Hello..... I'm 21 years and a female. I've never being in a relationship before either serious or short or u serious. This is getting me worried seriously and the rate at which people around me is getting married and even all the cliche of friends I have, all of them has a partner or two ... Is there anytin to be worried about.... I'm scared for my life...
Note: it's nt as if there are none coming, but the one that came to.me recently is a drug addict under disguise, all thanks to social media.... And many others like that... And I'm the type of person who feels somehow having this kind of discussions with people.. Even my 15 year old cousin is boasting of boyfriends lol.....

I'll be your boyfriend.... Send me a pm

You should talk of having a relationship that marriage is your ultimate goal,not boyfriend.

If men aren't coming your way or approaching you, adjust your character,be polite, humble,and receptive.

Women with toxic outlook are turn off for men.try putting a good attitudes, learn to be approachable, and choose the right man, and not a boyfriend.

Lastly, look good, dress smart, and lovely .

After all these,and men aren't still coming, then nah your village people they play you kalo kalo

olabisi99:
Hello..... I'm 21 years and a female. I've never being in a relationship before either serious or short or u serious. This is getting me worried seriously and the rate at which people around me is getting married and even all the cliche of friends I have, all of them has a partner or two ... Is there anytin to be worried about.... I'm scared for my life...
Note: it's nt as if there are none coming, but the one that came to.me recently is a drug addict under disguise, all thanks to social media.... And many others like that... And I'm the type of person who feels somehow having this kind of discussions with people.. Even my 15 year old cousin is boasting of boyfriends lol.....

Goan HUSTLE and be RESPONSIBLE!!!

Stop looking for someone to carry ur LIABILITY

Nothing is wrong with you Lil sis ... you just have to drop some of your expectations . You can change a drug addict to a non drug addict if you’re attracted to him . Bin a druggy shouldnt be part of the yardsticks to chose a man or woman . Go for anyone you’re attracted to and try to correct any mental errors you found in him and he will do the same as well . We ain’t perfect .

have you tried hookup?

Lol,

No stress,

Change your character and places where you walk to


You still have little time to focus on yourself, not boyfriend,

Goan make money, work harder,

If boys see dat potential money in you , you will attract them instantly

Good luck to you

Go and read your books

Papilo you tried sha

Me too. I'm 21 year old and 61 days but I'm never being in a relationship before.
To be frank, I'm even afraid of these young young ladies.

Let's see your picture

olabisi99:
Hello..... I'm 21 years and a female. I've never being in a relationship before either serious or short or u serious. This is getting me worried seriously and the rate at which people around me is getting married and even all the cliche of friends I have, all of them has a partner or two ... Is there anytin to be worried about.... I'm scared for my life...
Note: it's nt as if there are none coming, but the one that came to.me recently is a drug addict under disguise, all thanks to social media.... And many others like that... And I'm the type of person who feels somehow having this kind of discussions with people.. Even my 15 year old cousin is boasting of boyfriends lol.....

in other words, you're a virgin ba? :-Xif you get big bweesss...send me pm.. . Your face is manageable.

Same with me, but I'm scared of entering one. It's difficult to know/find honest guys these days. The stories on Nl are not even helping matters.

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Freelane33:
Nothing is wrong with you Lil sis ... you just have to drop some of your expectations . You can change a drug addict to a non drug addict if you’re attracted to him . Bin a druggy shouldnt be part of the yardsticks to chose a man or woman . Go for anyone you’re attracted to and try to correct any mental errors you found in him and he will do the same as well . We ain’t perfect .

See your mouth like change a drug addict. You think it's that easy? Oya, you change a prostitute to a decent lady and come and tell us how it went.

SarutobiEky:
in other words, you're a virgin ba? :-Xif you get big bweesss...send me pm.. . Your face is manageable.

Op, don't listen to this guy. He's a confirmed player and shattering women's heart to pieces is his specialty.

Lol 21 and you are thinking of marriage.

On a serious note, boys no dey your area, you no get social media account?

ambitiouschap17:
Lol 21 and you are thinking of marriage.

On a serious note, boys no dey your area, you no get social media account?

Don't get it wrong... I'm nt saying I'm thinking of marriage... The bone of contention here is d fact that is it normal fr a 21 yr old to not have been in any relationship.. do u grab??...

olabisi99:

Don't get it wrong... I'm nt saying I'm thinking of marriage... The bone of contention here is d fact that is it normal fr a 21 yr old to not have been in any relationship.. do u grab??...

It's normal, very normal

[quote author=SweetOnugbo post=95938198]Same with me, but I'm scared of entering one. It's difficult to know/find honest guys these days. The stories on Nl are not even helping matters. [/quote
But they do come right!!!!...
How do u feel pls...

ambitiouschap17:


It's normal, very normal

Owk.... So maybe there is really nothing wrong then....

Why don't you have a relationship with your creator first...I mean a true relationship

olabisi99:
Hello..... I'm 21 years and a female. I've never being in a relationship before either serious or short or u serious. This is getting me worried seriously and the rate at which people around me is getting married and even all the cliche of friends I have, all of them has a partner or two ... Is there anytin to be worried about.... I'm scared for my life...
Note: it's nt as if there are none coming, but the one that came to.me recently is a drug addict under disguise, all thanks to social media.... And many others like that... And I'm the type of person who feels somehow having this kind of discussions with people.. Even my 15 year old cousin is boasting of boyfriends lol.....

Hmmm Relationship is fake
Everyone just wanna catch cruise,just don’t invest your heart in it.

Sixfeetbelle:


Op, don't listen to this guy. He's a confirmed player and shattering women's heart to pieces is his specialty.

haha...and where did the wind bring her from? OP..don't listen to her, she's just jealous.

FanOfMyself:
Why don't you have a relationship with your creator first...I mean a true relationship

Pls can u focus on the question I asked!! U don't need to deviate.. Thank u

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SweetOnugbo:


I was feeling good I guess, until I found out he just wanted to chop and clean mouth. I ran for my dear life. I already know casual relationship is not for me. It will break me.

I have decided to focus on other things in my life.

Hmmmmm

olabisi99:

Pls can u focus on the question I asked!! U don't need to deviate.. Thank u

Give him your youthful years and he will appreciate it more. Not when you are old and have given birth to loads of children, you will start seeking for him

you don't need help have never been in a relationship before too but I bang whenever I want

azawuoba:
you don't need help have never been in a relationship before too but I bang whenever I want

Lol��

olabisi99:
Lol��

yes it's true, and I'm 25 no remorse at all
I just don't have time for any commitments