Confuzedman:
The thing juz weak me.she is a nice person generally

Pretending to be nice you me?
Shebi you are already seeing your nice lady?

zyzxx:
most ladies problems in relationships comes from their suppose friends


Don't date nor marry someone with sense

Let her go

i always warn her of her friend.how will the friend say I am harsh on her?

I think she is the confused fellow here not you...

I believe in sharing of responsibilities......if she can shy away from her duties during courtship then you don't need no one to tell you she can't stand the hustle and bubbles in marriage...

and secondly your story above shows she doesn't respect not regard you......
the signs are glaring and the ball is in your court...

Sawzer:


Pretending to be nice you me?
Shebi you are already seeing your nice lady?

you no nice at all

Confuzedman:
i always warn her of her friend.how will the friend say I am harsh on her?

There is nothing you can do about that bro, just keep praying for her, only life can teach her the hard way

No matter what you do, she won't appreciate it and if u dance to her tune you just created a future problem for yourself
So just let her go clear her eyes, if she is wise by God's grace she will retrace her step
Just let her go, simple. if u want peace.
Not only because of you but because of your unborn children
You won't want your children to come to this wicked world and still has a fool as their mother
That will be wickedness on your part

Bro, let her go and learn, pls

Someone that's supposed to be having a glass of champagne for dodging fatal bullet is here crying up and down. Mtchew

For you to even believe she called off the wedding plans because of that silly reason she gave means you aren't smart enough for her type.

Hanty already chose another guy in her list of options simply because she felt you wouldn't be under her control.

Trust me, she will be back when she sees the same trait in the guy next door and by then, make sure it is too late for her unless you are the type that tolerate nonsense.

Confuzedman:
This is not a fiction, i had to create a new acct for advise. I have been dating my fiancee for over a year, tho it was a long distance stuff. Trouble began when she started visiting regularly. I noticed that whenever she comes, she’ll be reluctant to do certain things. When I get back from work, she will start acting like she is sick, somebody that was online all day. Later she said she doesn't know market,i got someone to buy foodstuffs for her, she still didn’t cook it. Whenever she visits, same story.I decided to have a talk with her over it, can you believe she said I am complaining too much. She asked if I haven’t been eating before she visited. I was heartbroken to hear that from her. As if that wasn’t enough, she said she is not marrying again and she isn’t a housegurl

I called her to talk after work today and she was still giving me attitude. Her friend is saying I was too harsh

Lalasticlala, plz help

Where is the wedding that was called off?

hardbody:


Where is the wedding that was called off?

i already went to see her sister to make my intentions known,her mother is dead

J111333:
Someone that's supposed to be having a glass of champagne for dodging fatal bullet is here crying up and down. Mtchew

For you to even believe she called off the wedding plans because of that silly reason she gave means you aren't smart enough for her type.

Hanty already chose another guy in her list of options simply because she felt you wouldn't be under her control.

Trust me, she will be back when she sees the same trait in the guy next door and by then, make sure it is too late for her unless you are the type that tolerate nonsense.

we have been having this same issue,more reason I bliv her reason for calling it off. I kept talking to her, she will act like she has changed for two days.i noticed doing house chores is difficult for her,she sees it like punishment

Confuzedman:
The thing juz weak me.she is a nice person generally

That's the problem.. do u marry a woman who has good character but lazy or do u marry a woman who is hard but saucy?

My brother, go and do Thanksgiving and flex very well. U don't know the distressing heartaches God Almighty has saved you from. Don't even loose sleep.
Just be singing what the Lord has done for me, I cannot say it all..
I rejoice with you bro

Confuzedman:
Thank u.I suspect her friend is influencing her

Nobody is responsible for how she chooses behave.
Stop making excuses for her. Does she or does she not have sense?
Unless you love her enough to overlook her flaws, but don't complain in future sha.

mariahAngel:


Nobody is responsible for how she chooses behave.
Stop making excuses for her. Does she or does she not have sense?
Unless you love her enough to overlook her flaws, but don't complain in future sha.

I am not making excuses, its the truth.she listens to her friend alot

Confuzedman:
we have been having this same issue,more reason I bliv her reason for calling it off. I kept talking to her, she will act like she has changed for two days.i noticed doing house chores is difficult for her,she sees it like punishment

Stop begging and quietly start moving on. I know it's hard but just do it.
The reason she gave is just a tiny part of the reasons for her decision.

By the way, she is doing this to make you beg yourself into submission so she can start having her way in everything.

Innobee99:
U are the first man that's angry for dodging a stray bullet

You've said it all

Lights up my kpoli in peace

:Do you really want to complicate your life by marrying someone who you both agree is a stubborn person?!You are right broh

You haven't done anything wrong. It looks like she was looking for an excuse to break up with you.

J111333:
Stop begging and quietly start moving on. I know it's hard but just do it.
The reason she gave is just a tiny part of the reasons for her decision.

By the way, she is doing this to make you beg yourself into submission so she can start having her way in everything.

Thanks broh. Are you married?You sound experienced

Confuzedman:
I am not making excuses, its the truth.she listens to her friend alot

Oga stop arguing with people who are trying to open your eyes. Kai

Just tease her she might not know how to cook,so she want to Japa.

Confuzedman:
This is not a fiction, i had to create a new acct for advise. I have been dating my fiancee for over a year, tho it was a long distance stuff. Trouble began when she started visiting regularly. I noticed that whenever she comes, she’ll be reluctant to do certain things. When I get back from work, she will start acting like she is sick, somebody that was online all day. Later she said she doesn't know market,i got someone to buy foodstuffs for her, she still didn’t cook it. Whenever she visits, same story.I decided to have a talk with her over it, can you believe she said I am complaining too much. She asked if I haven’t been eating before she visited. I was heartbroken to hear that from her. As if that wasn’t enough, she said she is not marrying again and she isn’t a housegurl

I called her to talk after work today and she was still giving me attitude. Her friend is saying I was too harsh

Lalasticlala, plz help

Naso your god take love you o!!.. se as him show you what you will be into if care is not taken . It hurts Bru but my Candid advice is to leave ASAP. I noticed that you do pamper her a lot. Also, her cancellation of the marraige plans is a ploy or a bait to emasculating you into accepting her attitude. Moreover, stop degrading yourself by telling us what her friends says. You are a man. Make a decision and face the aftermath.

Remember, a broken relationship is far better than a broken marraige. And marraige is like a sore foot in a shoe. Na only the wearer knows where it hurts him. Good luck

As for that her friend that said you were too harsh. She's a prime suspect and should be tossed overboard a ship on the Atlantic

Confuzedman:
That is the only reason she gave me. she said I expect too much from her in a relationship and she wonders what will happen when we marry

So nice she's emotionally self centred?

Confuzedman:
The thing juz weak me.she is a nice person generally

uruba23:
Just tease her she might not know how to cook,so she want to Japa.

she knows though she is not an excellent cook.She had this same issue in her past relationship

Confuzedman:
she knows though she is not an excellent cook.She had this same issue in her past relationship

You know our modern ladies they want you to be romantic, did you cook her a delicious meal when she came visiting abi you directed her to the kitchen. Anyway try and resolve with her, she might not want to be used as a wife material without any serious engagement,especially with this our chop and clean mouth generation.

Confuzedman:
Thanks broh. Are you married?You sound experienced

Nay, not yet.
Goodluck man.

uruba23:
You know our modern ladies they want you to be romantic, did you cook her a delicious meal when she came visiting abi you directed her to the kitchen. Anyway try and resolve with her, she might not want to be used as a wife material without any serious engagement,especially with this our chop and clean mouth generation.

I said I went to work, you are asking if I cooked for her?!buh she is chopping me too

J111333:
Nay, not yet.
Goodluck man.

does your gf cook for you?it is looking like this modern girls are lazy

Confuzedman:
I said I went to work, you are asking if I cooked for her?!buh she is chopping me too

lol it is no excuse hello she is your visitor you treat her like a queen.

uruba23:


lol it is no excuse hello she is your visitor you treat her like a queen.

how is she my visitor?the first time she came, we ate out for almost a week.to lay bed and sweep was a problem for her

She was probably with you because you assisted her financially. You were dating yourself and trust me she told the main boyfriend she's in her Aunty's house, I mean the guy she chats with from morning till night. Just apologize and turn her to your sex doll, don't give her anything again, cook for her and so on. She'll breakup with you by herself. It's a win-win situation my brother.

Confuzedman:
how is she my visitor?the first time she came, we ate out for almost a week.to lay bed and sweep was a problem for her

Okay she is a lazy babe obviously just there to chop your money I doubt you are the only one in her life. Well she has moved on, so do same too. Na wa o, how are you going to write off all the spending you have done for her, I hope you crossed the red sea make transaction abi transition for complete.