like to hangout more with you or chat you up on phone steady. Of cuz there are other variables involved too, but we looking at this aspect, which is one of the top aspects. Women like sharp guys

jesmond3945:
I think you showed desperation that's why she lost interest.

That act of desperation alone showed her he doesn't get female attention, and women want guys that other women want.

jesmond3945:
did you meet her with your car?

I actually went to her with my Bike, Left my car at home.

OMOJOHN001:
I met this lady at a chemist four days ago, the following day I decide to go wait for her on her way home so I can get her number and from there start something with her, Cuz she looks so beautiful for me and I really fall for her.

But to my surprise, the first day I talked to her she responded so well but insist she won't give her NUM that day, that next time we meet she will. I said no problem then I left,the following day I quickly close from studio as per say I be music producer, I went straight to that her work area and behold I saw her again and we talked she smiled and responded, I asked her for her number again, she said next time, I asked her why next time again, she said she didn't have answers to that, that next time she will give me. But me as an Alpha male and redpiller that i am from Nairaland I thought within me that this one is not serious.

I just said to her Goodnight and walk away from her side, going on my way she then enter a bike, When her bike pass by my side I greeted her Goodnight, she refuse to even look at my side. since that day I didn't go to her again,

But guys BABA keep thinking about this babe all day, I still wish I can have her, please what should I do now, should I go to her again or just forget about her, or whatelse can I do to get her number. please guys I need your advice,Thanks.

My advise for you is to ditch her then go out and spin more plates... Your desperation was obvious that's why she ditched you...

U messed up big time. Y did u ask for number, she would obviously decline it. U need to up Ur game bro. Alpha no be for mouth

Mosetgg:
Ladies can be so funny and deceiving.

I was in a bus yesterday with a lady, initially I met her in that bus.

The way I priced down the transport fare with the driver attracted her attention to me at first with this surprising smile on her face.

When the driver agreed on the normal price he should have called earlier, I entered the bus with this wicked smile on my face.

Then I ask this lady looking at her at my back seat the reason she was laughing, she just kept smiling like one innocent girl like that.

After the person sitting next to her went down from the bus, I left to her seat because where I was sitting was not that comfortable and also to strike conversation with.

At first I asked if she never price down things any time she goes to the market to buy things and she replied that she does price things, showing another innocent smile like that on her face

Then I locked up with her and I just look away without looking desperate.

I paid the transport fare of one of my guy in the bus and she knew about it but I never let it appeared as though I'm trying to impress anyone.

The bus stopped and he ordered us to join another bus and so I went to the front of the new bus with that my guy, leaving her at the back seat.

The bus happened to passed my fine street and so I got down at the front of my house.

Surprisingly, when I got down, our eyes met and she vividly was looking at me and waving her hands at me with smiles which I also returned.

when I got to my room, her innocent smile came back to my memory and I dropped the files I was holding, took bike to chase the bus she was in to trace her to the bus stop.

She was already walking away from the bus stop when I got there.

She was surprised when she saw me and she asked if I was not the one that got down few minutes ago.

I told her I was the one, that I forgot to get her number earlier, and immediately I realised these I took a bike to see if I can still see her.

she just said am I serious and I said yes.

My people, she just told me plainly that she won't give me her number, after much persuasion and sweet talk, she denied and I just ended up by telling her to have my own number instead.

she said she will not call me but I insisted that she should still have it which she did.

Since that incidence, I have decided not to take those ladies serious again at least not to play into their unstable attitude again.

There is this girl i ask her for her number she told me the same as you but the next time we see i just did like i haven't talk to her before or know her and she was looking at me to make the move again but me i don't ask girl number two times it never happen to me before.
After the last day we saw, two to three weeks later we see again she still look at me that day i was just thinking in my mind this girl doesn't know she is not in mind again...

chatinent:
Things I noticed from this escapade:

¹. Dude advertised his work.


². Dude said he is a red piller, a nairalander. Quite lame.



Bro, in every redpiller is the simplest simpleton.


Forget what these mini men do here and tag as being alpha. Don't let anyone project their frustration to you and call it teaching.


If you are alpha, women you want will want you before you realize it. It's just codes.


The real meaning of being alpha has been lost to rejected kids who persevered yet failed.



My advice: if you aren't ready to settle down with her, let her be.



You are welcome.

Your advice is quite nice. That aside

You talked about the real meaning of Alpha but I bet most of you guys that shout redpill don’t know jack about what an Alpha means.

Alpha also mean oldest, parent, leader. Alpha do not generally mean charismatic or strong, nor aggressive. Take the wolf for example the alpha male is either the oldest male or the parent male. Male or female. In a lion pride, the father is regarded as the Alpha or in a group of bachelor lions, the oldest is generally regarded as the alpha. Educate yourself.