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chatinent:
You are not worth dating.

What is the essence of dating if not marriage?

You are myopic and relevantly irrelevant in maturity.

Chinsos!!! only me

chatinent:
You are not worth dating.

What is the essence of dating if not marriage?

You are myopic and relevantly irrelevant in maturity.

You again! Why are always sounding like this?

Supreme145:
Chinsos!!! only me

The guy na "Knight with the shining armour"

FanOfMyself:
You again! Why are always sounding like this?

I aint no shit nigga.

2dice01:
Stop clowning around

@ Bolded on whose expense
Am marrying her
So it is my money and my Rules

You mean women are doing us favour when we marry them

Even Jesus Christ turn water to wine in the Bible

So why i won't I and my friends enjoy ourself ontop wedding that am the Alpha and Omega of

Dem tell u say na alcohol he turn water into abi??.... Ode

2dice01:
Stop clowning around

@ Bolded on whose expense
Am marrying her
So it is my money and my Rules

You mean women are doing us favour when we marry them

Even Jesus Christ turn water to wine in the Bible

So why i won't I and my friends enjoy ourself ontop wedding that am the Alpha and Omega of

I'm forced to call you an ignoramus.
Wedding is different from marriage.
Use your dictionary before you showcase further gross ignorance.

fabiano09:
well I believe a woman should change for a man but not a man changing for a woman ,she should obey whatever he tells her ,provided it's within the ambit of the law,a man is the head,it's crazy to take commands from a woman

Wetin u been dey talk now.... If wife come dey advice husband better advice nko? Make he ignore go kill himseff.... Mtcheeeeew

E pain you oo

Supreme145:
So my girl went for a friends wedding yesterday, she was part of the bridal train. While we were chatting later in the evening I jokingly asked her how many guys asked for her number today, she said just one but she didn't give him because she doesn't like the guy I asked her why and she said the guy is short, we laughed over it and continued chatting
I asked her how hot the wedding was and she said it was OK that the reception took place in the church premises(she attends methodist), I said so no beer and she said yes just soft drinks, I told her I can't hold my reception inside church o cos there must be enough booze for ma guys. Naim babe say no o, say she no go fit allow alcohol in her wedding but I can take with my friends after the wedding and no playing of worldly songs too,wetin I go come dance naa? She said she will teach me how to dance to Christian songs.
Like play like play it was turning to an argument o,funny enough we are not even ready for any wedding cos we still have a year to go in school but I no come dey understand the way she come dey carry wedding matter on top head like gala, any small things na marriage talk, baby we will do this when we get married, if we get married I will do that, not like I don't want to marry her o but my bank account no dey tell me truth at the moment in fact I'm not even sure of any marriage in the next five years.
Naso babe take end relationship o,unto say as I insist say I must high beer and dance them davido and wizkid songs for my imaginary wedding. On a serious note I really love her, she's my longest serving girlfriend, I usually break up after dating for some months but I've been with her for 3years now and she's the best I've been with. She doesn't put me under any pressure, she was my saving grace during the lockdown while I was stuck in school but she's 24 and might not wait till I'm ready for marriage, I don't know if this is an opportunity for me to let her be.

Let the relationship be

If she says she was joking

Don't accept her back..

Very immatured girl at the age 24..

Forming religious.. But I'm sure you both had been having seeexxxx.. Why the deceit at church na

Does she think that marriage is everything.. She isn't thinking of developing herself first into a better lady.. Be looking for man to latch on..

And you think by the time she's 29 she will frustrate your life

I think it is 4 best..She is holy holy ur not..even if u sacrifice 4 d wedding wat of after d wedding..ur opinions are going to clash a lot..and it will cause a big problem...from tins dat will be allowed in d house to d children...Leave her let her go and find d husband dat she wants...

Supreme145:
Our only issue is just religious issues cos I'm the free type,almost every Sunday we argue because I hardly go to church and going to church is a very big deal to her, aside that we're very cool and she's a really nice girl even met her a virgin

You met her a virgin. Church girl engaging in premarital sex. You both will go to hell. And if you don't believe in hell. Let me proclaim to you that hell believes in you both. Na joke o

Supreme145
I usually break up after dating for some months but I've been with her for 3years now and she's the best I've been with. She doesn't put me under any pressure, she was my saving grace during the lockdown while I was stuck in school

but she's 24 and might not wait till I'm ready for marriage, I don't know if this is an opportunity for me to let her be.

It is not about argument or beer or imaginary wedding for you. You want to let her go because you are ready but you are still thinking of what you're benefitting from her. You are at crossroads.

She didn't gave that guy her number cause she didn't like him
So if she like him she will give him her contact abi hmmm OK

Mywd:
Dem tell u say na alcohol he turn water into abi??.... Ode

Bros wetin you smoke

No be water him turn to wine?

Did he condemn anything?

All these wannabes wey them bring religion for una fo dey carry for head like Gala

Bluezy13:
I'm forced to call you an ignoramus.
Wedding is different from marriage.
Use your dictionary before you showcase further gross ignorance.

Wedding is for the wife

Then she Should use her money fund it

Simple

Supreme145:
So my girl went for a friends wedding yesterday, she was part of the bridal train. While we were chatting later in the evening I jokingly asked her how many guys asked for her number today, she said just one but she didn't give him because she doesn't like the guy I asked her why and she said the guy is short, we laughed over it and continued chatting
I asked her how hot the wedding was and she said it was OK that the reception took place in the church premises(she attends methodist), I said so no beer and she said yes just soft drinks, I told her I can't hold my reception inside church o cos there must be enough booze for ma guys. Naim babe say no o, say she no go fit allow alcohol in her wedding but I can take with my friends after the wedding and no playing of worldly songs too,wetin I go come dance naa? She said she will teach me how to dance to Christian songs.
Like play like play it was turning to an argument o,funny enough we are not even ready for any wedding cos we still have a year to go in school but I no come dey understand the way she come dey carry wedding matter on top head like gala, any small things na marriage talk, baby we will do this when we get married, if we get married I will do that, not like I don't want to marry her o but my bank account no dey tell me truth at the moment in fact I'm not even sure of any marriage in the next five years.
Naso babe take end relationship o,unto say as I insist say I must high beer and dance them davido and wizkid songs for my imaginary wedding. On a serious note I really love her, she's my longest serving girlfriend, I usually break up after dating for some months but I've been with her for 3years now and she's the best I've been with. She doesn't put me under any pressure, she was my saving grace during the lockdown while I was stuck in school but she's 24 and might not wait till I'm ready for marriage, I don't know if this is an opportunity for me to let her be.

Stay focused young man.... Leave mata for Mathias...

:You are lucky to be with that kind girl. I'm looking for who will be calling me to order. Not this one I'm with now that even drinks more than meMad ooo *local man is shocked*

Heavensent01:
No lady with principles, with class, with proactive instinct will listen to your words and observe your mood and impression without thinking of breakup


Reading your post, i can conclude you don't have value for other gender and that's why your past relationships didn't last long, this lady is only savaging your excesses and overzealousness perhaps because she had not meet someone that's better than you

I wonder why a man will be asking his gf if someone collect her number and why she didn't give him the number, this is a weird impression. Ladies are flexible and this flexibility made them vulnerable to emotional capitalization in the hands of men, you that's expected to guide and protect her emotions, is exposing her to emotional danger


Just let the poor girl be

Exactly! Something similar happened to me

My ex sometimes asked the same foolish question this guy asked and he even got angry one time when we were strolling and a guy in a car stopped to talk to me

After that incident I was so foolish I was begging saying I wanted to be with him and all even though he did little or less to hold up his end of the relationship.

I’m truth, the thing was I had not found someone better than him that was why I stayed and put up with his mistakes.

He asked for a break and lo and be hold my eyes opened and I found someone so much better.

okanlanwon44879:
:You are lucky to be with that kind girl. I'm looking for who will be calling me to order. Not this one I'm with now that even drinks more than meMad ooo *local man is shocked*

I thought guys liked girls who drinks parties and smokes with them?

So what’s the problem now?

Pancakeey:
Exactly! Something similar happened to me

My ex sometimes asked the same foolish question this guy asked and he even got angry one time when we were strolling and a guy in a car stopped to talk to me

After that incident I was so foolish I was begging saying I wanted to be with him and all even though he did little or less to hold up his end of the relationship.

I’m truth, the thing was I had not found someone better than him that was why I stayed and put up with his mistakes.

He asked for a break and lo and be hold my eyes opened and I found someone so much better.

So if someone much better than the present one comes along you will still port abi You think you ladies are the only ones meeting someone better abi Do you know how many more attractive ladies I've turned down cos of her In terms of physical attraction I beat her hands down so abeg commot from that better person angle.

Supreme145:
So if someone much better than the present one comes along you will still port abi You think you ladies are the only ones meeting someone better abi Do you know how many more attractive ladies I've turned down cos of her In terms of physical attraction I beat her hands down so abeg commot from that better person angle.

No I won’t port. But as I said he asked for a break.
You can’t expect me to keep waiting for something that might never work out or happen.

I’m not talking about being attractive. There are ways to be better than being attractive.

Oh well, this is your relationship
Whatever floats your boat

On a serious note I really love her, she's my
longest serving girlfriend, I usually break up after dating for some
months but I've been with her for 3years now and she's the best
I've been with. She doesn't put me under any pressure

I don't still understand this part, She is just your servicing machine not your GF. Period !... U dnt love her

Love is abt understanding

Better let her be. Don't be an unfortunate evil blocker

Pancakeey:
Exactly! Something similar happened to me

My ex sometimes asked the same foolish question this guy asked and he even got angry one time when we were strolling and a guy in a car stopped to talk to me

After that incident I was so foolish I was begging saying I wanted to be with him and all even though he did little or less to hold up his end of the relationship.

I’m truth, the thing was I had not found someone better than him that was why I stayed and put up with his mistakes.

He asked for a break and lo and be hold my eyes opened and I found someone so much better.

that's life.


you will agree with me that mother in those olden days lost their kids a lot and it was tagged Abiku in Yoruba land which led some parents to give their innocent children tribal marks, little do they know it was Genotype Dichotomy


relating it to this modern world, little did many young men and ladies know that misogynist and misandry exist. both misogynist and misandry existence today are what led to homosexuality but many of this misogynist and misandry that hate homosexuality always have one strong hatred for another gender


if you see any man today, that just see ladies as passed time and dump they belong to that class and lady that break up in the relationship without any provocation or other factors belong to the misandry class


the point is to study who you're in relationship with so as to prevent a time waster from running your emotional affairs, both the men&ladies

Thesole:
Mr OP go tidy one joint + black bullet, u shall feel better
Am always saying NO to relationship & sex until I get myself a helicopter

lol, wahala dey this site o, you wan use the helicopter do transport?

muller101:
You met her a virgin. Church girl engaging in premarital sex. You both will go to hell. And if you don't believe in hell. Let me proclaim to you that hell believes in you both. Na joke o

....hell fire auditor, well done

2dice01:
Bros wetin you smoke

No be water him turn to wine?

Did he condemn anything?

All these wannabes wey them bring religion for una fo dey carry for head like Gala

See as u even carry pesin mata for head too like gala..... Pesin wey wise pass u..

Anyways read well and get back to me

Bluezy13:
So you can't sacrifice common beer for your wife's happiness
Don't you know that wedding day is her day not yours. She is wedding you.

If you want to drink beer with your friends, have a separate arrangement for that. She is even lenient to give you permission to drink on your own with your friends.
Anyways, it is an imaginary arrangement.

Simp!

Dayoebe:
Simp!

Kid.

jagorinho:
....hell fire auditor, well done

Thanks you can place order for yours as well

Erojepromise:
if you really love her you accept her principles and live with it but to be sincere never marry someone you don't have compatibility with or ideas

Shutup ur mouth joor... Why she no accept him own principles...

fabiano09:
well I believe a woman should change for a man but not a man changing for a woman ,she should obey whatever he tells her ,provided it's within the ambit of the law,a man is the head,it's crazy to take commands from a woman

well your beliefs are wrong and what law are you talking about here please don't tell me religious beliefs something more plausible and I sense toxic masculinity and gender inequality reeking from your post