olanrele78674:
He shouldn't have given you 1k nahh, he's just being stingy.. the decision is yours apart from his stingy part is there any other things you noticed signaling the red flag?

not me but my friend.My friend is not materialistic and didn't demand anything,he dropped the 1k willingly and i think it's a red flag,this man is very rich and it's amazing and surprising how he could stoop so low.This action of his is the reason my friend has been unable to make decision concerning him

Zzor:
This is about a friend of mine,she met this man on one of the social media platforms and they became so fond of each other,though the man has been pestering her for a relationship but my friend insisted on meeting him first before she makes any decision.So,they finally met two days ago and after several discussion and all that,he asked my friend to marry him and that he's ready to settle down as soon as possible if he gets a positive answer from my friend,but my friend insisted on giving her time to think about it,he went further to tell my friend to get back to him soon so he can start making the necessary preparations as he wish to settle down by December.Now this very rich man who has businesses all over the place and even outside the country gave my friend only 1k when he was leaving,can you imagine that? My friend is not hungry or broke but who does that? Is that not a sign of extreme stinginess? It would have been better if he didn't give her anything and it would have made it easier for my friend to make her decision.Is this not a huge red flag? Ladies and gentlemen what do you think?

The main Guy that disvirgin that your friend, and the ones that do knack the hell out of her before she met this business man.
how much did they normally give her for tfare whenever she goes to their house for prick. TUEEEEH.

Your friend na Second or fourth hand pussy ass bitch , and she deserves nothing but the 1k.

For her mind, she don Jam poverty alleviation programme.
Oleeeeeee,Thieffffffff,Baraooooooo, Gbewiri rrrrrrrr. TUEEEH

stanliwise:
So like how much should your friend have collected and why?

Moreso did your friend collect the 1k

She did and thanked him just to avoid unnecessary drama but that action alone speaks volume

mespusinglez:
The Friend Is Not Complaining

why are you then complaining

the enemy is very closer walahi

I said this act alone is not helping matters as its affecting my friend to make her decision

MoxxxxO123:
He shouldn't have given you 1k nahh, he's just being stingy.. the decision is yours apart from his stingy part is there any other things you noticed signaling the red flag?

He seems perfect in all other aspects but will you marry a man and people starts asking you where all your husband's money is going

Was giving you money part of the agreement of seeing each other? your friend is the red flag that this man should avoid

Zzor:
A man of his status should not travel far to meet with someone and ends up dropping 1k,thats an insult and remember she didn't ask for anything and wasn't expecting anything as well.Some times little actions from a person is enough to get the bigger picture.Only ladies will understand what I'm saying

Take Note: 1. It Could Be A Test. Yes. 2. Not Everyman Likes Spending Lavishly On Ladies. Some Guys Prefer Getting A Business Or A Job 4 Ladies. A Stingy Man Will Not Think Doing D Necessary Things 4 Her Or 4 U.

What exactly was your friend response when she receive the money?

Did she accept without complaints or she refuses it?
Did she ask him any question at that moment?
Every bird builds it's unique nest and I think it is time YOU stay out of their business.

Eromzi:
Was giving you money part of the agreement of seeing each other? your friend is the red flag that this man should avoid

Be fair for once in your judgement,it would have been better if he didn't give her anything,remember she didn't place any demand

Twelfthman:
What exactly was your friend response when she receive the money?

Did she accept without complaints or she refuses it?
Did she ask him any question at that moment?
Every bird builds it's unique nest and I think it is time YOU stay out of their business.

My friend thanked him and didn't show any sign of dissapointment,but she thinks this is a huge red flag,how would you marry and people who are oblivious of this stingy attitude begin to question what you do with your husband's money

Truvel:
Take Note: 1. It Could Be A Test. Yes. 2. Not Everyman Likes Spending Lavishly On Ladies. Some Guys Prefer Getting A Business Or A Job 4 Ladies. A Stingy Man Will Not Think Doing D Necessary Things 4 Her Or 4 U.

What kind of yeye test is that,my friend is not broke or hungry

Zzor:
Be fair for once in your judgement,it would have been better if he didn't give her anything,remember she didn't place any demand

If He Hadn't Given Her D Money, U Would Av Still Called Him Stingy 4 Not Giving Her Anything.

Zzor:
1k? for what really? that's an insult and isn't that a red flag,she didn't ask him for anything remember

you're just a bad friend.... you don't want ur friend to marry dat rich guy..... red flag kill u there..... y ur friend no gv am transport too.... ode

DrFunmisticGlow:
The fact that he wants to settle down by December is a red flag.

Dors your friend also want to settle down by then.

She needs to know him a little bit more and come out straight to ask why he wants to marry so quickly

It has been an online thing,and strictly platonic but they've known themselves for a year plus and finally met two days ago.I agree she needs more time,you dodged the 1k aspect,isnt that a red flag as well?

Zzor:
What kind of yeye test is that,my friend is not broke or hungry

Even Though U Or Ur Friend Didn't Appreciate D Money He Gave. U Or Ur Friend Should Av Appreciated D Fact Dat He Came Far Away To Visit & Propose To Someone He Barely Know Well. Appreciation Or Gratitude Is Very Important, No Matter How Little It May Be. Any Lady Dat Lacks Appreciation Or Gratitude Would Fail In Marriage No Matter How Good, Generous Or Kind D Man May Be. Ladies Like Dat Are Likely To Fall Into D Hands Of Deceivers.

Kyngfarabale1:

you're just a bad friend.... you don't want ur friend to marry dat rich guy..... red flag kill u there..... y ur friend no gv am transport too.... ode

even yourself will not drop 1k if you meet your interest for the first time and you wish to give her something,but here you are with a biased comment

Truvel:
Even Though U Or Ur Friend Didn't Appreciate D Money He Gave. U Or Ur Friend Should Av Appreciated D Fact Dat He Came Far Away To Visit & Propose To Someone He Barely Know Well. Appreciation Or Gratitude Is Very Important, Not Matter How Little It May Be. Any Lady Dat Lacks Appreciation Or Gratitude Would Fail In Marriage No Matter How Good, Generous Or Kind D Man May Be. Ladies Like Dat Are Likely To Fall Into D Hands Of Deceivers.

I have already answered this,she appreciated it,hes not aware of her being disappointed

I no understand what he's paying for rn.. she's not even his babe or wife yet and he isn't paying for anything. Instead of giving her 1k i rather just drop her off or order uber to take her home than giving her money just for meeting her. What kind of shiit is that... Na show up fees

Kyngfarabale1:

you're just a bad friend.... you don't want ur friend to marry dat rich guy..... red flag kill u there..... y ur friend no gv am transport too.... ode

wrong,im only watching out for her and remember there's always another rich guy around.All in all,how a man treats you matters the most

dairykidd:
I no understand what he's paying for rn.. she's not even his babe or wife yet and he isn't paying for anything. Instead of giving her 1k i rather just drop her off or order uber to take her home than giving her money just for meeting her. What kind of shiit is that... Na show up fees

We are on the same page,since he decided to drop something on his own,i think he should have done more than that for a man of his status as they say first impression matters alot.Everything would have been OK if he didn't drop that 1k, imagine 1k oooo

Hmmmmm....

time to useless his brain and life more

Preshieben:
1k for what exactly.??
First sign of a useless and stingy husband
Tell her this....they both need time

gbenu sohun. He tested your kind of mind! Shallow/self centered or flexible! Unfortunately ur mind revolves around ur petty ego "broke or hungry".. if u aren't broke or hungry or petty, why don't u know it won't kill u to appreciate what u aren't entitled to! Or what u didn't work for!

Zzor:
What kind of yeye test is that,my friend is not broke or hungry

Preshieben:
1k for what exactly.?? First sign of a useless and stingy husband Tell her this....they both need time

I thought as much

I bet anything her friend has already closed the chapter with her.. a woman's friends are one of her major problems in marriage.. her friends can be worse than family. even the ones that receive good money and take aways,have they been any better

Twelfthman:
What exactly was your friend response when she receive the money?

Did she accept without complaints or she refuses it?
Did she ask him any question at that moment?
Every bird builds it's unique nest and I think it is time YOU stay out of their business.

First it is not ur friend... It is you.. Secondly... What's the name of the movie.. Make I go download am....

Amazingboy1:

wiseone you're speechless

stanliwise:
wiseone you're speechless

aswear down my brother,,,,


Even i don't read the story,,, i lost interest at first sight,,,,,.


Can you please summarize the story for me,,,,,,

Y'all ain't getting my point apart from the ladies,the issue here is my friend wasn't expecting anything from this man but on his own he decided to drop the 1k, this is a man that is stinkingly rich ooo,some normal guys won't even drop such amount.I think this first act from him is a strong warning for my friend to look before she leap,thats my point

Preshieben:
1k for what exactly.??
First sign of a useless and stingy husband
Tell her this....they both need time

I have been practically looking for this moniker for some time now after our first encounter...

when I saw this dumb ass comment....I needed no deity to tell me you were the one lol

how have you been??

Zzor:
This is about a friend of mine,she met this man on one of the social media platforms and they became so fond of each other,though the man has been pestering her for a relationship but my friend insisted on meeting him first before she makes any decision.So,they finally met two days ago and after several discussion and all that,he asked my friend to marry him and that he's ready to settle down as soon as possible if he gets a positive answer from my friend,but my friend insisted on giving her time to think about it,he went further to tell my friend to get back to him soon so he can start making the necessary preparations as he wish to settle down by December.Now this very rich man who has businesses all over the place and even outside the country gave my friend only 1k when he was leaving,can you imagine that? My friend is not hungry or broke but who does that? Is that not a sign of extreme stinginess? It would have been better if he didn't give her anything and it would have made it easier for my friend to make her decision.Is this not a huge red flag? Ladies and gentlemen what do you think?

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