olabisi99:

Owk.... So maybe there is really nothing wrong then....

But don't you have social media accounts? Or you don't go out often?

ambitiouschap17:


But don't you have social media accounts? Or you don't go out often?

I have.....
I go out once in a while

mingle

FanOfMyself:
Why don't you have a relationship with your creator first...I mean a true relationship

olabisi99 this is the answer to ur qwestion..........

Make babymama no to load for ur Head.... May God see u through... When its ur time then it will happen,, everybody get diff. Story..

azawuoba:
you don't need help have never been in a relationship before too but I bang whenever I want

Hw would u b in one, when u are a bloody fagg

don't rush things, even at my own age am still single, nthing is wrong with u dear

upload nice pictures of urself on facebook regularly

be friendly
if u can do this then more guys go hala u

olabisi99:
Hello..... I'm 21 years and a female. I've never being in a relationship before either serious or short or u serious. This is getting me worried seriously and the rate at which people around me is getting married and even all the cliche of friends I have, all of them has a partner or two ... Is there anytin to be worried about.... I'm scared for my life...
Note: it's nt as if there are none coming, but the one that came to.me recently is a drug addict under disguise, all thanks to social media.... And many others like that... And I'm the type of person who feels somehow having this kind of discussions with people.. Even my 15 year old cousin is boasting of boyfriends lol.....

There is nothing wrong with u .... i never got to date till 24 years too ... was busy with church/music/piano ... and watched life go by ... it does happen ...

Just understand that our life timelines are different ... some won't even get it till they are in their 30s so relax ...

Take this time to build yourself into someone useful to yourself and your future hubby ....

Make something great out of the time u have now ....

CHANGE IS CONSTANT BRO . Change your mindset and let your mindset change you

Sixfeetbelle:


See your mouth like change a drug addict. You think it's that easy? Oya, you change a prostitute to a decent lady and come and tell us how it went.

Silentgroper:
Hw would u b in one, when u are a bloody fagg

really dude ? do you need this?

G

olabisi99:
Hello..... I'm 21 years and a female. I've never being in a relationship before either serious or short or u serious. This is getting me worried seriously and the rate at which people around me is getting married and even all the cliche of friends I have, all of them has a partner or two ... Is there anytin to be worried about.... I'm scared for my life...
Note: it's nt as if there are none coming, but the one that came to.me recently is a drug addict under disguise, all thanks to social media.... And many others like that... And I'm the type of person who feels somehow having this kind of discussions with people.. Even my 15 year old cousin is boasting of boyfriends lol.....

Change your circle of friends

Attend weddings and Church events more

Reduce artificial make ups and dress well

Most importantly, work on character. Be polite, lively, lovely and friendly

You be fine girl sef, no settle for less, just be friendly, person wey deserve you go come your way.

olabisi99:
Hello..... I'm 21 years and a female. I've never being in a relationship before either serious or short or u serious. This is getting me worried seriously and the rate at which people around me is getting married and even all the cliche of friends I have, all of them has a partner or two ... Is there anytin to be worried about.... I'm scared for my life...
Note: it's nt as if there are none coming, but the one that came to.me recently is a drug addict under disguise, all thanks to social media.... And many others like that... And I'm the type of person who feels somehow having this kind of discussions with people.. Even my 15 year old cousin is boasting of boyfriends lol.....

Thank you all for your contributions... They are highly appreciated...

FanOfMyself:

Give him your youthful years and he will appreciate it more. Not when you are old and have given birth to loads of children, you will start seeking for him

Una no dey ever hear word. She said focus on the main point and you're here still preaching. If she wanted sermons she'll go to the religion section. You people always think life revolves around your religion.

Op, these days it doesn't take guys anything to ask a lady out. Perhaps you're always indoors...

Oh, I think it's Okay.
Nothing spiritual or absurb about it, some, even at 23 never had one and guess what, nothing special about it apart from some night/moment when you'd wish you have one but most times, you just don't think of it.


This life hard, complicating it at a young age with a guy makes it harder.




Someone like me use to run from serious relationship, girls wahala too much.

olabisi99:
Hello..... I'm 21 years and a female. I've never being in a relationship before either serious or short or u serious. This is getting me worried seriously and the rate at which people around me is getting married and even all the cliche of friends I have, all of them has a partner or two ... Is there anytin to be worried about.... I'm scared for my life...
Note: it's nt as if there are none coming, but the one that came to.me recently is a drug addict under disguise, all thanks to social media.... And many others like that... And I'm the type of person who feels somehow having this kind of discussions with people.. Even my 15 year old cousin is boasting of boyfriends lol.....

I guess uve not found someone u really fancy.. well hit the gym and work on ur shape if that will help. That 15yrs old cousin in multiple relationship is not acceptable.. too young for that

kingxsamz:


Una no dey ever hear word. She said focus on the main point and you're here still preaching. If she wanted sermons she'll go to the religion section. You people always think life revolves around your religion.

Shut up!!!

SweetOnugbo:
Same with me, but I'm scared of entering one. It's difficult to know/find honest guys these days. The stories on Nl are not even helping matters.

Try and see that's what matters, if you want to continue to read what people are saying you will stay single... I will pm right away pls reply me

Agbebakun22:



Try and see that's what matters, if you want to continue to read what people are saying you will stay single... I will pm right away pls reply me

It seems you had your heart broken recently, I hope I won't be paying for someone else's sins.

Thanks fr dis.

Jackossky:
Oh, I think it's Okay.
Nothing spiritual or absurb about it, some, even at 23 never had one and guess what, nothing special about it apart from some night/moment when you'd wish you have one but most times, you just don't think of it.


This life hard, complicating it at a young age with a guy makes it harder.




Someone like me use to run from serious relationship, girls wahala too much.

olabisi99:
Thanks fr dis.

Thank you so much

Stop comparing your life with your 15 year old cousin.

She already has lots of boyfriends at that age, in the later years, she might not be able to bond well with the man she'll get married to.

Self development should be your top priority NOT unhealthy comparision.

SweetOnugbo:


It seems you had your heart broken recently, I hope I won't be paying for someone else's sins.

Lol no u wouldn't I can't pay back to another person.. Just normal thing to build self confidence and improvement.. Have u reply my pm. Or are u dropping your number for me here so we can work out something good lol

Freelane33:
Nothing is wrong with you Lil sis ... you just have to drop some of your expectations . You can change a drug addict to a non drug addict if you’re attracted to him . Bin a druggy shouldnt be part of the yardsticks to chose a man or woman . Go for anyone you’re attracted to and try to correct any mental errors you found in him and he will do the same as well . We ain’t perfect .

From what you typed I sense something

azawuoba:
you don't need help have never been in a relationship before too but I bang whenever I want

Olosho don suffer
Na you dey always upload yanch for that thread olosho beer parlor you and Sean
But on a more serious note that's is the best thing
Fûck them pay them and free them
No hard feelings
No insult or abuse
No buy me credit or sub for me
No I want to plaite my hair
No Valentine gift
No buying of clothes shoes and bags

bobbybrown007:
don't rush things, even at my own age am still single, nthing is wrong with u dear

How old are you
Let's compare your age with hers
So she will know she don't have problem

kingxsamz:
Op, these days it doesn't take guys anything to ask a lady out. Perhaps you're always indoors...

Op read this
This might be another reason for it

Jackossky:





Someone like me use to run from serious relationship, girls wahala too much.

Bad guy you're right though

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