Should "sex drive" really be a major factor when considering compatibility in relationship??

As we give our honest answers, let's consider these:

1) The pro "abstinence till marriage"

2) Sex drive level can increase/decrease.

Have you heard complaints like "now my partner craves more/less sex than before"

So the drive isn't constant, cannot really be dependent on...it can fluctuate/change...due to several factors.

So you might feel compatible at the beginning, but what then happens when your partner's drive drops/increases immensely later on? Will you leave him/her?

(P.S. See my signature)

Many use sexual compatibility as a guiding force in gauging how “right” a relationship (or potential relationship) is.

Of course or how do u intend to cope when u marry someone ur not sexually compatible with.. Avoid wahala o

Hmm I think it should be because I've been reading a lot of divorce stories due to sex and married women are complaining too much of not been sexually satisfied

sure yes

I'm sexually active. I cannot love, date or marry you if your sex game is poor.

It should be because most marriages these days crash because of it. But for people who are not sexually active, how will they know. Nobody should drag me o because I'm tired.

But....

1) Do you know that sex drive level can increase/decrease.

Have you heard complaints like "now my partner craves more/less sex than before"

So the drive isn't constant, cannot really be dependent on...it can fluctuate/change...due to several factors.

So you might feel compatible at the beginning, but what then happens when your partner's drive drops/increases immensely later on? Will you leave him/her?

2) How about the pro "abstinence till marriage"

Opeyemiextra:
It should be because most marriages these days crash because of it. But for people who are not sexually active, how will they know. Nobody should drag me o because I'm tired.

If the two parties are virgins,sex drive will be on same frequency after marriage.

Olarsview:


If the two parties are virgins,sex drive will be on same frequency after marriage.

I doubt it works like that

HoneyWholesaler:


I doubt it works like that

If A had many sexual intercourse with different styles more than B it will be difficult for B to meet up with the sex drive or demand of A


If you know the promiscuous past of your partner will you count yourself compatible with him/her

Olarsview:


If the two parties are virgins,sex drive will be on same frequency after marriage.

You think so? No


Libdo has nothing to do with being virgin or not.

Lady with high libdo will crave for more sex after disvirging IF husband is poor in bed.

Thou sex with different partners (girl and boy) before marriage can alter libdo.

Yes but some of us were told to abstain from it till wedding night. There's no excuse as to why you aren't sexually active even if you abstained till marriage. There's always a way around this.

Fiscus105:



You think so? No


Libdo has not to do with being virgin or not

Lady with high libdo will crave for more sex after disvirging IF husband is poor in bed.

Depends on the perspective you want to look at it.

Of course, one of the best possible reasons why some people cheat.

Let consider these 2 questions:

1) Sex drive level can increase/decrease.

Have you heard complaints like "now my partner craves more/less sex than before"

So the drive isn't constant, cannot really be dependent on...it can fluctuate/change...due to several factors.

So you might feel compatible at the beginning, but what then happens when your partner's drive drops/increases immensely later on? Will you leave him/her?

2) How about the pro "abstinence till marriage"

killmods:
Of course or how do u intend to cope when u marry someone ur not sexually compatible with.. Avoid wahala o

Hmm...buh take a look at my question above

Iyaebe:
Hmm I think it should be because I've been reading a lot of divorce stories due to sex and married women are complaining too much of not been sexually satisfied

But do you know they could have felt compatible at the onset

Take a look at my question above this post

holly Gram WTF MAN

Opeyemiextra:
It should be because most marriages these days crash because of it. But for people who are not sexually active, how will they know. Nobody should drag me o because I'm tired.

Even as one who isn't sexually active, judging from the way I feel and think, I'm sure I'm gonna like s*x. I can't wait this long and still deprive myself when I finally get married .

I'll surely let my wife know I'll be going on a spree, and the feeling has to be the mutual

Above all, marry a person that's understanding coz things could also change with time.

sex is extremely important in marriage,in as much as food is important it hard to see a man get mad if another many eats what his wife cooks, he might even offer him but he can never share his woman.Sexual compatibility is most important

Big yes

HoneyWholesaler:
Should "sex drive" really be a major factor when considering compatibility in relationship??

As we give our honest answers, let's consider these:

1) The pro "abstinence till marriage"

2) Sex drive level can increase/decrease.

Have you heard complaints like "now my partner craves more/less sex than before"

So the drive isn't constant, cannot really be dependent on...it can fluctuate/change...due to several factors.

So you might feel compatible at the beginning, but what then happens when your partner's drive drops/increases immensely later on? Will you leave him/her?

hmmm

Holly Gram real matters. WTF MAN

True "marry a person that's understanding coz things could also change with time."

anochuko01:

Even as one who isn't sexually active, judging from the way I feel and think, I'm sure I'm gonna like s*x. I can't wait this long and still deprive myself when I finally get married .

I'll surely let my wife know I'll be going on a spree, and the feeling has to be the mutual

Above all, marry a person that's understanding coz things could also change with time.

Iyaebe:
Hmm I think it should be because I've been reading a lot of divorce stories due to sex and married women are complaining too much of not been sexually satisfied

Lots of times, things do change with time

Iyaebe:
Hmm I think it should be because I've been reading a lot of divorce stories due to sex and married women are complaining too much of not been sexually satisfied

Sex is important Bt even good sex can’t keep a marriage. Sex is just 20/30 of what helps the marriage work. If other things aren’t in place sex will become meaningless.

jaxxy:


Sex is important Bt even good sex can’t keep a marriage. Sex is just 20/30 of what helps the marriage work. If other things aren’t in place sex will become meaningless.

Well,I agree.

Understanding in marriage and relationships in general is so important. It makes things a little less difficult when we do things from this point.

anochuko01:


Even as one who isn't sexually active, judging from the way I feel and think, I'm sure I'm gonna like s*x. I can't wait this long and still deprive myself when I finally get married .

I'll surely let my wife know I'll be going on a spree, and the feeling has to be the mutual

Above all, marry a person that's understanding coz things could also change with time.

Davash222:
I'm sexually active. I cannot love, date or marry you if your sex game is poor.

I'm assuming you are sexually active with a white woman, since you're a well known hater of Nigerian women yes?