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Bellotelli:
This is about the first story I'll be posting here, so please pardon my typo and I'll try to make it a short one.

I met this girl about four years ago and we started dating immediately (she was 20). She was a good person but I had no deep emotional feelings for her. She even got a customized Man United Jersey for me.. The first birthday gift I ever had.

Fast forward to December 2018, I decided to break up with her becos I met someone else whom I thought I would settle down with but that relationship turned out be my worst nightmare (story for another day). By January 2020 I decided I've had enough and quitted, then I reached out to my ex and mended things with her cos she never offended me and I didn't want to be lonely.

Our relationship was mainly sexual.. Sometimes without protection.

Fast forward, mid May 2020 she sent me a message asking when last I did an HIV test and I told her since August last year (a lie). I called her immediately and tried to know why she asked and she confessed that she has been diagnosed HIV positive since late last year and she has been battling with her conscience since we came back and started having unprotected sex.

Initially, I was very furious with her and myself. How could I make such a silly mistake?... How could I be so gullible as to trust a girl merely by her looks? She called, messaged and begged that I should forgive her but I told her to give me some space for the time being.

I became so scared of going for a test until last month (September) when I decided to meet her. We spoke at length and I was more traumatized when she told me that she wasn't in any sexual relationship since our break up in 2018... She thought I infected her. I was also confused because aside catarrh I've not treated even malaria since the beginning of this year. In fact since August last year I was only diagnosed with malaria and typhoid.

Conclusively, I decided to go with her to the hospital to conduct the test yesterday October 19, 2020. I prayed for a second chance as i waited anxiously in the Lab reception.

Finally, the doctor called me and told me the test result. Wow.. What a relief, I thank God Almighty for a second chance. I know HIV is not the end of the world, but what I feared the most and for most people out there is the stigma.

AND FOR MY NOW EX... I'll Like to sit down with her in order to know the truth. I want to know how she contracted HIV.

Try testing in another hospital, may be the gave you the wrong result. Don't rejoice yet

gr8cany:
Pep is different from prep oga
Stop taking prep and nyashing all around with galadima feel of I'm protected.
It will surprise you o

Check I corrected myself, pep is used for anyone exposed to hiv while prep is for discordant couples. And I never said I'm taking prep or nyashing around.

gr8cany:
Your submission is so wrong, 99.98%? Jus say the � you meant.
Do you realize that in faces of viral attack, they are periods when everything lies low and internal constitution including the blood all revert all through normal[

No need to argue. Google CDC hiv window period or read through this link - https://www.hiv.gov/hiv-basics/hiv-testing/learn-about-hiv-testing/hiv-testing-overview

And from the bolded, it's obvious you don't understand anything about hiv antibodies

Uzomacharles:
Cheers Nigga

Bellotelli:
This is about the first story I'll be posting here, so please pardon my typo and I'll try to make it a short one.

I met this girl about four years ago and we started dating immediately (she was 20). She was a good person but I had no deep emotional feelings for her. She even got a customized Man United Jersey for me.. The first birthday gift I ever had.

Fast forward to December 2018, I decided to break up with her becos I met someone else whom I thought I would settle down with but that relationship turned out be my worst nightmare (story for another day). By January 2020 I decided I've had enough and quitted, then I reached out to my ex and mended things with her cos she never offended me and I didn't want to be lonely.

Our relationship was mainly sexual.. Sometimes without protection.

Fast forward, mid May 2020 she sent me a message asking when last I did an HIV test and I told her since August last year (a lie). I called her immediately and tried to know why she asked and she confessed that she has been diagnosed HIV positive since late last year and she has been battling with her conscience since we came back and started having unprotected sex.

Initially, I was very furious with her and myself. How could I make such a silly mistake?... How could I be so gullible as to trust a girl merely by her looks? She called, messaged and begged that I should forgive her but I told her to give me some space for the time being.

I became so scared of going for a test until last month (September) when I decided to meet her. We spoke at length and I was more traumatized when she told me that she wasn't in any sexual relationship since our break up in 2018... She thought I infected her. I was also confused because aside catarrh I've not treated even malaria since the beginning of this year. In fact since August last year I was only diagnosed with malaria and typhoid.

Conclusively, I decided to go with her to the hospital to conduct the test yesterday October 19, 2020. I prayed for a second chance as i waited anxiously in the Lab reception.

Finally, the doctor called me and told me the test result. Wow.. What a relief, I thank God Almighty for a second chance. I know HIV is not the end of the world, but what I feared the most and for most people out there is the stigma.

AND FOR MY NOW EX... I'll Like to sit down with her in order to know the truth. I want to know how she contracted HIV.

You have to do one or two more tests from different lab centers to fully clear your doubts....
Mak persin no go dey happy due to test machine glitch or reader's inaccuracies unknown to him HIV dn dey move go aids

Lightangel65:
And fun fact HIV isn't easily visible in the blood after infection until 6-10months, he should take another test in about 3months time

Exactly.

Las las, Love na scam.

Op u better go to another lab for confirmation

And also do the test again next 3 months

Jus saying.

Bellotelli:
This is about the first story I'll be posting here, so please pardon my typo and I'll try to make it a short one.

I met this girl about four years ago and we started dating immediately (she was 20). She was a good person but I had no deep emotional feelings for her. She even got a customized Man United Jersey for me.. The first birthday gift I ever had.

Fast forward to December 2018, I decided to break up with her becos I met someone else whom I thought I would settle down with but that relationship turned out be my worst nightmare (story for another day). By January 2020 I decided I've had enough and quitted, then I reached out to my ex and mended things with her cos she never offended me and I didn't want to be lonely.

Our relationship was mainly sexual.. Sometimes without protection.

Fast forward, mid May 2020 she sent me a message asking when last I did an HIV test and I told her since August last year (a lie). I called her immediately and tried to know why she asked and she confessed that she has been diagnosed HIV positive since late last year and she has been battling with her conscience since we came back and started having unprotected sex.

Initially, I was very furious with her and myself. How could I make such a silly mistake?... How could I be so gullible as to trust a girl merely by her looks? She called, messaged and begged that I should forgive her but I told her to give me some space for the time being.

I became so scared of going for a test until last month (September) when I decided to meet her. We spoke at length and I was more traumatized when she told me that she wasn't in any sexual relationship since our break up in 2018... She thought I infected her. I was also confused because aside catarrh I've not treated even malaria since the beginning of this year. In fact since August last year I was only diagnosed with malaria and typhoid.

Conclusively, I decided to go with her to the hospital to conduct the test yesterday October 19, 2020. I prayed for a second chance as i waited anxiously in the Lab reception.

Finally, the doctor called me and told me the test result. Wow.. What a relief, I thank God Almighty for a second chance. I know HIV is not the end of the world, but what I feared the most and for most people out there is the stigma.

AND FOR MY NOW EX... I'll Like to sit down with her in order to know the truth. I want to know how she contracted HIV.

enyi'm go for another test don't be so sure. The earliest you understand yourself the better, I will still advice you go for another test as a practising doctor i know why I say so

gr8cany:
How do you mean big fat lie?
Pls be guided HIV can be transmitted during a deep kiss especially if the viral load of the carrier is high

If you see any client with high viral load you can't even kiss such because they normally have this smell.....not stigmatising though.

zigleary:
Check I corrected myself, pep is used for anyone exposed to hiv while prep is for discordant couples. And I never said I'm taking prep or nyashing around.

Hahahaha...ok

Misterdhee1:
No need to argue. Google CDC hiv window period or read through this link - https://www.hiv.gov/hiv-basics/hiv-testing/learn-about-hiv-testing/hiv-testing-overview

And from the bolded, it's obvious you don't understand anything about hiv antibodies

Lol, antibodies at such period may also be low or none naa

aminu114:
i need the number of your ex gf

e be like say HIV dey hungry you

kennyflames:
U get luck my bro
But HIV can not only be contracted from sex

There are possible ways of her contracting it

Meanwhile there is no how u would have sex with an infected lady and not be infected

Oga your story no join abi u dey wyne us

Tell us d Truth na

You are very Wrong. Pls go and Find out.

Chris2863:
I seriously wish I could go for test now but fear of hearing the unknown prevents me. I made out with one random lady early July. Had sore throat and malaria twice since then though always last for just a day or or twice, had muscle tingling also. I have been scared all these while and I blame myself for being stupid. Funny enough, I kept myself for over 3yrs till that day and didn’t even last up to 5 mins as I got called from wok.

You did raw with a random lady

Go for the test first na.

gr8cany:
Lol, antibodies at such period may also be low or none naa

Oga stop using your own ignorance to jeopardize people's lives. If you don't understand something, rather expend your effort into learning about the thing, or stay away from discussing the thing. I sent you a link with verifiable information, you're still busy arguing. Which hiv antibodies would be low or none at 4 months?

GO FOR A 2ND TEST AFTER A MONTH OR TWO TO BE SURE CAUSE TESTS SOMETIMES READ NEGATIVE THEN POSITIVE AFTER SOME TIME

My brother God has set you free buuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuut if you continue having sex with any girl u will suuuuuuuuuuuuuuurely get it. if you can not hold your body go and maryyyyyyyyy oooooooooooo. A word is enough for the fool and non is required by the wise.

logicDcoder:
I think say u be See How i come rush d thread.

No dey give me unnecessary mention. Better edit that nonsense

Go and do that test again and again. You have HIV. That test is not telling you the truth

Bellotelli:
This is about the first story I'll be posting here, so please pardon my typo and I'll try to make it a short one.

I met this girl about four years ago and we started dating immediately (she was 20). She was a good person but I had no deep emotional feelings for her. She even got a customized Man United Jersey for me.. The first birthday gift I ever had.

Fast forward to December 2018, I decided to break up with her becos I met someone else whom I thought I would settle down with but that relationship turned out be my worst nightmare (story for another day). By January 2020 I decided I've had enough and quitted, then I reached out to my ex and mended things with her cos she never offended me and I didn't want to be lonely.

Our relationship was mainly sexual.. Sometimes without protection.

Fast forward, mid May 2020 she sent me a message asking when last I did an HIV test and I told her since August last year (a lie). I called her immediately and tried to know why she asked and she confessed that she has been diagnosed HIV positive since late last year and she has been battling with her conscience since we came back and started having unprotected sex.

Initially, I was very furious with her and myself. How could I make such a silly mistake?... How could I be so gullible as to trust a girl merely by her looks? She called, messaged and begged that I should forgive her but I told her to give me some space for the time being.

I became so scared of going for a test until last month (September) when I decided to meet her. We spoke at length and I was more traumatized when she told me that she wasn't in any sexual relationship since our break up in 2018... She thought I infected her. I was also confused because aside catarrh I've not treated even malaria since the beginning of this year. In fact since August last year I was only diagnosed with malaria and typhoid.

Conclusively, I decided to go with her to the hospital to conduct the test yesterday October 19, 2020. I prayed for a second chance as i waited anxiously in the Lab reception.

Finally, the doctor called me and told me the test result. Wow.. What a relief, I thank God Almighty for a second chance. I know HIV is not the end of the world, but what I feared the most and for most people out there is the stigma.

AND FOR MY NOW EX... I'll Like to sit down with her in order to know the truth. I want to know how she contracted HIV.

I've bn usin cd for ages i cant remember wat skin to skin feel like

I heard the Hiv drugs the patients use is so powerful just like cancer drugs.
It also has a lot of adverse effects but they have no choice than to keep using it.
Till Death.

Please stay safe Guys.

[quote author=faithful2911 post=95129423]Congrats!

I now fvck raw because I'm on Prep since last two months.

You can get the drug in pharmacy is just 5k, you can also get the drug for free if you have connections otherwise they only give it to health workers.

Goodluck.[/quot. Ok na

faithful2911:
Congrats!

I now fvck raw because I'm on Prep since last two months.

You can get the drug in pharmacy is just 5k, you can also get the drug for free if you have connections otherwise they only give it to health workers.

Goodluck.

What is prep? Please full name and how does it work? How do you use it? And what does it work for please

plessis:
Oboi you're destroying your body with that drug. This is drug abuse. You're supposed to take that drugs for 30 straight days and not anytime you want to have unprotected sex.

If you want to freely have unprotected sex, there are several herbs you can take for that, instead of swallowing poisonous chemicals that can destroy your nervous system and immune system.

First of all, garlic, ginger, tumeric, make them your best friends. There are other herbs that you take to instantly flush out stuffs from your body immediately you fornicate. Look for a genuine herbalist for herbs and stop taking poison.

That combination does it work? If yes how do you make it?

ArticleBeast:
You think hiv is the only disease that can be contracted via unprotected sex

He doesn't know that herpes is worse and can be contacted by mere kissing an infected person.

go and check again

zigleary:
if you know anyone that needs it let me know. You can get it at a lower price.

Really? Location please

Bellotelli:
This is about the first story I'll be posting here, so please pardon my typo and I'll try to make it a short one.

I met this girl about four years ago and we started dating immediately (she was 20). She was a good person but I had no deep emotional feelings for her. She even got a customized Man United Jersey for me.. The first birthday gift I ever had.

Fast forward to December 2018, I decided to break up with her becos I met someone else whom I thought I would settle down with but that relationship turned out be my worst nightmare (story for another day). By January 2020 I decided I've had enough and quitted, then I reached out to my ex and mended things with her cos she never offended me and I didn't want to be lonely.

Our relationship was mainly sexual.. Sometimes without protection.

Fast forward, mid May 2020 she sent me a message asking when last I did an HIV test and I told her since August last year (a lie). I called her immediately and tried to know why she asked and she confessed that she has been diagnosed HIV positive since late last year and she has been battling with her conscience since we came back and started having unprotected sex.

Initially, I was very furious with her and myself. How could I make such a silly mistake?... How could I be so gullible as to trust a girl merely by her looks? She called, messaged and begged that I should forgive her but I told her to give me some space for the time being.

I became so scared of going for a test until last month (September) when I decided to meet her. We spoke at length and I was more traumatized when she told me that she wasn't in any sexual relationship since our break up in 2018... She thought I infected her. I was also confused because aside catarrh I've not treated even malaria since the beginning of this year. In fact since August last year I was only diagnosed with malaria and typhoid.

Conclusively, I decided to go with her to the hospital to conduct the test yesterday October 19, 2020. I prayed for a second chance as i waited anxiously in the Lab reception.

Finally, the doctor called me and told me the test result. Wow.. What a relief, I thank God Almighty for a second chance. I know HIV is not the end of the world, but what I feared the most and for most people out there is the stigma.

AND FOR MY NOW EX... I'll Like to sit down with her in order to know the truth. I want to know how she contracted HIV.

You forgot that you were meant to redo the test in 3 months time.

mariga:
No dey give me unnecessary mention. Better edit that nonsense

Sorry sir, pesin no fit joke again.... Boss!!!

kponkedenge:
Are you saying the drug is a shield against contracting HIV?

100%

DenreleDave:


Bellotelli you shud not leave That lady to bear the cross alone...love is till death do u guys apart...


Pls reconcile back again and let the fvcking began.... Seems u r immune to it...

Clown