I need answers,. why don't girls toast boys they like

They are afraid of rejection, and they are also broke.
Also, it's not advisable

Publickk:
They are afraid of rejection, and they are also broke.
Also, it's not advisable

I'm brave, rich and I don't take advise.

So can I take you out?

I vow not to toast girls..... There admire me by look, gentility and never spoken up. I just de watch

Because it is not in the nature of the female to chase the male. Male initiate, and the female respond. Also, women have a need to feel special, and chasing the male is an antithesis to it. Furthermore, the thing women fear comparable to death is rejection. The female did not evolved to be rejected, or that their desires not premiumed.

From an evolutionary standpoint, it is the female that selects the best male to mate with, and the male usually are accepting to the female as long as she is at her prime. Women knows this as well, and rejecting her romantic advances sends an intense bitter taste which makes her feel like she is not desirable anymore and her prime is coming to an end. She will feel defective and question her worth. Thousand years of evolutionary psychology has hardwired this instinct in her to be intolerant to rejection, to a point where seeking to punish you for the rejection is common.

They do, via oloshoism...they admire guys that can pay.

IKWUADA:
I need answers,.
why don't girls toast boys they like

Not me I do.
I'm not scared to say what I want.

pansophist:
Because it is not in the nature of the female to chase the male. Male initiate, and the female respond. Also, women have a need to feel special, and chasing the male is an antithesis to it. Furthermore, the thing women fear comparable to death is rejection. The female did not evolved to be rejected, or that their desires not premiumed.

From an evolutionary standpoint, it is the female that selects the best male to mate with, and the male usually are accepting to the female as long as she is at her prime. Women knows this as well, and rejecting her romantic advances sends an intense bitter taste which makes her feel like she is not desirable anymore and her prime is coming to an end. She will feel defective and question her worth. Rhousand years of evolutionary psychology has hardwired this instinct in her to be intolerant to rejection, to a point where seeking to punish you for the rejection is common.

Lol.
You've put sum thought into that.
I'm not afraid to tell someone if I liked them. everyone will get rejection at some point in life no matter how beautiful you are. It's just life.
It's scary but it's not that bad lol U just move on. However sum girls are just shy n others think they are too good for it that the man should chase them.
The latter being the most shallow of girls.

Because it's not natural for a woman to chase a man.

Mrscarter:

Not me I do. I'm not scared to say what I want.

but 99.9% Of girls don't

pansophist:
Because it is not in the nature of the female to chase the male. Male initiate, and the female respond. Also, women have a need to feel special, and chasing the male is an antithesis to it. Furthermore, the thing women fear comparable to death is rejection. The female did not evolved to be rejected, or that their desires not premiumed.

From an evolutionary standpoint, it is the female that selects the best male to mate with, and the male usually are accepting to the female as long as she is at her prime. Women knows this as well, and rejecting her romantic advances sends an intense bitter taste which makes her feel like she is not desirable anymore and her prime is coming to an end. She will feel defective and question her worth. Rhousand years of evolutionary psychology has hardwired this instinct in her to be intolerant to rejection, to a point where seeking to punish you for the rejection is common.

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Top of the morning to you, sir.

Mrscarter:


Lol.
You've put sum thought into that.
I'm not afraid to tell someone if I liked them. everyone will get rejection at some point in life no matter how beautiful you are. It's just life.
It's scary but it's not that bad lol U just move on. However sum girls are just shy n others think they are too good for it that the man should chase them.
The latter being the most shallow of girls.

Have you ever openly expressed your feelings to a guy before?

Such things are not done in this part of the world, and it not done to avoid see finish, if a girl toast a boy in nigeria, such a girl will never be valued by the boy.

Who's deceiving who,,,,,,,...


Some of you guys for dis nairaland dey always do as if nah village you come from,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,



Girls always woo the boy they want,,,,,,, but it isn't a step by step which is common to the boys,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,


Girls do it with body sign,,, ,,,,,,,,,,,,,


I can't count the number of times girls don woo me,,,,,, so OP there's nothing special or surprising about that,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

virginprincess:
Such things are not done in this part of the world, and it not done to avoid see finish, if a girl toast a boy in nigeria, such a girl will never be valued by the boy.

That's a big lie. I knew of a certain lady who liked this my friend and she walked up to him to express her feelings and my friend liked her in return, the feelings were nutured with time. To cut the long story short they got married in January and they are currently in Amsterdam

Mrscarter:

Not me I do. I'm not scared to say what I want.

shut up, how many boys you Don toast?

virginprincess:
Such things are not done in this part of the world, and it not done to avoid see finish, if a girl toast a boy in nigeria, such a girl will never be valued by the boy.

what a very silly excuse

Charlex23:

That's a big lie. I knew of a certain lady who liked this my friend and she walked up to him to express her feelings and my friend liked her in return, the feelings were nutured with time. To cut the long story short they got married in January and they are currently in Amsterdam

That is just one in a million, i know what i am saying.

virginprincess:
That is just one in a million, i know what i am saying.

Well in some cases. But as a lady if you like smtin i think you should just go for it, you don't know where your luck might just click. Btw guys tend to love girls who are always courageous

virginprincess:
That is just one in a million, i know what i am saying.

You don't know anything aside your poverty cycle of poor gals oo

NNEWIsuper:

You don't know anything aside your poverty cycle of poor gals oo

I don't have time for foul mouthed people like you.

so intelligent woman dey nairaland?

Mrscarter:


Lol.
You've put sum thought into that.
I'm not afraid to tell someone if I liked them. everyone will get rejection at some point in life no matter how beautiful you are. It's just life.
It's scary but it's not that bad lol U just move on. However sum girls are just shy n others think they are too good for it that the man should chase them.
The latter being the most shallow of girls.

Welcome to the Western world... Ladies ask men out not boys... With confidence and real intentions... Tho can be based on one night stand or coffee date

Some women do ask men out....

U just need to be cool enough for it

Anoth:

shut up, how many boys you Don toast?

U shut up. Rude much?!
Im not scared to go after what I want in life.

Vecto:


Have you ever openly expressed your feelings to a guy before?

Ofcourse. It's not hard lol

pansophist:
Because it is not in the nature of the female to chase the male. Male initiate, and the female respond. Also, women have a need to feel special, and chasing the male is an antithesis to it. Furthermore, the thing women fear comparable to death is rejection. The female did not evolved to be rejected, or that their desires not premiumed.

From an evolutionary standpoint, it is the female that selects the best male to mate with, and the male usually are accepting to the female as long as she is at her prime. Women knows this as well, and rejecting her romantic advances sends an intense bitter taste which makes her feel like she is not desirable anymore and her prime is coming to an end. She will feel defective and question her worth. Rhousand years of evolutionary psychology has hardwired this instinct in her to be intolerant to rejection, to a point where seeking to punish you for the rejection is common.

Na wa. Mr Philosopher.

Mrscarter:


Ofcourse. It's not hard lol

Mrscarter:


U shut up. Rude much?!
Im not scared to go after what I want in life.

Shut up and tell us how many guys you don toast, na only online una dey get confidence

Anoth:

Shut up and tell us how many guys you don toast, na only online una dey get confidence

I've went after my three of my exes n told each of them how I felt n ended up in long relationships with two if them n a short one with the other. They didn't ask me I asked them.
Lol wats the point in having confidence online . It won't get me anywhere.