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(part Two) Traits A WOMAN Should Observe In A MAN When Considering Commitment by pansophist(m): 2:08pm On Nov 15, 2020
For the female version, please click the link https://www.nairaland.com/6253429/traits-man-should-observe-woman

Do you feel a sense of security with him? Do you trust in his ability to navigate the chaos of life reasonably? Would you want your son to be like him? Does he have potential and is he working on something that compounds? Within the months/years you've known him, which tangible and intangible positive changes have you noticed? Do other people respect him, especially those that know him closely? How does he treat his first family, especially his mother? Does he have a good relationship with his father? How does he relate with his siblings? How does he deal with anger?

Do you respect and adore him deeply as an expression of your love? Has he done anything to prove beyond doubt that you are his first lady? How does he treat you in public even if you didn't act right? Is your fight his fight? Do you feel protected and safe with him? If he is gone from your life right now, what will you miss? How has your life improved since you’ve been with him? Does he integrate your affairs in his future plans? Does he introduce you to people that are important to him? Does he give you stuff?

Can you be real with him? Is he a doer and does he take on his masculine duty honourably? Does he armor/upgrade himself to be stronger to overcome problems and seeks solutions instead of chickening out? Does he have a sense of responsibility to your affair? Are you deeply convinced that if for some reason, you cannot work (e.g. pregnancy), that he is capable of reasonably being the pillar of your sustenance? Does he have a hustler mentality of conquering the world and bringing home the bacon, and more importantly, does he understand this as his primary responsibility with grace?

Just as he gives you the carrot, does he also give you the stick? Does he correct you when you're veering off behaviourally? Does he let you fall into the belly of the dragon because he doesn't want to offend you, instead of correcting you to get back on track? Does he hold you accountable? In order words, does he have the balls to call you out when you're straying afar? If you're adding weight for example, does he constructively bring that to your attention with the assurance that he still loves you nevertheless but encourage you to be better?

Does he have deadly vices such as porn addiction, gambling, alcoholism, philandering and more? If you show him the mirror, does he admit faults or deflect it? Is he actively working to be better and conscious of the society you live in, making sure he makes the best decision to make your family life better? (Eg moving to a new city/state/country due to security, economical viability etc), does he chooses what happens in his life or lets life happen to him? Is he masculine? Can you trust him?

Is he your resting place? Do you feel feminine and beautiful in his arms? Does he reassure that your fears, vulnerability and hope in the future are in control? Does he deserve your faithfulness? Will you without hesitation, gladly tie the rope of your existence with his, and become stronger together? Does he do masculine things like changing the car tires and repair stuff? Does he have an outlet where he releases his negative energy such as sports? Is he metacognitive? Are your future plans harmonious with his?

Is he a true leader (to be understood as being competent, not tyranny)? Is he progressive in the sense that he fully supports your growth and a landing place for you to refuel and relaunch into your pursuit of success and fulfillment? Does he let you give opinions and also take charges of areas you are competent in? Is it a big deal for him to prepare your favourite dish and give you a nice treat? Do you find yourself naturally submitting to him, because he deserves it? Does he use your vulnerability against you instead of making you feel secure in it? Does he understand what it means to be a man, and his responsibilities towards you and your future kids?

A man that truly loves and sees a future with you will naturally do all these things, and even more to keep you. Do not ever try to convert a manchild to do all these, it will be a disaster. Women are usually clouded by emotions, but this is a time in life you have to use your head. I wish you good luck in your pursuit of happiness.

Pansophist.

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Re: (part Two) Traits A WOMAN Should Observe In A MAN When Considering Commitment by Nobody: 2:24pm On Nov 15, 2020
At least these are traits to look out for, not examinations or tests.

Even at that if you are expecting any being (Man or Woman) to tick all traits or test before committing, in 40 years to come your commitment will be used to wrap suya for you. cheesy

This one self too long! Kilode?

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Re: (part Two) Traits A WOMAN Should Observe In A MAN When Considering Commitment by Nobody: 2:43pm On Nov 15, 2020
I read your previous thread and liked it, but I don't have the strength to read this one.
Re: (part Two) Traits A WOMAN Should Observe In A MAN When Considering Commitment by Regex: 3:07pm On Nov 15, 2020
pansophist:
For the female version, please click the link https://www.nairaland.com/6253429/traits-man-should-observe-woman

Do you feel a sense of security with him? Do you trust in his ability to navigate the chaos of life reasonably? Would you want your son to be like him? Does he have potential and is he working on something that compounds? Within the months/years you've known him, which tangible and intangible positive changes have you noticed? Do other people respect him, especially those that know him closely? How does he treat his first family, especially his mother? Does he have a good relationship with his father? How does he relate with his siblings? How does he deal with anger?

Do you respect and adore him deeply as an expression of your love? Has he done anything to prove beyond doubt that you are his first lady? How does he treat you in public even if you didn't act right? Is your fight his fight? Do you feel protected and safe with him? If he is gone from your life right now, what will you miss? How has your life improved since you’ve been with him? Does he integrate your affairs in his future plans? Does he introduce you to people that are important to him? Does he give you stuff?

Can you be real with him? Is he a doer and does he take on his masculine duty honourably? Does he armor/upgrade himself to be stronger to overcome problems and seeks solutions instead of chickening out? Does he have a sense of responsibility to your affair? Are you deeply convinced that if for some reason, you cannot work (e.g. pregnancy), that he is capable of reasonably being the pillar of your sustenance? Does he have a hustler mentality of conquering the world and bringing home the bacon, and more importantly, does he understand this as his primary responsibility with grace?

Just as he gives you the carrot, does he also give you the stick? Does he correct you when you're veering off behaviourally? Does he let you fall into the belly of the dragon because he doesn't want to offend you, instead of correcting you to get back on track? Does he hold you accountable? In order words, does he have the balls to call you out when you're straying afar? If you're adding weight for example, does he constructively bring that to your attention with the assurance that he still loves you nevertheless but encourage you to be better?

Does he have deadly vices such as porn addiction, gambling, alcoholism, philandering and more? If you show him the mirror, does he admit faults or deflect it? Is he actively working to be better and conscious of the society you live in, making sure he makes the best decision to make your family life better? (Eg moving to a new city/state/country due to security, economical viability etc), does he chooses what happens in his life or lets life happen to him? Is he masculine? Can you trust him?

Is he your resting place? Do you feel feminine and beautiful in his arms? Does he reassure that your fears, vulnerability and hope in the future are in control? Does he deserve your faithfulness? Will you without hesitation, gladly tie the rope of your existence with his, and become stronger together? Does he do masculine things like changing the car tires and repair stuff? Does he have an outlet where he releases his negative energy such as sports? Is he metacognitive? Are your future plans harmonious with his?

Is he a true leader (to be understood as being competent, not tyranny)? Is he progressive in the sense that he fully supports your growth and a landing place for you to refuel and relaunch into your pursuit of success and fulfillment? Does he let you give opinions and also take charges of areas you are competent in? Is it a big deal for him to prepare your favourite dish and give you a nice treat? Do you find yourself naturally submitting to him, because he deserves it? Does he use your vulnerability against you instead of making you feel secure in it? Does he understand what it means to be a man, and his responsibilities towards you and your future kids?

A man that truly loves and sees a future with you will naturally do all these things, and even more to keep you. Do not ever try to convert a manchild to do all these, it will be a disaster. Women are usually clouded by emotions, but this is a time in life you have to use your head. I wish you good luck in your pursuit of happiness.

Pansophist.

As much as this thread is for them ladies, as I guy, I've picked more than enough knowledge here.

Guys, check it out too!

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Re: (part Two) Traits A WOMAN Should Observe In A MAN When Considering Commitment by Regex: 3:09pm On Nov 15, 2020
Palema007:
At least these are traits to look out for, not examinations or tests.

Even at that if you are expecting any being (Man or Woman) to tick all traits or test before committing, in 40 years to come your commitment will be used to wrap suya for you. cheesy

This one self too long! Kilode?

A little "thank you Pansophist" would have covered these whole thing you wrote here.

You sometimes show you are a little different from the other women (intellectual wise), show it now.

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Re: (part Two) Traits A WOMAN Should Observe In A MAN When Considering Commitment by Nobody: 4:07pm On Nov 15, 2020
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Re: (part Two) Traits A WOMAN Should Observe In A MAN When Considering Commitment by Nobody: 4:08pm On Nov 15, 2020
Regex:


A little "thank you Pansophist" would have covered these whole thing you wrote here.

You sometimes show you are a little different from the other women (intellectual wise), show it now.
You are free to do that on my behalf.

I don't know why most of you here feel entitled to how or what anyone should type in response.

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Re: (part Two) Traits A WOMAN Should Observe In A MAN When Considering Commitment by JONNYSPUTE(m): 4:15pm On Nov 15, 2020
Nicely written.
Re: (part Two) Traits A WOMAN Should Observe In A MAN When Considering Commitment by SpeciMental: 4:46pm On Nov 15, 2020
Certified. Another good writeup, pansophist.

In an ideal setting, all these are bae but trust me, many ladies of today are so desperate for a ring, they would surely never wait to tick all these boxes. Take palema007's comment for example.

And I have to confess, such men are the lesser half of male population. The hyper-sexualisation of society today starting from provocative fashion trends and lack of regulation and censorship of media content by governments of the world, as well as a failure to educate the male population on the mastery of their sexuality, have all led to the erosion of the achievement frame and potential of the male species hence we have lesser high-value men.

Again, such ideal men, would easily get dissatisfied with the rampant "average" ladies we have today, most of whom fall far short in self-development and vision and will actually more likely seek out the more accomplished ladies for commitment.
In other words, such men would not be willing to commit except to such high-value ladies and such ladies wouldn't even need this write-up to know that they've found a worthy man to commit to.
That might actually make this great write-up of yours needless in practical life situations but a mere fascination and a 'goodreads' for the average ladies who wouldn't be getting these men.

#Unemotional, purely Mental from the philosophical SpeciMen#

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Re: (part Two) Traits A WOMAN Should Observe In A MAN When Considering Commitment by Nobody: 4:55pm On Nov 15, 2020
SpeciMental says I'm desperate for ring so i won't tick all boxes. grin grin

Some of you no just get sense on this forum! How many of you "ideal men" can tick all boxes? If women want to tick all boxes, you will still threaten her with SHILOH. But because the thread is from a guy and you want your woman hating agenda to agend, you term it for "being desperate ".

Hain! You lots are kids in Men's clothing!

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Re: (part Two) Traits A WOMAN Should Observe In A MAN When Considering Commitment by SpeciMental: 5:01pm On Nov 15, 2020
Palema007:
SpeciMental says I'm desperate for ring so i won't tick all boxes. grin grin

Some of you no just get sense on this forum! How many of you "ideal men" can tick all boxes? If women want to tick all boxes, you will still threaten her with SHILOH. But because the thread is from a guy and you want your woman hating agenda to agend, you term it for "being desperate ".

Hain! You lots are kids in Men's clothing!
Miss, before I respond to you, please start by showing where I said you are desperate for a ring. Do I know you from Adam to assert such?

If you read slowly through my comment again, you'd see that you are actually the one that just placed yourself in the category of "most ladies". Well done!


#Unemotional, purely Mental from the philosophical SpeciMen#

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Re: (part Two) Traits A WOMAN Should Observe In A MAN When Considering Commitment by Nobody: 5:05pm On Nov 15, 2020
SpeciMental:

Miss, before I respond to you, please start by showing where I said you are desperate for a ring. Do I know you from Adam to assert such?

If you read slowly through my comment again, you'd see that you are actually the one that just placed yourself in the category of "most ladies". Well done!
This....


In an ideal setting, all these are bae but trust me, many ladies of today are so desperate for a ring, they would surely never wait to tick all these boxes. Take palema 007's comment for example.

You want to deny now? Or you have a better explanation for that?
I don't have time, energy or interest for back and forths from you guys here. So you are entitled to your opinion huh?

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Re: (part Two) Traits A WOMAN Should Observe In A MAN When Considering Commitment by SpeciMental: 5:10pm On Nov 15, 2020
Palema007:
This....


In an ideal setting, all these are bae but trust me, many ladies of today are so desperate for a ring, they would surely never wait to tick all these boxes. Take palema 007's comment for example.

You want to deny now? Or you have a better explanation for that?
I don't have time, energy or interest for back and forths from you guys here. So you are entitled to your opinion huh?

The challenge you're having here is obviously keen cognitive analytical skills. Try reading the comment you made slowly this time and then reread the context of mine. I didn't make reference to your person but the point you made in your comment. Shssh!

Funny how you also made the point I already made. I was quick to admit that most men of today can't tick all boxes but you were in such emotional heat, you barely even saw it. There's still time to edit your comment and apologize for casting aspersions.

#Unemotional, purely Mental from the philosophical SpeciMen#

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Re: (part Two) Traits A WOMAN Should Observe In A MAN When Considering Commitment by 2dice01: 5:19pm On Nov 15, 2020
Nice write up
Most Ladies know all these stuff and even the ones you didnt Post

Check their comments and see for ya self

They don't wanna be Saved

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Re: (part Two) Traits A WOMAN Should Observe In A MAN When Considering Commitment by pansophist(m): 6:38pm On Nov 15, 2020
Palema007:
At least these are traits to look out for, not examinations or tests.

This one self too long! Kilode?

Must you always complain? Abi dem swear for you ni? tongue

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Re: (part Two) Traits A WOMAN Should Observe In A MAN When Considering Commitment by Sonoyom(m): 7:51pm On Nov 15, 2020
This is very apt.

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Re: (part Two) Traits A WOMAN Should Observe In A MAN When Considering Commitment by LINTUNE(m): 8:04pm On Nov 15, 2020
Palema007:
At least these are traits to look out for, not examinations or tests.

Even at that if you are expecting any being (Man or Woman) to tick all traits or test before committing, in 40 years to come your commitment will be used to wrap suya for you. cheesy

This one self too long! Kilode?
the article weak me...lol, imagine at the age of 30, and she starts studying her man based on what the op wrote, lol, she definitely will die of old age before marrying the said guy..

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Re: (part Two) Traits A WOMAN Should Observe In A MAN When Considering Commitment by prophetfire: 3:03am On Nov 16, 2020
pansophist:
For the female version, please click the link https://www.nairaland.com/6253429/traits-man-should-observe-woman

Do you feel a sense of security with him? Do you trust in his ability to navigate the chaos of life reasonably? Would you want your son to be like him? Does he have potential and is he working on something that compounds? Within the months/years you've known him, which tangible and intangible positive changes have you noticed? Do other people respect him, especially those that know him closely? How does he treat his first family, especially his mother? Does he have a good relationship with his father? How does he relate with his siblings? How does he deal with anger?

Do you respect and adore him deeply as an expression of your love? Has he done anything to prove beyond doubt that you are his first lady? How does he treat you in public even if you didn't act right? Is your fight his fight? Do you feel protected and safe with him? If he is gone from your life right now, what will you miss? How has your life improved since you’ve been with him? Does he integrate your affairs in his future plans? Does he introduce you to people that are important to him? Does he give you stuff?

Can you be real with him? Is he a doer and does he take on his masculine duty honourably? Does he armor/upgrade himself to be stronger to overcome problems and seeks solutions instead of chickening out? Does he have a sense of responsibility to your affair? Are you deeply convinced that if for some reason, you cannot work (e.g. pregnancy), that he is capable of reasonably being the pillar of your sustenance? Does he have a hustler mentality of conquering the world and bringing home the bacon, and more importantly, does he understand this as his primary responsibility with grace?

Just as he gives you the carrot, does he also give you the stick? Does he correct you when you're veering off behaviourally? Does he let you fall into the belly of the dragon because he doesn't want to offend you, instead of correcting you to get back on track? Does he hold you accountable? In order words, does he have the balls to call you out when you're straying afar? If you're adding weight for example, does he constructively bring that to your attention with the assurance that he still loves you nevertheless but encourage you to be better?

Does he have deadly vices such as porn addiction, gambling, alcoholism, philandering and more? If you show him the mirror, does he admit faults or deflect it? Is he actively working to be better and conscious of the society you live in, making sure he makes the best decision to make your family life better? (Eg moving to a new city/state/country due to security, economical viability etc), does he chooses what happens in his life or lets life happen to him? Is he masculine? Can you trust him?

Is he your resting place? Do you feel feminine and beautiful in his arms? Does he reassure that your fears, vulnerability and hope in the future are in control? Does he deserve your faithfulness? Will you without hesitation, gladly tie the rope of your existence with his, and become stronger together? Does he do masculine things like changing the car tires and repair stuff? Does he have an outlet where he releases his negative energy such as sports? Is he metacognitive? Are your future plans harmonious with his?

Is he a true leader (to be understood as being competent, not tyranny)? Is he progressive in the sense that he fully supports your growth and a landing place for you to refuel and relaunch into your pursuit of success and fulfillment? Does he let you give opinions and also take charges of areas you are competent in? Is it a big deal for him to prepare your favourite dish and give you a nice treat? Do you find yourself naturally submitting to him, because he deserves it? Does he use your vulnerability against you instead of making you feel secure in it? Does he understand what it means to be a man, and his responsibilities towards you and your future kids?

A man that truly loves and sees a future with you will naturally do all these things, and even more to keep you. Do not ever try to convert a manchild to do all these, it will be a disaster. Women are usually clouded by emotions, but this is a time in life you have to use your head. I wish you good luck in your pursuit of happiness.

Pansophist.
. YOU DID A VERY NICE WORK HERE. I AM A MAN BUT I CAN TELL YOU THAT IN MY ENCOUNTER WITH GIRLS, LESS THAN A PERCENT OF THEM CONSIDER THESE POINTS YOU PUT UP. THE REST NA MONEY, SIX PACKS AND YOUR VIBES. I DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT VIBES MEAN.

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Re: (part Two) Traits A WOMAN Should Observe In A MAN When Considering Commitment by Nobody: 1:44pm On Nov 16, 2020
pansophist:


Must you always complain? Abi dem swear for you ni? tongue
Tarh!!! tongue tongue
Re: (part Two) Traits A WOMAN Should Observe In A MAN When Considering Commitment by CaveAdullam: 6:04pm On Nov 16, 2020
It is unfortunate that the antispam bot banned me for 24 hours for making an innocuous comment on this thread before and thereafter, deleted it. Notwithstanding, the truth must prevail.

More than 70% of divorces are initiated by women, and more than 50% of the men at least possess more than 60% of the traits listed in the writeup.

The aforementioned traits ought to be embodied by all men, because it is the archetype of a virile man. A Woman need to ensure that such qualities are ostensible in a mate she has decided to submit to for making use of her womb, and limited ova. This intimacy will bring forth children that will further the promotion of civilization. With these qualities, children can be raised under strict guidance in a degenerated world, and protect his household from packs of wolves.

However, men are the real romantics, they are logical, and it will not be a herculean task for them to quickly adapt to the aforementioned traits if they really understand what it means to be masculine and feminine, and have a sound understanding of the female nature and how the intersexual dynamics work. Many men lacking in this knowledge and archetypal traits today are effeminates as a result of political correctness, social ideologies, government policies, the demands on men to perform (though an inherent trait) etc. Not only that, many young men of today didn't grow under the aegis of a high quality virile figures around their lives. A gynocentric society is not portable in raising quality male figures.

A man will go to the extreme to prove his love for the woman he loves because he thinks his love will be reciprocated by same woman; mother-cum-son relationship, of which a facade, and impossible. Regardless of the aforementioned traits he now embodies, women are still in their threshold of hypergamy, can pull the string anytime and bring to surface their hubris and histrionics. Again, the physical and legal burden on men in either long or short term relationship is enough to make men go into sexual hibernation; divorce massacres, economic ruggedness, and the work involved in raising children in a sick world.
But this is not to scare men, because a high quality man; a woman will submit to, but her hypergamous nature must not be seen as thing not worth any consideration.

Since iron sharpens iron, high quality men must seek for high quality women in their femininely pure and pristine state to ensure a successful relationship while it last. Men and women that cannot condole the shenanigans that comes with a sexual relationship should enter the MONK MODE, especially for the men if they value their inner peace, joy and happiness.

Withal, man must perform because the progress of the human population and civilization falls on his shoulder. He must take responsibility, and become like the archetypal male. Perform he must.

Thanks pansophist for such a wonderful thread.

God bless.

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Re: (part Two) Traits A WOMAN Should Observe In A MAN When Considering Commitment by Nobody: 6:35pm On Nov 16, 2020
So much wisdom from you, Op. God bless you.

My ex was all of these and so much more. Not an exaggeration. Will continue to regret leaving him hopefully not for the rest of my life.

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Re: (part Two) Traits A WOMAN Should Observe In A MAN When Considering Commitment by Nobody: 7:34am On Nov 17, 2020
SpeciMental:


The challenge you're having here is obviously keen cognitive analytical skills. Try reading the comment you made slowly this time and then reread the context of mine. I didn't make reference to your person but the point you made in your comment. Shssh!

Funny how you also made the point I already made. I was quick to admit that most men of today can't tick all boxes but you were in such emotional heat, you barely even saw it. There's still time to edit your comment and apologize for casting aspersions.

#Unemotional, purely Mental from the philosophical SpeciMen#
Long talk. Why did you drag her into your talk?Forming philosophical shi.t just makes you look very superficial and fake.
Pansophist wrote about females and now about males. He's balanced it up. Coming here to trash females using an air of superiority is BS. Apologise to Palema007 and fem!

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Re: (part Two) Traits A WOMAN Should Observe In A MAN When Considering Commitment by Nobody: 7:37am On Nov 17, 2020
LINTUNE:
the article weak me...lol, imagine at the age of 30, and she starts studying her man based on what the op wrote, lol, she definitely will die of old age before marrying the said guy..
There's no late comer in marriage. Better to take your time, calm down and wait patiently for the right person than to hurry off into a wrong marriage and crash a few months or years later.

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Re: (part Two) Traits A WOMAN Should Observe In A MAN When Considering Commitment by LINTUNE(m): 7:45am On Nov 17, 2020
Chii59:

There's no late comer in marriage. Better to take your time, calm down and wait patiently for the right person than to hurry off into a wrong marriage and crash a few months or years later.
so u waste ur time studying someone,even if it takes decades?, how long do such person have in a life time
Re: (part Two) Traits A WOMAN Should Observe In A MAN When Considering Commitment by Nobody: 7:50am On Nov 17, 2020
LINTUNE:
so u waste ur time studying someone,even if it takes decades?, how long do such person have in a life time
As usual you've twisted my words to mean something else. Where did I write that one should "waste their time studying someone even if it takes decades?". Comprehension is easy once biases and sentiments go out of the window.

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Re: (part Two) Traits A WOMAN Should Observe In A MAN When Considering Commitment by odinson1(m): 11:07am On Nov 17, 2020
Chii59:

Long talk. Why did you drag her into your talk?Forming philosophical shi.t just makes you look very superficial and fake.
Pansophist wrote about females and now about males. He's balanced it up. Coming here to trash females using an air of superiority is BS. Apologise to Palema007 and fem!
I used to think you were one of the Few intelligent Ladies on nairaland
Oh how wrong I was!

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Re: (part Two) Traits A WOMAN Should Observe In A MAN When Considering Commitment by Nobody: 1:23pm On Nov 17, 2020
odinson1:

I used to think you were one of the Few intelligent Ladies on nairaland
Oh how wrong I was!
It feels so good to know I've broken through the glass shelf you placed me on. Phew! So good to live on my terms not on yours, boy.
Get lost.

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Re: (part Two) Traits A WOMAN Should Observe In A MAN When Considering Commitment by Nobody: 1:52pm On Nov 17, 2020
Chii59:

Long talk. Why did you drag her into your talk?Forming philosophical shi.t just makes you look very superficial and fake.
Pansophist wrote about females and now about males. He's balanced it up. Coming here to trash females using an air of superiority is BS. Apologise to Palema007 and fem!
Lol I gave up on the dude when he denied not referring to me but referred my comment in his first quote. grin of all things to drag in life, nah "you referred to me, I no refer to you" matter I go come dey drag? cheesy grin.

No mind the guy jare...

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Re: (part Two) Traits A WOMAN Should Observe In A MAN When Considering Commitment by Shortyy(f): 2:53pm On Nov 17, 2020
Hmm
Re: (part Two) Traits A WOMAN Should Observe In A MAN When Considering Commitment by Shortyy(f): 2:58pm On Nov 17, 2020
Palema007:
SpeciMental says I'm desperate for ring so i won't tick all boxes. grin grin

Some of you no just get sense on this forum! How many of you "ideal men" can tick all boxes? If women want to tick all boxes, you will still threaten her with SHILOH. But because the thread is from a guy and you want your woman hating agenda to agend, you term it for "being desperate ".

Hain! You lots are kids in Men's clothing!

You really have strength and time.
Re: (part Two) Traits A WOMAN Should Observe In A MAN When Considering Commitment by pansophist(m): 6:22pm On Nov 17, 2020
iLegendNoReply:
I read your previous thread and liked it, but I don't have the strength to read this one.

Lazy yooth grin

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