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so earlier I shared this about a lady am living with
https://www.nairaland.com/6215283/guys-how-handle-girl

People then advised me to man up and bone the babe. for the past 3 days omo I lock up ooo. steady reading masculine stuff in my room. This morning I got a big surprise. This girl that usually find it hard to cook for me brought me my breakfast in bed, brought me water she even came back to pack it. I have never seen her this submissive. She even decided to stay back home with me rather than going out.The problem now is this doesn't change the fact that am still a simp. How can I hold on to this dominance without spoiling everything. Advice needed

Don't give her the kind of attention that she wants.Act like a boss and you will be treated like one.
And don't take her out or buy stuffs for her.
Let her seek for your attention, but never finds it.
Let her chase and toast you this time, but don't fall for her.
If you don't give her what she wants (your attention) , she would be unstoppable and will do whatever it takes to get your attention.
If you want everything to work out well, then try to be as formless as water, and the girl go die for you
Finally, in everything that you do, always follow your brain and reasoning, don't let your heart lead you anyhow.

Lol. Try not to overdo it though. Find a way to strike a balance between dominance and affectionate care

Jannuxajj:
so earlier I shared this about a lady am living with
https://www.nairaland.com/6215283/guys-how-handle-girl

People then advised me to man up and bone the babe. for the past 3 days omo I lock up ooo. steady reading masculine stuff in my room. This morning I got a big surprise. This girl that usually find it hard to cook for me brought me my breakfast in bed, brought me water she even came back to pack it. I have never seen her this submissive. She even decided to stay back home with me rather than going out.The problem now is this doesn't change the fact that am still a simp. How can I hold on to this dominance without spoiling everything. Advice needed

Op no go over do ooo
Try to create a balance
Don’t go too harsh don’t be too affectionate

Bobo pay back in your own coin,check Ziggy tho

I think he is already achieving this.

I think he should not push it too far. Any day she eventually begs for his attention with her mouth and say she is sorry is enough.

Accept her appologies but learn from this action, that a good man is expected to be loving and also be firm.
Begin to learn to be firm and she will always submit and respect you.
In return reward her. Show her even more love. Buy things, take her out but look into your failings in the past. For exome if you always give her whatever she wants now u can make her know that it can't be always.
Be firm n loving

Girls like that alot

Anoth:
Don't give her the kind of attention that she wants.Act like a boss and you will be treated like one.
And don't take her out or buy stuffs for her.
Let her seek for your attention, but never finds it.
Let her chase and toast you this time, but don't fall for her.
If you don't give her what she wants (your attention) , she would be unstoppable and will do whatever it takes to get your attention.

Hmm imagine

She possibly has a short break with her boyfriend or she needs a favour from you so oga don't hype yourself yet.
Just continue your Aaron-ish life in that house for now until you know her plans because brotherly, you'll never know with women.

This is serious..
only you know how you feel.

just don't screw it up

You're ho**ny bro, go Bleep some pu**y and the rest gonna be history. Maybe you always see her sexy hips and flashy b00bs, I don't mean the whole b00bs but some part. Go to the nearest brothel and feed your d*ck bro. You don't need to dominate cos she will slowly fade

thesicilian:
Lol. Try not to overdo it though. Find a way to strike a balance between dominance and affectionate care

very important.

Anoth:
Don't give her the kind of attention that she wants.Act like a boss and you will be treated like one.
And don't take her out or buy stuffs for her.
Let her seek for your attention, but never finds it.
Let her chase and toast you this time, but don't fall for her.
If you don't give her what she wants (your attention) , she would be unstoppable and will do whatever it takes to get your attention.
If you want everything to work out well, then try to be as formless as water, and the girl go die for you
Finally, in everything that you do, always follow your brain and reasoning, don't let your heart lead you anyhow.

I almost slipped up today wanted to buy her stuff but I just soji na so I lock up

thesicilian:
Lol. Try not to overdo it though. Find a way to strike a balance between dominance and affectionate care

that's where am having challenge bro I don't know the next step to take

peppermint7:
Op no go over do ooo Try to create a balance Don’t go too harsh don’t be too affectionate

that's what am thinking but I don't want to start simping again

dbestuncle:
I think he is already achieving this.

I think he should not push it too far. Any day she eventually begs for his attention with her mouth and say she is sorry is enough.

Accept her appologies but learn from this action, that a good man is expected to be loving and also be firm.
Begin to learn to be firm and she will always submit and respect you.
In return reward her. Show her even more love. Buy things, take her out but look into your failings in the past. For exome if you always give her whatever she wants now u can make her know that it can't be always.
Be firm n loving

Girls like that alot

make sense bro

chibunnam66598:
Lol. Try not to overdo it though. Find a way to strike a balance between dominance and affectionate care

exactly

Jannuxajj:
that's what am thinking but I don't want to start simping again

Create a balance

This girl is surely getting toast. I pity people wey their case dy NL.

Jannuxajj:
so earlier I shared this about a lady am living with
https://www.nairaland.com/6215283/guys-how-handle-girl

People then advised me to man up and bone the babe. for the past 3 days omo I lock up ooo. steady reading masculine stuff in my room. This morning I got a big surprise. This girl that usually find it hard to cook for me brought me my breakfast in bed, brought me water she even came back to pack it. I have never seen her this submissive. She even decided to stay back home with me rather than going out.The problem now is this doesn't change the fact that am still a simp. How can I hold on to this dominance without spoiling everything. Advice needed

Go through Ubunja and Harddon threads on Nairaland

Jannuxajj:
make sense bro

Thanks