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Re: . by illicit(m): 12:57pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Zzor: I think I understand your point, yet the man still isnt wrong, he definitely wasn't trying to impress her, and then the natural thing to have done in that scenario is to not even offer her money since she obviously don't need it.... it was just a gesture, the amount isn't supposed to be significant only if money is what matters to your friend in a relationship and most importantly she might not be what u think she is.... The gesture is what matters not the amount.... Givers can give any amount anytime.... 2 Likes |
Re: . by Nobody: 12:58pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
illicit:you're wrong.. I'd like us to talk more on this... but I'm just too weak to type |
Re: . by Cladez(m): 1:12pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Preshieben:Life is so deep that we have to read meaning to everything.. Good thing you are doing great. |
Re: . by Nobody: 1:19pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Cladez:read meaning to what exactly? that nonsense you typed? |
Re: . by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 1:19pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Zzor:Just say u are the one, no need denying, Abeg comot here Nigerians hv alot of problems not dis nonsense |
Re: . by Nobody: 1:35pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Zzor:Hw much did ur friend give d man as transport? |
Re: . by Vanzcharles(m): 1:59pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
It all depends. Either way, it could be a red flag of him being a stingy man or maybe he decides to test her. The 1k would have been better if it wasn't given at all because it somehow look like she's a beggar. He could have kept his money to himself. If I were your friend, I would turn down the money. There are levels to this and what we've passed as humans. Next time, he being reasonable won't try such. He should keep the money to himself. She just have to be patient with him, let's see maybe he wanted to test her tho.. Just saying, no offence. He might even send her a reasonable amount later, once he travels. 1 Like |
Re: . by dorin27(f): 2:09pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
He could be testing your friend na. |
Re: . by illicit(m): 2:12pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Preshieben: oh ok we can do that when u feel stronger, honestly I really don't see anything with the man's action.... at least he did it with good intentions.... 1 Like |
Re: . by Kdon2: 2:18pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Zzor: You ll be very greedy! 1 Like |
Re: . by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 2:40pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
dorin27:Iyawo Mr cork |
Re: . by dorin27(f): 2:45pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Ikillbrokehoes:I will reply you when I have the strength to. For now, I no get your power |
Re: . by peppermint7(m): 2:49pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Zzor:so ur shit friend went on a date with the hope of going back with something. Why she no kuku sell her body. Make baba no sey atleast e worth the money 2 Likes |
Re: . by Nobody: 2:52pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Honestly just very few of you got my point.There are certain behaviors you don't overlook in relationships to avoid stories that touch |
Re: . by Kalatium(m): 3:05pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Zzor:Classic arrogance and entitlement mentality. However, We all know your friend means you. You have been sharing stories of your friend more than once in this forum 3 Likes |
Re: . by Kalatium(m): 3:07pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Preshieben:You're also wrong. 1 Like |
Re: . by Nobody: 3:07pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Kalatium:where is the arrogance and entitlement mentality? |
Re: . by Kalatium(m): 3:15pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Zzor:Someone just gave 1k and you attached different meaning to it. Saying The 1k is too small, he should have not given anything. 1 Like |
Re: . by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 3:42pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
dorin27:Lolz baby girl, are u weak? I hope no one stressed u? |
Re: . by grim33(m): 3:44pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
We know what you’re saying we just don’t care. Zzor: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: . by Nobody: 4:19pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
grim33:GRIMMJOE is that you? 1 Like |
Re: . by Tango123: 4:25pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
MiamiePizza: Working atm or not, he should not give d woman any kobo I never did that, and never will I only pay for the food, sometimes, just as i pay for food with male friends sometimes |
Re: . by dorin27(f): 4:25pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Ikillbrokehoes: |
Re: . by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 4:26pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
[quote author=dorin27 post=95685717][/quote]Baby girl, are u really alright at all? |
Re: . by Nobody: 4:31pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Ikillbrokehoes:what business do you have with being nice? I'm sure someone else is controlling thus account for now |
Re: . by ImpregnaTor(m): 5:46pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Zzor:When trying to deduce a possible outcome, your mind shouldn't be focused on a fixed point of view, because there might actually be other external factors which might have also influenced his gesture The amount he gave you is not even the point, cause he is not even suppose to give your friend the money, for meeting a girl for the first time, except required. So I think the only thing the man did wrong was giving your friend the money in the first place... maybe he did that just to help your friend on the transport fair, and it might actually be enough for the transport sake, so I expect since your friend is not hungry and broke, she should have just looked past the thought of the man being stingy for making a mistake by giving her the money he's not even suppose to give in the first place. so her only anger should be on the guy even giving her the money and not arguing on the amount he should have given her.... He showed a nice gesture in an unsuitable situation, so just clear your mind and try and understand the man better, before arriving at a ridiculous conclusion. 2 Likes |
Re: . by grim33(m): 8:06pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Nope Zzor: |
Re: . by 2dice01: 8:09pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
OMOJOHN001:Dont talk dem serious |
Re: . by GrossPrice: 8:16pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Zzor: Asi .. they brought tear rubber or at worst grade 1 tokunbo kuntus. |
Re: . by Drsnives(m): 8:19pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Zzor: Will you kipquiet.. How much was she expecting him to give her b4? 1 Like |
Re: . by GrossPrice: 8:21pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Abilistic: An elderly woman once said, "greed is a strong indicator of adultery in women". Why did she collect the money? Does it matter if it's 10K or 100K? 3 Likes |
Re: . by Nobody: 9:59am On Nov 05, 2020 |
GrossPrice:Same way our fathers brought strong iron made from original ores and not the bended ones we have all over these days which can't even make a pillar stand still 1 Like |
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