saasala:

I won't rape her nor force her but I will make a move. If she does not give in, I will leave her alone, block her number and never talk to her again...then count my lost (If she don chop me before) and move on

Sixfeetbelle:


Define "random girl" so I'm sure we're on the same page? Cause guys I didn't even go on one single date with told me to come visit them. As in guys I only knew for like three weeks.

My last line was answering your initial thoughts on whether guys should adopt "sex for financial assistance" on women. And I pointed out that it's a normal for guys nowadays. No nigga is dating a girl he ain't bleeping right now. If he can't bleep her, he can't help her financially.

pozehnani:
Because that is what it actually means.

ityP:



This is what I'm expecting every girl to understand. If guy no be your boyfriend or fiancé and he invites you to his house, except you sef want to have sex, don't honour his invite. More often than not, the said dude would ghost you and that's a good thing. He isn't serious about you

Sixfeetbelle:


There. Fixed it.


Once you don't visit them, they do end up ghosting you sef so why bother

ityP:




Lmao. So, make gf no go visit bf for house again

Sixfeetbelle:


exactly.

Dey your dey make it dey my dey

Sixfeetbelle:


Asking your girlfriend to visit you is different. She suppose know scope as per you know...

Asking a random girl you just befriended on social media to visit you shows how much of a pvssy-whipped nigga you are. A smart girl can use it to ruin you.

perhaps we should adopt the system of simply making sex a precondition for financial assistance for girlfriends

Aren't you guys already doing this even now?

ityP:



Thank God you no be my gf o

Sixfeetbelle:




What are you saying?

For your mind you think you've escaped my clutches? You're a joking liar. We must date oh. In fact let me start packing my bags and booking my flight to your city.

Where did you stay you reside again, Ity baby? �

ityP:

Sixfeetbelle:




Sweetheart, baby m, fine bobo, rich bobo, zaddy

Tell your future sidechick nah. Talk dirty to me.

Where do you stay?

knowhowk:
. It's a thought but sex is more than thought ,Thought don't control sex ,Hate sex seriously when Konji hold U go bow

Joannebaby:
It's not our fault. Most guys this days are something else. I could remember vividly, I paid this guy a visit, he tried all his best to put me in the mood, I held myself.. He asked y am I acting this way, I told him I won't yield to this. His reply was am I not mature enough to understand when a guys asks a lady to come visit, I should understand..
I vowed never to visit any guy at home, except my boyfriend

SILENTandSMART2:
That shows who you are


I can never tell a girl to come to my house and think otherwise because they know who i am,


They know dat i don't do shit,

In life try to make sure dat the view dat people use to see you is positive,


OP work on yourself

Powerfly:
If he says 'come and visit me.' baby re-strategise and visit when you're on the second day of your menstrual period.
That's what i do to ensure nothing will happen.
don't announce that you're on your period.. Just surprise him.. Guys love surprises.

richie240:

That's good and DTS how truly it shd be, but these same girls will still rubbish u to her friends.
Whilst u are nodding ur head like an agama lizard in self-approvenent for doing d right thing, when she's with her friends, she be like "that peter of a guy na mumu, e nor even get d liver to touch me".
The thinking of most of these girls is warped, I tell u!

Powerfly:


I rarely visit too.. But if i know u really want sex.. And you're trying to play smart.. Omoh i go i.v with my period.. Try and rape me.. The both of us will goan greet baba god.

richie240:

Obviously, from ur words, u've neither bn raped or found urself in DT precarious situation with a crazy horn.y guy.....and I pray u don't!
I nor go talk more than that!

Just take it that when a man is aroused, his reasoning capacity reduces. He'll prolly do d things he'll later blame the devil for.

richie240:

Obviously, from ur words, u've neither bn raped or found urself in DT precarious situation with a crazy horn.y guy.....and I pray u don't!
I nor go talk more than that!

Just take it that when a man is aroused, his reasoning capacity reduces. He'll prolly do d things he'll later blame the devil for.

saasala:
Because that is how it is and that is how it should be.

90% of the time, the guy had previously taken the girl out, spent some money on her and/or rendered some sort of financial assistance to her. Since she is not related to him by blood, nigga needs some sort of compensation so as not to feel like a fool.

90% of the time a guy asks a girl to visit him, he wants sex. 9 out of ten times a lady visits a guy, she has been offered the D.

And isn't just that the norm? Isn't that the way it should be? If I am not taking you out to the restaurant or bar or something and I tell you to come to my house (especially after asking for an urgent 2k, taken you out and spent some money on/for you), should you not know that I want to fvck you?

Na Naija girls dey do shakara na. Oyinbo girl knows that inviting me to your house means we might have sex, she might even be the one to make a move. South Africa and Ghana babes no get chill. If they come to your house and you dont F them they won't pick your calls again.

But trust this Naija babes with their "Its my first visit" Mantra. If you leave them on the first visit, they come with "Its just my second visit", but will keep asking you for money. She will bring her family problems for you to solve as if you be father Christmas.

If you are not my sister and you ask me to solve your financial problems when I was the first to approach you with "Let's date or let's fvck", once I render that help to you, you have instantly been obliged to pay me back with your pussay or you get the fvck out.

I can help ladies randomly without asking for sex in return but not the ones I toasted myself. I toast you, you no gree, you won come turn me to ATM. God punish your entire family and generation.

humilitypays:
Wahala for guys weh take bank loan to rent and furnish their house in order to have a nice crib to destroy women vagina

Stephen2324:
Why does "VISIT ME" sounds like sex to many girls?!!

Amarita:
I don't visit a guy in his place..I can't..
9ja guys no get self control..
I have a lot of experiences on dat..
At the end I will be asking myself abi na wrong tin I do..I was almost raped the last tym I tried it..since den..guy me no fit come ur house..

mocochannel:
funny comment. But arr u a virgin??

Amarita:
if I may ask wat brought virgin inside dis talk..even if I'm not must you guys be loose