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Re: I Just Burned Down My Wife Super Market Because... by Nobody: 10:10am On Nov 14, 2020
JONNYSPUTE:
... He is not stupid.
The purpose for establishing the said super market has been defeated since the woman couldn't help out with little issues like buying pencils or biscuits for her kids from the proceed.
Nothing will go wrong with his finances.
You don't burn down an establishment! It's barbaric. He could have taken over the business.

In Life anything can go wrong.
Re: I Just Burned Down My Wife Super Market Because... by JONNYSPUTE(m): 10:15am On Nov 14, 2020
Palema007:
You don't burn down an establishment! It's barbaric. He could have taken over the business.

In Life anything can go wrong.
.... Remember that the so called establishment was not bringing any profit for him and his immediate family? So what's the use?

Putting another person there to manage wouldn't have worked because he can't stop the wife from going there or fighting to take it back.

He himself cannot run it either.

As for me,I wouldn't need it neither will I burn it down. I will gladly give out everything there to charity.

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Re: I Just Burned Down My Wife Super Market Because... by Nobody: 10:23am On Nov 14, 2020
JONNYSPUTE:
.... Remember that the so called establishment was not bringing any profit for him and his immediate family? So what's the use?

Putting another person there to manage wouldn't have worked because he can't stop the wife from going there or fighting to take it back.

He himself cannot run it either.

As for me,I wouldn't need it neither will I burn it down. I will gladly give out everything there to charity.
He could have put it up for sale if the supermarket was in his name.

I frown at such waste.
Re: I Just Burned Down My Wife Super Market Because... by Ghengiskhan(m): 10:25am On Nov 14, 2020
Escabado:
A man opened a super market for his wife to enable her contribute to there family in terms of small small family things . And the man usually give the wife 40k every month to buy more goods and stock her shop. But the greatest surprise this woman has never bring out N5 to pay any bill in there home. If her children ask her money to buy pen or pencil she will shout at them and tell them to meet there daddy to collect money from him. The man calm quite untill he find out that his wife just send her junior brother to London. The man vex and went to the wife super market and destroyed everything there .

If you are this man . What will you do

Smart men open business put their wives in charge and put them on monthly salary from the business earnings and maintenance allowance from their own hussle.

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Re: I Just Burned Down My Wife Super Market Because... by JONNYSPUTE(m): 10:26am On Nov 14, 2020
Palema007:
He could have put it up for sale if the supermarket was in his name.

I frown at such waste.
....Yes. You are right on this.

Seems he allowed his emotions to becloud his sense of reasoning.

The truth be told. Me,I will also not remember to sell. Na vex I go use dash everything out.Lol.

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Re: I Just Burned Down My Wife Super Market Because... by Cutehector(m): 10:46am On Nov 14, 2020
He did very well.
Re: I Just Burned Down My Wife Super Market Because... by Openbusiness: 11:22am On Nov 14, 2020
emperorAY:

those on the island might be aware of a burnt house is automatically forfeited to the oba of lagos
I'm not aware of such. What I know is they will ask you for money before you can rebuild, ask you for the documents of the land to know who you paid in their domain to own the land, so if it was a disputed land or land that you paid the "wrong" family or family that is no longer ruling, the current guys controlling the domain will demand for payment before you can be allowed to rebuild. All dis tin sef na underground corruption, not like there's a Government law backing it up. And it is not applicable in all domains, just mostly domains where there's history of land dispute either govt vs royal family, or royal family vs royal family, or indigenous settlers vs indigenous settlers. Like Lagos mainland / Ijora / Surulere / Apapa etc that is owned by Ojora family, there was a time there was dispute with govt I think and for many years case was in court. Later they won the case. People that bought lands there who didn't pay to Ojora family but paid to the previous domain handlers or govt have to REPAY Ojora family money for the land at today's value or risk losing it. So if your house burn for that axis, just be readying your millions down to pay Ojora royal family who are the original settlers and owners of majority of Lagos Mainland. The Aworis dynasty. Maybe some info could be better presented by those who have better info on it.
Re: I Just Burned Down My Wife Super Market Because... by nwachukwu9(m): 11:26am On Nov 14, 2020
The mistake we all make is thinking that attention and time is the same thing as love and being loyal. I always tell men to put their money away when looking for a wife that would be loyal and love them. Money can only buy a lady attention and time. When the money finishes or she has gotten the maximum amount she needs, she would divorce you and marry the person she loves. Even if she is with you, you would always wish you never married her, because she would frustrate your life.

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Re: I Just Burned Down My Wife Super Market Because... by galantjoe(m): 11:33am On Nov 14, 2020
The man is insane despite provocation by his wife. Destroying everything in the supermarket cannot help matter. Nothing was resolved instead another problem is created for himself.
What he ought to have done is to take over or seal the supermarket pending he and his wife reach agreement on how to share payments of family bills.
Re: I Just Burned Down My Wife Super Market Because... by Karlifate: 11:46am On Nov 14, 2020
nwachukwu9:
The mistake we all make is thinking that attention and time is the same thing as love and being loyal. I always tell men to put their money away when looking for a wife that would be loyal and love them. Money can only buy a lady attention and time. When the money finishes or she has gotten the maximum amount she needs, she would divorce you and marry the person she loves. Even if she is with you, you would always wish you never married her, because she would frustrate your life.

Re: I Just Burned Down My Wife Super Market Because... by blinking001(m): 12:03pm On Nov 14, 2020
You're the man. No time for bullshits
Re: I Just Burned Down My Wife Super Market Because... by mespusinglez(m): 1:01pm On Nov 14, 2020
What a Woman
Re: I Just Burned Down My Wife Super Market Because... by Karleb(m): 1:03pm On Nov 14, 2020
What I see here is a stupid woman.

You can't pay your bills, you can't even spend on your children but you prefer to splash on your brother.

Caring mother hen indeed.

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Re: I Just Burned Down My Wife Super Market Because... by Dreyton36: 1:08pm On Nov 14, 2020
Beware of women who value their parental home more than their own married home
They can sell you off just to please their family
If you scold them for being wrong instead of them to adjust and adhere to what you've told her , she'll rather go report to her family and spend months there and expect you to come begging again

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Re: I Just Burned Down My Wife Super Market Because... by Marryavirgin: 1:22pm On Nov 14, 2020
Pics?
Re: I Just Burned Down My Wife Super Market Because... by Iseoluwani: 1:24pm On Nov 14, 2020
Kamdil:
Some women can be wicked and heartless. They value their brothers and family more than their husband.very selfish sets of women.

I will do same


u are right tho. But I will never burn it. marriage is about forgiveness. But trust me she loses a lifetime of 'helps' from me. it means someone like her can build house behind my back and cause a little fight so she can pack out to her house.


I will be wary of her family, most esp her father and mother. they are wicked people and selfish. I will simply cut all ties with them. infact I might act cool with her behaviour and we will change environment, reduce her income.

lastly the guy should have sent people to do it not himself
Re: I Just Burned Down My Wife Super Market Because... by Kondomatic(m): 1:33pm On Nov 14, 2020
emperorAY:

for arson . the man is an unwise idiot , he would have simply employ a sale girl in place of his wife and get value for investment instead of burning down the supermarket
Your wisdom is another person's foolishness sir, people react to grief differently.


The only person that has a case here is the landlord of the shop. He can sue him for burning his property but if the shop was built by the husband and the fire didn't spread to other people's property then it's a closed case.


He should divorce her immediately because his life is in danger.
Re: I Just Burned Down My Wife Super Market Because... by Mayng01(m): 1:37pm On Nov 14, 2020
Fake news
Re: I Just Burned Down My Wife Super Market Because... by Esetobore(f): 1:48pm On Nov 14, 2020
If this story is true, I think the husband should have divorced her and take the children from her because a woman can not hate her husband and hates her children as well to the extent of refusing to provide the kid's with school supplies, but she has money to send her brother overseas. She doesn't have the interest of her immediate family at heart at all. The only mistake the husband made was burning down the shop, he should have used another alternative like selling off the entire groceries in the store. Some ladies don't understand that the moment they are married, their husbands and children become the number one priority.

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Re: I Just Burned Down My Wife Super Market Because... by Kamdil: 2:37pm On Nov 14, 2020
Iseoluwani:



u are right tho. But I will never burn it. marriage is about forgiveness. But trust me she loses a lifetime of 'helps' from me. it means someone like her can build house behind my back and cause a little fight so she can pack out to her house.


I will be wary of her family, most esp her father and mother. they are wicked people and selfish. I will simply cut all ties with them. infact I might act cool with her behaviour and we will change environment, reduce her income.

lastly the guy should have sent people to do it not himself
I know a lot of them. You empower them, they turn to become wicked. That was how a man asked his wife to leave his house when her unreasonable behaviour became unbearable for the man. The woman just parked all her belongings, all the vehicles that came to park her thing belonged to the woman without the man knowing. Both big and small vehicles,all belonged to her. And that was why she never cared about the marriage since she knew she could stand on her own. Very wicked creatures.

I do tell guys, most African women, especially Nigerian women marry not because of love,but because they need a man to take care of them. If they can achieve financial freedom, trust me, they don't care about marriage

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Re: I Just Burned Down My Wife Super Market Because... by Nobody: 2:53pm On Nov 14, 2020
Escabado:
A man opened a super market for his wife to enable her contribute to there family in terms of small small family things . And the man usually give the wife 40k every month to buy more goods and stock her shop. But the greatest surprise this woman has never bring out N5 to pay any bill in there home. If her children ask her money to buy pen or pencil she will shout at them and tell them to meet there daddy to collect money from him. The man calm quite untill he find out that his wife just send her junior brother to London. The man vex and went to the wife super market and destroyed everything there .

If you are this man . What will you do
Lol...Men never learn.

At the age of 21, a seminarian now priest told me. Your type of man would send the wife packing, after she might have dropped 3-4 boys for you. I just smiled. He was right even though I denied it.

Women see marriage as poverty alleviation programme and I see them as baby making machines. grin

I don't like drama.

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Re: I Just Burned Down My Wife Super Market Because... by chubinwa(m): 4:02pm On Nov 14, 2020
Why burn the shop. there are other ways he could have settled the issue without resorting to destruction. simply seize her monthly allowance and stop financing her business.
Re: I Just Burned Down My Wife Super Market Because... by tunjilana: 4:08pm On Nov 14, 2020
Ghengiskhan:


Smart men open business put their wives in charge and put them on monthly salary from the business earnings and maintenance allowance from their own hussle.

Many people don't tale time to knw who they are dealing with, they just take decisions using societal templates or what they think is ideal


If u unluckily marry a selfish woman like this, dont setup business in her name, do it in your name...register a company in your name and let the business trade under that company...then pay her some sort of allowance from there.

It is only a kind, selfless and totful woman that deserves sacrifices and empowernent
Re: I Just Burned Down My Wife Super Market Because... by seanwilliam(m): 4:55pm On Nov 14, 2020
Burgerlomo:
Burning down the Supermarket is not a good idea at all instead he can stop the 40k monthly allowance given to her to purchase more goods to the store and let her use the profit she's getting to buy more goods.
you're very lenient.. if I was the one I would sell off the shop, I will do DNA for all my pikins, then I will seize monthly 40k I dey give am.. I go sell my property and relocate to start life on my own.. note: I will not divorce her
Re: I Just Burned Down My Wife Super Market Because... by seanwilliam(m): 4:58pm On Nov 14, 2020
I can never open business in my women's name.. no matter the love I have for her.. I can not join property with her.. no matter what
Re: I Just Burned Down My Wife Super Market Because... by Bennysam: 5:08pm On Nov 14, 2020
emperorAY:
his wife should sue his ass.
GOD will give you this kind woman and anytime you react she sue you. In Jesus name , Amen
Re: I Just Burned Down My Wife Super Market Because... by Rrchrd(m): 5:12pm On Nov 14, 2020
emperorAY:

you are probably thinking the law gives consideration for your emotions. she can sue for arson and win .
as for the contribution was there any documented agreement?
you're heartless
Re: I Just Burned Down My Wife Super Market Because... by DaudaTheSexyGuy(m): 5:17pm On Nov 14, 2020
emperorAY:
his wife should sue his ass.

We are in Nigeria not Amelika grin
Re: I Just Burned Down My Wife Super Market Because... by jimmychang: 6:55pm On Nov 14, 2020
People are wicked and selfish ohh...her own children bayi shocked
Re: I Just Burned Down My Wife Super Market Because... by emperorAY(m): 7:05pm On Nov 14, 2020
Rrchrd:
you're heartless
how please ��
Re: I Just Burned Down My Wife Super Market Because... by emperorAY(m): 7:06pm On Nov 14, 2020
DaudaTheSexyGuy:

We are in Nigeria not Amelika grin

lol,so you think these laws don't apply here ?
Re: I Just Burned Down My Wife Super Market Because... by Martinez39s(m): 8:00pm On Nov 14, 2020
JONNYSPUTE:
....I will not burn it down like he did.

Simply pack the whole goods and give it out to charity and make sure she never owns a shop or any business again.

Oh,by the way. She is free to file for a divorce too.
grin grin grin

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