thesicilian:
If you're scared of the uncertainties of life, you'll never step out of your house every morning.

Zzor:
Women that got married very early, how did you conquer your fears? my friend don't know how it will turn out for her if she accept this proposal staring at her, this is supposed to be once a lifetime opportunity to get such proposal(theres explanation to this but nairalanders will insult her if i share them). She's scared of the uncertainties, she's scared of living her own life, aside this fears she would have loved to be married early. She's confused, should she take the risk? the man involved is a very gentleman and will surely treat and pamper her well but she's scared of taking that bold step.

Zzor:
she doesn't have an elder sister,shes the only female,her mother thinks she's still too young for marriage but the mom got married two years younger her age

thorpido:
So one rich dude comes and wants a very young girl's hand in marriage.She's thinking this guy has all to give me comfort and will 'pamper me' in the words of Zzor.
It's hard for her to look away.

A young lady should have her own 'program' she's running and if a dude comes along,it's okay if he supports her.It's inadvisable for a young lady to just think yeah,I've got someone to meet my needs....boom.
While it may work for some,many woman have been unnecessarily oppressed in such marriages.

BigDick70inch:

How old is she??

Maneq:
This ought to be at romance section.

Zzor:
She'll be twenty soon

BigDick70inch:


Well kinda too young tho..

Marriage isn't that adventurous tho..

But then again..marriage ain't all bout age bout maturity u know??

Nwankwo Kanu..married his wife when she was 18years..and they r still together..

Zzor:
good to know that, is their marriage still intact?

BigDick70inch:


Off course..

I don't need u to say why she's still turning down the man's proposal..

Either..she still wanna flex around before settling down or the man is way too old

Zzor:
wrong,shes just afraid of Uncertainties

BigDick70inch:


Uncertainties like what??
Imperfection??or like cheating on hubby??

thesicilian:
If you're scared of the uncertainties of life, you'll never step out of your house every morning.

Zzor:
You all are just making me to be scared on my friend's behalf

bjprodint:
same mother that married early might have experienced what she may not wish to share.

I became a baby mama at age 22,I endured d toxic relationship until did week when I walked out (9 years relationship with two kids).I never complained to anybody until last month.I regret going against my parents,cos I was warned

EmperorMaria:


Uve left that ur husband? Wonders shall never end

bjprodint:
if u feel I did wrong,give out ur daughters in marriage for free.

9years is not 9months,I took that bold step,and am not regreting it

EmperorMaria:


Am just surprised,,you tried 4 him

Zzor:
Women that got married very early, how did you conquer your fears? my friend don't know how it will turn out for her if she accept this proposal staring at her, this is supposed to be once a lifetime opportunity to get such proposal(theres explanation to this but nairalanders will insult her if i share them). She's scared of the uncertainties, she's scared of living her own life, aside this fears she would have loved to be married early. She's confused, should she take the risk? the man involved is a very gentleman and will surely treat and pamper her well but she's scared of taking that bold step.

bukatyne:


Is this a case of proposal out of the blues or she courted the guy and he proposed?

She's 20: is she done with school? Has something doing? Knows the man's history?

Like Byvan would say, the age you marry is not the issue: it is marrying the right person.

People marry at 18 and stay a lifetime: paople marry at 30 and divorce a week after.

DimplesLikeWow:
With the right person, there won't be uncertainties or confusion.

Kentursky:
Is there anything like the right person? I doubt it

Zzor:
What if I and my friend happens to be the sweetest and coolest people you can ever find outside here.Dont be quick to condemn people based on what they write.