Momoreoluwa90:
1. The day I found out he had multiple social media accounts, email addresses and names.
2. The day I found out he was dating his so-called school daughter but lied to me the whole time.
3. The day I heard him deny me on the phone to his family members.
4. The day I realized I could not cope with the fact that he would squander his money without any savings and wants to spend mine with me even when he earned much higher.
5. The day I realized I could not cope with cleaning after a grown ass man as a neat freak.
6. The day I realized I valued him more than he did me. Spoke his love languages but he never spoke mine.
7. The day I realized I was only his ticket out of Nigeria and as soon as he arrived abroad, he started to manifest his true colors.
8. The day he became 'sneaky' and started acting suspicious.

Wonder why it took me so long to end things but I finally gained the courage to. And I've been at peace ever since and waiting on God's best

What attracted you to him initially?

luminouz:


Kokanmi.... I moreoluwa layemi na





Just kidding sis....have a good one

Thanks, you too. And amin to 'Momoreoluwa layemi na'
All the best bro

Momoreoluwa90:


Thanks, you too. And amin to 'Momoreoluwa layemi na'
All the best bro

She made me believe they don't abort in their house being a pastors daughter, on her birthday she went ahead to hospital for an abortion of pregnancy she claimed was discovered that same day without even carrying me (the supposed owner) along. Well she was at the hospital when I got to know I was ready to father the child I asked her to hold the operation till I join her at the hospital but ooopse my Babe went ahead n did it.

But actually that wasn't what end the relationship, the relationship end the day she show me what her mum said about my being a bank support staff ( hopeless and no future with little to feed on) Chai I just knew that's not the mother inlaw I want to have

ume1000:
women of virtue and nairaland are like
Oil and water

Abeg no go cook concussion give guys oh!!!

Trust me bro, there are many lovely and decent ladies on NL.

Just open your eyes!

omooba969:


What attracted you to him initially?

Ghen ghen....


Questionnaire don come.


She loved his beards and his wide nostrils ni

The moment she asked who I loved .most between her and my junior sister. She is emotionally blackmailing. me. Someone cannot try to be manipulating me at this age.

omooba969:


What attracted you to him initially?

Well, he was godly...at least he gave me that impression but it was a long distant relationship in the beginning. And did everything to get my attention. He was caring at first and would call and text several times a day and I did the same too.

JohnspeakU:
Good day everyone!!

Most people in relationships believe that a relationship ends the day one party call it quit. But that’s far from the truth. An average relationship that ended didn’t end that day, it probably ended few days, months or years before �. So why didn’t the person just call it quit that same day?

It’s mainly because the party involved just wants time to enjoy the benefits they’ve been enjoying. It may be the gifts, money, sex, the trips etc.

So let me share mine. I was dating this girl sometime ago and it was going on very well. So I was in her house on this particular day and we were arguing about something that has to do with the male and female gender. I’m an unapologetic alpha male and I support my gender with all I have but this was a problem with her. She said something that annoyed me so I told her I was going home. The next thing madam said was “who the hell do you think you are? Every time you'd just be getting angry as if you’re God”�‍♀️ As if that wasn’t enough she pushed me out of her apartment and told me “get out of my house and go and die�‍♀️“.

As a gentleman I didn’t say anything but deep down I knew the relationship was over but I didn’t end it that day or week or month.

So when did you know that the relationship was over?

pushing out of her apartment is wrong
Did she later apologise to you ?

luminouz:


Comot here jor....she is mine

U wan turn to specimen two abi

purples25:


I just decided to take a little break from it. Which is healthy at times.

That's nice, I often look around for you.

Good to have you back.

Momoreoluwa90:
1. The day I found out he had multiple social media accounts, email addresses and names.
2. The day I found out he was dating his so-called school daughter but lied to me the whole time.
3. The day I heard him deny me on the phone to his family members.
4. The day I realized I could not cope with the fact that he would squander his money without any savings and wants to spend mine with me even when he earned much higher.
5. The day I realized I could not cope with cleaning after a grown ass man as a neat freak.
6. The day I realized I valued him more than he did me. Spoke his love languages but he never spoke mine.
7. The day I realized I was only his ticket out of Nigeria and as soon as he arrived abroad, he started to manifest his true colors.
8. The day he became 'sneaky' and started acting suspicious.

Wonder why it took me so long to end things but I finally gained the courage to. And I've been at peace ever since and waiting on God's best

I don't understand.. Eight different guys abi all eight for one guy

Shalaye

Starzo:

U wan turn to specimen two abi

Dont worry...I can handle it better

luminouz:


Duuuuuude....

Chill na....PM me first..let's do beezneez!!!

"Dude'' shes human, not an item.

luminouz:


Ghen ghen....


Questionnaire don come.


She loved his beards and his wide nostrils ni

Bro! Lol...looks wasn't first for me.

omooba969:


That's nice, I often look around for you.

Good to have you back.

That's nice of you. Thanks.

Momoreoluwa90:


Well, he was godly...at least he gave me that impression but it was a long distant relationship in the beginning. And did everything to get my attention. He was caring at first and would call and text several times a day and I did the same too.

So you mean you really got him over to the US?

Mtewwwwww! na small pikin love been dey worry una...

omooba969:


Trust me bro, there are many lovely and decent ladies on NL.

Just open your eyes!

name one

ume1000:
Okay women are not parasites but leeches

Likewise some guys o..


Fine boys leech anyhow looking ladies, that are loaded with cash and banging body.

You can get a hand full of them in Abuja, and lagos.

duduade:


I don't understand.. Eight different guys abi all eight for one guy

Shalaye

All 8 for one guy
Took me a while but realized all those instances were enough to leave, I just couldn't find the strength to walk away.

Momoreoluwa90:

Oh! Thank God say u smile...what a releive
Na insult dey always follow after I make that statement/joke

9jayes:


You're from Ogun

What is relationship abeg

Momoreoluwa90:


All 8 for one guy
Took me a while but realized all those instances were enough to leave, I just couldn't find the strength to walk away.

E fine reach me?

Momoreoluwa90:


Thanks, you too. And amin to 'Momoreoluwa layemi na'
All the best bro

wahala be like bicycle

omooba969:

Trust me bro, there are many lovely and decent ladies on NL.
Just open your eyes!

Not just here alone, everywhere, na if you get eye u go locate them.

luminouz:


So you mean you really got him over to the US?

Yes o. But hey, I don't think about it anymore. I'm at peace and wish him the very best.
I am God's child.

Momoreoluwa90:


Bro! Lol...looks wasn't first for me.

Well,you said godly!!

You would have hated me then... I ain't no godly anything...I'm too naughty.



But wait first. In all my years of hearing women breakup stories, not once did they ever admit they were at fault. But when I got to really know them, I discovered 90% had such fuqed up issues I couldn't even have the patience to deal with.

So I'm asking you, man to woman online, did you not do anything to set this guy off?

luminouz:

Dont worry...I can handle it better

Carry go my guy!...I believe u

Momoreoluwa90:


All 8 for one guy
Took me a while but realized all those instances were enough to leave, I just couldn't find the strength to walk away.

You were in real bondage

Even your kpekus suffered

Praise thy Lord you have moved on

Momoreoluwa90:


Well, he was godly...at least he gave me that impression but it was a long distant relationship in the beginning. And did everything to get my attention. He was caring at first and would call and text several times a day and I did the same too.

Alarm bell very tricky stuff coz the closest one can be to his/her partner is what they're told over the phone.

Long distance relationship is quite expensive as it often shields the terrible one while denying the real one of valuable access/information.

I don't recommend it.